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Martin0:
hmmmm u keep me wondering

ToyinDipo:
Why do men dominate professions that are based on logic?

Organs:
Martin0, quick question my chairman, in the example you gave, does your girlfriends's friends, sisters or cousin fall in that category? i mean, if your girlfriend's friend, sister, cousin etc are like you said "more endowed" than your girlfriend will you have the same feelings towards them?

Martin0:
Hay
It not in our DNA choice are made,it his choice ha I wonder if you a female saying this in a male profile..

See I dated before and I saw as much ladies that were beautiful,endowed and have the best features compare to the lady I was dating,and I started developing zeal of sexual intercourse for them of which my partner later found out...

The only way I could kill that zeal was to have mutual talk with her about it and we cured it in the quickest time

So it was a basic choice for me it either I go to those ladies and ruin my relationship or talk to my partner on what we could do about this zeal this ladies are infecting me with so it a choice for men..

Don't say it in our DNA coz my boyfriends and their partner's have never complained to me about my friends having such character,likewise my girlfriends...

Organs:
My question is: Will you develop "zeal for sexual intercourse" if they were your partner's sister, friend or cousin?

ibkayee:
They've been dominated by males for years, women weren't allowed to do a lot of things including work in such professions or even work at all, things are definitely changing as women definitely have more opportunities but let's not act like both genders had equal footing or like gender socialisation doesn't have an influence on career choices lol

Plus the guy I was debating with was the one using emotion as a measuring tool which is why I brought up the violent crime stats

ibkayee:
They've been dominated by males for years, women weren't allowed to do a lot of things including work in such professions or even work at all, things are definitely changing as women definitely have more opportunities but let's not act like both genders had equal footing or like gender socialisation doesn't have an influence on career choices lol

Plus the guy I was debating with was the one using emotion as a measuring tool which is why I brought up the violent crime stats, profession is a different topic and has nothing to do with men and women acting out emotionally

newyorks:
no be hockey stick be that? is it ur cheating? or does he cheat with ur di*ck, sofar u guys are yet to marry u are not the bonafied owner so pls stop being rude and stop privatising general item.

StarBukola:
you would do that to her face?? Am. Not trying to justify her action, but u saying u can do that to someone. It Scary.

Benita27:
All these guys bashing her. Do you know if she has invested much into the relationship to get cheated on as reward?. Clearly, a lady who has much to lose does this. I'd do same if have got much to lose, while I walk away if there's nothing to lose.

sunshineG:
please don't mind me interrupting your highly intalectual stimulating argument

Now it true that records have shown in the past that an average lady(woman) may show(display) more emotional maturity than men in most aspects of life. However, in the context of this story, this woman has shown that there is exception to that theory, as it shows that she didn't give her actions much thought before embarking on it

She only reacted to the situation without properly thinking of possible outcomes and consequences. There are so many things that could have gone wrong

For example, she could have injured herself, she could have been Lynched, a lot could have gone wrong. Yet, it still doesnt change the fact that the man is going to get away with cheating on her.
A more measured approach will have delivered better results

ToyinDipo:
Lol, the fields I'm talking of ain't even gender biased, but it's the way you ladies argue though, lol.
I was taking of being more rational, not emotional

ibkayee:
The way we ladies argue by providing valid points on historic inequalities that influenced the gap or the fact that socialisation is actually a thing? Lol

Lol list the fields you're talking about

Martin0:
sure nau,,,hmmmm I see u have not understand the virtues of love and sex...

Hmmm see man I have seen the in and out of a relationship I don't think the body of a lady can freak my to the extent of cheating..

Just imagine of South african's live their life,??
My ex was a dies hard smoker and very feisty,but what counted in our relationship was firstly trust and loyalty,we never loved each other initially our love was built from
Trust and loyalty...

So why then will I cheat on her..

See bro,love is something should be virtuous

ibkayee:
I'm not saying this wasn't an exception, I'm not even saying that women are perfect either, I'm just saying that the 'men are more rational, women are emotional' rhetoric men love peddling is false lol

Benita27:
Nigerian men and the Messiah complex. Sorry dear, I'm not my mum. I and my mum obviously have minds that run differently. That "it's in our DNA" is something weaklings say themselves as means to justify their cheating traits...let me burst your bubble; cheating isn't in your DNA, it's a choice to; there are men like you who have been in marriages for years but never looked twice on another lady. A cheating partner doesn't love his/her spouse 'cause if you did, nothing would make you cheat. No other woman/man would matter to you but your spouse. No woman/man would look prettier/cutter than your spouse. So dear, stop making excuses for "Dogs".

Lastly, no man is indispensable. Keep that Messiah complex in check.

Okies27:
. I'm not understanding girls nowadays... Are they destroyers? Imagine, my younger sister smashed my laptop of 140k cos I gave her one hotslap.

Benita27:
You always misunderstanding things. Gather your facts right.

