Stupid of him

What do you mean what do you do to redress the situation. go and revenge and fill your snapping anger. He has apologised move on.

MissIndependent:
What Rubbish? Can't he knock the door before entering

I had to tell her something urgent. And I've apologised profusely.

White people don't care.........

richyblink1:


Kai!! People dey ooo! So I should give my brother a medal for foolishly entering my room without respect. Or issue him a cheque for still standing after noticing my wife is naked.
Ony'isi, ndewoo

Guy you nor get sense at all


Who be that woman wey marry you sef

I bet she just pity your anti-intelligent soul

Chop your stupidity.

Caustics:
what do you want him to do? kill his brother? What is done is done. No need making a mounatin out of a mole hill. Escalating it will only make you feel more ashamed. By the way how old are you? cuz after a certain age people seeing you naked shouldnt bother you this much.

Caustics..that's what's up it is what it is.

Your brother-in-law apologized for entering the room unannounced. What more do you want? Besides, why are you asking Nairaland instead of sorting things out with him?

Y u jump...ur husband na mumu, his brother don already see ur talents already, wud not take time bfore he start making advances

It's called sister inlaw. Not friend in law. His sisters stand naked in front of him. So this 1 is his sister now. By law

Bt it cn be so embarrassing and annoying..me DAT am with my sister to assist her my brother in law friend staying der is making me so uncomfortable... Always staring at me,acting weird wen alone...

the op is just troublesome. Most of you here bashing the guy are making mistakes.
Read the post again. the op said they met outside just a while ago..so, to me, that explain why the guy just entered the room without knocking.

I was in my freind's house this morning and as I was about entering their passage that lead to their room, I saw my freind's wife wrapper on their bathroom door and their room also opened. My freind was sitting on his bed facing me we started talking while I was still outside, after a while, I decided to enter and there I saw his wife also sitting on the bed one-third naked and the first thing I said was 'I thought you were the one bathing' of which she replied that she puts herr cloth on the bathroom door to tell people she is the next person to take her bath.

Now, if I just entered without first talking to the who was also sitting infront of me, with the door opened for me to enter, and her wrapper on the bathroom door that shows she is in the bathroom.

Now, if the lady comes here and say rubbish, this is how you people will just keep blaphemy.

PaperLace:
I would have thought secondary schools are on mid term break, going by some juvenile comments here.

OP, you reserve the right to feel the way you feel. I will feel the same way. It's worrying that he comes into your matrimonial room without knocking, you didn't set the boundaries before now. [s] He even stood there apologising, apologising while staring at your unclothedness[/s] and your husband didn't react? Nawa!!

It should hurt that your husband dismissed it like that. He isn't expected to kill his brother, but I expected him to show more seriousness. They both don't have any much respect for you.

Call the brother and warn him sternly never to enter your room, with/without knocking. He shouldn't even come close to your room. Try to forget about it, I can imagine how you feel _it's normal, but you'll be fine.

Read properly before booking space to hurriedly comment

Dem nor dey use 'likes' but crayfish for market

johnson232:

We are all wired differently bro...U acting that way doesn't make it right....
See the way u talk am sef...Na people like u they kill their brother because of woman...

Read the op with a recommended glass & see her husband's response....that is how any sensible man should act & not threatening thunder....guess your brother is not trustworthy...

U get sense.

The younger brother don see belliful na,kukuma straff am and when hubby ask you tell am sorry.

Chanchit:



Na the kyn Mumu husband I dey talk be this, this guy go say the bro don count all the hair weh dey him wife pusi, for that reason, he's a gooner.

abeg wetin you want make the husband do ehn, beat the brother cuz of that?? if no be say your mind too dirty ehn, mistakes happens no big deal!! she talk say the brother in law na her agemate, I.e he's matured, has a girlfriend of his, the situation na awkward situation for him too. he prolly wish it never happened. So I advice you to get over it and stop acting like a 16 yr old . he saw your unclothedness, let him apologise and you get over it

Trust me he's seen so many unclad women before u. Seeing you unclad makes no difference.
Funny enough, you might just be looking for a way to send the poor boy packing out of his brother's house. I know women. They can be very stupid at times.

Are we sure this is not a two room apartment and not possibly a flat and all of us are here ranting?
Let's verify this first and if so,this seems inevitable.

[quote author=PaperLace post=57286384]I would have thought secondary schools are on mid term break, going by some juvenile comments here.

OP, you reserve the right to feel the way you feel. I will feel the same way. It's worrying that he comes into your matrimonial room without knocking, you didn't set the boundaries before now. He even stood there apologising, apologising while staring at your unclothedness and your husband didn't react? Nawa!!

