chibuzorAbia:


No wonder the northern bastardds don't want to RESTRUCTURE! See generational poverty!!!!!!!

so u are advising people to follow this part cant u see how ta-tarred NORTHERN KID ARE we talking of quality life

blip:
You can have an income of 450k and it will never be enough depending on the type of woman you marry. I'll simply say marry a lady who knows how to manage your finance well and is not an exorbitant spender.

Thank you jawe. You share similar reasoning with me

rash47:
happened to me twice,the lack of money then quench the little confidence I needed to make things work,so painful I couldnt handle things properly they both walked away...ohhh Mr money where are though. From those experience I learnt a great deal.

It happens bro. Most ladies tend to take their leave when a financial stable dude pressurize them and shower them with material things

Do you know that some housewives even leave their husbands for another man that can pay their bills?

debbycreamy:


change your thoughts my dear

My husband doesn't let me work

Does it mean I'm I liability? If the money is there why will u regret, I help him save n we move on happily he has been d happiest man all these yrs

Pls oh think positively some ladies might b unemployed today buh can b commissioners tomorrow na ready made u dey find?

Its good for ladies to work n support d husband no doubt buh u can miss ur mrs right if that's ur criteria

Just shut up, you're a liability

How much does your husband have ??

Just a small financial problem and you will know you're a liability

Does your husband have up to 50 million naira ?? That was how much i lost in business and investments, had it not been for my employed wife, i wouldn't have been able to get back to my feet and make back the money i lost

tylesh:

Is that your real face?

No

My brother's face

SnowJay92:


Was reading in awe, one was even quoting 3k daily for feeding, meaning they'd be ordering in everyday? This our generation shaa, and some will get carried away by these Internet standards.

You're just so funny ehn

Meaning, they will be visiting Mr Biggs everyday eating fried rice and chicken

Addicted2Women:


No

My brother's face

I see...... U guys look alike. What a resemblance!

tosyne2much:
You're just so funny ehn

Meaning, they will visiting my Biggs everyday eating fried rice and chicken

Lol, u sef check am, even with the rough economy, what happened to buying food in bulk to last a while and supporting with just perishables and ingredients? what do i know shaa, some are privileged.

Trottle:


And that is why uncle Paul is still chasing small small girls and bedding them in his three bedroom apartment and also using and dumping them till he realise that he's almost 50 and has varieties of STDs by then papa Johnny's kids would probably graduates

hahahahahaha

Addicted2Women:


Just shut up, you're a liability

How much does your husband have ??

Just a small financial problem and you will know you're a liability

Does your husband have up to 50 million naira ?? That was how much i lost in business and investments, had it not been for my employed wife, i wouldn't have been able to get back to my feet and make back the money i lost

Ahn ahn 50 million? So you invested 50 million in MMM ? Chaiiii

Addicted2Women:


Just shut up, you're a liability

How much does your husband have ??

Just a small financial problem and you will know you're a liability

Does your husband have up to 50 million naira ?? That was how much i lost in business and investments, had it not been for my employed wife, i wouldn't have been able to get back to my feet and make back the money i lost

Do someone need all d money on earth to prove a point
Eehhya I pity u
d fact he doesn't let me work dey pain u
Oya go hug transformer na
we don't have millions buh we are comfortable and d first time I met him he had nothing buh today I'm proud of wat we have achieved

Sorry for u lost
all destinies r not d same
Respect people for who they r
Some don't work due to health conditions
people have their reasons don't think u know it all ok

ratioxyz:
Give 3 examples only and I might believe. Not hear says o

Well...I agree with him at some point.
A friend resigned from his previous place of work were he was earning 140k due to some issues he had. He searched for a decent job for a while, but he couldn't find, so he took up a contract work for 45k as a single guy.

He got married within the middle of the year he started the contract work. Before the end of that same year, the company confirmed him as a full staff with 300k and an official car.
Well not everyone has that favour.

Akposb:
This generation has placed money and sex above all else in marriage. The reality can be different if we recognize our peculiarity. No money is enough especially at the beginning, two financially strong partners can get far no matter how little. Marriage built on financial credibility can still fail.

Best brain

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NaijaElba:
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow
with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or
achieving your plans. You might still not succeed
at your target year. So start your life early, with
consistency you will grow.


My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was
talking about making billions before i marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love
of my life very early, But my fear was, can i
really take care of her? But right now She's married with
Four grown up children. The guy that married her
was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together. I
failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most
of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..
Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.


Trust me it
isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of,
and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_


Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still
be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at
that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.


Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many
fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you
settle down. God can change your life in a blink,
with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed
by God grace....Amen

*Ladies, please try and pass this across to Ur boyfriend or fiancé* *Guys please have a re-think and tell other guys about it too... And consider this advice*°°°°°°°°

Inasmuch as its good to post stuffs, let's be mindful to give credit to whoever originally own these kind of matetials. I have seen this post severally on my whatsapp and m sure u didnt sit down to write this. This is plagiarism. Even if you cant source, put copied and that would be fine.

tylesh:

I see...... U guys look alike. What a resemblance!

