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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 06, 2017
VargasVee:


It's a flawed mentality if you ask me, I've got 2 friends, the girls asked them out. Few years now they're still going strong. It's in Africa these things are made a case out of.
If we should go by the African mentality then the guys must also have a hand in us making such decision. I'd advise you don't tell your sis to try such, whether you see it as an African mentality or Westernized one. "Had I known" will be her case.

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:31pm On Jul 06, 2017
tosyne2much:
I think that's when age and maturity come in place. You can never see a MATURED lady folding her arms or die in silence when a guy she has been fantasizing about refuses to make the first approach. These ladies know the tactics they normally use to trap men down and will still earn respect in the sight of these men. They know there's a point in their lives when they need to swallow their ego just to get what they really want. Only KIDS want to enjoy those fantasies of HE MUST TOAST ME or I rather die in silence.

So my brother, no matter how much you try to convince these ladies, they will only make you feel like you know nothing cheesy

The brings me to the conclusion that, there's a wife difference between a woman and a girl cheesy

You are absolutely right, I can actually see that now.... Toasted at all cost OR no dating.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 11:31pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
I can't be scared of falling in love 'cause it's a wonderful experience. grin

I know you're not a wolf but I'd rather choose our friendship remains here. Haven said that, I want to go to bed, goodnight. kiss
It's a wonderful experience when you are lucky, but a horrible experience when you're not so lucky.

Goodnight! To kiss you dey hungry me like seriously eh. kiss
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by hot1sauce(m): 11:31pm On Jul 06, 2017
It happens. I've had some girl tell me she's lookin' for a husband. But the real ?tion is can women take rejection?
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by austyn0(m): 11:32pm On Jul 06, 2017
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=58201082]

There is no such thing as a YES or NO question... Just because I can't date her, doesn't mean we cant be sociable and friends. What kind of man even answers YES or NO?

So a babe asks you out, so you say YES and stand there like a dummy with a grin on your face (as if you just passed an exam)?!
I understand your point man, just felt you are gonna talk for too long saying all those, still on still, it's nice to make your point known and understood even with an epistle, so we good.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by austyn0(m): 11:35pm On Jul 06, 2017
tosyne2much:
I think that's when age and maturity come in place. You can never see a MATURED lady folding her arms or die in silence when a guy she has been fantasizing about refuses to make the first approach. These ladies know the tactics they normally use to trap men down and will still earn respect in the sight of these men. They know there's a point in their lives when they need to swallow their ego just to get what they really want. Only KIDS want to enjoy those fantasies of HE MUST TOAST ME or I rather die in silence.

So my brother, no matter how much you try to convince these ladies, they will only make you feel like you know nothing cheesy

The brings me to the conclusion that, there's a wife difference between a woman and a girl cheesy
Affirmative
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by VargasVee(m): 11:35pm On Jul 06, 2017
Benita27:
If we should go by the African mentality then the guys must also have a hand in us making such decision. I'd advise you don't tell your sis to try such, whether you see it as an African mentality or Westernized one. "Had I known" will be her case.

Lol. She's a grown woman, knows what's best for her.

Just remember, 'Don't die yet' like you said you'd rather grin
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jul 06, 2017
ikp120:
What does that mean? No vex me?
Never mind.tongue
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jul 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


There is no such thing as a YES or NO question... Just because I can't date her, doesn't mean we cant be sociable and friends. What kind of man even answers YES or NO?

So a babe asks you out, so you say YES and stand there like a dummy with a grin on your face (as if you just passed an exam)?!
Haba!



Sometimes you have to go for what you believe.... Maybe the dude is shy, insecure etc who knows?! But then, if it doesn't happen, and you KNOW this guy is "it", you would do absolutely nothing?! If that is the case then yes, your ego is in the way of your happiness... Such that you couldn't even be the bigger person and ask him out. Your fear of being rejected is in the way. Indeed very sad because you would be missing on so many fantastic things in life.
If he's shy or insecure then he's obviously not my type of man. I like those with self-confidence and outspoken. Second case, there's nothing to be sad about 'cause if one door closes, another opens. That's how I view life.

Goodnight. grin
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by dmgr(m): 11:38pm On Jul 06, 2017
austyn0:
Senior man, na this Gospel you wan preach for a probable question that demands a yes or no answer? Haba oga.

lmao

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 06, 2017
VargasVee:


Lol. She's a grown woman, knows what's best for her.

Just remember, 'Don't die yet' like you said you'd rather grin
Lol, goodnight. cheesy
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:41pm On Jul 06, 2017
@austyn0
You gotta put yourself in that woman's shoes and understand that she made such a huge effort to come over and ask you out. so whether you wanna date her or not, you gotta defuse the whole situation, and come up with something better than just YES or NO.

A NO would be so painful to that woman, then she will instantly turn into Benita27, lol.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ikp120(m): 11:42pm On Jul 06, 2017
Tahrah:
Never mind.tongue
angry angry angry
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by tosyne2much(m): 11:45pm On Jul 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


You are absolutely right, I can actually see that now.... Toasted at all cost OR no dating.
What reply do you expect from ladies who are still living in fantasies and those who are still enjoying the chase they're getting from random guys?

