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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Kingluqman89(m): 2:39pm On Jun 28, 2017
Saintsammurai:
I don't smoke and i don't drink, does that make me a Lesser man?
People will use their own money to dig their own grave all in the name of having fun..
As long as en prick dey work... He is a man.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by holluphemydavid(m): 2:40pm On Jun 28, 2017
CplusJason:
Do not contribute a penny when their liver, lungs and heart gets destroyed by weed and shisha.
best advice,i totally agreed with u

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by colossus91(m): 2:40pm On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?
bro i don't smoke nor drink,tho i used to bt believe me nothing justifies a man more than his stands and believe,man is the measure of all things so it is wat u believe are u are that makes u and not what oeople think.....i dnt drink nor smoke as said earlier bt if u see me u will think am one bad boi!!
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Benekruku(m): 2:40pm On Jun 28, 2017
Prove to your dudes that they re kids

You up the game by starting with cocaine, heroine, morphine and opium and let them see who really is a man.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by linearity: 2:42pm On Jun 28, 2017
You are moving with the wrong crowd, change your friends or at least swap some out, you will thank me later.

As for your brother...oh boy! Wish one can choose those too! Well, until Science and time travel advances to that point, just flat out ignore him period!
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by 9jatatafo(m): 2:43pm On Jun 28, 2017
You are the real man for not smoking and drinking

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by teevodaprinz(m): 2:43pm On Jun 28, 2017
You are on point Bro... Likewise me, but I dey fanta o. lol... Never let anyone make you feel less of a man. Keep your head up. The simple truth is that, You're nurturing your future from unforeseen sickness Like cancer of the lung and its allies.



DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Maxi112: 2:45pm On Jun 28, 2017
Benekruku:
Prove to your dudes that they re kids

You up the game by starting with cocaine, heroine, morphine and opium and let them see who really is a man.
You do all the aforementioned drugs?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by saydfact(m): 2:45pm On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

Dude, i dont smoke, i dont drink - and i've never done both... but unlike you, peer pressure has never made me consider asking if its right - cos i know it is.

Dont let no1 deceive you, you're the man.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?


grin

In the hospital where I work, we once had a patient on admission with kidney and liver failure combined. Infact, the guy was in severe pain, and we could not give him any pain killers because it would have affected/worsened the condition of both the liver and the kindey.

His medical history included over 2 decades of smoking and drinking.

Of course...the guy passed on....after two weeks of agony.

Chief....continue with a healthy lifestyle. Before your family starts running around in the future looking for money to spend on liver, kidney and lung problem.(Which reminds me of one patient I saw as a med student....severe lung disease with a history of smoking. Guy packed up two nights after admission. Just like that.).
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by whizzyleejr(m): 2:47pm On Jun 28, 2017
Never mind them, it depend on what you wish to do, man is always a man, but all those drinks are harmful to human health, be yourself don't be influenced by what they've said and what they will still tell you
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Dynast(m): 2:47pm On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?



Ok we v heard, however do you do women? girl friends I mean
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 28, 2017
[s]
Benekruku:
Prove to your dudes that they re kids

You up the game by starting with cocaine, heroine, morphine and opium and let them see who really is a man.
[/s] Shiity advice
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 28, 2017
9jakohai:



grin

In the hospital where I work, we once had a patient on admission with kidney and liver failure combined. Infact, the guy was in severe pain, and we could not give him any pain killers because it would have affected/worsened the condition of both the liver and the kindey.

His medical history included over 2 decades of smoking and drinking.

Of course...the guy passed on....after two weeks of agony.

Chief....continue with a healthy lifestyle. Before your family starts running around in the future looking for money to spend on liver, kidney and lung problem.(Which reminds me of one patient I saw as a med student....severe lung disease with a history of smoking. Guy packed up two nights after admission. Just like that.).
hmmmm...that got me speechless bro.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by abbey621(m): 2:53pm On Jun 28, 2017
Of course you are not a man, real men don't give a flip about what other guys thinks of them, they are masters of their domain and their self confidence is always high. Another thing to consider, if your brother and friends are into things like that, it is better you distance yourself because corrupt people are likely to corrupt the innocent ones either directly or indirectly!

