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Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(m): 7:56am On May 07, 2019 |
Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it.. But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies.. I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now.. She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways... Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life....... Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense 356 Likes 45 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by mercyson(m): 8:07am On May 07, 2019 |
Friendship should be 50-50 between a guy and a girl. that happens because the girl has a lot of guys looking for her attention and she wants all to show love, but her attention will go to one guy another reason is she's doesn't love the guy and does not want to send him away pride is another reason to understand better check this two links. he says "I love you". what next? https://www.pentameloud.com/he-says-love-you-next/ and how to be irresistible in your love life https://www.pentameloud.com/how-irresistible-love-life/ 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 8:12am On May 07, 2019 |
Imoh555:this is the reason why we always tell guys STOP SIMPING. STOP BEING NICE GUYS. The problem is the sexual market has been oversaturated with Beta Mangina Simps who are competing to worship women. When we tell Martin0 to stop idolizing women it's like we are bad guys. But worshiping women gets them mentally spoiled. On Social Media, guys desperate for pussy will tell an average girl who is a 5 that she's a 10 just to flatter her. And the same idiots complain that average girls on the street are forming like 10s. Yet these same niggahs are responsible for that behaviour in women. Men need to stop simping and everything will revert back to normal. Stop giving compliments everywhere. Stop validating these whôrés. You're making things difficult for yourselves 257 Likes 29 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by donbachi(m): 8:16am On May 07, 2019 |
The one that annoys me the most...many of the them are sexually self centered...how can a man touch,suck and fingers a woman for 1hour,and all you will hear is "baby keep sucking,almost there"..haba!my fingers are paining me..mumu me will be switching from right to left position just to make her happy.ok,touch and suck me..no way...who do una dis thing? 115 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Deepfeel(m): 8:18am On May 07, 2019 |
[quote author=Imoh555 post=78172599]Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it.. But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies.. I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now.. She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways... Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life....... Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense Exactly my thoughts 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(m): 8:20am On May 07, 2019 |
ubunja: I am very blunt and plain with women especially when criticizing them and telling them they look terrible or they ain't shiit and the good thing is that women love it when you actually don't worship or idolize them,....treat her good and she takes you for granted, treat her like a piece of rag and watch her never wants to depart from you... (boys don't get this logic) it doesn't mean you guys should be women beaters... Thanks for your educations ubunja I hope there are some new stuffs to read from you soon.... I'm starved 39 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 9:35am On May 07, 2019 |
Imoh555: Every time I see something like this,it gets me thinking what it is about women that attracts them to people who treat them like shit? Is it low self esteem, fear of the unknown, age or just plain foolishness? And I don't want to hear LOVE biko.. For heaven's sake everyone - male and female - deserves to be celebrated and appreciated. Why is it difficult to leave the asshole who treats you like shit whether male or female? 67 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(m): 9:48am On May 07, 2019 |
catwalq: Truth is people see and understand things differently most especially with the things they saw while growing up which they finally accepted and took to be a way of life... Ever had someone (a lady) say stuffs like I don't think any man can love just me 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 10:04am On May 07, 2019 |
Imoh555: That's trauma that affect one's psychic. And treating them badly isn't gonna help. Sometimes women show you their vulnerability so you can show them their strength. Putting them down isn't helping,that's abuse. While it further shatters their ego,you are also being a jerk.. I don't believe in reverse psychology ( though it can be thrilling to work it on people ). If you like someone be nice,if you don't like em still be nice and let em go. No benefit in playing God. 57 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(m): 10:50am On May 07, 2019 |
catwalq: I am no Jesus 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by luvyaself95(m): 11:02am On May 07, 2019 |
Here to hear from Experts 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Korllami007: 11:15am On May 07, 2019 |
Dating most Nigerian girls is the same as dating Sex doll. You do everything. 58 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Jodha(f): 11:16am On May 07, 2019 |
