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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Augustap: I for like buy you drink but we are online, no bar. It does not apply to all ladies but to most. There is a need to sample, so they can be sure they made the right choice. Sister, the body cream you used first, is it the cream you are still using? |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Svelte98(f): 8:17pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
dumo1:Season 4 |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Samadict(f): 8:35pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Odaveboy:Lol... It was just him. My friends knew him. Some of my coursemates did too. It wasn't easy for both at first but it was worth it. His school was not too far from mine (2 hours drive) so we were not too far from each other. Communication was on top gear. Both can make it happen IF they truly want it. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by davo90tico(m): 8:37pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju:yes met mine while she was 17 and 8 years later we still together |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by jordinsparkles(f): 8:47pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
I'm 20 and I'm also dating a 28 years old guy. .. 4 years now, by the grace of God we've been waxing stronger even though there have been challenging times! See it all depends on you both, what do you guys really want? As for me and my fiance, marriage is knocking! 5 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Hectorsam(m): 8:59pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Yes I dated a girl of that age but as she grows older my dear things change from good to bad now we are not again but then she promise heaven and earth due to that I pay for her school fees in eksu from year one to year two but now we are bit together again |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Awafolashade(f): 9:02pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
pocohantas:Good advice |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
majority ladies @ early 20s most probably are still dream chasers... marriage may not yet be on her priority list... They may appear somewhat mature but u can never fail to observe the fact that atoms of Adventure, youthful enthusiasm, naivety, inexperience and insensitivity might be a massive hurdle.... in summary, if u are ready and u are sure that she is too, don't frolick around with her for too long... just do the needful 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Hasino2258: 9:18pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Svelte98:team#tasha |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Augustap(f): 9:45pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Secretario:What if i tell you that i even forget to use it at times? Listen, i don't know abt other ladies, but the exploration i long for is acquiring more than enof knowledge, travelling, listening to interesting new songs, eating new and palatable dishes, getting the job of my dream, reading interesting books, becoming successful to repay all those who helped me and help others that need help, get married and raise a wonderful family. And guess what, i want to do this with my one and only true love, he's my first and he's gonna be my last. I don't have time to come and be having connections with everyone in the name of relationship or "exploration". Am neither WIFI nor GLO 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by fynex(m): 10:03pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju: KANU the baller is older that his wife with about ten years,she was about 20when she got married to him, I have seen lots of couples with a lot age difference. Its about the two of you,if she's fine with it and your OK with it go ahead,but from the way I see it,you might be the one having issues with the age difference.... I have seen ladies date guys with that age difference or more and these guys tend to treat these girls like their baby sister,they try to stamp that authority thing that says am far older than you so you must do whatever I want....that's very wrong... Sir be able to define what you want,talk with her and get what or how she sees it before you jump into wanting to date her |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by mekuso89(m): 10:28pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
NL always thinking y'all got solution for poo like this |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by clemmonce(m): 10:57pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju:Bros I am exactly on the same situations as you. I am the same age as you, she is around the age too.. she is an ond holder too but she wants to further her education...so I also skeptical about it... I really want to marry the girl but... what you post about is my worry... |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by CaptainFM1: 11:14pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Following some of the thread, I must say the issue you raised is a very sensitive one and there are no fixed sure-bet way to addressing such. In my opinion, I would offer you the following advice; 1. Pray about it. Let God direct you. 2. Start as a friend with her. And I mean just a friend. That's how you can predict the end from the beginning. 3. If you are a good friend and you are influencing her positively, it will be noticed in every facet of her life, and if otherwise, it will also be seen. Note: Been good does not necessarily mean spending or taking up all her expenses. 4. Don't be overly chasing her. Give her her freedom once you have some level of trust in her. 5. Know her mum. Let her mum know you very briefly as just a friend/acquaintance. If she hasn't been seeing her with male friends, let your visiting her mum be very sparingly. 6. Back to number 3, If you've been a very positive influence on her, her mum will sniff that out, and she will ask of you once in a while. (Avoid her Dad 4 now, especially if he wants her to finish Uni b4 anything else). 