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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by GeneralOjukwu: 11:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
Ignore my first comment... i think OP is a comedian wink

So.... I was nicknamed Mr Fertilizer because no girl ever spent a weekend with me without taking TWINS as farewell gifts.

So, OP contact me for extra fertile deposit. Extra charges if you are :

1. Fat (Hazard allowance)

2. Ugly (alcohol so i won't see well)

3. Dirty...(automatic rejection of application) NO REFUNDS angry

Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Richy4(m): 11:11pm On Jun 28, 2017
talk2hb1:

God bless you jare, person wey get quit fit come post?
Its obvious, from the writeup that it was made up.

Are you kidding me? So you have not seen someone that lost a loved one and immediately jumped in on social media...which country are you living in please
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Lifestone(m): 11:11pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Fight him back. Make a claim on him for alimony
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by israelmao(m): 11:13pm On Jun 28, 2017
First thing first attend to yourself.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Foxrain: 11:13pm On Jun 28, 2017
pressplay411:
Can you take a minute and shut the Bleep up.
So what you're having marital problems? You're not the first neither are you going to be the last, so dont even entertain that i want to end it all crap.
Worst case scenario, he leaves you and you become a single lady again at whatever your age is. Is marriage all your life achievement and life goal is all about?
Single successful ladies every where having the time of their life, and I don't need to mention names.
Besides what makes you think you won't find love again? So many guys out here don't even want kids maybe cos they're already single fathers or they just don't, so many don't mind adopting.
My point in essence is life goes on. You just have to accept your fate, reevaluate your life and concentrate on what matters... What makes you happy? How about making an impact on your career, business, as a philanthropist, etc I'm sure you have an idea what I'm talking about already.
Really it might seem like all hope is lost but you know what, it never is. Stay positive, stay interesting, stay interested. Live. There's a lot to life.
Must you tell her to shut up?
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jun 28, 2017
You married a local man.

Dry your tears, you are still young. There is a man out there that will fall in love with you and beg you to be his.

How do I know this ? I dont.

You just have to move on. Dont kii yourself for us men. I know how crazy we are.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by erico2k2(m): 11:14pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
After one year? Realy,well he aint worth your tears.Go for medical examination ASAP,get yourself together.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by molekoole(m): 11:16pm On Jun 28, 2017
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pressplay411:
Can you take a minute and shut the Bleep up.
So what you're having marital problems? You're not the first neither are you going to be the last, so dont even entertain that i want to end it all crap.
Worst case scenario, he leaves you and you become a single lady again at whatever your age is. Is marriage all your life achievement and life goal is all about?
Single successful ladies every where having the time of their life, and I don't need to mention names.
Besides what makes you think you won't find love again? So many guys out here don't even want kids maybe cos they're already single fathers or they just don't, so many don't mind adopting.
My point in essence is life goes on. You just have to accept your fate, reevaluate your life and concentrate on what matters... What makes you happy? How about making an impact on your career, business, as a philanthropist, etc I'm sure you have an idea what I'm talking about already.
Really it might seem like all hope is lost but you know what, it never is. Stay positive, stay interesting, stay interested. Live. There's a lot to life.
Good cop bad cop- two in one.
Nice one
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by sunsewa16: 11:17pm On Jun 28, 2017
woman dry ur tears the way of God is not the way of man,it might be blessings in disguise,meet ur family no matter the situations that the first and best step,then be serious in this two issues FACE GOD AND UR JOB seriously especially attending religious activities consistently if ur a Christian,I assure, U will laugh last.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by distilledwalex(m): 11:17pm On Jun 28, 2017
Who does that... Youve only tried for a year plus and he called it quit... Wow... That man is not your husband madam... Even a fertile couple can go up to year without conceiving. . Aside that infertility study is a two way thing. . Gone are the days when men put the blame of infertility on women.. In my line of duty av seen men with absolute zero sperm co7unt... And yet such man would still put all the blame of the woman.. If i may ask how far av you guys tried medically. .. What test have you done.. What are the results. .. If you husband would allow us to review that together... We might get a good result sooner than expected.. But in all youre gonna do beware of herbal supplement. .. They compounds the problem more..
And Pls stop this habit of despite all ive done for him.. Most women make such utterance and i bet its the least any man want to hear.. Do you wanna tell me the man hasnt done anything for you too.. You have a good case... But to cap it with that bull vrap is something else..

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Obason22(m): 11:17pm On Jun 28, 2017
if u are a Christian, why not talk to ur creator who said that he knows u before u were born, I no that before u got married, u prayed for husband now he came, what else are u prayer for now is child but is not forth coming , have u ran to jesus that is my question to u,
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jun 28, 2017
Companionship is the goal, children na jara....so long as your inability to conceive is not self inflicted, then his loss, he never really loved you anyway. Abeg wipe your tears, a good woman like you won't stay too long before finding someone to love you for you children or not.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by MuyiRano(m): 11:19pm On Jun 28, 2017
Christane:
ur husband z just been impatient ..just a year and z fade up already ..i knw of a couple dat got married 18years ago bt cud nt give birth bt i tnx d lord dat dey celebrated their first child a year birthday in march dz year ...atimes Godtime may delay bt it will definately come ..
hold on to God
dnt give up
cus he will neva fail u.
18yrs? I don't pray for this kind of miracle mhen
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Cire80: 11:19pm On Jun 28, 2017
pressplay411:
Can you take a minute and shut the Bleep up.
So what you're having marital problems? You're not the first neither are you going to be the last, so dont even entertain that i want to end it all crap.
Worst case scenario, he leaves you and you become a single lady again at whatever your age is. Is marriage all your life achievement and life goal is all about?
Single successful ladies every where having the time of their life, and I don't need to mention names.
Besides what makes you think you won't find love again? So many guys out here don't even want kids maybe cos they're already single fathers or they just don't, so many don't mind adopting.
My point in essence is life goes on. You just have to accept your fate, reevaluate your life and concentrate on what matters... What makes you happy? How about making an impact on your career, business, as a philanthropist, etc I'm sure you have an idea what I'm talking about already.
Really it might seem like all hope is lost but you know what, it never is. Stay positive, stay interesting, stay interested. Live. There's a lot to life.
Rubbish!!!
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by donogaga(m): 11:20pm On Jun 28, 2017
He's going nowhere, he will be back.