Yhu sound like a weakling... How will yhu be contributing 50-50 with a woman...tufiakwa...even dates... Yhure not ready at all ... And as for the girl...I don't blame her at all...yhu were the one chyking her ..so why would she call yhu?...it's not like yhu guys were in a relationship sef.. 13 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by tee59(f): 11:54am On May 07, 2019 |
The girl is not into you, that's the fact. 22 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by jeff1607(m): 12:22pm On May 07, 2019 |
Jodha: is relationship now a business Enterprise? once you love and have someone in mind every thing he/she does is taken into consideration, when you know how much he/she earns you won't make unnecessary demands especially if you want him to save for the future but if one is selfish his/her future and status won't be your concern 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by babyfaceafrica: 12:27pm On May 07, 2019 |
jeff1607:ignore her.. 20 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(m): 12:28pm On May 07, 2019 |
Jodha: We were in a relationship and bleeped countless times thanks for calling me a weakling I'll be alive to see what becomes of your life in few years time... Much love 59 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Imoh555(m): 12:29pm On May 07, 2019 |
tee59: That's why I withdrew... A forced vibes Is not a good vibe 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by boiz2men(m): 12:48pm On May 07, 2019 |
my busy mode spikes at uncertain times of the year.... during those times, i know those that want me too as much as I want them... During my free time, I chat and call.... When I am busy, I completely forget (even family) to call or message anyone.. This is when I know people I am not forcing myself on. And I have a weird wiring. Super easy to move on (except they have more money). 21 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Martin0(m): 12:59pm On May 07, 2019 |
ubunja: I don't understand why you have to mention my name here eh come nor go dey form say u nor dey idolize women oooo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Toseenlove: 1:12pm On May 07, 2019 |
Jodha: Hungry Stingy Glutton....We know your type. I know they will surely branch here. See as she be like Stick wey dem dey use turn Eba. 48 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Toseenlove: 1:17pm On May 07, 2019 |
Martin0: Ogbeni shut up your fucking stinky mouth. Woman pants drycleaner. Gbewudani Thunder fire u there mtcheeew. 21 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 1:53pm On May 07, 2019 |
Imoh555:the best way to fail with women is to be perfect. Men don't get that logic. Because it's not logic. It's female logic. Which is always backward and reverse and upside down. The things that don't make sense are the things that pull women to you. It's fvcked up. It's like some code of sorts. New material definitely coming up. Being a Gemini, my mind is always changing. So I can make a list of topics I will present on, but at the last minute change and present topics on other things. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 1:55pm On May 07, 2019 |
Martin0:that's the sad part. You don't even see the harm you're doing. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:00pm On May 07, 2019 |
Korllami007:lmfao. It's everywhere. It's just that guys don't go for the girls who really love them but force themselves on girls that never really love them. When a girl loves you she puts effort. She never sits on her hands. It's sad but most guys will die never knowing the love of a girl that is pure and self-generated. 81 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:03pm On May 07, 2019 |
catwalq:Guys do the thing this girl is advising you against. And get girls. It always works 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by Korllami007: 2:12pm On May 07, 2019 |
ubunja: Some girls have pride because of the attentions they are getting. You're right though. 13 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:13pm On May 07, 2019 |
catwalq:blame the Law of the Jungle that is alive and active in all of us. We mistake Kindness for Weakness. And THAT is where things go south 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:20pm On May 07, 2019 |
Korllami007:most guys don't know that to women attention will always be better than sex. Starve her for attention and she'll give you sex. Flood her with attention she'll see no need for having sex with you. It's like on WhatsApp. The more you chat with a girl on WhatsApp the less chances she'll have sex with you. As a rule I never chat with anyone I wish to have sex with. When I need to talk to them I CALL. when they text message me I respond with a live call. And they learn never to message me. 61 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 2:25pm On May 07, 2019 |
ubunja: Putting other people down so you can feel macho is weak... 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by ubunja(m): 2:28pm On May 07, 2019 |
catwalq:call it what you want. All I know is that it makes women drop their panties and open those legs. 31 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by catwalq(f): 2:40pm On May 07, 2019 |
ubunja: And that feeds your egoist appetite. 9 Likes |
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