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CapitalCee:
Can you just stop it. Stop it, what do you mean he doesn't expect he Shouldn't expect her to have his back forever? Is it not what marriage is all about? The way you ladies talk sometimes baffles me, is it his fault that he lost his job? What do you mean it's his responsibility? so it's not her responsibility to pay for the house rent of where she is living, it's not her responsibility to feed her child, it's not her responsibility to pay for the food stuffs of the food she and her child and husband consume, it's not her responsibility to pay for the utility bill of the apartment she occupies, just because she is married. Let me tell you it's NOT the man's responsibility to foot all the family bills. The money she is earning is not her own, it belongs to the family. So the man should die because he married an a5shole of a wife? No wonder when so men die due to family stress their stupid wife put them into, the man's family members will say the wife killed him, will you blame them?

maasoap:
Two years! And doing nothing? I married in 2011, only worked with my certificates for just six months before termination of appointment. It has been hustling for almost 5 years. One can't just sit down and be expecting white collar job by fire by force.

FortuneTeller:
Lose your job after marriage and trust me, she will flee after a point.

SUPERPACK:
rent a piece of land and go into farming, stop wasting your time at home searching for job,

bayulll011:
madam u ain't sensible here with what you post and those gibberish you wrote down there all an saying is women av this entitle mentality always claims sympathy that why I don't judge men that treat them anyhow cos they are silly being

DukeNija:
I will tell you something. I was jobless for over a year in 2014 (15mnths). She stayed, supported me and i was a happy man. Now, i have a fantastic job and thriving businesses and im even happier. True story.

Not all women are like you.

Fabulocity:
Women are ENTITLED to certain things in her marriage, to be taken care of and provided for. You call that entitlement mentality? So she's supposed to solely cater for her husband and family abi? Wanting Her rights is now what you refer to as "entitlement mentality?" Okay.

dejt4u:
pls reply to the PM I sent to you

Fabulocity:
Women are ENTITLED to certain things in her marriage, to be taken care of and provided for. You call that entitlement mentality? So she's supposed to solely cater for her husband and family abi? Wanting Her rights is now what you refer to as "entitlement mentality?" Okay.

praxisnetworks:
Will you shut up! Enjoy gender equality

FortuneTeller:
Amen! May God bless you for telling him the truth.

discman2k2:
God bless you IMMENSELY for this beautiful piece of PRICELESS advice. I wonder how many people understand the profitability of farming in this period of our national life.
I always beg & advice people not to look for any job, that may tie their destinies down. There's a saying that if you refused to use your destiny someone will pay you for your destiny.

May you become great, in Jesus name.

Fabulocity:
Women are ENTITLED to certain things in her marriage, to be taken care of and provided for. You call that entitlement mentality? So she's supposed to solely cater for her husband and family abi? Wanting Her rights is now what you refer to as "entitlement mentality?" Okay.

DukeNija:
I will tell you something. I was jobless for over a year in 2014 (15mnths) although i wasnt idle. She stayed, supported me and i was a happy man. Now, i have a fantastic job and thriving businesses and im even happier. True story.

Not all women are like you.

cooldood:
Op, your wife is simply displaying the trait that EVERY WOMAN possess,which in simple terms- NO WOMAN is wired to fend for the family. Different women with different tolerance levels (some can tolerate this scenario for some years, some some months, while others its few weeks, if not days), what you are seeing playing out is that your wife has simply reached her own breaking point/ tolerance level and she cant take it no more. This is why I always say that women and men are different beings, they act differently, think differently, and can NEVER BE EQUAL.

Any man that comes here to boast of his wife is this or that or different, my response to you is simple: put this op's scenario to test, and see how long your so called 'special wife/ woman' will continue to respect you. You will be shocked what reactions you'd get from her.

Back to the op, the solution is CERTAINLY NOT to fight your woman, cos she is displaying what every other lady will also display (cos its not like as if you start dating another woman, and remarry another woman and this same scenario plays out, its not like another woman will stay with you, no, she wont once she reaches her breaking point, which your wife has clearly reached).

Women are not wired to be giving or committing funds in any relationship for a very long time, its not in their nature, so oga, quickly try to double your hustle so you can start earning some income to resume your duty as the 'man of the house', which your wife is tired of playing for you. Why not convert your car to e-taxi business (Uber/ Taxify), that way, small income comes in, while you look for other streams of income before you get another good paying job. This way, you will be shocked how your 'nagging or insulting wife' will quickly change back to normalcy and resume her loving, sweet wife that you used to know.

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT EQUAL, THEY ARE WIRED DIFFERENTLY AND RESPOND TO MATTERS DIRFFENTLY. DONT CRUCIFY YOUR WIFE.

askibee:
truly am not surprised at your mention its simply because one you are not married,two ur mindset has not really being expose to such truth......your opinion is well noted even dough its harshly expressed. I won't pray such thing to betide you,but seek for knowledge and see if my comment truly is stupid.

DukeNija:
I will tell you something. I was jobless for over a year in 2014 (15mnths) although i wasnt idle. She stayed, supported me and i was a happy man. Now, i have a fantastic job and thriving businesses and im even happier. True story.

Not all women are like you.

Martinez19:
Cerebral is an adjective. You are just as smart as your english. Nothing will ever substitute love not even a wicked world.

kaziblake:
long story dear

Fabulocity:
Just look at you! Lazy thing! Continue to use gender equality to drown in your idleness as if you don't know it can never work in this part of the world. Iranu!

bayulll011:
is either you are slow or u just want to be unreasonable we are talking of someone that was catered for more than 2yrs here she did nothing during these period she was well catered for and just cos the man lost his job the unfortunate accused woman throwing tantrum and writing all what she paid for,what's the meaning of marriage then if she can't stand by the man during hard times I just hate unfortunate women that reasons with their anus and not responsible and you are one in the making

donodion:
You just posted my thought..Op brace up...guys like us have been there done that. One of the best moment to test your spouse's endurance and loyalty is when you are down and lacking.
Right now your madam expect you to be cook,cleaner, houseboy, yes-maam-husband, the type when ask a simple question that would respond " wait let me consult with my wife first"....but guess what? so long you are not lazy,be ready to pay some prices..e.g take up offers that could take you away from your comfort zone, you will bounce back...believe me!.

Then your marriage arrangement will have a more adjusted pattern.Cos without money flowing from you, to her, you are worthless.

TinaAnita:
Nice submission, you nailed it.
No woman on planet earth would assume the responsibility of a man and things would remain the same. Any woman criticising the wife of the complainant is just deceiving herself. Those saying she doesn't love him have lost touch with reality. How do you expect a woman who is stressed out, frustrated, worn out and unhappy for obvious reasons to pamper her husband in the name of love? Dreamers keep dreaming!

BiafraBushBoy:
You still with my number?

You can send me a message. or should I type out mine for you?

Martinez19:
marriage is for better for worse. If one is not willing to suffer with there spouse, they should not marry. Gosh, what kind of world is this? I am sure you go church. I wonder the look on Jesus's face over your comment. You no very better person.

Dinner is served, take it

bayulll011:
is either you are slow or u just want to be unreasonable we are talking of someone that was catered for more than 2yrs here she did nothing during these period she was well catered for and just cos the man lost his job the unfortunate accused woman throwing tantrum and writing all what she paid for,what's the meaning of marriage then if she can't stand by the man during hard times I just hate unfortunate women that reasons with their anus and not responsible and you are one in the making