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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
meticulously searching for the deep, dark secret in OP's post. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:op, u no holy pass, infact she fought to keep her baby, damning all comsequencies but unfortunately, she lost it (i truly admire that) .I don't see anything dark in this. Besides, if she is withdrawing from you sexually, then that should tell you that she is still healing....just like you. Anyway, on whether to marry her or not is your decision to make and nobody else's, just don't lead her on and add to her baggage |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by XXCASH: 1:14pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: My friend behave yourself. If you cant handle it now then you wont be able to handle it then. Walk 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by smartleo(m): 1:16pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
infogenius:Sincerely this guy has got a good wife and he didn't know it.The future and the rock on which marriage stand is communication because it gives you a rest of safety .You better stay with this woman before you encounter some asshole that can lie for Africa 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by fof1: 1:19pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: PLS MY FRIEND GO AHEAD & MARRY THIS LADY. IF WHAT SHE TOLD U WAS AN ABSOLUTE,THEN STILL SAY YES TO HER AND MARRY HER. SHE WILL BE VERY GOOD FOR TOMORROW. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by slimiyke(m): 1:20pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
If the confessions from both parties weren't don't just for test sake then I don't see anything wrong with all these revelations who doesn't have a dark side of life....its should rather be a good thing that your spouse made such confession so the both of you can deal with it and also not to hear about it from some else....abeg go ahead and marry her jor! Only if her quantities are up to 60% of your expectations then manage the remaining 40% bro....Congratulations! |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by NoToPile: 1:22pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
cyberguy72: Has been giving? She gave after her 2 failed attempts at a relationship with the OP. So because she denied OP sex and then after some time (years most likely ) she got involved with other guys and had sex and OP finally came back to her and she still has a no sex policy she's a bad person. How are you sure that its not the experiences she had with those guys that made her say no sex before marriage to the OP the 2nd time and how are you sure that its not because she felt she's too young or not redy forr sex that she denies the OP during their uni and pre uni days because what we are talking about here is years and should be around 6 years or more if she dated her uni boyfriend for 4 years. His problem is still sex that's all. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by udison(m): 1:23pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Excuse you...
Wth is wrong with you...she didnt get pregnant when you where with her...
Yes she aborted an unborn child, so did you...
She did the same thing you did...i dnt see y u are asking dis...
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Actually i see y u are angry....she refused to have sex with you. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by emjay4me4u: 1:23pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I wish owner of this thread would read this.... Though sex isn't the basis for which a relationship should be built on but the truth is, from ur narrative, she dated u twice before this time and didn't consider u good enough to share any form of intimate bond with but was willing to distribute her common wealth to others and even ended up losing a pregnancy for another man along the way. Whenever u think about marriage, she comes to mind for you, but can the same be said about her? I think u are just having a hangover from ur teenage love affair and nothing more. She knows she has a grip on you and that's why she doesn't feel threatened by any action you take cos deep within you are bound to run back to her. This is what I've experienced. Leave sex and emotions out of it. Give objectivity a chance, It's obvious you're really having a sleepless night over her but the truth be told, if she has an option to choose from, SHE WILL DUMP YOU AGAIN AND AGAIN without ever having to get down with you...... Only ladies can explain the myth behind this but as you read this comment, the lady i once had this experience with is happily married to another man. Remember, am not thinking for you..... just sharing my experience 8 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by conscienceman4(m): 1:25pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
She was in school for how many years? He dated the other guy in school for 4years. When did she get pregnant for the second guy? From this you should know the truth. Either a test or facts. Please, it does not stop you from marrying her. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by subzero2(m): 1:27pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
OP..., OP!!! You dey hear me?! Don't marry her. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by sekem: 1:30pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
You remind me of a girl, that I once knew. See her face whenever I, I look at you. You won't believe all of the things she put me through. This is why I just can't get with you. Thought that she was the one for me, Til I found out she was on her creep, Oh, she was sexing everyone, but me. This is why we could never be. Usher Raymond- U Remind Me 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by herroyalty(f): 1:31pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
speaking as a Neutral body!!! the Girl is the one that suppose to thinking your tots right now and not d other way... my point is if you can't accept her now with her confession ...you can't live with the tot thereafter so pls justify your reasons before you make an error. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by womanofsteel: 1:32pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