Throw this same question to matured ladies and you will be astonished towards their replies
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jul 06, 2017
ikp120:
angry angry angry
Any problem
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by austyn0(m): 11:47pm On Jul 06, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
@austyn0
You gotta put yourself in that woman's shoes and understand that she made such a huge effort to come over and ask you out. so whether you wanna date her or not, you gotta defuse the whole situation, and come up with something better than just YES or NO.

A NO would be so painful to that woman, then she will instantly turn into Benita27, lol.
hehehehe..
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by pepemendy(m): 11:49pm On Jul 06, 2017
Jennygiveme:
And why should i ask a guy out? It Seems strange to me.
who's this one?
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by teesmarth(m): 11:51pm On Jul 06, 2017
tosyne2much:
What reply do you expect from ladies who are still living in fantasies and those who are still enjoying the chase they're getting from random guys?

Throw this same question to matured ladies and you will be astonished towards their replies
Different strokes for different folks

The lady specie are in variety
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by tosyne2much(m): 11:54pm On Jul 06, 2017
teesmarth:
Different strokes for different folks
The lady specie are in variety
Yes I agree sha
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:54pm On Jul 06, 2017
tosyne2much:
What reply do you expect from ladies who are still living in fantasies and those who are still enjoying the chase they're getting from random guys?

Throw this same question to matured ladies and you will be astonished towards their replies

Yeah...a fantasy world in their mind, and the chase gets their egos so pumped up to the point they would rather lose the guy than make a move. They have such a high sense of self (way too high IMHO) that they can't even come to the dude's "level". Haba!
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by dmgr(m): 11:57pm On Jul 06, 2017
The feeling was not normal at first,and also giving back the reply was a hard task but I was sincere with all of them,told how I felt and all...and we were all cool
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by ponti93(m): 12:45am On Jul 07, 2017
Its normal... Nothing special abt it... They are still humans...
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Jennygiveme(f): 7:45am On Jul 07, 2017
teesmarth:
Nothing is strange under the clouds of this earth dear.
The world is much bigger than the way you perceive it.
The first lady that asked me out was great and beautiful.
Anyway I cant say i felt anything special about it.
Just normal.......no biggie.
I just had to give it some time before we hit it off
Ok i hear
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Lalas247(f): 7:47am On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
I must be insane to ask a guy out. I'd rather die with the feelings 'cause the moment you make that mistake you'll live to regret it.
Lol grin no kill me
Exactly as regret ... you wont hear the end of it
Same guys will call u olosho tomorrow for asking .. nansense grin
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Jennygiveme(f): 7:47am On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
Dem don start again ooo cheesy
Start watin now oga.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Rukkydelta(f): 7:48am On Jul 07, 2017
If you are in the western part of the world you are free to express your feelings as a lady to a man you desire but not here in Africa because you may fall in wrong hands of a man that may take advantage of you
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Jennygiveme(f): 7:49am On Jul 07, 2017
teesmarth:
Nothing is strange under the clouds of this earth dear.
The world is much bigger than the way you perceive it.
The first lady that asked me out was great and beautiful.
Anyway I cant say i felt anything special about it.
Just normal.......no biggie.
I just had to give it some time before we hit it off
Ok now.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Jennygiveme(f): 7:51am On Jul 07, 2017
pepemendy:
who's this one?
Guy shift abeg.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by TheRealestGuy(m): 8:42am On Jul 07, 2017
Ghosttt:


Ur signature touch me. I dy go put dp nw

You're soliciting for likes now? Wanna become an attention LovePeddler? Need other people to validate you n your looks?





Don't be vain like that guy, he just craves and thrives on attention.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 8:44am On Jul 07, 2017
Lalas247:

Lol grin no kill me
Exactly as regret ... you wont hear the end of it
Same guys will call u olosho tomorrow for asking .. nansense grin
God bless you. grin
How are you?.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 8:49am On Jul 07, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
@austyn0
You gotta put yourself in that woman's shoes and understand that she made such a huge effort to come over and ask you out. so whether you wanna date her or not, you gotta defuse the whole situation, and come up with something better than just YES or NO.

A NO would be so painful to that woman, then she will instantly turn into Benit.a27, lol.
You no well oh, I needn't be rejected to know how some guys treat ladies who wooed them into a relationship. Even from the few relationship books have read, it's stated that men would rather hunt than be hunted. grin

Try reading "Why Men Love Bìtches" by Sherry Argov.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by austyn0(m): 9:37am On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
You no well oh, I needn't be rejected to know how some guys treat ladies who wooed them into a relationship. Even from the few relationship books have read, it's stated that men would rather hunt than be hunted. grin

Try reading "Why Men Love Bìtches" by Sherry Argov.
You've got a point, buh it still isn't an abomination to ask your ideal man out, it will only be a futile effort to the immature minds.

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