| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by chimavalentine(m): 9:35pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
guy....forget her ..upon all u HV done for her ...she get mind to cheat on u....I bet u ..she will ever change ..even though u reconcile wt her.....bcoz...that's Hw my ex has bn cheating and apologizing..... and I will always forgive bcoz I love her so much...and she never stop cheating ..no matter what I do for her ......but when we finally broke up.....I taught that I wouldn't cope without her......but today am doing just fine without her......so be a man and face reality |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by naijaboiy: 9:55pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
zicoraads:
Why do I have a feeling this is either Naijaboiy or Tosyne2much? This feels so much like them 
Seriously man, is she a Calabar girl? 
On a serious note. They've all said everything. But in the end, you'll probably still do what's in your heart. I just hope and pray you make the right one. Cheers! Bros no be me o!
You supppose know say I no get this kyn power dey write ontop woman matter. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by naijaboiy: 10:50pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:
yes! cheating is enough to end a relationship. where there is no trust, all you have left is a vast depth of dust and air Do not listen to all these girls typing trash. They're all the same!
Can't you see none of them except one has given a sensible advise? And that's because she's a marrried woman. The rest are young and dumb HO's like your ex.
Move on with life bro...we've all been there. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by saasala(m): 11:19pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.
I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.
Of all the girls I ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when I date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. In fact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, I was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasn't all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime
The trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. Then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. I mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didn't know.
Brothers and sisters! When I opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! I copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.
For the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.
She begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just don't know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, I'm thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. Thanks so much. one love!
Hear me bro, open your ears wide and listen. Listen to me because I have been in your shoes exactly. I can relate with everything thing you wrote up there. I was spending on her, the love was over the moon, I discovered she cheated after hacking her whatsapp, I broke up with her, she moved on quickly but I couldnt. I went back to her and she agreed to take me back after I mumuly begged her. 7 or 8 months later, she cheated with double dose of venom after I hacked her whatsapp again. She didnt even fvck the first guy, but this time, she bleeped a guy, fell compltely in love with another and was flirting excessively with another. I literaly ran mad. I mean, I almost lost my sanity. Now she is gone and gone forever. Learn from my story because ours sound the same. RUN RUN RUN. She will come back and strike your heart with Sango's thunder. 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by gemale(m): 11:39pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.
I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.
Of all the girls I ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when I date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. In fact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, I was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasn't all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime
The trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. Then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. I mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didn't know.
Brothers and sisters! When I opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! I copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.
For the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.
She begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just don't know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, I'm thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. Thanks so much. one love!
My brother, it is my humble opinion that God just saved you big time. Get on your knees & engage in marathon thanksgiving. Going by your description, she was a materialistic person who was more into what she could get from you than in you as a person. The way it ended was the only way you would have called things off because you were obviously smitten & wouldn't have read any other warning sign well. Imagine if you were ignorant of her indiscretions & finally had walked down the aisle with her. How would your marriage have been? Yes, it hurts & would hurt for a while since you were really into her but it obviously wouldn't be wise to try & get back with her. I like that you said that you couldn't hate her. Hatred would do no good. Forgive her but don't resume your relationship with her. She is who she is by choice; you have to respect & accept that. Don't give into the temptation of trying to win her back regardless of how lonely you feel. Don't be led by your feelings because they can be unreliable. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Omoluabi007: 11:41pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
[color=#990000][/color] saasala:
Hear me bro, open your ears wide and listen. Listen to me because I have been in your shoes exactly. I can relate with everything thing you wrote up there. I was spending on her, the love was over the moon, I discovered she cheated after hacking her whatsapp, I broke up with her, she moved on quickly but I couldnt. I went back to her and she agreed to take me back after I mumuly begged her. 7 or 8 months later, she cheated with double dose of venom after I hacked her whatsapp again. She didnt even fvck the first guy, but this time, she bleeped a guy, fell compltely in love with another and was flirting excessively [i][/i] another. I literaly ran mad. I mean, I almost lost my sanity. Now she is gone and gone forever.
