tosyne2much:
Bros, let's leave sentiment and hypocrisy apart, MOST Nigerian men will never marry a barren woman.

This is Nigeria not Yankee

optional1:



Nigeria man Igbo man where is your mother when all this drama will be going on....


My dear if such situation happens you will marry another lady that will be able to give you a child...

Imagine you the only child of your parent and you marry such lady, what will be your reaction and that of your parent??

Mynd44:


Please this might be you. Not everyone shares it. Children are an extra not the main reason for marriage for me

lalabrother:
Would you still marry your lover if you discovered a week to your wedding that they can not have children?

A week to a wedding, both families of the couple would be upbeat with preparations to make sure that all arrangements are made for a successful ceremony. But Saturday Punch is asking Nigerians whether during such preparation, they would still go ahead to wed if they found out their intended life partner can’t have children? Keep ur genuine answers coming...

Source: punching.com

PS: am sorry if this is in the wrong segment, mod pls modify and help move the post to the right segment. Thanks

AmoryBlacq:



This is why i like you my man!

Mynd44:

I want to see my ideals and values projected in someone. That is more celestial than blood.

Who blood help? Am I a vampire?

Mynd44:

I want to see my ideals and values projected in someone. That is more celestial than blood.

Who blood help? Am I a vampire?

jchioma:


Ok o! Perhaps, if your father reasoned like you, you may not have been born

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

AmoryBlacq:


lol!
well you know what they say

different strokes for different folks
but you don't have to be married before you have a junior mynd4 to carry your ideas and values

you could adopt one today.

Me77:
Yes of course. Marriage is perfect without children, children ruined marriages. If only I can find a barren woman to marry all all my life, they're simply the perfect wife's.
Big love to all the barren women.

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

Me77:
Yes of course. Marriage is perfect without children, children ruined marriages. If only I can find a barren woman to marry all all my life, they're simply the perfect wife's.
Big love to all the barren women.

optional1:



Nigeria man Igbo man where is your mother when all this drama will be going on....


My dear if such situation happens you will marry another lady that will be able to give you a child...

Imagine you the only child of your parent and you marry such lady, what will be your reaction and that of your parent??

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

Tahrah:
Na to bring girl from village or to start matchmaking.
Nigerian mamas no dey waste time.

Destined2win:


I think people who say this deceive themselves, there is a joy you have realizing you have your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own.

The one you want to adopt, no be person born am? If everybody is Okay with inability to give birth, where will you see the one you will adopt. Abegiii leave matter

lalabrother:
Would you still marry your lover if you discovered a week to your wedding that they can not have children?

A week to a wedding, both families of the couple would be upbeat with preparations to make sure that all arrangements are made for a successful ceremony. But Saturday Punch is asking Nigerians whether during such preparation, they would still go ahead to wed if they found out their intended life partner can’t have children? Keep ur genuine answers coming...

Source: punching.com

PS: am sorry if this is in the wrong segment, mod pls modify and help move the post to the right segment. Thanks

Martin0:
my dear I agree to what u said ooo,I be nigerian man ooo then again with how I do live my life I don't think my parents will intrigue into my life or my decision,I did grow that way...what you said normally e dey happen ooo I have withnessed but have not experience it...Abeg ooo coz she nor fit give birth na wa for u ooo is it her fault that kind lackadaisical attitude nor dey our family,my cousin has been married for 5year's now without a child and his heading to 50 now why his wife is about clocking 46 why didn't he divorce or marry another,the family I came from is not known for divorce or marrying a second wife though bible did not condemn marrying a second but we are not known for such...u eh dey find my mouth..

Mynd44:

Did I ask to be born?

jaychubi:


If not for children I dnt see d reason for marriage. Love and all those nonsense is an illusion. My wife must be 3 months pregnant b4 serious marriage plans begin

wjxavier:
I did.

We went to MeCure, did expensive tests, and all of them said she couldn't have kids. All this before the wedding.

She had had fibroid surgery before we met.
My Dad is a surgeon, and I was somehow silly enough to mention it to him.

He swore he wouldn't support it. Mum too.

Siblings queued with them.

For many reasons, I disappointed them.

First, I felt and still feel a parent has no place in choosing your spouse. It is your life. They've lived theirs.

Secondly, she was a 10 for me.

Long story short, I went ahead and married her even though nobody from my family attended.

Yes, the tests came out a week to the wedding! But I effin went ahead. (You gotta know what you want in this life...or else)

I did it.

I did it because I am a person of faith. I wasn't just arrogant or stubborn. I had a strategy.

I knew that impossible is nothing with my God.
I knew that the word of God is a laser that can address and redress any issue of life.
I knew I didn't need to fast. I just needed to declare the Word.

Whenever she saw her period, she would be sad, but I'd drag her around the house and dance.

"There shall be no barren in Israel."

In November, 5 months after our wedding, she missed her P.

Pic below is us.


PS: Not everybody can do this, so do not embark on this journey if you don't have the balls AND THE FAITH for it.

PPS: Faith is not belief. Faith is the words you declare that agree with God concerning your life.