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dynast:




Ok we v heard, however do you do women? girl friends I mean
I don't do "women"... Only one woman.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by jjjjj2017: 2:54pm On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?
my brother, thank your star that you neither drink nor smoke.
I don't drink or smoke & that doesn't makes me a weak man.
Smokers are liable to die young & alcohol does damage to body system.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by GOFRONT(m): 2:54pm On Jun 28, 2017
Drink Responsibly
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jun 28, 2017
teevodaprinz:
You are on point Bro... Likewise me, but I dey fanta o. lol... Never let anyone make you feel less of a man. Keep your head up. The simple truth is that, You're nurturing your future from unforeseen sickness Like cancer of the lung and its allies.



thanks bro.. smiley
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Maxi112: 2:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
Tahrah:
[s][/s] Shiity advice
cheesy He's doing himself.


BTW shisah, weed, cigar. which one you deal on? grin
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by kikies(m): 2:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
U go like woman b that
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Poshbrown(m): 2:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
you are not alone. as a matter of fact you are on the best track
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by zubydave(m): 2:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
Bro smoking doesn't make you any less a man. Besides, it harmful to the body as have been proven even by the warnings of the manufacturers. For drinking, well I think it depends on the level you go to when drinking; as some would mix some shit just to get stupidly drunk and end up dead or messing themselves up. I don't drink shit nor smoke shit(no offences to those that dose), and since you don't, do not let them gourd you into it by making you feel any lesser than you are.
Peace!
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Emusan(m): 2:59pm On Jun 28, 2017
pocohantas:
Men who do not smoke, drink or womanise are very man enough to me. Where you wan take get them? grin

Let's not forget the health benefits of abstaining from these three things.


I don't do any of the three, I could remember vividly back then in secondary school how they'll abuse me of being weak and not sharp but It doesn't bother me.

@OP you have many not just few people like you so don't let their saying affect your life.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
Angifuni ukuthi uzizwe ucasuliwe ngamazwana ami
nje ubheke phezu kwawo, futhi ungavumeli
kukulimaze, ngiyaxolisa uma ubuhlungu buhlungu
kakhulu.


Lol! You're trying but I'm not Zulu tongue
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Eastwest: 3:00pm On Jun 28, 2017
who told you that Shisha is harmless. for your information Shisha like cigarettes contains carcinogen, nicotine, tar, carbon monoxide, and heavy metals like arsenic and lead.
meaning that 1 Shisha = 100 sticks of cigarettes.
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jun 28, 2017
Maxi112:
cheesy He's doing himself.

BTW shisah, weed, cigar. which one you deal on? grin
None undecided
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by ipledge10(m): 3:04pm On Jun 28, 2017
You are not alone, I don't drink alcohol,don't smoke, I don't even drink energy drink, no coffee, I don't use medicine. All these make me so strong, strong health wise.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by mekusa12: 3:06pm On Jun 28, 2017
My brother just be your self, drinking or smoking does not make you a hard Man. Please dont lose what you cant tight, and dont tight what you can lose. What ever you do in this life, there will always be a price to pay.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
Jayceon:
Different strokes for different folks perhaps.


How do you guys get hooked on those things? I used sneak upon my father's pack of stuyvesent when I was young and I would smoke them on a corner somewhere,but I never got addicted to cigs

You got lucky, I guess. Because mine started with just a few puffs in high school. We used to bunk maths class & hide in the bathrooms. In there it was smokers' paradise & before I knew it, I was hooked like a snoek grin It's really nice when you 1st start it though, next thing you know, you're dumpster diving looking for half-smoked cigarettes. LMAO. On my broke days, I used to stand outside ABSA to collect stompies tongue

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Akalia(m): 3:11pm On Jun 28, 2017
OP you need something to occasional get high on and relief from stress, it's part of being a man. Smoke, drink with moderation but don't womanise.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Funkybabee(f): 3:12pm On Jun 28, 2017
i think u should start drinking non alcoholic wine or tonic wine, they are not really expensive it will makes u look more matured than them.

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