Learn from my story because ours sound the same. RUN RUN RUN. She will come backand strike your heart with Sango's thunder. @ saasala,your experience was hurrible,if that should happen to me I will literary lose my sanity and even depress.may God saves us from a cheat wife/ girlfriend |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Omoluabi007: 11:42pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
[color=#990000][/color] saasala:
Hear me bro, open your ears wide and listen. Listen to me because I have been in your shoes exactly. I can relate with everything thing you wrote up there. I was spending on her, the love was over the moon, I discovered she cheated after hacking her whatsapp, I broke up with her, she moved on quickly but I couldnt. I went back to her and she agreed to take me back after I mumuly begged her. 7 or 8 months later, she cheated with double dose of venom after I hacked her whatsapp again. She didnt even fvck the first guy, but this time, she bleeped a guy, fell compltely in love with another and was flirting excessively [i][/i] another. I literaly ran mad. I mean, I almost lost my sanity. Now she is gone and gone forever.
Learn from my story because ours sound the same. RUN RUN RUN. She will come backand strike your heart with Sango's thunder. @ saasala,your experience was hurrible,if that should happen to me I will literary lose my sanity and even depress.may God saves us from a cheat wife/ girlfriend. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by gemale(m): 12:12am On Jul 18, 2017 |
alanka:
So people of this generation are still hoping and believing that they can find faithful partners.
If 10 of every 11 girls within the age of 18 to 25 are not virgin then we can equally say the probability that a married woman or a fiancee will not be faith to her spouse is 10/11= 9.9 or99%
And will all know that even 999 of every 1001 are not virgin so where are you going to find the faithful?
With this it means there very high tendency (99%) that a wife or fiancee will not be faithful
Get yourself a baby mama if u cant commot your face Yes, because it is my intention to be faithful in my relationship & marriage. Not by my power, but by the grace of God & the ever abundant strength He makes available to me. He would also lead me to a woman, who has also learnt to fear Him & we both would build our marriage not principally on emotions, physical or material attractions but on Christ, the solid, unshakeable Rock & His divine purpose. In the meantime, i would continue to avail myself as malleable clay to the hands of the Divine Potter, who is molding me into His image & He would make me into a model partner to my wife. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by aqeelah: 7:29am On Jul 18, 2017 |
I red it u said she mak u happy and every thing has change since u started date her, try tu get her back if mission is impossible forget about her. but next time don't love woman just like them even if u Mary her.
love ur mother and like her, but your wife like her don't love her |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by OAFMods: 9:10am On Jul 18, 2017 |
Kokaine:
i would normally have taken this option if this happened many years ago, but now, and at my age, i want to be a committed person, i want to be a responsible family man. Bro you are starting afresh, girls that will love you will not take you tru all this bs. That was how I wasted 7 yrs banking on someone that glaringly cheats. You might love but her priority is different. Money does not win every girls heart or maybe some would rather love to date the owner of the bank rather than it's manager. If you know the difference then you'd understand why another is the miracle n not you. Girls have priorities you do too. Just adopt what every girl you dated only to sidestep adapt n brush your game up. Flash the money that's what I do, share crumbs to all bitches(ensure all are your taste n standard) n go after only that which distinguish her. Love is not happiness especially when it's not reciprocated. 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by pryme(m): 9:23am On Jul 18, 2017 |
Op, I use to here most ladies say "Men don't know what they want", you are one of those that feed them with this false impression. You truly don't know what you want  |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by OAFMods: 9:23am On Jul 18, 2017 |
Kokaine:
i think of you as a sadist. Nah Bro this right here is the real deal you have to deal with it by moving on. The funny thing is the girl might even come back to you but how well you are able to ignore n rubbish any affection you had for the affair is what will determine all that. Stay strong. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Debbime(f): 10:56am On Jul 18, 2017 |
Does not matter dear what you think. Read what you wrote. You were hard on other girls, so this is your waterloo, darling Kokaine:
i think of you as a sadist. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Escabado: 10:59am On Jul 18, 2017 |
placeofallure:
Ha ha! 3k! Owo kini? God knows I can never date anyone like you. It's not good to be a cheating partner, it's also not good to be stingy-stingy. Wetin I wan take 3k do na? E no even do to buy recharge cards, all these chewing gum boyfriends on Nairaland, no dey teach people bad things for here abegi! Ode when has relationship turn out to be job opportunity where u earn money . What will i even do with a parasite like you . I can count 300k in your present and never give u a dime and if u disturb me too much I go fvk u tire and run . This is why many of you girls turn to ashawo .over 35 years no marriage . Go and learn work and make your own money . ode 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 11:47am On Jul 18, 2017 |
Debbime:
Does not matter dear what you think. Read what you wrote. You were hard on other girls, so this is your waterloo, darling
okay i get what you mean. I'm sorry for my choice of words. but just to clear the air, what i meant by being stingy to girls is just the ability to decipher what to give from what is unnecessary. it is a known fact that some guys cannot maintain their financial discipline when it comes to meeting the demands of beautiful women. i wasnt born with a silver spoon. i started out with a job where my monthly take home was 30k and my daily transport was 1200naira. from egbeda to lekki phase 1. so even when i gained experience in electrical installation and decided to stand on my own, i still recognised the value of money. i wouldnt spend on things i feel are not needed, and because of that, certain girls saw me as too principled or tightfisted. money is not mearnt to be wasted. rather than spend 100k in a club for example, id give it to someone who just needs as little as 50k to start his life up. 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 11:54am On Jul 18, 2017 |
MissCuppy:
She was feeding your ego by continuously begging you and you were busy forming, now you are feeling lonely and missing her.
