Wawuu, you should have mentioned earlier that you could read minds. Who knew?
We are not talking about whether it is a first time mistake or not. How unfortunate of him, too bad God didn't give us that ability to read minds like you. However it is not out of line to actually speak about it. That is the husband could have actually spoken to his brother never to barge into their room again whether they are around or not, whether they are together or not and whether or not the wife is absent. It is called common sense.


That shouldn't be too difficult for you to understand, should it?

johnson232:

Lol...This is what the op's husband didn't fall for...kudos to him...
Op expected her husband to beat his brother & sent him packing....& later put the blame on the man if she had a gun to his head...So Op husband is wise afterall going by your comment...

Sterope:
I still don't get it.

unclothedness does not the mean shit. Your great great great great grand mother probably could tied leaves to cover some parts of her body OR moved around stark naked. I can't see how it is different from what is happening in today and I am yet to come across anything that proved or disproved that they were more respected. Also, this issue with women's appearance is rooted in modern society thanks to Abrahimic religions. Don't get it twisted, man.


Besides, the whole point of this thread is about barging into someone else's room without permission. It doesn't matter if it is a lady or a man nor does i matter if it is a matrimonial room.

Geez! You can't help yourself. You must find a way to blame women, don't you?

unclothedness means shit. You can't compare us and our great grandfathers. There has been a serious awakening and things are MP longer the same as they used to be.

The society has been and is being reprogrammed, nudity on the streets and in the movies is influencing the society and causing various changes that are detrimental to the society in general.


I am not blaming anybody, just stating obvious facts, people are saying that it's no biggie because it's what they see in every other street, they've been reprogrammed.

johnson232:

Lol...So because it is a matrimonial room nobody should get close?

Do u know my mum was once rescued by a neighbour right from her matrimonial bed when no one was at home during my NYSC.....

Guess i don't place so much value on these things because of my life experience...
Different stroke for different folks....

Marriage is sacred and I don't expect the BIL to have business with their bedroom particularly when the wife is at home. My SIL lives with us and she never steps into our bedroom when I am at home. At most she knocks at our door when she needs to pass any message.

Bia nwanyi mma, do you want ur hubby to kill d bro ? IF NO, didnt he apologised ?

richyblink1:


Kindly read well or get a recommended glass. I am male for your information, and married as well. My younger brother dare not enter my room without knocking, not to talk of standing after seeing my wife naked. Except he wants to explain his real intentions towards my wife

Mr lover, take it easy o......hmn

If it were to be you, perhaps u 'll send him packing or kill him.....ryt?
what's even so special about the nudity. Mtscheww
So long you could see clearly that it wasn't intentional, then just let it go. No need talking anything about it sef 'cos d young dude already 'll feel remorseful
and he won't ever make such mistake again.
Some ppl shud start applying wisdom in their dealings.
More respect to the husband of the OP for his maturity and wisdom.

I feel very angry reading this coz same almost happened to me, but mine was I was about undressing. Thank God I wasn't undressed yet, all hell was let loose that day coz I gave him it to him hot, like really hot even though he is 3years older than I am.
Still reported him to my hubby and he was warned strictly to always knock and wait for a reply before entering our room.
Talk some sense into his empty brain abeg, what rubbish.

Caustics:
what do you want him to do? kill his brother? What is done is done. No need making a mounatin out of a mole hill. Escalating it will only make you feel more ashamed. By the way how old are you? cuz after a certain age people seeing you naked shouldnt bother you.

I just weak o

ur pix is on ur profile, ur husband or bro in law will get to see ur post. ur doom just wan begin

Op I only have one question for you, are you the person on that profile if yes, you have nothing to worry about.

what did he saw?

iyaayi:
My live in brother in law of whom we are agemates barged into my room unannounced this morning. I was totally naked & had to dive under the bed from the shame & shock.

He stood there apologising that he didn't know i was in the room (we had met outside by the clothes line a short while ago).
The most painful part is that my husband who was lying in d bed in the room didn't find it necessary to utter a word.
When I confronted him, he said that shebi his brother had said 'sorry'
I really don't know what to do. I feel let down by hubby's reaction & also ashamed about the whole incident.
pls good folks, what do I do to redress the situation. thank you

Well, let me say we are all naked before God. Wetin u dey hide from dem na him some gynaecologist dey take sample examination. So make u accept d apology

Can u swear that you are married talk more if having brother in law.

Well, the deed is done. No need trying to incite ur husband against his brother cos women just love such. If I were in ur shoes I'll confidently walk to my wardrobe and pick a towel... Yea I'm that confident with my body.