She told you a dark secret in confidence and you came here to tell us. Bia young man, you're not ready for marriage. By the way, she had a stillbirth unlike you that committed murder deliberately. Its even your own that is the "dark secret" if you don't know. Mtcheew. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Daeylar(f): 1:33pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg don't marry her Dmerciful, frugal, Frankyboy1 and a bunch of others has said all there is to say. Read their advice. Just end it. she is even trying to manipulate you, "what does she mean by saying, she hopes she won't regret telling you this?" mtchewwwww. nonsense Don't marry her 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by YelloweWest: 1:33pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sanchez01:Your theory is also based on assumptions. I'm still of the view that it's not about the op. He cheated and dumped her. She felt she had no option but to give into sex in her next relationship. If she so dislikes the op and can't think of sex with him then why has she agreed to marry him?? Pls don't say money cos in the long run money or not once they are married she must sleep with her husband. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by tiwiex(m): 1:37pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
cococandy: Don't also forget she was double dating. She dated a school mate for 4 years an got pregnant for someone else during d same time. The confusion for op is not the pregnancy. It is dat sex probably is no big deal for her as she even gives two guys unprotected sef. There is more to her dan he sees. What else might he not know? |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by dowjones(m): 1:38pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lovelygurl: This thread only proves most women lack comprehension. No wonder most village meeting of old avoid the presence of women. He never got her relative preganant. nothing close to that was written. You should modify your post so more people won't think you are an idiot. 4 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
dowjones: Oh yh I am going to take an advice from a fool who says MOST women lack comprehension because of MY mistake |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Gwenevera: 1:40pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Story story. I can't laugh abeg |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by jc173(f): 1:41pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
obyrich: Like seriously? First u sleep with her neighbour she forgived u and u finally got a girl pregnant as if that's not enough u even went ahead to commit murder and she still forgive u, now u r considering whether to marry her or not because she told u a little of her dark secret .. My dear u r d worse sinner, I won't even look at u and that ur ring talk more of marring u |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by mapist(m): 1:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: The red flag is that part where she was dating a school bf, cheated with another man and then got pregnant before having a still birth. Bro, if that's true, then you are in a fix. Regardless of the fix, do what makes you happy but you should be willing to accept whatever comes with your decision. Another salient concern is the fact that she denies you sex but gets it elsewhere. That's intolerable by my own standards. No explanation justifies that act. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by imustsaymymindo: 1:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
AntiWailer: 150? Who am I to judge? |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by emjay4me4u: 1:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
ogahug: This is the height of disconnect between thought of a guy and that of a lady...... Sincerely, they're both sack of maggots when measured with moral and religious virtues. This guy's hitch is that while the girl was giving him a NO, she goes out to give a YES to other guys ro the point that she got a stillbirth. This means they wouldn't have been a thread like this if the baby had been delivered alive.... To advise him to marry out of pity is the worst thing that will ever happen to him bcus after satisfying that long awaited sexual urge the girl, some inevitable crappies start showing up(as expected mostly after marriage) he will start regretting and things might get worst from there. I challenge the concerned person to say he is seriously not considering backing out already before sharing this online. You don't win a battle you have chosen to lose right before it even begins. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ComputerSeller: 1:45pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
obyrich:When you see experienced people talk, you can't help but appreciate them. You wrote well. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by danookisaiah: 1:47pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
devil has used bought of you then, and the Pawer of God is at work now. so asks God 2 4give each other, then go for marriage. nobody is above temptation but only his grace (the most high). |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by delishpot: 1:47pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
smartleo: That is how they exchange wife for gf every time. Tomorrow now he would meet and marry his saint only to run back to NL and complain how women can be deceptive and keep secrets. This is why. Exactly why women hide things. But she did good for herself sha. Better he leaves now than start acting up after marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by decatalyst(m): 1:51pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
verygudbadguy: Don't mind me. Maybe its because I like FULL honesty. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ogawisdom(m): 1:52pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: Nobody holy pass, this may be d least of her secrets. Jst conduct relevant fertility tests on her to ensure her womb is intact b4 u marry her or better still give her belle b4 marriage to be sure she can conceive |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by verygudbadguy(m): 1:56pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
decatalyst: |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by imustsaymymindo: 1:58pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sunmolar: This case strong gan. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by imustsaymymindo: 1:59pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
cutepaul: Painful men. E sure me say the girl na fine girl as @op love am so. |
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