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BabaCommander:
You are too old for her. Pls leavr her for her mates.

ItalianWine:
To groom a lady into a woman you desire is a skill a few men know.


Think about it. There you will find your answer.

DejiJ:
Can I pour you in my wine glass?

tabisegroup:
U are BLESSED!

TheLastIdiot:
Many Naija babes below 25 years never still get fully developed brain. Na wen babe reach 25 she go knw say life no be Aladin and the princess story!

ikp120:
That's if she doesn't have at least 3 boyfriends already.

Bro leave that girl alone. I sense you're a very serious human being. 11 out of 12 of them are not ready for real life.

Only date her if she loves you like crazy.

sukkot:
bro, one thing that is constant in life is change. yes she will change and desire other men. question is does she have the fear of God to restrict that urge

and the age difference is not much. buhari has been with his wife for over 30 years and he is 30 years older than her

tabisegroup:
I don't believe tins about Buhari again so stop using him for good examples

teamsynergy:
I prefer ladies above 25.... they are usually more level headed, considerate, calculative, know what they want, more open , less trouble and drama

the only ish is the marriage pressure...still I prefer them.. they r not usually as jealous...
from ma own experience ni ooooo no generalization

DejiJ:
Pleased to add ice, if ice tickles your fancy and titillates your taste buds.......

pocohantas:
People change because they want to change and some don't have the right guidance. Not just because they are getting older.

The thing you should have in mind is, contrary to what you read on NL, not every young girl in her early twenties is very enthusiastic about getting married at that age. Lots of them acshuali want to explore and experience life...this isn't always sexual. So, what you should do is carefully observe her and find out her type of girl.

Use your senses in the relationship. Don't overdo...
Don't go footing all her expenses in the name of love.

Most importantly, long relationships is totally unnecessary most times. That's what leads to lots of issues. Most ladies left their first love because they were most times of the same age and marriage didn't seem to be in the picture. If you observe her and she is perfect, marry her as soon as it's convenient for you both. No need fukceen each other for 6years and counting in the name of relationship.

Ignore people that will tell you to leave her alone, they are the same people that will tell you not to go for an older one because she will most likely have high bodycount. One would wonder what they want

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend is 20 years old.
Been with her since she was 17 and I can tell that though people can change but that doesn't mean if you assess her with an open mind (no love sentiment).
You will be able to at least forecast ahead the worst she is capable of becoming in the future. If you think you can cope with the result. Go for it.
Regardless whether you are getting married to a girl of 20,30,40years. Marriage is all about hoping for the best and expecting the worse.

Typed this in a hurry.
Hope I made sense?

tabisegroup:
I prophesy..u shall locate ur God given man soon..
Even If he's d one dat is releasing d prophesy..no challenge



Seriously bae..ur comment on d post made brain

sukkot:
bro, one thing that is constant in life is change. yes she will change and desire other men. question is does she have the fear of God to restrict that urge

and the age difference is not much. buhari has been with his wife for over 30 years and he is 30 years older than her