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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Olukat(m): 10:29am On Jul 08, 2017
There's nothing wrong in getting married to a lady that has a child.
Love should be the base of every relationship not circumstances;
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by StOla: 10:31am On Jul 08, 2017
Webman007:
Hmmmmmm...is God that gives Children...if you believe so then no problem....

The wombs will be open...and the sperms that's not there will be restored divinely
..

Enough of all these religious hypocrisy. Children are borne out of an already established biological sequence of events.

If there's no medical solution, then biological health problems persist. Go to the hospitals and see misery and despair when science has no solution to some of these health challenges.

For those who have been lucky to have fertility problems that science can resolve over time, they get their multiple birth of triplets and quadruplets after paying through noses. Then they go for thanksgiving in a church that never offered a solution, rather than provide awareness and philanthropic funding for other parishioners who need the same solution they got in the hospital.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by oliidell(m): 10:34am On Jul 08, 2017
Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

This comment made my day. #nuff said.
Yes I want children, I really do but it is not enough for me to call off a relationship with a woman I love. When I'm in, I go all the way.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 10:34am On Jul 08, 2017
Sure. If I was in those shoes I'll want someone to marry me and love me that way. Nobody chooses not to have the ability to have children. Even if we don't want kids, we like knowing we can.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Martin0(m): 10:34am On Jul 08, 2017
Yes,my purpose wasn't solemnly for child,so if it occurs that way,we will adopt

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by jchioma: 10:34am On Jul 08, 2017
Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

Martin0:
Yes,my purpose wasn't solemnly for child,so if it occurs that way,we will adopt

Hiaan! Easier said than done. No bi African man? When the pressure becomes too much, he may even be forced to marry a second wife or a side chick.
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Yankeeboi2(f): 10:36am On Jul 08, 2017
Okkk.. Now my turn to ask u question @OP... Will u still buy a land with ur life savings even after realizing it belongs to the Government?

You answer to this, is my answer to that..

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 10:38am On Jul 08, 2017
NO i can't if he is a Nigeria man but YES if he is not an African..


I love kids so much that i can't wait to have mine and bring them up in the way of the Lord just like i brought other kids up..

No joy on this earth if you a lady that haven't experience giving birth..

I must also experience the Joy of motherhood..

I will rather be a single mother than marry a man who can't release better sperm.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by MansaMoussa: 10:38am On Jul 08, 2017
That depends on what she's bringing to the table...For the typical Nigerian Girl who has nothing to offer but sex and senseless gist, My answer is a Big NO....But for a Girl who has achieved alot for her age, focused, versatile, objective and Warm, why Not? She'll never bore me and we'll soar together

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by NkayTiana(f): 10:38am On Jul 08, 2017
That smile will fade out when children don't come along
Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by NkayTiana(f): 10:38am On Jul 08, 2017
That smile will fade out when the children are not coming along
Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by martineverest(m): 10:40am On Jul 08, 2017
Capital Yes.... Who my children epp?..... I will adopt happily
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:42am On Jul 08, 2017
jchioma:




Hiaan! Easier said than done. No bi African man? When the pressure becomes too much, he may even be forced to marry a second wife or a side chick.

Please this might be you. Not everyone shares it. Children are an extra not the main reason for marriage for me

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by AmoryBlacq: 10:42am On Jul 08, 2017
Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

Stop trying to be politically correct my friend

which man doesn't want a prodigy of his blood?

Marriage is not just about the both of you

Posterity is a factor

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 10:43am On Jul 08, 2017
The stench of hypocrites on this thread is very astonishing.

Ladies, don't be deceived by the comments you read here otherwise you will be led astray because these are the same men that will consider another wife if you can't bear children when their patience has been stretched to the end point cheesy

Or are these not the same people that keep extra martial affairs but are here saying they will always remain faithful to a woman who can't bear children?

Make una deceive unaself

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by mofeoluwadassah: 10:43am On Jul 08, 2017
i dont pray 4 such.....so i cannot even imagine what will happen

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Webman007: 10:44am On Jul 08, 2017
StOla:


Enough of all these religious hypocrisy. Children are borne out of an already established biological sequence of events.

