osile2012:


I wish all ladies in Nigeria would have the western mentality like you, but our economy does not support it. If you wait for ladies with the western mentality here, you might just have to travel to the western world to meet them

I understand
Hopefully one day things change a bit so guys like you can have peace

ay4shizzy:
Mr 10k take a chill pill...your mates also take people on dates of 100k...the women your arguing with are making sense..there is no standard amount.

SURE there is no standards, but for the average Nigerian girl as the opportunities said and basic outing in a eatery, holding 10k in case of emergency is normal, in Nigeria today. I assume you would go on an empty pocket since there is no standards?

Well, when i say "Average" Nigerian girl, i dont mean student to student relationship ? As for students, they can go on their first date with gala and lacasera .


For those who have graduated that might be thinking of marrying a guy, the average of their kind . Normally, they will say they cant go to a guys house on the first date. Then when u ask them where you will meet, they will tell you a public place .We all know that the markets, under the bridge, bus-stops, etc are all public places, but thats not what they mean.

If you go further to ask like where, they will be like " i dont know, maybe an eatry or the mall" Both eatry and mall are the same, because you have eatries in the mall and you wont just be walking around the mall window shopping.

mekaboy:


SURE there is no standards, but for the average Nigerian girl as the opportunities said and basic outing in a eatery, holding 10k in case of emergency is normal, in Nigeria today. I assume you would go on an empty pocket since there is no standards?

like seriously..Wat emergency?..she brings extra friends..I have had dates of over 10k and I have had dates of just indomie and watching game of thrones..but I never go out of my comfort zone to please a lady..my 5cents.

[quote author=ay4shizzy post=57133968]like seriously..Wat emergency?..she brings extra friends..I have had dates of over 10k and I have had dates of just indomie and watching game of thrones..but I never go out of my comfort zone to please a lady..my

Could you explain how the indomie date went ? Did u have light?

here in gusau 1k is enough for both of u, just take her to sunny fast food.

ay4shizzy:
like seriously..Wat emergency?..she brings extra friends..I have had dates of over 10k and I have had dates of just indomie and watching game of thrones..but I never go out of my comfort zone to please a lady..my 5cents.

Wow, Please tell me about the indomie date, will like to know that formula

mekaboy:
10k should be enough. Anything more, she is a gold digger and does not see a future with you.

Highest the two of you share one fish 5k, drinks 2k her transport 2-3k.

Or una chop rice each 1800*2 = 3600, water or juice 1500 plus 3k transport = 8100

If you go drop her then 5 to 8k will do.

If you decide to drink only water and watch her eat, which most guys do, then u save 2 -3k extra.

10k for what?

3k is OK. ..go mama put and eat better swallow or rice with better goat meat and wash it down with malt or water...all these won't cost up to 2k and give her 1k to enter bus back to her house....

Before you start talking just note that the food you eat with 2k at a decent mama put may cost up to 8k in an ezcuisue eatery outlet....

osile2012:


Wow, Please tell me about the indomie date, will like to know that formula

invited her over...I was watching game of the thrones already..luckily she also watches it..I prepared noodles..we ate..after some hours Nepa did as usual..we gisted for a while..later escorted her.

ay4shizzy:
invited her over...I was watching game of the thrones already..luckily she also watches it..I prepared noodles..we ate..after some hours Nepa did as usual..we gisted for a while..later escorted her.

Thats the problem with Naija, if you are inviting over, you will have to spend money to fuel gen whether there is light or not and if you put i better pass my neighbor the fume can kill the both of you inside . Not that i am trying to impress the girl oo, but i know how frustrating it is when a girl visits for the first time and is fanning herself with magazine or news paper. Its so uncomfortable .You know that heat destroys their makeup

But say u buy fuel, 1500, buy indomie and egg 700, give her 1k transport, thats like N3200- cool (Though some girls form they dont like indomie) .

Secondly, Most Nigerian girls are not always comfortable with coming over to a guys house at the first date, and when u try to insist she comes over, it makes it look like you have something in mind . So i always like her to be comfortable before she decides to come to my house, she does not come acting like a stranger .

Kondomatic:




Love is not expensive and we're in recession

Nna mehn.... love nka di stingy ooo....

osile2012:


N1500. Someone that goes to work and earns 40k at the end of the month, might have spent up to 15k on transport, 15k on feeding, her savings is 10k. if she spends 1500 from that savings to transport her self on a first date, its alot.

Hmmm not much sha.

osile2012:


Thats the problem with Naija, if you are inviting over, you will have to spend money to fuel gen whether there is light or not and if you put i better pass my neighbor the fume can kill the both of you inside . Not that i am trying to impress the girl oo, but i know how frustrating it is when a girl visits for the first time and is fanning herself with magazine or news paper. Its so uncomfortable .You know that heat destroys their makeup

Secondly, Most Nigerian girls are not always comfortable with coming over to a guys house at the first date, and when u try to insist she comes over, it makes it look like you have something in mind . So i always like her to be comfortable before she decides to come to my house, she does not come acting like a stranger .

naija's main problem is we always want to lmpress..I have plenty friends who borrow money to go on dates..some can't even take dis gals to there house..personally I think the first date sets a yardstick for other dates...spend 10k now she would be always be expecting 10k..giv her transport fare on the first date then she would always be expecting transport fare.