It was a thread I made and I couldn't have forgotten what I wrote down on it 'cause it was a first hand experience. I was dating him, dude was my bf and with the way he was pretending if someone had said he was cheating I won't have believed it. That being said, I went to his house, his protector was locked, I knocked and his brother came out asking if he knew I was coming of which he wasn't aware but I ignore the question and ask the bro to open the door. He went back in to tell him I was at the door, that was why I suspected he was with a lady and I wasn't wrong. He opened the door I walked in and requested we talk outside. He tried playing with me and when I wasn't yielding he started acting tough by turning down my request for us to talk outside 'cause he knew what was coming for him. Anyway, I still ended the relationship with him that very day and place.

Mind you, this was a guy I suspected was cheating on two different occasion with ladies and he denied having anything with the girls. So tell me the part in that thread you said I was begging?.

Organs:
Waoh, Interesting. Benita27 i see where you're coming from. Dude was very very stupid. He did not treat you right at all. That shouldve been an opportunity to apologise, spoil you wella and make a promise. He was a bad example. Now listen to mine. My babe suspected me of some hanky panky and she told me straight up, if i catch you cheating on me, no questions asked i will just jejely leave you. Oh girl, i really really like my babe so i just comot my hand for the other mata. It wasn't worth loosing my babe over. So, you caught dude red handed, he was supposed to have begged and begged and quickly discharged the other babe, then maybe latest iphone + something wey you really really like and most importantly a promise (not swear with God's name oh) not to get caught cheating again. Then he should've laid low unless, i repeat unless you come annoy am, and trust me you must fall enter trap. Either with una endless verbal abuses and insults, or nagging, or refusing or standing in the way of legitimate financial or otherwise help to someone, friend family member etc, then your go comot for road enter bush small again, you see its an endless circle until you hit 50 and you realize you're too old for that nonsense.....

dingbang:
she no go make up 24"7 na

Benita27:
You always misunderstanding things. Gather your facts right.

It was a thread I made and I couldn't have forgotten what I wrote down on it 'cause it was a first hand experience. I was dating him, dude was my bf and with the way he was pretending if someone had said he was cheating I won't have believed it. That being said, I went to his house, his protector was locked, I knocked and his brother came out asking if he knew I was coming of which he wasn't aware but I ignore the question and ask the bro to open the door. He went back in to tell him I was at the door, that was why I suspected he was with a lady and I wasn't wrong. He opened the door I walked in and requested we talk outside. He tried playing with me and when I wasn't yielding he started acting tough by turning down my request for us to talk outside 'cause he knew what was coming for him. Anyway, I still ended the relationship with him that very day and place.

Mind you, this was a guy I suspected was cheating on two different occasion with ladies and he denied having anything with the girls. So tell me the part in that thread you said I was begging?.

Haha more coming for you. Next time break car and see what happens. Take care. Now You See that men will cheat and it's just for fun. This your epistle cracked me up haha

thesuave10:
Haha more coming for you. Next time break car and see what happens. Take care. Now You See that men will cheat and it's just for fun. This your epistle cracked me up haha

Organs:
Ok. I see. That means prior, anything that suits your fancy goes. That is why benita27 and Lalas247 and all other ladies think Naija men that cheat are "dogs". Bros, before you dey another level, me i nogo lie, i be naija man proper, but, my partner's sister or friend sef can be naked with me in a room and i will not be moved. "walahi, talahi, i am serious. As long as i am sleeping with a lady, her sister, friend, cousin etc sexually becomes like my own sister. I will not even see all those things because its like looking at my own sister. I don't know, maybe its the islamic way of raising kids, or the yoruba or hausa culturally way of distinguishing between male and female, young and old, what is sexually acceptable and unacceptable and the islamic subtle "sex education" not explicitly mentioned but taught and you grow up with very healthy sexual orientation and behaviour.

amakadihot87:
................the only justification for this is if she bought the car for him

Benita27:
There was nothing funny there so quite the attention seeking.

You're a toddler to come up with the crap that "Now you see men will cheat and it's just for fun". Did you use your brain in reasoning before typing that?, and were you told all men cheat?.

Benita27:
All these guys bashing her. Do you know if she has invested much into the relationship to get cheated on as reward?. Clearly, a lady who has much to lose does this. I'd do same if have got much to lose, while I walk away if there's nothing to lose.

boiz2men:
I have always found you intelligent . but this thing you typed is thrash.



What could she have invested in the life of a guy who can afford a jeep..

Her pvssy?


Your comment would make sense if she bought the car.. But its obvious she didn't

boiz2men:
I have always found you intelligent . but this thing you typed is thrash.



What could she have invested in the life of a guy who can afford a jeep..

Her pvssy?


Your comment would make sense if she bought the car.. But its obvious she didn't

Jodha:
I agree with yhu sis..dude must have deserved more than that ..

The car no damage well sef..

angels09:
you assumed too much...as I did about beni.ta27

lefulefu:
there was this episode i saw on CHEATERS one time like that.na reality show on cable.this white girl caught her boyfriend redhanded cheating on her.na so she use baseball bat smash the guy plasma tv to pieces,scatter the house.the guy had to call d police.Lala247 u know d show?