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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by bigerboy200: 4:11pm On Jul 02, 2017
BabaCommander:
You are too old for her. Pls leavr her for her mates.
For her mates to sample?

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by BoboKush(m): 4:12pm On Jul 02, 2017
I dedicate this plot... To smoker on nairaland

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Benekruku(m): 4:12pm On Jul 02, 2017
Send me her contact details!

Let me help u interrogate her to know if she will change!

Will do for you free of charge!

My little way of helping

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tabisegroup(m): 4:12pm On Jul 02, 2017
ItalianWine:
To groom a lady into a woman you desire is a skill a few men know.


Think about it. There you will find your answer.
U are BLESSED!

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Quinn22(f): 4:12pm On Jul 02, 2017
Op why do I have the feeling you are talking about my life sad

Just go with your heart ❤️ smiley

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ItalianWine(f): 4:12pm On Jul 02, 2017
DejiJ:


Can I pour you in my wine glass?

Do you ice in your wine glass? cheesy

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ItalianWine(f): 4:14pm On Jul 02, 2017
tabisegroup:

U are BLESSED!

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tabisegroup(m): 4:14pm On Jul 02, 2017
TheLastIdiot:
Many Naija babes below 25 years never still get fully developed brain.grin Na wen babe reach 25 she go knw say life no be Aladin and the princess story! grin
Haaahha grin grin cheesy
Aladin indeed! Wat ever she commands must come to pass grin

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Aniedi30(m): 4:16pm On Jul 02, 2017
mine is 18, dont be afraid never hurt her because if u do i swear u Will Hate thé play-back... but the truth is that u have to behave as if u guys are Age mate Dont try to boss her give her freedom.. make her know that her future is bright with u and dont forget to force her in doing thé things of God.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by preccy69(f): 4:16pm On Jul 02, 2017
ikp120:
That's if she doesn't have at least 3 boyfriends already. grin grin grin grin

Bro leave that girl alone. I sense you're a very serious human being. 11 out of 12 of them are not ready for real life.

Only date her if she loves you like crazy.
12 out 12 of u r so heartless nd unserious

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by yeyeboi(m): 4:16pm On Jul 02, 2017
Ok

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tabisegroup(m): 4:18pm On Jul 02, 2017
ItalianWine:


I prophesy..u shall locate ur God given man soon..
Even If he's d one dat is releasing d prophesy..no challenge cheesy kiss



Seriously bae..ur comment on d post made brain

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ivolt: 4:20pm On Jul 02, 2017
Very few under-26 ladies understand what they want
except where the culture dictates otherwise.

Just study her to know how she thinks, you can then
decide if she is mature or not.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by AreaFada2: 4:21pm On Jul 02, 2017
Guy, nobody on NL has the answer.

It can go either way. But remain positive.

Find out what she wants. She might want to do HND before considering marriage. Her parents may tell her not to marry yet.

Even if she says she does not want to further, her parents can collect application for her suddenly. And she cannot refuse. Yours truly experienced that before.

Can you wait?

The key is understanding where she sees her self now in the journey of life relative to yours.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 4:21pm On Jul 02, 2017
Marry her if you think she is right for you.But remember human beings are dynamic in nature and can change.If she eventually changes,you have to let it go and break off the marriage, if she still continue being the woman you presently believe her of being thats your luck.Life sometimes is a gamble.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tabisegroup(m): 4:22pm On Jul 02, 2017
sukkot:
bro, one thing that is constant in life is change. yes she will change and desire other men. question is does she have the fear of God to restrict that urge

and the age difference is not much. buhari has been with his wife for over 30 years and he is 30 years older than her
I don't believe tins about Buhari again so stop using him for good examples grin

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by sukkot: 4:23pm On Jul 02, 2017
tabisegroup:

I don't believe tins about Buhari again so stop using him for good examples grin
hehehe u no well ooo

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by realceeg(m): 4:23pm On Jul 02, 2017
Most girls of that age are only interested in exploring and flexing .they are not into one man relationship ..#frm experience

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by GeoOla25(m): 4:23pm On Jul 02, 2017
matured Lady age 36 fall on you..

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Slimydude49(m): 4:24pm On Jul 02, 2017
Many Girls in that stage of their life are in their hoe phase.. They collect from every Tom dick and Harry on little show of love or physical attraction..

