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lincs25:
Are you working, are you a graduate, are you looking for job? Answer my questions let me tell you something from experience.

lincs25:
Are you working, are you a graduate, are you looking for job? Answer my questions let me tell you something from experience.

humilitypays:
In present day Nigeria under president Buhari/Osinbajo, you need at least NGN200,000 monthly to live a basic life and live in a decent 2-bedroom apartment in a low income city area in Nigeria.

But if your wife to be is working and earning at least NGNG100,000 monthly, that is very okay to start a family with her...if not, it won't be that easy with the current inflation.

Mathematically:

House rent per annum = NGN350,000; NGN30,000 monthly

Monthly feeding with your wife alone = NGN3000 x 30 = NGN90,000 monthly feeding

Other daily expenditures + helping family members, etc = NGN100,000 monthly

Clothing and others monthly = NGN50,000

Total projected/estimated monthly expenditures = NGN30,000 + NGN90,000 + NGN100,000 + NGN50,000 = NGN270,000

So with an income of NGN270,000 monthly, u can start a decent home with your wife to be, good luck

Ishaq319:
which u r going to remained single through out ur life. How much is ur income?

mizzytan:
Any amount of money is reasonable before marriage. True love is important before marriage. When their is true love,money won't determine the happiness of the marriage.

toyinjimoh:
I know family that earn 50k per month and they 're enjoying their life....stop all these 250k , 150 k per month stuff abet, hw many of u is a Even earning up to dt amount

Laralag:
It is true that there are lots of mature single sisters in our society today, it is also true that there are loads of single men in our society. could it be that men not settling down is the reason most women are still single. Most of the men we dated as undergraduate migth still be single 10years afer leaving school ( I know a lot). Most men I have asked, excuse boils down to money even though they have jobs.
This brings me to my question how much should a man be earning before he should start thinking of marriage all things being equal.

iamrealdeji:
what's ur own business? why are u begging people? is everybody not entitled to their opinion? you have nothing to contribute to this nation than increase in population when the white folks are inventing wonders. you're a primitive black man who should be ashamed of yourself. if you like,marry at 18,no one is stopping you. 70 year old Donald Trump has a 10 year old child and Donald is far better than your father who has grown up children in every way. Africans with stupid mentalities. nonsense. must you wait for the day you will reap off your children? and must you just settle for any woman cos you want to marry?

iamrealdeji:
what's ur own business? why are u begging people? is everybody not entitled to their opinion? you have nothing to contribute to this nation than increase in population when the white folks are inventing wonders. you're a primitive black man who should be ashamed of yourself. if you like,marry at 18,no one is stopping you. 70 year old Donald Trump has a 10 year old child and Donald is far better than your father who has grown up children in every way. Africans with stupid mentalities. nonsense. must you wait for the day you will reap off your children? and must you just settle for any woman cos you want to marry?

NaijaElba:
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow
with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. You might still not succeed
at your target year. So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.


My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love
of my life very early, But my fear was, can i
really take care of her? But right now She's married with
Four grown up children. The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together. I
failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..
Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.


Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_


Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.


Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink,
with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God grace....Amen

*Ladies, please try and pass this across to Ur boyfriend or fiancé* *Guys please have a re-think and tell other guys about it too... And consider this advice*°°°°°°°°

NaijaElba:
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow
with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. You might still not succeed
at your target year. So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.


My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love
of my life very early, But my fear was, can i
really take care of her? But right now She's married with
Four grown up children. The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together. I
failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..
Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.


Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_


Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.


Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink,
with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God grace....Amen

*Ladies, please try and pass this across to Ur boyfriend or fiancé* *Guys please have a re-think and tell other guys about it too... And consider this advice*°°°°°°°°

Gerrard59:
In all honesty, is that the kind of lifestyle you intend living? Tomorrow you'll come complaining when he has 10 children he cannot take ADEQUATE and PROPER care of.

Marriage is not a child's play. Someone accused the present generation of placing money at the top in marriage.

Newsflash: Things are different today. The economy is tough. Standard of living expectations is high. Finance plays a very important role in relationships of the opposite sex.