If there's no medical solution, then biological health problems persist. Go to the hospitals and see misery and despair when science has no solution to some of these health challenges.

For those who have been lucky to have fertility problems that science can resolve over time, they get their multiple birth of triplets and quadruplets after paying through noses. Then they go for thanksgiving in a church that never offered a solution, rather than provide awareness and philanthropic funding for other parishioners who need the same solution they got in the hospital.


That's my opinion you don''t have to buy into it and am not buying into your's.....for me Children are given by God simply....
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:44am On Jul 08, 2017
AmoryBlacq:


Stop trying to be politically correct my friend

which man doesn't want a prodigy of his blood?

Prodigy by blood is over rated.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by mofeoluwadassah: 10:44am On Jul 08, 2017
i dont pray 4 such.....so i cannot even imagine what i will do
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by AmoryBlacq: 10:45am On Jul 08, 2017
tosyne2much:
The stench of hypocrites on this thread is very astonishing.

Ladies don't be deceived by the comments you read here, these are the same men that will consider another wife of you can't give them a child cheesy


This is why i like you my man!

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by martineverest(m): 10:45am On Jul 08, 2017
StOla:
I will if I truly love the woman, but on the condition that I will marry a second wife who will have my own children.

I don't have sperm cells for fun. I must reproduce since I am biologically capable.

Adoption has never been an option with me, when I am biologically fit to have my own. If both husband and wife are infertile, then adoption becomes the only choice.
what if u are impotent? Will u advise wife to meet another man?

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:45am On Jul 08, 2017
tosyne2much:
The stench of hypocrites on this thread is very astonishing.

Ladies don't be deceived by the comments you read here, these are the same men that will consider another wife if you can't give them a child cheesy


Funny that you seem to he able to judge people based on their posts.

Oh well, everyone with their psuedo-intelligence

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 10:46am On Jul 08, 2017
Martin0:
Yes,my purpose wasn't solemnly for child,so if it occurs that way,we will adopt


Nigeria man Igbo man where is your mother when all this drama will be going on....


My dear if such situation happens you will marry another lady that will be able to give you a child...

Imagine you the only child of your parent and you marry such lady, what will be your reaction and that of your parent??
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by AmoryBlacq: 10:48am On Jul 08, 2017
Mynd44:

Prodigy by blood is over rated.


No my friend

It's only natural

everyone wants to see a bit of themselves in their children, this is in no way undermining adoption but the thought of your blood flowing in someone is celestial!
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by InfinixMine: 10:49am On Jul 08, 2017
I can't mehn!!!

I want us to experience the emotion of the moments below.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Fakemumu: 10:49am On Jul 08, 2017
In these type of economy its d best ideology

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 10:49am On Jul 08, 2017
Mynd44:

Funny that you seem to he able to judge people based on their posts.

Oh well, everyone with their psuedo-intelligence
Bros, let's leave sentiment and hypocrisy apart, MOST Nigerian men will never marry a barren woman.

This is Nigeria not Yankee cheesy

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by swimmer: 10:50am On Jul 08, 2017
Destined2win:
angry

I think people who say this deceive themselves, there is a joy you have realizing you have your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own.

The one you want to adopt, no be person born am? If everybody is Okay with inability to give birth, where will you see the one you will adopt. Abegiii leave matter

See shallow thinking. Is it u that make children? Or u think childless people like to be childless? U re a kid tho
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:50am On Jul 08, 2017
AmoryBlacq:



No my friend

It's only natural

everyone wants to see a bit of themselves in their children, this is in no way undermining adoption but the thought of your blood flowing in someone is celestial!
I want to see my ideals and values projected in someone. That is more celestial than blood.

Who blood help? Am I a vampire?

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 10:50am On Jul 08, 2017
No no no, cos I am sure if it was me ,all this selfish self absorbed nigerian men will not either

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