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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 10:55pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
Have fun!, but excess of anything is bad. grin
Thanks baby wink wink You're way better than that Tahrah wey dey think say I be bad boy.

To kiss you dey hungry me sha. But make I bone before these girls see the real me. angry angry

You still never reply my PM. angry angry
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:56pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
I must be insane to ask a guy out. I'd rather die with the feelings 'cause the moment you make that mistake you'll live to regret it.

But then again, you will pass on the opportunity to date a great person?!
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by TSOM(m): 10:56pm On Jul 06, 2017
elantraceey:
Ask a guy out ke?? It's not like it's impossible but guys are too well known for misusing such opportunities.
Women do not ask random guys out. Mostly guys they are acquainted with 'cause they have an insight into the strenght of his character. It happens every time.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by tosyne2much(m): 10:57pm On Jul 06, 2017
Ghosttt:


Ur signature touch me. I dy go put dp nw
So na because of bashing you no put am before? cheesy
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 10:58pm On Jul 06, 2017
Tahrah:
Na dat vex me want angry angry.No,offer is closed.tongue grin

If I vex for you eh, hmmm angry angry
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 06, 2017
ikp120:
Thanks baby wink wink You're way better than that Tahrah wey dey think say I be bad boy.

To kiss you dey hungry me sha. But make I bone before these girls see the real me. angry angry

You still never reply my PM. angry angry
I'm still processing your pm, we're currently experiencing a network failure, do bear with us!. grin

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 06, 2017
ikp120:
Thanks baby wink wink You're way better than that Tahrah wey dey think say I be bad boy.

To kiss you dey hungry me sha. But make I bone before these girls see the real me. angry angry

You still never reply my PM. angry angry
angry angry Kini ishoro e?
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by tosyne2much(m): 11:02pm On Jul 06, 2017
Jennygiveme:
And why should i ask a guy out? It Seems strange to me.
Dem don start again ooo cheesy

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jul 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


But then again, you will pass on the opportunity to date a great person?!
The world doesn't evolve around a person, so why should I care?.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Ghosttt(m): 11:03pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
Answer this simple question. grin As a man; will you take pride in a lion when it's delivered to your doorsteps dead or alive or will you rather take pride in hunting and either taking it home dead or alive?.

Off course u will pride ursef with the one u hunted.
Bt let's nt get it twisted here. Dere is no rule or law that states guys must always do the asking out. To my understanding I believe the 1st person that felt the spark should go ahead and ask out the other. Be it guy or lady. My advice is if a lady is gonna do the asking out she should take her time to study the guy so as she does nt get a NO for an answer and even if she gets a no, the guy should be man enough nt to go around running his mouth.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by zakir007(m): 11:03pm On Jul 06, 2017
sometimes they react aggressively if you say no
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 11:04pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
I'm still processing your pm, we're currently experiencing a network failure, do bear with us!. grin
angry angry For months now. Na business proposal ni? angry angry
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 11:05pm On Jul 06, 2017
Tahrah:
angry angry Kini ishoro e?
Please wetin that one mean in English?
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 06, 2017
Ghosttt:


Off course u will pride ursef with the one u hunted.
Bt let's nt get it twisted here. Dere is no rule or law that states guys must always do the asking out. To my understanding I believe the 1st person that felt the spark should go ahead and ask out the other. Be it guy or lady. My advice is if a lady is gonna do the asking out she should take her time to study the guy so as she does nt get a NO for an answer and even if she gets a no, the guy should be man enough nt to go around running his mouth.
The embolden explains why I made my initial comment. Let's not argue over it. grin
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Ghosttt(m): 11:07pm On Jul 06, 2017
tosyne2much:
So na because of bashing you no put am before? cheesy

Nope nt at all. I just joined NL today after following for abt 5yrs

So I been 1 study the pple here bfor I put am.

Bt seriously I like ur style ooo
Playing the ugly card so as to draw attention abi!
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by VargasVee(m): 11:09pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
I must be insane to ask a guy out. I'd rather die with the feelings 'cause the moment you make that mistake you'll live to regret it.

LMAO. You'd rather die? Have you tried it once?
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by tosyne2much(m): 11:10pm On Jul 06, 2017
Ghosttt:


Nope nt at all. I just joined NL today after following for abt 5yrs

So I been 1 study the pple here bfor I put am.

Bt seriously I like ur style ooo
Playing the ugly card so as to draw attention abi!
I just catch here and nothing much bro

Anyway, welcome on board cheesy

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Ghosttt(m): 11:10pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
The embolden explains why I made my initial comment. Let's not argue over it. grin

Well u are obliged to your opinion
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:12pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
The world doesn't evolve around a person, so why should I care?.

Such a sad statement, unless you wanna date whatever dude half way there who are trying to date you... So you mean to say that if you met the most ideal guy (perfect within your views) yet he doesn't ask you out, you will let him go, and not make that move?