Toks2008:


10k for what?

3k is OK. ..go mama put and eat better swallow or rice with better goat meat and wash it down with malt or water...all these won't cost up to 2k and give her 1k to enter bus back to her house....

Before you start talking just note that the food you eat with 2k at a decent mama put may cost up to 8k in an ezcuisue eatery outlet....

Nice one. These days, some mama put don dey cost pass tantalizer oo And its not all about the food, but environment. Most mama put can be noisy . People will just be shouting, "Madam bring extra" Someone will even ask you to pass toothpick etc, she wont concentrate on your yans

But its cool too . 3k is not bad at all .

ay4shizzy:
naija's main problem is we always want to lmpress..I have plenty friends who borrow money to go on dates..some can't even take dis gals to there house..personally I think the first date sets a yardstick for other dates...spend 10k now she would be always be expecting 10k..giv her transport fare on the first date then she would always be expecting transport fare.

That I said put 10k in the pocket does not mean spend 10k. Put things like distance into consideration.

If you have a car and can drop her, fine. If she has a car fine, but average Nigerian girl does not have a car.

In some cases you offer transport and she declines, that's fine, but you have to mAke provisions.

Well if she likes you and your company on the first date, chances are that the next could be your house.

mekaboy:


That I said put 10k in the pocket does not mean spend 10k. Put things like distance into consideration.

If you have a car and can drop her, fine. If she has a car fine, but average Nigerian girl does not have a car.

In some cases you offer transport and she declines, that's fine, but you have to mAke provisions.

Well if she likes you and your company on the first date, chances are that the next could be your house.

no responsible woman would leave her house without her transport fare...to a matured woman dats an insult

osile2012:


Nice one, but lets rule her friends, souvenir, condom and hotel out I think 10k as mekaboy said is still within range.

u no wan straff? Why u come dey date again?

ay4shizzy:
no responsible woman would leave her house without her transport fare...to a matured woman dats an insult

Did anyone say she would come out without transport?
We are talking of the average Nigerian girl here, average salary is 40-50k. She probably spends 15k on transport, 15k on food, keeps 10k for other stuff. If she comes for a date you invited her and she spends 1k or 1500 from her 10k savings on transport, you can offer her transport money. If she declines fine, if she accepts it, that does not make her irresponsible.

If you truly care about her, you should care about her condition and what it cost her to get there and not just what u stand to gain.

Kondomatic:

You're not financially responsible if young women do not see you as a stingy person - Tallesty.

Haha hahahahaha


Liar

forreelinc:


u no wan straff? Why u come dey date again?

This guy you no go kill me ooo. What if you come pay for hotel and everything in advance, what is the guaranty that she will follow you sleep there on the first date ?

Even if she sleep there, if she no gree make you touch am, you go kill her ? Why you won put yourself for speed ?

osile2012:
This guy you no go kill me ooo. What if you come pay for hotel and everything in advance, what is the guaranty that she will follow you sleep there on the first date ?

Even if she sleep there, if she no gree make you touch am, you go kill her ? Why you won put yourself for speed ?

Ah ah why you dey do like say you no jassi? After you uber am and dine am and trip e frnds why she no go wan f*ck u?

forreelinc:


Ah ah why you dey do like say you no jassi? After you uber am and dine am and trip e frnds why she no go wan f*ck u?

You know naija babes and forming now, she will say you will see her as a cheap girl if she gives it up on the first date

osile2012:


You know naija babes and forming now, she will say you will see her as a cheap girl if she gives it up on the first date

Naija gals say that?
Hmmm never heard it

200 naira
Eggroll x2 = 100 naira
Table water x2 = 100 naira.
This is what I spent with Ogorwyne

agrovick:
200 naira
Eggroll x2 = 100 naira
Table water x2 = 100 naira.
This is what I spent with Ogorwyne

the egg for your egg roll full.? na half egg dey my own o.

LalaLushness:

Sorry I only do western mentality ..[b]if I like I can pay for it all/b]
Next date he can ... it's give n take..
Like I said some women have no interest in a guys wealth .. as long he works ambitious, can look after himself ( not mummy or daddy bailing him out) then its all good this does not apply to the ladies in your area I guess

come and take me out biko... and pay too

hatbricker:
here in gusau 1k is enough for both of u, just take her to sunny fast food.

i remember sunny fast food well during my medical outreach in fmc gusau... is that still the only fast food in gusau?

ogorwyne:
the egg for your egg roll full.? na half egg dey my own o.

Na spare egg roll the girl give you , she was kinda jealous of you

LalaLushness:

Who he dey buy plate of rice for

Hmmm hmmmm hmmm plssssssssss
I can get him a sack of rice ...
You need to start dating working class chics your destiny will be bright ..

Where can I find them please. ..

kaboninc:


Where can I find them please. ..

Some are on nl
Watch the times they comment ... you will know them

boiz2men:



come and take me out biko... and pay too

No problem

LalaLushness:

Some are on nl
Watch the times they comment ... you will know them

NL is a large community.. ..

And specific section?

And you're one of them sheyy