Not every woman will beg you, if she manage to do so, try and forgive her, she put her self esteem on the line by begging you at the first place.  |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 3:15pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
lefulefu:
ok lemme reply to ur post.there are certain reasons a man might cheat.if he"s inborn womaniser there is nothing u would do to stop him from cheating.also if he has no attraction for his wife he would go for the lady he"s attracted to behind his wife"s back.hope u do know some men get forced into marriage with ladies they dont like.if u have a wife that u love,u sexually compactibale with...whats the need to cheat? still doesnt justify their actions...those ur reasons are also reason dat can make a woman cheat, but 80% of women forced into marriage stay faithful. So what are we saying here?. most guys who are in a relationship cheat or flirt outside and their gfriends forgive them... dis same guys find it difficult to forgive. So bro we all in d sin together, so we have to be in the forgiving together. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
luswitz:
still doesnt justify their actions...those ur reasons are also reason dat can make a woman cheat, but 80% of women forced into marriage stay faithful. So what are we saying here?. most guys who are in a relationship cheat or flirt outside and their gfriends forgive them... dis same guys find it difficult to forgive. So bro we all in d sin together, so we have to be in the forgiving together. well as for me sure i will forgive her frm the depths of my heart but i will move on |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 3:25pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
lefulefu:
well as for me sure i will forgive her frm the depths of my heart but i will move on everyone has the right to their decision.... 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
luswitz:
everyone has the right to their decision.... very true |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by mapist(m): 4:18pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.
I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.
Of all the girls I ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when I date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. In fact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, I was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasn't all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime
The trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. Then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. I mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didn't know.
Brothers and sisters! When I opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! I copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.
For the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.
She begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just don't know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, I'm thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. Thanks so much. one love!
I have though not exactly like yours. I felt i was never gonna love again. You have to up your productivity level so as to up your income. I did exactly dat, last year, i met someone and we started dating recently and the rest is history. Before we started to date, we became so close that, as couples, we still see eachother as besties..the teasing no be here. Lastly, just as predicted, the serial cheater then called me while i was at work to seek my attention; i told her i couldn't talk. She called mins after to beg for 5mins and i said ok, I ll spare you sometime as friends that we are. She outrightly asked if there was any possibility of us getting back; i believe you know the answer that followed.........and, i also made sure she knows my sugarplum on IG via regular tags et all...So, bro MOVE ON..never settle for less. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by mapist(m): 4:25pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
LePrezident:
Been there done that.
1. Cut every form of contact. Social media and all. Delete her number
2. Get very busy with work and set work/career goals to achieve.
3. Go on a punna chase and score as many as you can. Some people will advise against this but tell you what, this is the most effective of all the steps.
4. Stop stalking her on social media. Get a life!
5. Do more fun stuff. Like learn a hobby (learn a new dance, learn to swim, pick up an interest in foreign languages; preferably French)
6. Go on a holiday.
7. Avoid romantic music and stop visiting places you both used to go together.
"1 - 4" was exactly what i did. CUT ALL TIES FROM MUTUAL FRIENDS TOO, ESPECIALLY THE FEMALES. 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by mapist(m): 4:32pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
MissCuppy:
She was feeding your ego by continuously begging you and you were busy forming, now you are feeling lonely and missing her.