Kai, and here I was thinking that only men had misplaced egos
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jul 06, 2017
ikp120:
angry angry For months now. Na business proposal ni? angry angry
LMAO. I prefer the friendship we share here to the one we'll share through pm. NL friendship dey scare person this days, too many wolves in sheepskin.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jul 06, 2017
ikp120:
Please wetin that one mean in English?
Nvm
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jul 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


Such a sad statement, unless you wanna date whatever dude half way there who are trying to date you... So you mean to say that if you met the most ideal guy (perfect within your views) yet he doesn't ask you out, you will let him go, and not make that move?

Kai, and here I was thinking that only men had misplaced egos
Misplaced ego you say, if the feeling is mutual I expect that great guy to make the move, and I won't play hard to get in saying 'Yes'.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by austyn0(m): 11:16pm On Jul 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
Thinking: why would she even ask me out like that?! What's the rush?! She should at least let us get to know each other as friends... If there is chemistry.

Response:
(if she is my type) I had my eyes on you too, but relax, we are in no rush.

(If she ain't my type) thanks babe, but I am NOT in a dating state of mind at the moment.we can hang out, I think you are a great girl but i wouldn't be good for you and/or what you would expect of me. Let's have some drinks
Senior man, na this Gospel you wan preach for a probable question that demands a yes or no answer? Haba oga.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jul 06, 2017
VargasVee:


LMAO. You'd rather die? Have you tried it once?
I can't even summon the courage to try that. I'd rather seduce an ex and get him back than ask a guy out. cheesy
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 11:20pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
LMAO. I prefer the friendship we share here to the one we'll share through pm. NL friendship dey scare person this days, too many wolves in sheepskin.
I guess you're scared you will definitely fall in love with me grin grin.

Wait o, you think I'm part of the wolves in sheepskin? angry angry Naaaah, me na sheep in wolfskin o. sad sad

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by VargasVee(m): 11:20pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
I can't even summon the courage to try that. I'd rather seduce an ex and get him back than ask a guy out. cheesy

It's a flawed mentality if you ask me, I've got 2 friends, the girls asked them out. Few years now they're still going strong. It's in Africa these things are made a case out of.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 11:21pm On Jul 06, 2017
Tahrah:
Nvm
What does that mean? No vex me?
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 06, 2017
ikp120:
I guess you're scared you will definitely fall in love with me grin grin.

Wait o, you think I'm part of the wolves in sheepskin? angry angry Naaaah, me na sheep in wolfskin o. sad sad
I can't be scared of falling in love 'cause it's a wonderful experience. grin

I know you're not a wolf but I'd rather choose our friendship remains here. Haven said that, I want to go to bed, goodnight. kiss
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by austyn0(m): 11:24pm On Jul 06, 2017
Jennygiveme:
And why should i ask a guy out? It Seems strange to me.
It might seem strange to you buh not to that lady that barely sleeps at night because of that God-gifted crush of hers.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:24pm On Jul 06, 2017
austyn0:
Senior man, na this Gospel you wan preach for a probable question that demands a yes or no answer? Haba oga.

There is no such thing as a YES or NO question... Just because I can't date her, doesn't mean we cant be sociable and friends. What kind of man even answers YES or NO?

So a babe asks you out, so you say YES and stand there like a dummy with a grin on your face (as if you just passed an exam)?!
Haba!

Benita27:
Misplaced ego you say, if the feeling is mutual I expect that great guy to make the move, and I won't play hard to get in saying 'Yes'.

Sometimes you have to go for what you believe.... Maybe the dude is shy, insecure etc who knows?! But then, if it doesn't happen, and you KNOW this guy is "it", you would do absolutely nothing?! If that is the case then yes, your ego is in the way of your happiness... Such that you couldn't even be the bigger person and ask him out. Your fear of being rejected is in the way. Indeed very sad because you would be missing on so many fantastic things in life.

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by tosyne2much(m): 11:25pm On Jul 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


Such a sad statement, unless you wanna date whatever dude half way there who are trying to date you... So you mean to say that if you met the most ideal guy (perfect within your views) yet he doesn't ask you out, you will let him go, and not make that move?

Kai, and here I was thinking that only men had misplaced egos
I think that's when age and maturity come in place. You can never see a MATURED lady folding her arms or die in silence when a guy she has been fantasizing about refuses to make the first approach. These ladies know the tactics they normally use to trap men down and will still earn respect in the sight of these men. They know there's a point in their lives when they need to swallow their ego just to get what they really want. Only KIDS want to enjoy those fantasies of HE MUST TOAST ME or I rather die in silence.

So my brother, no matter how much you try to convince these ladies, they will only make you feel like you know nothing cheesy

The brings me to the conclusion that, there's a wide difference between a woman and a girl cheesy

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by teesmarth(m): 11:28pm On Jul 06, 2017
Jennygiveme:
And why should i ask a guy out? It Seems strange to me.
Nothing is strange under the clouds of this earth dear.

The world is much bigger than the way you perceive it.

The first lady that asked me out was great and beautiful.

Anyway I cant say i felt anything special about it.

Just normal.......no biggie.

I just had to give it some time before we hit it off

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