MissIndependent:
What Rubbish? Can't he knock the door before entering

calm down na... girls like u Ehn.. before man go see ur kpekus na die. lol

iyaayi:
My live in brother in law of whom we are agemates barged into my room unannounced this morning. I was totally naked & had to dive under the bed from the shame & shock.

He stood there apologising that he didn't know i was in the room (we had met outside by the clothes line a short while ago).
The most painful part is that my husband who was lying in d bed in the room didn't find it necessary to utter a word.
When I confronted him, he said that shebi his brother had said 'sorry'
I really don't know what to do. I feel let down by hubby's reaction & also ashamed about the whole incident.
pls good folks, what do I do to redress the situation. thank you

Your husband was probably more shocked, hence not knowing how to respond...
The deed is already done. Just forget about the incident, and ensure you always lock doors behind, when you don't want to be seen in an uncompromising situation.

NB: At least he did not see two of you making out...... Imagine him seeing you sucking the D, or seeing your husband sucking the P..........?

D deed as been done. Definitely ur BIL gonna be scolded by ur hubby....but nt in ur presence.

Kindly move on

After looking at ur pix.. u are d one to be apologizing to your BIL!

cuteguy123:
So make him kill he brother Abi quarrel with am because of a wide pussy bitch?

Hell no.

Bros over bitchess.

I am sure you have shamelessly banged more than 10 guys before you got married.

So what's there to hide?

Mehn gtfo

Bruh calm down nau
Not all girls are like your sisters

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Reading some comments,its obvious a lot of people are actually malnourished of good manners and home training thanks to our mothers who think only the female child needs to be trained ,imagine the mindset of young men , sometimes I am tempted to ask our mothers " what then do you teach your sons? ,most this people grew up malnourished of proper etiquettes, so I guess not knocking while entering a couple's room is no big deal to them ,smh

Ur hubby didnt do well at all by keeping mute. He should have at least corrected his bros on your behalf there and then. Ur in-law apologized cos it was a mistake, that was gud enough so forgive him and forgive yourself for not locking the door when doing something private. Also u shd have noticed that he barges into your room normally, except you are saying its the first time. Well, let him know its wrong and he should always knock. My take

Madam u are just a trouble maker. You are trying to steer up trouble between sibling. Be very careful how u occupy ur territory earthquake might strike ur ground. Be careful

richyblink1:


Really? Someone seeing your wife's unclothedness shouldn't bother you/her? Ezigbo onye nkuzi!!

About a dozen men might have seen it even before you...

her pain is that the guy was just stating at her apologising instead of him to retreat on sighting her unclad.
but I think d in-law has always been barging into d room other times,showing there's an intimate relationship between him and his brother.
young Lady,get a grip on ur seld,. don't push this any further but keep ur on eyes on him whether he will come for u.

Caustics:
what do you want him to do? kill his brother? What is done is done. No need making a mounatin out of a mole hill. Escalating it will only make you feel more ashamed. [s]By the way how old are you? cuz after a certain age people seeing you naked shouldnt bother you.[/s]

Disappointed.

Dat his ur matrimonial bedroom, who ever comes in should knock been ur mother in law. Go talk to Dat young man, nxt time he should knock, or else one day he will come in like a thief and sleep with u, d next ur hubby will say but he apologize now.

iyaayi:
My live in brother in law of whom we are agemates barged into my room unannounced this morning. I was totally naked & had to dive under the bed from the shame & shock.

He stood there apologising that he didn't know i was in the room (we had met outside by the clothes line a short while ago).
The most painful part is that my husband who was lying in d bed in the room didn't find it necessary to utter a word.
When I confronted him, he said that shebi his brother had said 'sorry'
I really don't know what to do. I feel let down by hubby's reaction & also ashamed about the whole incident.
pls good folks, what do I do to redress the situation. thank you

He has already apologize.....All u have to do is to tell him to always knock before opening...Please don't go an create unnecessary quarrel between ur husband and ur brother inlaw...

richyblink1:


So you mean the brother in law standing there after noticing his elder brother's wife is naked is cool?
What happens to him walking away so she can cover up before coming to apologise.

What are you defending? So what's the way forward....?

Seeing is believing..

You can't believe what

You haven't seen...

He must see b4

He believes...

Me, I believe

He didn't see.....

have been following the thread and truly some men can kill their brother because of a woman... God forbid... the guy knew that his brother was still around meaning that he has nothing negative in mind and besides he didn't see u leaving the bathroom...so woman don't instigate your husband to do something stupid