It should hurt that your husband dismissed it like that. He isn't expected to kill his brother, but I expected him to show more seriousness. They both don't have any much respect for you.

Call the brother and warn him sternly never to enter your room, with/without knocking. He shouldn't even come close to your room. Try to forget about it, I can imagine how you feel _it's normal, but you'll be fine.[/
My God bless you for this sensible comment.

Nma27:
Well, the deed is done. No need trying to incite ur husband against his brother cos women just love such. If I were in ur shoes I'll confidently walk to my wardrobe and pick a towel... Yea I'm that confident with my body.

Confam.. i see nice bootay!

I am baffled at what people had been writing. You guys just making lots out of nothing. I and ma big bro lived together before he got married. Before they made it official, she's a bit regular at the house and she's spent the night like twice before.

They're married now and I have my room and bathroom separately. The washing machine is placed close to my bathroom. Most times I do live the door of the bathroom open while I bath. Anyone who came to where the machine is placed will see who is in the bathroom. She had innocently barged on me like twice and she rushed back immediately saying sorry while I quickly draw the door near too. I just laughed it off. She has never entered my bedroom without knocking.

In a nutshell, this is bound to happen at times. It's really no big deal. What do I have that she hasn't seen with her hubby. Thought of what happened always died at the bathroom there. I keep wondering at how people take what isn't theirs. How can any sane man think of rubbish to talk of attempting rubbish with your brothers wife, sister-in-law or whatever. It's disgusting and a taboo.

Madam OP, its nothing serious. I just think your hubby should remind his bro on Courtesy and ethics. E don finish.

TroubleMaker47:
After looking at ur pix.. u are d one to be apologizing to your BIL!

Lwkmd

Seriously the BIL should have immediately with alacrity run out of the room on sighting his brother's wife unclothedness! And then later apologize!
Op, sorry bout it. I can't imagine!

you expect make him beat him brother for u ni? Although, the brother erred to not have knocked n wait for response b4 opening the door

iyaayi:
My live in brother in law of whom we are agemates barged into my room unannounced this morning. I was totally naked & had to dive under the bed from the shame & shock.

He stood there apologising that he didn't know i was in the room (we had met outside by the clothes line a short while ago).
The most painful part is that my husband who was lying in d bed in the room didn't find it necessary to utter a word.
When I confronted him, he said that shebi his brother had said 'sorry'
I really don't know what to do. I feel let down by hubby's reaction & also ashamed about the whole incident.
pls good folks, what do I do to redress the situation. thank you

First time is always a mistake, the second time is intentional.

nahzyla:

Every houseguest and even the house kids are supposed to knock when entering a married couples room. thats their domain for private activities so a sensible person would knock first whether door is locked or not.

True talk.

Me that can be unclad for Africa.. I won't see that as anything o, true.. It's my hubby's bro not an outsider and he apologized too.

That was wrong. Sorry ma binu.

Some ladies would childishly demand seeing his unclothedness too, just to get even.
Don't do that o. You may start what you can't finsih

He just stood there while he was apologizing? Smh.

Nobody is above mistake and for him to apologize immediately suggest that he didn't do it on purpose. But you should have ensured that door is bolted knowing there's presence of the third party who may most likely barge in.

Just let go since he has apologized. He wouldn't do that deliberately. And he wont be able to sleep well tonight cos he wont be proud seeing his brother's wife unclad. No decent Man will be. His brother which is your husband knows him well.Reason he said sebi he said sorry. What action were you expecting your husband to take? You cant change the deeds that has been done. And clear your mind off it. He respect you to apologize.
Not every time you see someone knock. As a kid growing up i have entered my parents room countless time without knocking not deliberately do happen like an oversight. So what are we saying . Let Go

iyaayi:
My live in brother in law of whom we are agemates barged into my room unannounced this morning. I was totally naked & had to dive under the bed from the shame & shock.

He stood there apologising that he didn't know i was in the room (we had met outside by the clothes line a short while ago).
The most painful part is that my husband who was lying in d bed in the room didn't find it necessary to utter a word.
When I confronted him, he said that shebi his brother had said 'sorry'
I really don't know what to do. I feel let down by hubby's reaction & also ashamed about the whole incident.
pls good folks, what do I do to redress the situation. thank you

Caustics:
what do you want him to do? kill his brother? What is done is done. No need making a mounatin out of a mole hill. Escalating it will only make you feel more ashamed. By the way how old are you? cuz after a certain age people seeing you naked shouldnt bother you this much.

she still dey form slay Queen......

barallanee:
Bt it cn be so embarrassing and annoying..me DAT am with my sister to assist her my brother in law friend staying der is making me so uncomfortable... Always staring at me,acting weird wen alone...

Are u beautiful and endowed? If yes, it's natural