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ceejay80s(m): 4:25pm On Jul 02, 2017
teamsynergy:
I prefer ladies above 25.... they are usually more level headed, considerate, calculative, know what they want, more open , less trouble and drama

the only ish is the marriage pressure...still I prefer them.. they r not usually as jealous...
from ma own experience ni ooooo no generalization

do u know why they don't get jealous ?
they believe other guys will come,
the ones wey don dey pass menopause is ready to break that other girls head because she know say her time don dey pass

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ItalianWine(f): 4:26pm On Jul 02, 2017
DejiJ:


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grin

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by leokennedi(m): 4:26pm On Jul 02, 2017
This is almost the same scenario as planting 3 or 4 seeds of maize, in turn, harvesting cobs of maize. If you do sincerely love her bro groom and nurture her, you both will appreciate it more when she's a woman.

Great oaks from little acorns grow.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 4:28pm On Jul 02, 2017
pocohantas:
People change because they want to change and some don't have the right guidance. Not just because they are getting older.

The thing you should have in mind is, contrary to what you read on NL, not every young girl in her early twenties is very enthusiastic about getting married at that age. Lots of them acshuali want to explore and experience life...this isn't always sexual. So, what you should do is carefully observe her and find out her type of girl.

Use your senses in the relationship. Don't overdo...
Don't go footing all her expenses in the name of love.

Most importantly, long relationships is totally unnecessary most times. That's what leads to lots of issues. Most ladies left their first love because they were most times of the same age and marriage didn't seem to be in the picture. If you observe her and she is perfect, marry her as soon as it's convenient for you both. No need fukceen each other for 6years and counting in the name of relationship.

Ignore people that will tell you to leave her alone, they are the same people that will tell you not to go for an older one because she will most likely have high bodycount. One would wonder what they want

Na wa o!
Judging from the prowess you exhibited in responding to this post, you don get Masters in Relationship Matters cool.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jul 02, 2017
If u are ready for marriage ? And ready to scoop the bills surrounding wedding ceremonies and all, although her parents too will also assist likewise yours ?
Then go ahead and marry her

Its better to court for a short period of time and get married , than court for so many years and stil expect her to be the same .. Kolewerk like that.

At that age ? If she truly loves u? She will abide to everything u say cheesy
And if u marry her ? U can groom her to yur taste with care ,love and attention.

When I was 20years ? I wanted to get married and I was almost done from Uni. I had this impression of bn full housewife grin
Lol
But as destiny would have its upper hand . I got mixed up with a guy ,whose parents felt I was a gold digger , the guy sef no help matter . and he was like 34 then, and I was 21. Mehn those people frustrate my life sha! grin

I had to call it quits by running before two months to wedding day.

U can me everytime am a gold digger and u still bent on marrying me. Won't u call the guy a sadist? So i had to free myself and run away. Then focus squarely on making it .! So u can see the difference .

So op be kind ,protect her and love her sincerely , then marry her on time .
She will always be that ideal homely wife smiley

Best of luck ! smiley

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by DonFreshmoney(m): 4:29pm On Jul 02, 2017
OP.. below 21 years na child abuse in this ogbodoibo called Nigeria.. I advice you to leave that child. Go for someon 23-26. So yo wan dey bang fresh meat. Chaaaaiiii

Thank me later

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by mecussey(m): 4:30pm On Jul 02, 2017
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is 20 years old.
Been with her since she was 17 and I can tell that though people can change but that doesn't mean if you assess her with an open mind (no love sentiment).
You will be able to at least forecast ahead the worst she is capable of becoming in the future. If you think you can cope with the result. Go for it.
Regardless whether you are getting married to a girl of 20,30,40years. Marriage is all about hoping for the best and expecting the worse.

Typed this in a hurry.
Hope I made sense?

Yes...u made sense. A man should be able to forcast a woman, but if your prediction fails then leave with it. Married an early 20 bae, and 4yrs down, my prediction looks accurate.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by austyn0(m): 4:31pm On Jul 02, 2017
You made mention of her lovely acts and nice personality, it simply means you are in possession of a treasure(that's if she is not pretending),, the truth is, the ball is in your court, that she remains this way is up to you.

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ItalianWine(f): 4:32pm On Jul 02, 2017
tabisegroup:

I prophesy..u shall locate ur God given man soon..
Even If he's d one dat is releasing d prophesy..no challenge cheesy kiss



Seriously bae..ur comment on d post made brain

never give up on ur dreams ...no matter how seemingly impossible dey appear to be!!! grin grin

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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by freedomland: 4:32pm On Jul 02, 2017
sukkot:
bro, one thing that is constant in life is change. yes she will change and desire other men. question is does she have the fear of God to restrict that urge

and the age difference is not much. buhari has been with his wife for over 30 years and he is 30 years older than her

Hello

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