Be that as it may, the test of a struggling marriage consists not in hunting for a new partner but in pursuing the present with a new heart.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by siegfried99(m): 11:20pm On Jun 28, 2017
This was exactly our topic of discussion at our singles fellowship today.

Both of you should see a specialist, you never can tell, the problem might be from him.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Akolawole(m): 11:20pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.

1) My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.

2)We have only be trying for a year plus.

3) This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.

4) I don't know how to face my family.

5) It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.

I am NOT sure is this is a joke or not.

1) & (2) . Generally, Men will NOT be so so desperate for Child to even consider IVF in a one year marriage. No way!
It is the time we do enjoy our women more.

3) Hmmm, abandon as in living elsewhere or threat of getting out of the union?

4) Leave family out of this. Two of you should TRY to sort things out FIRST
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by macaranta(m): 11:21pm On Jun 28, 2017
Saddening
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Cchuks27(m): 11:22pm On Jun 28, 2017
Pull yourself together woman. Don't look weak and devastated.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by sixtusn: 11:23pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
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God cannot forsake His people, He can't be late in any situation. Bis time is the best time. He makes everything perfect in His time. I think you need to accept Christ, be born again and soak yourself in the things of God. Bible says in Matthew 6:33 seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and everything shall be added into u. Children, wealth, health, vitality etc. Pls don't hurt yourself because someone left you. Opah left Naomi because she was not in the story of the birth of Christ but Ruth stayed in spite of all odds and luck shone on her. May be he is not your husband but you loved her and now that God's plan and purpose wants to manifest in ur life, be has to go so that when God manifests, u will not give ur man d glory. I will be praying for u. Be strong and of good courage
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jun 28, 2017
If your husband abandoned you in your trying moments, he doesn't really love you, he loved your womb and what he can get from it. Now do you really want to be in this marriage too? Pull yourself together - make yourself happy, maybe someday you'll find a guy who'll love you for who you really are.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Banter1(m): 11:25pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
sorry dear. Believe me before next week he will be back in your arms. IJN Amen. dont lose hope and don't do anything funny. blessed dear
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by middlebelter(m): 11:28pm On Jun 28, 2017
Just carry the pain to the throne of mercy. Talk to God one of one as if you are seeing Him. Tell Him to forgive any sin that might have brought this if any with all humility. Then ask him for help, quoting the scripture,. He said, Call upon me in the days of trouble and I will deliver you and thou shall glorify me. Read psalm 50.
Promuse God that if he will solve your problem you will serve him with all your heart and mean it. Then wait for your miracle.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by studM(m): 11:28pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

Join us this Sunday our Covenant family day and ur life will never remain the same again smiley
How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by FreeSpirited: 11:30pm On Jun 28, 2017
If he doesn't want you again, go and fvck other diicks, and see ,he might be the one who is not fertile.Other guys might be able to impregnate you. Sorry for your loss though. God will vindicate you or get a lawyer so that u can get something
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by studM(m): 11:31pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry



How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?



Join us beloved this Sunday our Covenant Family Service at Faith tabernacle canaanland and ur life will never remain the same again smiley
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Abagworo(m): 11:32pm On Jun 28, 2017
One year is too short a time for any man to make moves of break up. It is either he is under negative influence or you are not being sincere. Is there any proven medical condition that minimized your chances of taking in which he is aware of?

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by veraiyke(m): 11:36pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
yes u can and no way has God forsaken you. Go to Him at all times. Keep going to Him. Keep ya heart in no trouble. He will come to ya aid even if it takes longer. As for ya husband pray for him and keep praying for him since you obviously love him and want to stay and build ya home. No matter what he does, speak to you show him love and to keep expressing ya love for him. Be patient. I guess its sounds foolish but that's what we do to save the things we love and be with the people we want in our life. God will do it for you. But if you by any chance can't bear it and he's bent on throwing you out just after a year or two or even three my dear go on to ya father's house or sister or brother you can live with. God is ya refuge. Hold tight to him nd you will smile d best. Howevern did you do anything to hinder your chances of getting pregnant with someone else or with ya husband. Not xpecting u to gv an answer here. Just think about it though
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by jiorhemen(m): 11:37pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

He'll soon come back begging after his eyes have 'opened'
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Christane: 11:38pm On Jun 28, 2017
nobody prays for delay ..bt God z stil on d throne
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by sshalom(m): 11:38pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

I pray for comfort, strength and grace for you. GOD Himself will manifest and turn your mourning into joy. Your ashes will be turned to beauty right before your very eyes in Jesus matchless Name!

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by francisbiz: 11:40pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
This is where you should know that only you know how you feel. Pain, shame, rejection, disappointment, sorrow, betrayal, we can go on.
Less than two years, people have been betrayed after potentially suicidal period.

If God has abandoned you, you would have been dead. Maybe you are the one who abandoned God.
Go back to God, he will dry your tears and give you a husband that is truly yours.

My friend live with his wife for years without a child, he went back to God and around the 6th year he started having children.

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