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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:11pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
great day you had their my bro wink
wer ur base dey
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

wer ur base dey
Ibadan my bro
I am a local boy smiley
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by MissRaine69(f): 7:13pm On Jul 11, 2017
Most women think with an emotional mind it takes a lot of self understanding to think mindfully. If you are mindful you learn to accept and can let things go.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:14pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
Ibadan my bro
I am a local boy smiley
Ah nooo
All dis big booty ibadan ladies nko wink
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:
When will u pple be creating threads on how to make money while dating grin
But there are so many threads on how to make money here now. grin
Btw, What's your take on this, Do you agree its a more of ladies' nature not too easily let go?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

Ah nooo
All dis big booty ibadan ladies nko wink
don't mind what I type here
I don't chase chicks like that
If I want to chase I will be doing it in real life not on cyber smiley
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:18pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
don't mind what I type here
I don't chase chicks like that
If I want to chase I will be doing it in real life not on cyber smiley
I trust u na
I go like show dat ur place oo
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by pocohantas(f): 7:18pm On Jul 11, 2017
ibkayee:


Men don't necessarily 'forgive' or 'don't pay attention to ill feelings', they do and are just as emotional but since they aren't encouraged to show it/dwell they either talk it out immediately or go on killing sprees etc
See someone with brain. I don't know why some men love to lie to themselves whenever this topic comes up, maybe it's masculine ego of always wanting to be better at everything.

One even gave example of cheating.
How many men sincerely forgive a cheating partner?
Check out threads where a guy complained his gf or wife cheated, his fellow guys will either advise him to leave or keep fuckeen her till he is tired (revenge). That's exactly how some of their heart works.

They won't whine about it like women, but deep down in their hearts...you wouldn't wanna see what goes on there.

Men forgive indeed. Forgiveness isn't wired to gender. If women cheat as brazenly as men do, lord knows what would have happened.
https://www.nairaland.com/3010845/what-make-forgive-wife-she

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

I trust u na
I go like show dat ur place oo
lol.anytime my bro wink
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:19pm On Jul 11, 2017
IamZod:

But there are so many threads on how to make money here now. grin
Btw, What's your take on this, Do you agree its a more of ladies' nature not too easily let go?
Bro it's hard
Typical example was my ex
She broke up with me, not me doing it
dis gal was always disturbing me, she hated any gal dat would come close 2 me
She has reduced a bit now sha
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:21pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
lol.anytime my bro wink
don't know y am in love with Ogun state pass dis lag wer I dey
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

don't know y am in love with Ogun state pass dis lag wer I dey
why
Maybe because your mom is from Ogun grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jul 11, 2017
pocohantas:

See someone with brain. I don't know why some men love to lie to themselves whenever this topic comes up, maybe it's masculine ego of always wanting to be better at everything.

One even gave example of cheating.
How many men sincerely forgive a cheating partner?
Check out threads where a guy complained his gf or wife cheated, his fellow guys will either advise him to leave or keep fuckeen her till he is tired (revenge). That's exactly how some of their heart works.

They won't whine about it like women, but deep down in their hearts...you wouldn't wanna see what goes on there.

Men forgive indeed. Forgiveness isn't wired to gender. If women cheat as brazenly as men do, lord knows what would have happened.
https://www.nairaland.com/3010845/what-make-forgive-wife-she


@Poco how u dey nau .. One Kweshion auntie...

Nice flow, but don't women cheat as much as men do grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Splinz(m): 7:26pm On Jul 11, 2017
IamZod:
so in other words, it mainly has to do with their nature.
I think so.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:26pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
why
Maybe because your mom is from Ogun grin
Yeah ooo
not only dat
Av spent all my life in lag
Born nd brot up
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

Yeah ooo
not only dat
Av spent all my life in lag
Born nd brot up
is your uni in lag ?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by pocohantas(f): 7:28pm On Jul 11, 2017
connectpoint:



@Poco how u dey nau .. One Kweshion auntie...

Nice flow, but don't women cheat as much as men do grin
Of course they do...Men do theirs without a care in the world, because they know they would be forgiven due to the tender nature of women, plus they gat society on their side too.

Yet they say these same women don't forgive hurt?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:30pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
is your uni in lag ?
Nah
But in 1 of all dis western states
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jul 11, 2017
pocohantas:

Of course they do...Men do theirs without a care in the world, because they know they would be forgiven due to the tender nature of women, plus they gat society on their side too.

Yet they say these same women don't forgive hurt?


How's ur day?
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

Nah
But in 1 of all dis western states
lol
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by pocohantas(f): 7:33pm On Jul 11, 2017
connectpoint:



I'm not interfering oh, just relieving stress, but who really did this to you? Give me their number, Imma like to pay them a visit... you're wounded oh.. why not tend to the wound... all this venting just change the price of dollar o Poco...


Nevermind me.. How's ur day?
Smh. Typical.
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:33pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
lol
u dey stay alone
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

u dey stay alone
nooo grin why you dey ask you wan give me chick grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 11, 2017
pocohantas:

Smh. Typical.

Haba.. I'm not taking this... BRB
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:36pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
nooo grin why you dey ask you wan give me chick grin
Yeah oo
2 like dat
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

Yeah oo
2 like dat
who and who
Are they on nairaland grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:44pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
who and who
Are they on nairaland grin
Not at all oo
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

Not at all oo
kk where are they coming from grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Martin0(m): 7:49pm On Jul 11, 2017
Personally speaking if a lady is to have that sore of not letting the past go it all depends on what stands on what happend to her during the cause of hurting her,,,,My Ex cheated on me and it didn't just happen to an unknown being it happend btw her and my friend and even when we hard a deal,a mutual understand btw ourselves I never stamped it as a mark in my heart or use it against her,infact it was when she wanna mary my friend towards that time that she got to tell me,probably she thought I already knew of which I never was informed of any?Now if I most have in this way treated issue,?How many ladies will gladly do same to me,even when am a man!!!I never believed ladies cheat sometimes I hear it here and I pretend not to know that ladies cheat,sometimes I even cover them,but I begin to wonder ever since I joined NL ve not even seen where a lady will side what a guy say's it alway's in reverse!!!




In all understanding if a lady is to holdup to her past hmmmm am sorry to say that rubbish to me because am still waitin to here out the reason why she will do so,regarding what I did as a man...
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:52pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
kk where are they coming from grin
Dem dey my sch
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jul 11, 2017
Victornezzar:

Dem dey my sch
what is the name of your sch smiley
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:54pm On Jul 11, 2017
greyboy5000:
what is the name of your sch smiley
Bro 4 some reasons
I can't say

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