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Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Victornezzar:kk bro |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:56pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
greyboy5000:yeah |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Victornezzar:She broke up with you and still expected you to say sorry I guess. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 7:59pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
IamZod:I begged her dat day I slept over it d next day I moved on It's been 4 two months now 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Victornezzar:I will get the girls from you latter bro |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Victornezzar: 8:02pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
greyboy5000:ok Bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by y3mi(m): 8:07pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
IamZod:Wouldn't you prefer it if they aren't capable of letting go off past grudges than being vindictive as I asked on this thread Hell Hath No Fury Than A Woman Scorn In Love. The question I think should be asked much often is do men go through emotional hurt as much as women do in any given relationship, even more immense. And, why are we expected to repress ours while women reserves the liberty to flare-up ? Btw, General Zod died in Man of Steel, and Doomsday was made out of his corpse in Dawn of Justice but also killed, so how did you become Zod ? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 8:49pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
y3mi:To your first question, I wouldn't prefer any of both options.. I mean, why should one really hold a grudge for donkey long? Such person can be capable of anything. Isn't it better you just let go and be at peace! And as per the maxim "hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn" trust me it couldn't be more truer. Trust me, you wouldn't want to be in the vindictive nest of a scornful woman. Both options are a no no for me. To your other point, I guess men too feel as emotional hurt as women do. But we tend to repress it more unlike women. I believe this has to do with the dictates of society or so I have read. But if I ask you what would you do in a situation were you were hurt, i guess you would man up and let it go right? So you see, right form the onset, it's been a man thing not to flare up emotions. As for me being Zod. I am resurrected. Lol. Tell your super hero Clark Kent that I am back. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by ibkayee(f): 8:55pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
pocohantas:Lool exactly |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
pocohantas:I really do enjoy your input here, lady Pocohantas. But pray tell, why you feel because men don't whine much like woman that the would be a whole lot going deep down in their hearts? And you begin to wonder why a lady who have accepted the sincere apologies of a guy who might have hurt her feelings would then flare-up on seeing the guy again maybe after a long while.. Isn't that a sign of not letting go at all. Or in your own words, so much going deep down in her heart. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by pocohantas(f): 9:22pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
IamZod:LOL! Very soon you will ask why I feel the sun is hot Women are more expressive... I think it's public knowledge that men don't whine about things, they just hold it in their hearts. From today, start taking a survey on threads revolving around men that were hurt by their women. Watch the comments of your fellow men. Ranting and letting pains out helps a lot. That's why you have more men committing suicide, they bottle up a lot. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
pocohantas:Lol. I may one day ask you why the sun is hot though |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
IamZod:I get bored easily I am not a fan of a chic putting me on a long thing if I like a female I will be expressive once you waste my time it's onto the next one 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by y3mi(m): 11:56pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
IamZod:Scorned. What makes you think men don't flare out or react? It's not all men that has a tough skin to contain great emotional hurt, some take the noose end, some go into various kinds of aggressive fit, why do you think some men just becomes suddenly violent to everyone around them ? Oh! Your mistake is to think it's when men unleash hell directly on their emotion-hurting lovers that it can be count as not letting go off past emotional hurt ? Most men who became alcoholics began gradually as a means to deal with various kinds of emotional troubles most of which are linked to unhealed hurt from past relationship detachment and yet it still doesn't seem as men 'reacting/flaring-up' to many especially to those who'd say they are just drinking away their sorrow. IamZod: I don't think you being Zod will be resurrected in the upcoming Justice League. The villainous of all villains 'Dark-Seid' is emerging. I can't deliver your message to Clark Kent because I was more into Marvel than DC. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Hard To Let Go Of Past Hurt. by Nobody: 8:12am On Jul 12, 2017 |
y3mi:Well then it may seem that most men have a better capacity of managing emotional hurt than women. Or wouldn't you agree? Btw, how did you quote me in multiples like this, I would like know. |
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