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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by felixomor: 1:54pm On Jun 11, 2017
WoundedSoul:
External, internal, nobody gives a crap.

The main point is "it's happening."

Maybe u should have read the first comment of mine properly before replying.
cool
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by malvisguy212: 1:54pm On Jun 11, 2017
pweetiedee:
The church is in our heart that is where God lives.

The others na building.

The pastors squeeze out money.

There are different churches with different doctrines, and they claim they serve one God.

I stopped going to church the year we had financial problems and our pastors changed towards us. that was 14years ago.

Whenever my any of my friends drag me to church, all I see is competition- whose make up looks better? who has the finest car? who is the best slay mama? who is cuter, who has the best voice, who can dance better? who drops More money in church

And single ladies desperately looking for maga/husband dressed in provocative outfits.

Guys looking for women to grace their bed.

All those churches that have schools, how.many of their church members can send their children to the schools?

And...

what the hell r these pastors doing with private jets and very expensive cars while most members cannot afford a decent apartment and even motorcycle?

Pastors are yahoo boys

Church members are magas.

I am a christian, I believe in God, I am not a church goer.





I read your first line, I say yes, finally I've seen a nairalander with good post, but at the end of your post, i was disappointed, you are not going to church for pastors sake or are you ? if yes, then stop going to church, but if no, continue going to church. worship God in spirit, nor by canal mind. thank you.
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by Mujtahida: 1:56pm On Jun 11, 2017
Iamzik:


Good one.
Even your Radio remains mute until you tune in to the correct frequency. Change you dial and keep searching until you hear.
Generally every healthy human being draws in breath as an unconscious, reflex action. No tuning. You just breathe. We regard those who cannot do so as sick.
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by ricsman(m): 1:57pm On Jun 11, 2017
illitrate:
Because they are youths, they know not what they do.
and the devil doesn't want them to remember their creator in the days of their youthful years
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by pweetiedee(m): 1:57pm On Jun 11, 2017
malvisguy212:
I read your first line, I say yes, finally I've seen a nairalander with good post, but at the end of your post, i was disappointed, you are not going to church for pastors sake or are you ? if yes, then stop going to church, but if no, continue going to church. worship God in spirit, nor by canal mind. thank you.

You didn't read my post well.

it is not for pastors sake. who knows dem?

The church is not what it is supposed to be anymore

I don't like wasting my time.

they talk about money money money and do show off.

I don't av money to waste.

I don't know aw to show off?

what am I even showing off?
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by WoundedSoul: 1:58pm On Jun 11, 2017
felixomor:

Maybe u should have read the first comment of mine properly before replying.
cool
Maybe I wasn't smart enough to decode the former.

You made your point and I made mine.
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by abashi47(m): 2:02pm On Jun 11, 2017
TBH I rarely go to church because I often find things to criticize everyday I go to church... my church collects two or three offerings every sunday ,one of which is church development offering but haven't change or developed anything for like four years.haba!
well I'm scared of criticizing d men of God. so I rather stay @home jeje

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by Narlysilva: 2:07pm On Jun 11, 2017
Piiko:
I will give this a thought
God bless you
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by lonelydora: 2:07pm On Jun 11, 2017
cyberdurable:
seriously I dunno why... I just lost interest..
But I do pray on my own o... When I wake or want to sleep... God understands sha

My advice for you. Change church. Your current one is no longer working.
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by malvisguy212: 2:12pm On Jun 11, 2017
pweetiedee:


You didn't read my post well.

it is not for pastors sake. who knows dem?

The church is not what it is supposed to be anymore

I don't like wasting my time.

they talk about money money money and do show off.

I don't av money to waste.

I don't know aw to show off?

what am I even showing off?
indeed, many churches preaches prosperity rather than repentance....few still go to church to here the gospel of salvation. don't you wanna be among the few ? remember the bible say only few will go in there. thank you and happy Sunday In advanced.
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by An2elect2(f): 2:14pm On Jun 11, 2017
malvisguy212:
I've read many comment here, I'd call it excuses, if you die today and you stand In front of God, He ask you this same question the op ask, what will you say ? are you going to church for pastors sake or to make right with God ? is Jesus wrong by entering the synagogue and read from the book of Isaiah ? bottom line, reading all the comment here on nairaland further prove that this generation worship men rather than God, because if you worship God, NO acts done by evil men will stop you from going to church.
judges 2:10
A GENERATION WITHOUT GOD.
What is church?
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by pweetiedee(m): 2:14pm On Jun 11, 2017
malvisguy212:
indeed, many churches preaches prosperity rather than repentance....few still go to church to here the gospel of salvation. don't you wanna be among the few ? remember the bible say only few will go in there. thank you and happy Sunday In advanced.