Yes, one must not be a billionaire before getting married. However, one should have a reasonable amount of resources to live a decent life.

thesuave10:
450k monthly

NaijaElba:
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow
with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. You might still not succeed
at your target year. So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.


My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love
of my life very early, But my fear was, can i
really take care of her? But right now She's married with
Four grown up children. The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together. I
failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..
Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.


Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_


Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.


Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink,
with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God grace....Amen

*Ladies, please try and pass this across to Ur boyfriend or fiancé* *Guys please have a re-think and tell other guys about it too... And consider this advice*°°°°°°°°

patola080:
u re right 45o k is OK because d money is nt 4 only u and ur wife is 4 u , ur wife and both families because b4 d end of the month they will ve one story or d other to tell to get money from u

thesuave10:
It is for me and my nuclear family that is my wife and kids

patola080:
they we cum u can not send dem away now

dunnybay:
Good day all,pls I need your advice on an issue. Has anyone worked with a terrible head teacher before? I teach in a school where the proprietress resides abroad and the head teacher behaves irrationally. When I got the job,I noticed they were operating the old teaching method and since I have a little experience,I suggested we include sounds and some modern ways of teaching,she declined and insisted on the old. Someone then advised I speak with the proprietress which I did and she was so impressed. I guess she now sees the head teacher's incompetence and told her to make me an H.O.D. That was the beginning of my night mare, she doesn't answer my greetings,if there is any duty am supposed to carry out she gives it to another teacher. She behaves as if I don't exist.I wish to resign but I submitted the name of the school for my PGDE teaching practice and its irreversible. Am already dreading resuming with her again. I don't want to report her to the proprietress so it doesn't look like I want her gone but am just confused. Any advise pls? No bashing pls.

Laralag:
It is true that there are lots of mature single sisters in our society today, it is also true that there are loads of single men in our society. could it be that men not settling down is the reason most women are still single. Most of the men we dated as undergraduate migth still be single 10years afer leaving school ( I know a lot). Most men I have asked, excuse boils down to money even though they have jobs.
This brings me to my question how much should a man be earning before he should start thinking of marriage all things being equal.

Airtimex:
The man 350k monthly The woman 100k monthly...
The woman should be working. It will help the man manage the 350k job...

Don't marry a woman who is not working...
Just saying...

humilitypays:
In present day Nigeria under president Buhari/Osinbajo, you need at least NGN200,000 monthly to live a basic life and live in a decent 2-bedroom apartment in a low income city area in Nigeria.

But if your wife to be is working and earning at least NGNG100,000 monthly, that is very okay to start a family with her...if not, it won't be that easy with the current inflation.

Mathematically:

House rent per annum = NGN350,000; NGN30,000 monthly

Monthly feeding with your wife alone = NGN3000 x 30 = NGN90,000 monthly feeding

Other daily expenditures + helping family members, etc = NGN100,000 monthly

Clothing and others monthly = NGN50,000

Total projected/estimated monthly expenditures = NGN30,000 + NGN90,000 + NGN100,000 + NGN50,000 = NGN270,000

So with an income of NGN270,000 monthly, u can start a decent home with your wife to be, good luck

jfleece:
Most peeps claiming that 450k is a normal marital standard are actually earning less than a hundred thousand a month with the current biting recession, even if we are so passionate to be financially successful, we should also realize that time waits for no one.. Most ladies can actually be productive and contribute to the growth of the family, and with God's grace and favour,the family will expand and be successful.... Wealth does not come by being the most intelligent person on earth, neither does it come by the number of connections or degrees u have... True and sustainable wealth comes from above.... So as a man if ur income is reasonable and ur wife is also gainfully employed.. Even if she has her own business,as long as she can contribute to the growth of the family....

fabre4:
many of you are deceiving yourselves here how many jobs pay 150k and above in Nigeria

Nma27:
Many peeps success are tied to marriage. Once they marry, favour starts to fall on them from left and right.

MevsU:
The funniest thing is that there are guys who earn more than enough and remain unmarried but guys who earn 40k or less jump into marriages hoping things will get better which is not logical.

Don't make yourself poorer by jumping into marriage.

Alikote:
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