its ok bro... its a first phase for every1... i guess she is ur 1st love... bt u must understand nt to depend on any for happiness especially ladies... they are all confused folks... stop being Mr Nice guy... nd dont b obsessed with any lady... they wil use ur feelings against u... wake up!!!

You need to work on how you view yourself first. If you're self esteem is this low this will happen with any relationship you will embark on. You can love someone but you don't have it lose yourself too.

AFULA:
GO KILL YOURSELF NAH... WETIN CONCERN ME.

Afula: small small na

Give the shit in your heart that you call love some time, it will die down. Move on, dress well, use perfume, go out there and make friends. Be happy.

Time Heals Things Like This.

Gain Some Self Esteem. And Treat That Girls Fuckup.

What nonsense, you a side Niga WTF!!!!

I can't even see blood

mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?

Please next time never ever love a women to the extent that you will commit suicide when she decides to call of the relationship. Tks.

peedeeasobie:
You attempted suicide?

Her mom asked you to beg a girl that cheats on you?

You agreed to be a side guy?


You need psychological evaluation!

and mental devaluation.hehehehehehe no mind me i no even understand watin be mental devaluation.

I just do wonder how God created some men, I beg who does what he did? you agreed to be a side boyfriend?? ohh, I won't talk much but my online advice is.....get excess ladies as friends with no strings attached to get the hell out of the stupid love you claim to be

I believe with all d comment so far, you will leave being a boy to being a man....#fact#

Of all the things you can kill yourself for it is a woman you chose? You must be a Samson...

mostsimpliest:
Actually am not denying the fact that i was a big fool...buh think am over it and since been over a year this poo happened.......these insults are not even saying anything to how bad i feel abt the abuse and low esteem my brought to my self worth.

bros reply me na. is she schooling in ekiti

mostsimpliest:
am 23 yrs old in my final year civil engineering

ehh engineer for that matter, we are not known for such nonsense. man manup

I888:
don't mind all those idiots insulting you. They are all morons forming "man up" NO MAN ON EARTH hasn't gone through this phase you are.

They are just being hypocritical like an average Nigerian instead of admiting they had been in such position before.

Bros, until you go through this phase, you will never have the experience needed to handle Nigerian women.

Forget what most girls will say... NEVER pet any Nigerian girl. I repeat, NEVER do it because they don't deserve it.

Most of them only act like they need a serious relationship wherein they had exhausted all their pussy elasticity forking and hanging out with bad boys.

Only few of them, very small percentage, appreciate a man that pampers them with love like u have done to that bastard. I hate most Nigerian girls because they are morons and idiotic.

It's after they have been messed up by bad boys that often always look for nice guy(many of them may have lost their niceness).

One who stopped picking my call some years back is busy seeking serious relationship from me. May thunder strike her pussy and woe betide me if I ever give her such opportunity.

It will never be well with all the girls who don't appreciate genuine feelings. Spits.

Meh this is lit.

mostsimpliest:

am 23 yrs old in my final year civil engineering

and you allowed a lady,a weaker vessel to torment you like this.chaiii.you fall hand abeg.

She doesn't love you. A girl who breaks up with you everytime + insults. Grow a spine and move on, I know it's hard. Very hard!

If you don chop the gal, leave her mak she go..
Bt if u neva chop her, den u carry the mentality of "no sex bfor marriage"..
Guy u don Bleep up...

Let go and focus on your books, when u finish with schooling, hustle harder and make more money, looks cool and sound intelligent and she will come back begging!
This also occurred to me, i finished my school, i went for my m.sc, got a job with good salary and allowances, i learnt she was about leaving for NYSC, i called her and gave 20k, she refused to collect at first, but later she collected, and i told her is for all the goodthings she did for me, and now i'm about getting marry, she looked at me, my car and my appearance was glittering or blinking, she almost cried out her eyes globe, and i left her without a word, she then call me to tell, if i can call-off the wedding becos of her, that she will love me to end, but i responded that was too late!

victorazy:
bros reply me na. is she schooling in ekiti

seriously NO......sorry for the delay

mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?

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so it is by force now, lwkmd o, be like you nor cute, guy na girls they beg me ni o

Frankicent:
If this story is real you a big fool..... Hmnn no wonder ladies would always have a man to make them bow down to Herr and take stupid order. This gal you plead with and even went as far committing suicide cause, of one gal.. List she had would be fine face, and...shit ass....


Anywy you need help me....i go guys who can move your beta male nonchalant attitude to a bold alpha men.

In time this useless gal who almost made you committ suicide would come beg you..trust me. If you have the patience you become an alpha soon... Pm me.. make I share the group link with you.

Abeg I wan join the group oh

Op, I won't ask for your age cos maturity doesn't have anything to do with age...but you're not matured at all...

chronique:
If you must date a girl who has a boyfriend, it should be with the intent of overthrowing the current occupant, not to be Mr anonymous. Except you just wanna shag her and have fun. It's a different ball game if you are being played but you don't know, or aren't totally sure, but still want to give the benefit of doubt. But to know, be very sure and still want to accept being the side guy, is a total no. That's a sign of weakness and inferiority complex on your part.

Try to dethrone someone is even a stupid idea on its own cos sooner than later, another dude ll dethrone you. Why all that trouble when there are many fishes in the river that would be all yours without any issue

U want to kill yourself because of a girl who has already jumped to another guy while you are still alive?if you were my brother, you for collect slap o.
Wake up man, life is like that you take things it throws your way and move on. She dumped you?painful but its no news some brothers have been dumped before,lick your wounds and move on.The best is always ahead!
If you kill yourself, who go lose? na you lose o!

hope you don f uck her sa.if no,u be mumu

Yall need to spare the young man
He's only a kiddo
I was once in his shoes
So what??
He'd grow out of it

On behalf of real Gs out there we disown u . See how u just take fall my hand ,dey there dey play lover boy no go hustle for more money , rubbish, young jeezy said , we can catch them hoes later stay on your grind, na your type ladies dey play like video game . Grow up kid

gede7744:
the first and the second poster said what was on my mind





nothing to say again

the OP na mumu. Thank God the posters above spoke my mind.

mostsimpliest:

seriously NO......sorry for the delay

ok

Eyya bros I pity u. Although u are a big fool u know? D best tin to do is to shun her existence completely as if she was no more on earth. Get a new life.

MzEddytan:

Pls share the group link with me too...I really need relationship advice. Plssssss

Even a woman too.. will you marry me? Lolz let's talk on whatsapp pm.

She wants u to be the side boy friend? U are so lucky! As long as u don't spend and can wet the oil cumbus and drill d oil well, u are of all men most lucky!I like it when ladies tel me they have bfs....Well I don repent now sha