I can preach the gospel to myself.

I can read the Bible, isn't that what pastors read?

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by Iamzik: 2:16pm On Jun 11, 2017
Mujtahida:

Generally every healthy human being draws in breath as an unconscious, reflex action. No tuning. You just breathe. We regard those who cannot do so as sick.

Are we talking about breathing by God or hearing from God? You seem to confuse the two
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by Iamzik: 2:19pm On Jun 11, 2017
pweetiedee:


I can preach the gospel to myself.

I can read the Bible, isn't that what pastors read?


The original essence of gathering with other believers is for fellowship and to edify each other. Anything extra is not a must. The early church did not collect offering at every fellowship. Each member shared what he had with others

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by An2elect2(f): 2:21pm On Jun 11, 2017
malvisguy212:
I've read many comment here, I'd call it excuses, if you die today and you stand In front of God, He ask you this same question the op ask, what will you say ? are you going to church for pastors sake or to make right with God ? is Jesus wrong by entering the synagogue and read from the book of Isaiah ? bottom line, reading all the comment here on nairaland further prove that this generation worship men rather than God, because if you worship God, NO acts done by evil men will stop you from going to church.
judges 2:10
A GENERATION WITHOUT GOD.
Many have departed from the faith for a long time now. Those gatherings in buildings you call churches are apostates. They have no resemblance with biblical church. They are filled with goats and lost sheep that can't edify anyone.

On judgement day, Christ my advocate will speak for me. And my admission into His glory would depend on whether I trusted Him completely not my works or unbiblical "church going"
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by 0b100100111: 2:22pm On Jun 11, 2017
When it finally dawns on you that the religion was just a middle-east belief imported into Africa!


When u truly realize that it's all a cajoling tool to mental slavery


And when u get to personally see that it pays to work than praying all day to something you can't vouch for its existence

The youths re getting wiser! They inherited religion from parents an breaking off from shackles



Men re now wiser and critically thinking!


If same religion were to have gotten to Nigeria today, 5% of our population won't believe it

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by jossypet(m): 2:24pm On Jun 11, 2017
God still remains God come what may. He in His wisdom formed a structure which we call the church. He is the builder of this structure and he has declared that the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. Whatever wrong image anyone (including church leaders) may want to give the church, I will never forsake it cos it belongs to JESUS not the pastor. One day He is coming for His church
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by AvsGot007(m): 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2017
Mujtahida:

There's a tribe in the Amazon jungle known as the piraha. Here's an excerpt about them from Wikipedia
According to Everett, the Pirahã have no concept of a supreme spirit or god, [8] and they lost interest in Jesus when they discovered that Everett had never seen him. They require evidence based on personal experience for every claim made.

That is natural, common sense in action amongst an unfettered tribe in the Amazon. Yet if as an educated person you ask for evidence they start calling you names.
they will all prolly go hell fire for not believing in Jesus!
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by exco90(m): 2:29pm On Jun 11, 2017
when you realise Sunday wasn't chosen by God.. but by man.
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by cyberdurable(m): 2:32pm On Jun 11, 2017
lonelydora:


My advice for you. Change church. Your current one is no longer working.
ok
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by AvsGot007(m): 2:38pm On Jun 11, 2017
Vince77:

We think alike. But mine isnt when trying to explain God only but on everything entirely.
yea...everything! I ought to be living very comfortably by now if not for pastors and Bible.....""you must not work with hotels cos people drink and have sex there"""

Now looking at guy that's doing my kinda stuff there,i got at myself everyday!