Thanks

Smeeky:



He got married within the middle of the year he started the contract work. Before the end of that same year, the company confirmed him as a full staff with 300k and an official car.
Well not everyone has that favour.

lucky him!

Smeeky:


Well...I agree with him at some point.
A friend resigned from his previous place of work were he was earning 140k due to some issues he had. He searched for a decent job for a while, but he couldn't find, so he took up a contract work for 45k as a single guy.

He got married within the middle of the year he started the contract work. Before the end of that same year, the company confirmed him as a full staff with 300k and an official car.
Well not everyone has that favour.

story even if he married 10 women and not perform he would not be confirm

Alikote:
story even if he married 10 women and not perform he would not be confirm

Are you saying those who are contracted do not perform well on the job

Smeeky:
Are you saying those who are contracted do not perform well on the job

performance or not has noting to do with marriage ...rational thinking not african dead idea....dangote is not married an he the richest black man

It really depends on the type of life you want to live. My Parents' drivers earn 60K each a month and have about 4-6 children. As for me, I'd like for you to earn at least 1m+ while I also have my good-paying job.

How much you need to earn before marriage depends on several factors eg where you live, the standard you hope to maintain, distance of your house to office, how soon do you want to starting having children, do you have a car etc
Since there are so many variables, it will be difficult to give you a figure. Nevertheless, this is a scientific approach to it.
Write down your current monthly expenditures, adjust for rent and other things which may change after marriage.your partner too should do same. Both of you should harmonise your expenditures. This will give you a rough estimate of what you will need per month. Compare this with what both of you currently earn, it will show you where you are financially.
Will you need to reduce your standard? Will you need to get a cheaper accommodation? You are in a better position to know if your current earnings can sustain a new family or not.

whao:


Let me share my experience and I hope people will learn.

I started working with a Federal government agency in 2013 earning N45k and in 2016 my salary got to 50k. I am of age to marry but I have been thinking of how to get money for the celebration, I have a super girl that has all quality a REAL wife should have, not all this girl's mentioning 150-450k which it's their choice anyway. My then girl friend now my super wife encourage me to forget money and start planning with the little I have.

Note: she was just a corper and still putting pressure on me but I later reason with her and set the preparation rolling in July and fix date for December 31st 2016. A month to the wedding I have done virtually nothing, I mean nothing and had no savings and I refused to borrow. I went ahead to booked for a hall worth N450k, and N300k for food and N150k for drinks because just wanted to celebrate at least just this once in my life. A week to my wedding someone paid for the hall, a day later someone took the food and then drinks and infact my wedding was a success and the bet in my city with dignities in attendance that a governor and a senator attended which I never invited.

Now, my salary is almost 60k and seriously I am proud am a husband, father sooner, living in a very comfortable house and atleast I do better than some men earning 300k, right now I don't lack food, I am mobile and So happy I am married.

I advice men and women waiting for the big job and money to lay off that pride and get married and face reality of life.
There is blessing in marriage and still counting.


Shalom

shalom...May his grace sustain you

SnowJay92:


Lol, u sef check am, even with the rough economy, what happened to buying food in bulk to last a while and supporting with just perishables and ingredients? what do i know shaa, some are privileged.

My broda even d privileged stock food. D nature of posts I hv bn reading confirm my guess that only few posters on this thread are living and taking care of themselves/ married the rest are either students or social fantasts, so wot does dat tell U

McTobe:
shalom...May his grace sustain you

shalom ke 60 k hp the wife is working ?who told u guys single earning 300 k anit happy they are thinking of runing an Msc in canada to get a stay the dont want to settle for less,the dare to dream and their dream are big

Alikote:
shalom ke 60 k hp the wife is working ?who told u guys single earning 300 k anit happy they are thinking of runing an Msc in canada to get a stay the dont want to settle for less,the dare to dream and their dream are big

May his grace sustain d, Canadian big dreamers too. listen my good friend that same person u see dat earns 60k today and works in a govt dept can be a director, PS, or anything big tomorrow infact as a matter of fact u don't even know how far he can still go in his work tomorrow dats if he choose to stick to it. He can see opportunity tomorrow and bkom one big contractor, anything big. Moreover what makes we d younger generation think that our success is tied to one masters or d other or going to Abroad, I don't know. Just live ur life man let others live theirs #Whatever works for u

McTobe:
May his grace sustain d, Canadian big dreamers too. listen my good friend that same person u see dat earns 60k today and works in a govt dept can be a director, PS, or anything big tomorrow infact as a matter of fact u don't even know how far he can still go in his work tomorrow dats if he choose to stick to it. He can see opportunity tomorrow and bkom one big contractor, anything big. Moreover what makes we d younger generation think that our success is tied to one masters or d other or going to Abroad, I don't know. Just live ur life man let others live theirs #Whatever works for u

ps or director are just bunch of thieve in the ministry any ps or director living large in asokoro or maitama are just looter ?keep waiting to steal when u reach level gl 17 or we use quota system to get u out ..u can marry on 60 k that your choice 720 per anum when house rent na 350 k for manage put nepa bill,transport ,etc so tell me if no be marrying into poverty what are u talking ...those director where living in govt house when them they level 8 plus govt bus ,several directors that didnt steal are roasting in retirement in mowa,nyanya marrabba ..so guy wake up ....keep your job ,keep your marriage take loan from coperative open a side biz for your wife and your self ...pampas is cost oooooh

