Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

end it all coz of a manthats the dumbest thing iv heard in a while.so what if he is the one who is infertile?part ways and let him be...life goes on and in a years time you will wonder what you were thinking trying to kill urself coz of him.

celebgistsng:

Seriously are you OK?

did you read to the end? the person you quoted seemed harsh but read to the end. you have to admit it is fvcking annoying she is considering suicide because of one goat.

Never end your life because of this. God doesn't forsake anyone. I know of a husband who took another wife in order to have kids, only to face the same waiting. He then, went back to his first love. So don't give up if you are sincere and never contributed to delay in child bearing

God is ever faithfully. We spent close to two years in our marriage before we had our first child.
The problem can be from him, or you.
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Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

My dear first of all visit a fertility clinic with your husband to be sure of what the problem is, if nothing is wrong and he still insist on leaving then let him go, it is not the end of the world, talk to your family and close friends let them be your backbone at this trying period. Noone is responsible for your happiness but only you. And don't forget to cry to God in prayers, he will send someone that will love and appreciate u and also give you the fruit of the womb. Your fate doesn't lie in the hands of ur husband..To answer your question, yes u must surely pull through. Be strong and courageous.

GossipHeart:


God ??

You mean the same God that allows his beloved children to die of cancer ??

God can't forsake his people ?? What happened to his people all over the world dying of hunger and diseases ??

God doesn't exist

Wake up my little brain friend

. Human being na wa o. You might not believe in his existence but he does. Don't ask me why he allows bad things to happen because if I give you the answers, you will still argue cos the gods of this world has blinded you. You don't even see in the gods of this world.
Do you even believe in your own existence?
If you do, then, God exists. Don't quote me.

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Let's make babies honey

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Understanding and prayer matters. On Sunday the 25th, after 9years of marriage my uncle just gave birth. Twins both boys. It's not about what youve done. Times likes these Character matters a whole lot.But to think God has forgotten you is only an act of ingratitude.

My advice
Now go to this places in order of the number I'll list here
Synagogue of all nations
Redeem Christian church of God
Chosen charismatic rivaval ministry
Mountain of fire
Winners chapel
If you don't conceiveafter going to all the places well.....

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Madam, was your marriage contracted legally or both of you merely cohabited? If legally married, has he filed for divorce? If no, you are still his wife. Just bear that in mind. Pray harder, call your families to settle into it and your spiritual fathers (pastor or imam) too. Again, dont fail to ask God to intervene. If is God's will for both of you to remain as husband and wife or otherwise, God will settle it for you. Who knows, God might just have a better option for you in another man, where you will have children of your dream.

Just a year plus, that man is a Sissy.. I don't even know what to say.

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

God has not forsaken you.call upon him and tell him what you want..

what is love

"LOVE IS A SINGLE SPIRIT DWELLING IN TWO BODIES"...........Aristotle.

austinosita:


Do not generalize bros.

I am a man, and I am not wicked! I can never and will never throw my wife out or abandon her cos she couldn't conceive.

Am a man too and it took my marriage 3yrs and 4months to get my first born. I believe the guy in question doesn't love u like u think. Just repackaged yourself and enjoy life to the fullest.

Just one year, and he is gone? My sister I advice u to start praising God for His timely intervention. It is clear that God used this delay in child birth (I don't care to know whose fault it is) to deliver you from an undesirable element. Cheer up sis, quote me, once you meet with the real bone of your bone, you will be the one taking contraceptives.

Just let God have His way and you will laugh at last.

torres89:
am a man but
men are wicked......

First and foremost, your first sentence should read, I am a man. Secondly, not all men are wicked...One love#

Op your story is not complete oo.

YesNo:
You say u want to end your life. cos another human being couldn't honour his vows and he walked out on you.

From all you wrote, you seem pained because you INVESTED A LOT into the marriage and you DID A LOT for him. there's no where you mentioned that you love him or even anything about love.

still want to kill yourself? wanna end it?

