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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by drnoel: 9:43am On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
No lady has even asked me out, because you can't be broke and ugly at the same time then you expect ladies to ask you out. Things don't happen that way cool

Anyway, okada man abeg park me here make while the lies roll in

I beg to differ bros. The first time I was asked out I was all of those. It depends on situation, place and person
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by drnoel: 9:44am On Jul 07, 2017
Jennygiveme:
And why should i ask a guy out? It Seems strange to me.

Smh
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 9:44am On Jul 07, 2017
austyn0:
You've got a point, buh it still isn't an abomination to ask your ideal man out, it will only be a futile effort to the immature minds.
I'm very much aware that there're women in relationships they wooed their men. But more often than not when misunderstandings ensure, they hear stuffs like; I never asked you out, you did. I pitied you and decided to date you, You're cheap, blah! Blah!! Blah!!!. Personally, I can't risk it.

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Ghosttt(m): 10:47am On Jul 07, 2017
TheRealestGuy:


You're soliciting for likes now? Wanna become an attention LovePeddler? Need other people to validate you n your looks?





Don't be vain like that guy, he just craves and thrives on attention.


Haaaaa!!! This 1 is really strong ooo.
Funny how u read negative meaning to my comment when it was quite glaring that I said he was playing *the ugly card for attention*
Thank you for your advice
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Barristter07: 11:37am On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
I'm very much aware that there're women in relationships they wooed their men. But more often than not when misunderstandings ensure, they hear stuffs like; I never asked you out, you did. I pitied you and decided to date you, You're cheap, blah! Blah!! Blah!!!. Personally, I can't risk it.

Not all men have such a low Mentality , There are cool relationships/Marriages that were initiated by the woman . Lets look at this from the angle of a Lady having more riches than her husband, a random guy will say " I can't marry her, when disagreement occur she will say , am I not the one that fed you when you have nothing etc . " . that's hasty Generalization, not all women does that, Same with men.

Women whom guys asked out also suffer in the hands of men , isnt it ? Men use and dump women they hunt too, isn't it ? its a 50/50 . Today many women cry in their marriages because they never end up marrying the man they truly fell in love with due to their EGO

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 11:41am On Jul 07, 2017
Barristter07:


Not all men have such a low Mentality , There are cool relationships/Marriages that were initiated by the woman . Lets look at this from the angle of a Lady having more riches than her husband, a random guy will say " I can't marry her, when disagreement occur she will say , am I not the one that fed you when you have nothing etc . " . that's hasty Generalization, not all women does that, Same with men.

Women whom guys asked out also suffer in the hands of men , isnt it ? Men use and dump women they hunt too, isn't it ? its a 50/50 . Today many women cry in their marriages because they never end up marrying the man they truly fell in love with due to their EGO
It's better when the man did the wooing, used and dumped the lady, than when she did the wooing, got used and dumped.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by tosyne2much(m): 11:42am On Jul 07, 2017
drnoel:


I beg to differ bros. The first time I was asked out I was all of those. It depends on situation, place and person
I was only kidding bro cheesy
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Barristter07: 11:50am On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
It's better when the man did the wooing, used and dumped the lady, than when she did the wooing, got used and dumped.

I can understand your trying to be careful, very fine and commendable . But like I said earlier many women groan in pain in their marriages because of their EGO . Nothing beats getting married to that Person you truly Loved the most either as a male or female .

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by felixweah(m): 12:03pm On Jul 07, 2017
Na rich ladies dey ask guys out oo naija ladies are too poor to ask guys out they Bleep like bingo yet they are shy to ask a guy out but they don't mind if the guy could rape them in a public cos they know the people there are the same like them .. we re leaving in a porn world lolz
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by drnoel: 12:17pm On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
I was only kidding bro cheesy
grin grin grin
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by austyn0(m): 1:23pm On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
I'm very much aware that there're women in relationships they wooed their men. But more often than not when misunderstandings ensure, they hear stuffs like; I never asked you out, you did. I pitied you and decided to date you, You're cheap, blah! Blah!! Blah!!!. Personally, I can't risk it.
It's all abou choice, you are right though, I will only advice ladies to give him signs rather than take the first ride.
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jul 07, 2017
Hehe babe ask me outcheesy
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
I must be insane to ask a guy out. I'd rather die with the feelings 'cause the moment you make that mistake you'll live to regret it.