Alikote:
ps or director are just bunch of thieve in the ministry any ps or director living large in asokoro or maitama are just looter ?keep waiting to steal when u reach level gl 17 or we use quota system to get u out ..u can marry on 60 k that your choice 720 per anum when house rent na 350 k for manage put nepa bill,transport ,etc so tell me if no be marrying into poverty what are u talking ...those director where living in govt house when them they level 8 plus govt bus ,several directors that didnt steal are roasting in retirement in mowa,nyanya marrabba ..so guy wake up ....keep your job ,keep your marriage take loan from coperative open a side biz for your wife and your self ...pampas is cost oooooh

So bkos some PS/Directors are stealing now mean dat every other successful PS/ Director is stealing? So u think they all sit down and just eat their money without any serious investment? U think their wives are just house wives...i laff in Swahili...My HOD wife is a big Accountant in a foreign Cement Coy, D former HoD too d wife is an Asst Director in a Govt Agency and i dont see dem complaining. So if u find ursef in dat position and one big FG contractor that ur role was just to sign his documents and stamp it come around tomorrow to give u one and half plot in Asokoro u will not take? I am sure if by virtue of ur office they are allocating houses in an estate and u are in good terms with d political head of ur ministry if he choose to allocate one or two plot u will reject it. My nairaland friend there is no straight jacketed path to success. u think everyone will be entrepreneur abi? well I don't think so, like i said whatever works for u stick to it.

debbycreamy:


Do someone need all d money on earth to prove a point
Eehhya I pity u
d fact he doesn't let me work dey pain u
Oya go hug transformer na
we don't have millions buh we are comfortable and d first time I met him he had nothing buh today I'm proud of wat we have achieved

Sorry for u lost
all destinies r not d same
Respect people for who they r
Some don't work due to health conditions
people have their reasons don't think u know it all ok

Preach to them ma'am!
Some of them do not want to understand and respect that not all women want to hold "office job" or any career for variety of reason.
You don't even need to prove anything to them. Let them just talk, their problem.

McTobe:
My broda even d privileged stock food. D nature of posts I hv bn reading confirm my guess that only few posters on this thread are living and taking care of themselves/ married the rest are either students or social fantasts, so wot does dat tell U

I never went past the front page, laughter Wan kill me, anyone that follows Internet standards eh, this forum is full of people that are still depending on others, reality has not hit them yet, while it's good to dream, it's also good to take into account the realities on ground.

McTobe:
So bkos some PS/Directors are stealing now mean dat every other successful PS/ Director is stealing? So u think they all sit down and just eat their money without any serious investment? U think their wives are just house wives...i laff in Swahili...My HOD wife is a big Accountant in a foreign Cement Coy, D former HoD too d wife is an Asst Director in a Govt Agency and i dont see dem complaining. So if u find ursef in dat position and one big FG contractor that ur role was just to sign his documents and stamp it come around tomorrow to give u one and half plot in Asokoro u will not take? I am sure if by virtue of ur office they are allocating houses in an estate and u are in good terms with d political head of ur ministry if he choose to allocate one or two plot u will reject it. My nairaland friend there is no straight jacketed path to success. u think everyone will be entrepreneur abi? well I don't think so, like i said whatever works for u stick to it.

that also corruption not merit ...how many persons in over 1 million public workers will ever be ps or director less than 5 thousand per 10 year ..am in the system for over 12 years started around 26 year old the chance are high that i might be a ps considering my age and state but cant wait for 27 year to drive an 1 million an old honda or steal govt money ....i rather have side bussiness like poultry an wait the remaining 15 years ..i dont advice any guy on level 7,8,9 to marry expect they are above 30 they should wait till level 12 when income cross 100 k aleast and have small impress unless if wife is working or u inherited a house hence no rent ...no need to rush to bring babies into lack and poverty we have over 100 m very poor people in nigeria already

Alikote:
that also corruption not merit ...how many persons in over 1 million public workers will ever be ps or director less than 5 thousand per 10 year ..am in the system for over 12 years started around 26 year old the chance are high that i might be a ps considering my age and state but cant wait for 27 year to drive an 1 million an old honda or steal govt money ....i rather have side bussiness like poultry an wait the remaining 15 years ..i dont advice any guy on level 7,8,9 to marry expect they are above 30 they should wait till level 12 when income cross 100 k aleast and have small impress unless if wife is working or u inherited a house hence no rent ...no need to rush to bring babies into lack and poverty we have over 100 m very poor people in nigeria already

OK dats for U. Personally I will not advice anybody to wait till GL 12 before he marry. As for u calling what I said above corruption I hope u will reject them when they are offered to u

SnowJay92:


I never went past the front page, laughter Wan kill me, anyone that follows Internet standards eh, this forum is full of people that are still depending on others, reality has not hit them yet, while it's good to dream, it's also good to take into account the realities on ground.

very True