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by Daddybright1986(m): 2:40pm On Jun 11, 2017
Omooba77:
1. Betrayal- Many of the youth felt betrayed by the so called men of God, whose life style is opposite of what they preach. I want to encourage youth to read Matthew 23.
2. Lack of fulfilment, Church no longer interest many because they cant find fulfilment
3. Laziness
- Many are too lazy to wake up early
4. Wrong company
- Many of the youth peers have put pressure on them
5. Self will
-Many wants to try out new thing and do their things.
6. Parents over bearing
- Parents forcing their on lives on the youth

NB Please add your

You forget to add
10 naija bet have drawn guys away from church, my neighbors go dress like say na church him d go but na naija bet shops, you go hear them the shout:first two last 3 over 1.5

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by So4baba(m): 2:45pm On Jun 11, 2017
I think we need to define what a CHURCH is and how a CHURCH setting should be...None of the apostles had a church of their own, None pastored a church as a singular entity. The problem occurred when the modus operandi of what a church should be changed, when individuals begin to have the idea of owning a church for themselves and giving people the illusion that only inside such buildings will they be safe and communicate with God as such buildings is referred to a CHURCH.. NO, why do a man concern himself with building a big cathedral for God and call it a church, not with his own money but with that of other people, other people who are pressurized into delving into such venture. this is the problem, buildings are nt church, God will not rapture the buildings, so why do we continue to give people such illusions. I believe in God, I biliv in the death and resurrection of Jesus, I biliv that the Bible is true in its entirety but I honestly defer in ideology of what a CHURCH is and has become, as the new order makes people see MEN instead of CHRIST.

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by varmint: 2:48pm On Jun 11, 2017
Iamzik:


Are we talking about breathing by God or hearing from God? You seem to confuse the two

I suppose you've heard from God personally
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by Narlysilva: 2:51pm On Jun 11, 2017
homesteady:
I haven't gone to church for like 3 Sundays now!

Mainly due to Laziness and I'm gradually losing the will! Most importantly, I hate being a hypocrite!

And you think it's ordinary? (ist of), You feel lazy going to church (secondly), you're gradually loosing the will to serve God or just merely going to church?
And you think its ordinary? NO it isn't! Watchout!

the devil is trying to cajole you out of God's way so he could harm you... Be vigilant! don't be ignorant of his tricks and acts... Watch your ways and and get closer to God do not wallow in the den of unbelievers... Most of the comment here are made by those who don't be in God(atheist) so be guided...

If You hate being a hypocrite? Then don't be one... Pray and God will see you through... Nobody's perfect we're all trying to walk towards perfection... So don't give up on yourself cause God will not give up on you...

Remember
Where there is a will there's a way
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by mekzymiles(m): 2:52pm On Jun 11, 2017
grin when you have more than 15 offerings in a church service and there is no job
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by pweetiedee(m): 2:54pm On Jun 11, 2017
Iamzik:


The original essence of gathering with other believers is for fellowship and to edify each other. Anything extra is not a must. The early church did not collect offering at every fellowship. Each member shared what he had with others

If I don't pay offering, u know d kind eye wey dem go dey use look me?

I'm watching Tom and Jerry jor

Happy Sunday

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by So4baba(m): 2:56pm On Jun 11, 2017
CHURCH should be nothing more than a "study group", a "fellowship" a "coming together of people of same mind" "of same ideology" "of saints", it should be able to take place anywhere, at anytime we all agreed upon and strictly adhere to, it can have a LEADER but not a OWNER, it can have a committee that sees to her growth and discipline not a one man at helm of affairs . it doesn't have to be a one man business, it was never established to be a one man thing. That is why youths are lost today, they see their pastors defect as God's defect, the deacons mistake as God's mistake and this is because someone is so particular about himself /herself being the Centre of attraction, being the owner of "God's business", they all want to be a CEO in God's company.. This is the problem

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by SirImole(m): 2:56pm On Jun 11, 2017
Amadaz:
Lol... How old u be my guy?
28years
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by SirImole(m): 2:57pm On Jun 11, 2017
Amadaz:
Lol... How old u be my guy?
I am 28years old.
Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by DarkHenrie(m): 2:58pm On Jun 11, 2017
Actually, many people are not religious during their youth after being forced religion throughout their childhood and teenage years. Most older people, parents you see who are religious today were very irreligious when they were younger. So it's not a really new trend that youths are uninterested in religious activities. Some of us have that friend who while in the university was the least religious person but preaches to us now that they're married and all. I think there are social and psychological factors that can explain why people generally get more religious and conservative as they grow older.

That said, I think the times are changing and society and the world generally is witnessing a decline in overall religiosity which is making the fanatics more mad hence these terrorists springing up everywhere. Thanks to the age of science, information and evidence, it is becoming more difficult to deceive people with fantastical claims of supernaturality.

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Re: Why Many Youths Are No Longer Going To Church by famousroland(m): 3:08pm On Jun 11, 2017
Social media... many stay back at home chatting from morning forgetting that it's Sunday before they know, the time for church is already late

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