Not every woman will beg you, if she manage to do so, try and forgive her, she put her self esteem on the line by begging you at the first place. You are INCREDIBLE. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by mapist(m): 4:47pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
alanka:
So people of this generation are still hoping and believing that they can find faithful partners.
If 10 of every 11 girls within the age of 18 to 25 are not virgin then we can equally say the probability that a married woman or a fiancee will not be faith to her spouse is 10/11= 9.9 or99%
And will all know that even 999 of every 1001 are not virgin so where are you going to find the faithful?
With this it means there very high tendency (99%) that a wife or fiancee will not be faithful
Get yourself a baby mama if u cant commot your face Smh |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by mapist(m): 4:56pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Kokaine:
yes! cheating is enough to end a relationship. where there is no trust, all you have left is a vast depth of dust and air You messed up. You just wasted data by replying her and you just made me waste mine for cautioning you. What a dumb post you replied to. 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Chelseafan1: 5:23pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.
I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.
Of all the girls I ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when I date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. In fact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, I was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasn't all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime
The trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. Then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. I mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didn't know.
Brothers and sisters! When I opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! I copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.
For the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.
She begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just don't know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, I'm thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. Thanks so much. one love!
Hahaha, this was my experience exactly a year ago. Omo, I felt I could never do without her, I loved her silly but then she cheated, I forgave her, she secretly cheated again, I forgave her again until she did it the 3rd time. I had to let go patapata, it's almost a year we broke up now and I am over her for good. I am very very happy now. At first, it's normal for you to miss her but I beg u, never ever go back to her, do not accept her, she prefers the other guy to you, trust me. It's hard to accept but that's it. You have to accept the fact that, even tho you see yourself as amazing, not every girl would find you attractive, that's just life. If you take her back, she would cheat on you again. Just let go, forget her, you'll be fine. |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Chelseafan1: 5:26pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
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| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
mapist:
You are INCREDIBLE. Oh really |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Debbime(f): 5:38pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Your apology accepted. I understand what u mean. And any girl that expects you to spend of to 20k in a club is not a serious person, in all, however, there are ladies who genuinely require help, and if you can and willing, why not, ( I am advocating for ladies not stand on their own oh, a lady with her own money is a beautiful thing). I was speaking from the point of view of some extremely stingy people and most men fall into that equation. Expecting a lady to do all. That is my grouse. NB: its also a beautiful thing to see a young (assuming you are young) hustling man. Please do not waste money. Cause i know how hard it is to make it. Peace and out!! Kokaine:
okay i get what you mean. I'm sorry for my choice of words.
but just to clear the air, what i meant by being stingy to girls is just the ability to decipher what to give from what is unnecessary. it is a known fact that some guys cannot maintain their financial discipline when it comes to meeting the demands of beautiful women. i wasnt born with a silver spoon. i started out with a job where my monthly take home was 30k and my daily transport was 1200naira. from egbeda to lekki phase 1.
so even when i gained experience in electrical installation and decided to stand on my own, i still recognised the value of money. i wouldnt spend on things i feel are not needed, and because of that, certain girls saw me as too principled or tightfisted. money is not mearnt to be wasted. rather than spend 100k in a club for example, id give it to someone who just needs as little as 50k to start his life up. 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Chelseafan1: 6:18pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Kokaine:
thats right. my only question is how she is able to keep away from me now. i dont even feel she is hurt. she didnt beg for long at all in my own reckoning. i dont want to see people in the light i am seeing this girl because it may not be healthy for me in all my relationships. Hehehehe, this bros is still a learner, someone that prefers the other guy to you for some reasons only her can tell. She just begged casually to make it look real, I am sure she was hoping and praying you shouldn't take her back sef Women are crazier than you think o 1 Like |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Chelseafan1: 6:22pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Kokaine:
no be lie bro. thanks Hope u fuvvk her wella b4 e end, if not, I weep for u because na u lose pass. I fuvvk my ex wella so tey, me sef happy. As she go, I no miss her too much, I just dey happy say I no full myself |
| Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 6:39pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
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