Red or Blue pill?

your choice.

Expecting this long ago!!!

That's my problem with most ladies. When things went wrong they tend to show how gullible and unrealistic they are!!!! Imaging her saying she invested so much in d marriage of one year!!!

Fond of saying i do this and that for him oooo ...Nonsense



Mitchewww

austinosita:


Do not generalize bros.

I am a man, and I am not wicked! I can never and will never throw my wife out or abandon her cos she couldn't conceive.

see lie

torres89:
am a man but

men are wicked......

i thought it was menarescum

seems ur the one that paid your bride price but is not the end my sister.. God will see you true take heart ooo.

Dreamscometru take it easy, trust God, focus only HIM, dnt take your life, life is so beautiful

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

dear poster bear one thing in mind
he's not your husband. Cus ur true missing rib will stick with you through thick n thin.....

move on. it will be very difficult, it will feel like the whole world is coming down on you but God will bless you

Seek the grace of God and divine interventions,, Nothing is ordinary these days..just a year?






Think positive and be strong too

"My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus."

-- No break up in marriage. Just have to keep trying and explore all medical means since he didn't go with IVF try others, meet a medical expert as regards that.

"This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated."

-- Love is sacrificial, don't hold on to that, rather keep doing more to his amazement, infact do more now

"God has really forsaken me... cry cry"

-- Dts not true!!! He said those whose eye on mount Zion cannot be shaken, also said those who look up to him can never be put to shame, so brave up and keep holding unto him, he wud come to your aid.

"How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused."
-- You can't ma, u tied to him forever.

"It is not going to be easy for me"

-- God wud see you through be more prayerful ma

" because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me"

-- Ma it isnt a business venture its love venture

".I am at the receiving end."
-- Could also av been the other way round, and him praying for you.

"Will I be able to pull through this?"
-- Yes, God helping.

God bless.

My sister God will answer ur prayers, don't let this weigh you down, be strong.

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

helpee:
For you guys to be thinking of IVF after only one year could mean only one thing.....your two tubes are irredeemably lost. Maybe you had an ectopic pregnancy they removed one tube and the other is blocked. Otherwise most people don't just start talking of IVF after one year. I've seen it all. A lady had her two tubes removed while single and refused to tell the rich guy. She was pressing me to tell the guy they would need IVF after 6months of marriage. When the husband discovered the tubes were gone the lady called me saying i betrayed her trust by telling her husband. God is my witness I can never do that as a doctor. I dont know how the man got to know. Long story short the man broke up immediately. Spectators will be blaming the man without knowing what happens. Bottomline....OP is just playing on our emotions. Tell us why you want him to raise money for IVF after only one year of marriage

good observation.

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Bible says, God can never allow a temptation that is more than us to come on us, for this to happen to you, God already know you can pull through so don't let the devil deceive you. God will make a way for you amen

austinosita:
Dry your tears woman. That man does not love you. He has forgotten his vows: for better, for worse! He has not even started facing the real worse and he has already chickened out!

Love is patient. Love endures!

Don't beg him. Talk to God in prayers. No be you be God wey dey make pikin!

Better still, try and make him go to the hospital with you. Both of you should do a fertility test. He should do a sperm test, so you guys can ascertain the real prob.

If there's no issue after the tests, then just pray!

No beg am! Let him go if he wants! He does not love you at all! You will find a better person!



#whereisthelove?

Where is the love indeed? It was never there to start with

YesNo:
You say u want to end your life. cos another human being couldn't honour his vows and he walked out on you.

From all you wrote, you seem pained because you INVESTED A LOT into the marriage and you DID A LOT for him. there's no where you mentioned that you love him or even anything about love.

still want to kill yourself? wanna end it?

Red or Blue pill?

your choice.

Do you think she would invest her emotions, time, money etc in a man if she doesn't love him? She loves him more than her life.
Put on your thinking cap baba

Myde4naija:
see lie

Speak for yourself!