Correct babe wey soji!

Worst Mistake ever!

Ladies ask a guy out at your own peril tongue its not done!
Not even in my dreams! angry how much more in real life!

Maybe in my next world abroad, amd also not to a Nigerian guy.

Jeez!

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Lalas247(f): 2:59pm On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
God bless you. grin
How are you?.
I dey o
Hurry n finish work jawe .. make we relax cheesy
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Lalas247(f): 3:00pm On Jul 07, 2017
alexialin:





Correct babe wey soji!

Worst Mistake ever!

Ladies ask a guy out at your own peril tongue its not done!
Not even in my dreams! angry how much more in real life!

Maybe in my next world abroad, amd also not to a Nigerian guy.

Jeez!
Abi o
Before dem carry u go twitter call d girl olosho
I swear guys are now the complicated ones .. abi grin

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by deewhydoski(m): 3:33pm On Jul 07, 2017
One girl has ask me out before. Tellin me that i shouldnt see her as someone that cheap but as someone that is bold enough to confront me and tell me. I just tell her say i love her too but inside my heart i didn't love her...i just dey play along until she discover that i didn't give her attention. She just pack her load and leave. How can i date someone that is older than me
Never tell a girl that ask u out u didn't love her bcox she will feel somehow
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:31pm On Jul 07, 2017
Benita27:
You no well oh, I needn't be rejected to know how some guys treat ladies who wooed them into a relationship. Even from the few relationship books have read, it's stated that men would rather hunt than be hunted. grin

Try reading "Why Men Love Bìtches" by Sherry Argov.

By reading these silly book about MEN (more than often written by women), instead of experiencing life, is a sure way to walk by a very good thing. Don't judge men until you have an experience to back that claim. Even if 99% were like that, always have faith that you could end up with that 1% guys.

Btw: if a man really cares for you, why would you even think that he will mistreat you?!
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jul 07, 2017
Lalas247:

Abi o
Before dem carry u go twitter call d girl olosho
I swear guys are now the complicated ones .. abi grin



Not only complicated o!

They are confused set of beings! cheesy

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by teehamzat(m): 8:41pm On Jul 07, 2017
I woyld gladly say yes, damn am so fvcking cheap undecided
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Lalas247(f): 6:49am On Jul 08, 2017
alexialin:




Not only complicated o!

They are confused set of beings! cheesy
Wahlahi I don tire for der matter .. so hard to please grin

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Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by kuuljay(m): 8:30am On Jul 08, 2017
tosyne2much:
No lady has even asked me out, because you can't be broke and ugly at the same time then you expect ladies to ask you out. Things don't happen that way cool

Anyway, okada man abeg park me here make while the lies roll in
truth or lies you are such a funny dude lol
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by kuuljay(m): 8:38am On Jul 08, 2017
Girls ask guys out on daily bases and any guy who says no girl has ever asked him out is simply dumb,girls have diff ways of asking they don't do it the same way guys do theirs,they simply do it stylishly or what will you call when a girl asks when you are gonna take her out? She is simply asking you out,some will encourage you to tell them to visit you what will you call that? Abeg leave mata!
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 9:04am On Jul 08, 2017
Lalas247:

I dey o
Hurry n finish work jawe .. make we relax cheesy
Sorry, my phone went numb yesterday. When you're on whatsapp let me know. grin
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Lalas247(f): 2:13pm On Jul 08, 2017
Benita27:
Sorry, my phone went numb yesterday. When you're on whatsapp let me know. grin
Ok hun thought as much wink
Re: Men How Do You Feel When A Lady Asks You Out by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jul 08, 2017
There's nothing bad in dt.. But African mentality criticise it

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