7. Now, depending on her exposure, how long u can wait, level of communication between u two, your readiness, the circuit of friends she has and many more factors to consider...Once you both are satisfied with them all, you can take the relationship one level up. Please note, you are not the only one that will be worried..., She will also act some of the above script. She will equally be worried and contemplate marrying someone 10years older. Bonus: 1. You will have to be patient and endure with her. 2. She will need to get exposed, and that is always the major concern. You don't have to worry about that...Let her fly, but be there to advice and guide her. 3. Do not lean on your own understanding. Pray 4 God guidance. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Adbiz(m): 12:31am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Young man, try and check out her relationship with God and corelate it with her social life. Though change, they say is constant but you can as well get something from there. Age actually has nothing to do with a girl's level of maturity.. Sometimes the so called grown up say 25+ are the most dangerous ones.. You just study her and follow your instinct. |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by kilokeys(m): 1:09am On Jul 03, 2017 |
livinbygrace: And who told u marriage comes without risks of promiscuity?.. Is there any special padlock they give married pple?.. Pesin wey go explore go explore. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 2:32am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Svelte98: Wow, I will really like to know you. At this age, you are filled with wisdom, were are your kind, we don't get to see them or meet them 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Nobody: 3:31am On Jul 03, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Wow!! 20+ years!!! How were you guys able to bridge the age gap thingy? 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by YelloweWest: 6:00am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Chi59:Honestly there's no gap to bridge... I don't even notice it. W3 both love and respect each other. No secrets and there's trust. It's a good marriage. I wouldn't jeopardise it for anything. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by hopebacy(m): 6:19am On Jul 03, 2017 |
bro there's no need to fear, first thing first. Love nd cherish her like she's d only woman in d world, let her knw ur intentions toward d relationship, dnt choke her, but also remember to b her guardian.. Then finally if possible, start knowing her family members dat will be a plus for u. |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by alexarelano(m): 8:24am On Jul 03, 2017 |
OP, no 4get to com-an update us when ur bae misbehave ooo 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Odaveboy(m): 8:42am On Jul 03, 2017 |
jordinsparkles: lol.... you pics don't look 20 ma'am.... 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tosyne2much(m): 9:02am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Slimydude49:Your comments sometimes make me laugh sha
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by jordinsparkles(f): 9:11am On Jul 03, 2017 |
Odaveboy:don't be deceived, I am... 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by kripen(m): 9:21am On Jul 03, 2017 |
josju: nothing to o be afraid of I was 35 when I was dating my wife of 22 and later got married to her after courting for 2yrs, she is God gift to me. Though she has OND but if everything is soft by God's grace she will go back to finish her Bsc. If she is ready to settle down with you no problem, as well as you are well able financially and mature in mind, one thing I know as she is still young you can easily bend her to your taste. Best of luck. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by TeejayMaya(m): 1:53pm On Jul 03, 2017 |
Going tru same as well and highly optimistic... Met her here and she is just so amazing josju: |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by mistermaster: 6:43pm On Jul 03, 2017 |
josju: bro nothing do you it's left to you to study her well and know the type of girl she is....people change tho, I'm 26 and dating a girl of 17.....her parents know me and my parents know her too..I deflowered her and we cool like that.....tired of all this so called matured girls and how demanding they can be, so I took her at a very young age we will grow together....Good and loyal girls are hard to find 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by grandlexuz(m): 8:36pm On Jul 03, 2017 |
dumo1: Season Malt..Lol |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by grandlexuz(m): 8:37pm On Jul 03, 2017 |
mistermaster: Bros Seventeen na under age oh..Lol Do I need to petition the Police or confess that I met my wife at same age and she is now 29..Lol |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by DonMekino(m): 9:52pm On Jul 03, 2017 |
The way some ppl stereotype women these days amazes me... If u hv encountered the wayward ones below 25 doesn't make the rest bad. Some of our mothers and grandmum married below 20 and lived well with there decisions... OP... It's neither here nor there... Her family background matters also... Some girls are well taught from good homes garnished with good characters... If this is wat u hv found, nurture her and always let her know dat u want to be part of her bright future, 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by nadalion: 10:34pm On Jul 03, 2017 |
eeeeehm, am bookmarking this page so i can show Bea when she returns. |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by chronique(m): 9:42pm On Jul 04, 2017 |
josju: Well, human beings are different but most girls that age, are interested in exploring, and really don't know what they want. Most of them are "everybody's toy". Just observe her very much but if you have an option of dating someone much older, I'd ask that you go with the older one. |
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