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Kraspo:
I remember back in 2015 in Kano state. I met an Akwa Ibom girl in the office where I was working while I was waiting for NYSC. She was a co-worker and along the line we started having casual sex even when I knew she was having a bohfriend. For some unknown reasons, this girl hated condoms and each time I brought it out she would frown and complain that I am indirectly calling her a slut. But one way or the other, I will still find my way and enter the place with my condom.

One fateful evening we were together on the bed and about to have sex, I checked my drawer and realised there was no condom. Gosh! I was already having a strong erection, she noticed there was no condom and she immediately started caressing my groin and put it in her mouth. She begged me to make love to her like that. That she wanted to feel the real me. I couldn't hold my groin that was already craving an orgasm. I fell for it and indeed the sex was mind-blowing.

Fast forward to 3 weeks later, I started noticing changes in my body. I was losing appetite and weight. My groin started iching me somehow and I was having bowel issues. Gosh! I was terrified. I googled symptoms of HIV and funny enough it appeared that some of the symptoms were already manifesting.

The next day, I went for ARV screening and thankfully the test was negative. I ended the affair immediately and promised God never to have sex again till marriage. I had been celibate ever since 2015 not until last month when I met one beautiful girl in Asaba. God forgive me!

Kraspo:
I remember back in 2015 in Kano state. I met an Akwa Ibom girl in the office where I was working while I was waiting for NYSC. She was a co-worker and along the line we started having casual sex even when I knew she was having a bohfriend. For some unknown reasons, this girl hated condoms and each time I brought it out she would frown and complain that I am indirectly calling her a slut. But one way or the other, I will still find my way and enter the place with my condom.

One fateful evening we were together on the bed and about to have sex, I checked my drawer and realised there was no condom. Gosh! I was already having a strong erection, she noticed there was no condom and she immediately started caressing my groin and put it in her mouth. She begged me to make love to her like that. That she wanted to feel the real me. I couldn't hold my groin that was already craving an orgasm. I fell for it and indeed the sex was mind-blowing.


It is better you follow laid down principles if you want to abstain from premarital sex than just empty resolutions.
You have hormones in your body and your eyes are intact as a man.
Set laid down rules for yourself and you will be able to abstain.
Fast forward to 3 weeks later, I started noticing changes in my body. I was losing appetite and weight. My groin started iching me somehow and I was having bowel issues. Gosh! I was terrified. I googled symptoms of HIV and funny enough it appeared that some of the symptoms were already manifesting.

The next day, I went for ARV screening and thankfully the test was negative. I ended the affair immediately and promised God never to have sex again till marriage. I had been celibate ever since 2015 not until last month when I met one beautiful girl in Asaba. God forgive me!

sinaj:
no no he mustn't knw of the meetings. So I will go when he is snoring.

sinaj:
Don't forget to go back in 3months for final confirmation

I hope konji will allow you stick to your promise

DateMynd44:
bro hiv can't be transmitted via oral. Don't argue with me cos I'm a medical doctor

Nwodosis:
The brain understands this your sermon perfectly but those idiots in between the legs will never do when attacked by Konji. Konjism is a Momentarily Brain Immune Deficiency Syndrome, it renders the brain momentarily incapable of controlling the desire of the genitals!

Nwodosis:
In fact no grammar can even perfectly explain konjism my brother, it is better understood when it is experience.

Koval12:
It's been a torturous three months. After having sex with my Girlfriend, I started doubting her fidelity to me. She has cheated on me beforehand and I suspected she was still cheating on me based on the proves and information at my disposal.

Within the same period, I started feeling weak and consumed in thoughts. So I finally made up my mind to go and check my status. As early as 8 am this morning, I was already at the HIV counselling and testing unit of Lagos state general Hospital. As usual the lady there sat me down and started counselling me. It was the longest 30mins of my life. After which my result came out negative..

God's faithful indeed. I was so excited and reached my pocket and gave the lady 1000. I quickly zoomed out of the the hospital and proceeded to a nearby lab which also confirmed my negative status.

I have already made a commitment never to have sex again till I am married. It's a covenant between me and my God. I enjoin you all to summon up courage and get tested today. If positive, enroll for ARV therapy as early treatment prolongs patients life expectancy. If negative, please stay off pre marital sex or remain faithful to your partner. I wish you the best as you summon up courage to get tested today.

sinaj:
Don't forget to go back in 3months for final confirmation

I hope konji will allow you stick to your promise

Kraspo:
I remember back in 2015 in Kano state. I met an Akwa Ibom girl in the office where I was working while I was waiting for NYSC. She was a co-worker and along the line we started having casual sex even when I knew she was having a bohfriend. For some unknown reasons, this girl hated condoms and each time I brought it out she would frown and complain that I am indirectly calling her a slut. But one way or the other, I will still find my way and enter the place with my condom.

One fateful evening we were together on the bed and about to have sex, I checked my drawer and realised there was no condom. Gosh! I was already having a strong erection, she noticed there was no condom and she immediately started caressing my groin and put it in her mouth. She begged me to make love to her like that. That she wanted to feel the real me. I couldn't hold my groin that was already craving an orgasm. I fell for it and indeed the sex was mind-blowing.

Fast forward to 3 weeks later, I started noticing changes in my body. I was losing appetite and weight. My groin started iching me somehow and I was having bowel issues. Gosh! I was terrified. I googled symptoms of HIV and funny enough it appeared that some of the symptoms were already manifesting.

The next day, I went for ARV screening and thankfully the test was negative. I ended the affair immediately and promised God never to have sex again till marriage. I had been celibate ever since 2015 not until last month when I met one beautiful girl in Asaba. God forgive me!

sinaj:
Don't forget to go back in 3months for final confirmation

I hope konji will allow you stick to your promise

chiefojiji:
. I reject that for myself, I never wished you bad, but if you wish me that, the measure you used to measure for me shall be used to measure for you.

Nwodosis:
The brain understands this your sermon perfectly but those idiots in between the legs will never do when attacked by Konji. Konjism is a Momentarily Brain Immune Deficiency Syndrome, it renders the brain momentarily incapable of controlling the desire of the genitals!

themodernman:
You think everyone's genital itches for it like yours.

burakado17:
He thinks say na only one day sickness be aids. Let him go on doing the HIV test every year before he knows he is negative. Oni yeye

Koval12:
It's been a torturous three months. After having sex with my Girlfriend, I started doubting her fidelity to me. She has cheated on me beforehand and I suspected she was still cheating on me based on the proves and information at my disposal.

Within the same period, I started feeling weak and consumed in thoughts. So I finally made up my mind to go and check my status. As early as 8 am this morning, I was already at the HIV counselling and testing unit of Lagos state general Hospital. As usual the lady there sat me down and started counselling me. It was the longest 30mins of my life. After which my result came out negative..

God's faithful indeed. I was so excited and reached my pocket and gave the lady 1000. I quickly zoomed out of the the hospital and proceeded to a nearby lab which also confirmed my negative status.

I have already made a commitment never to have sex again till I am married. It's a covenant between me and my God. I enjoin you all to summon up courage and get tested today. If positive, enroll for ARV therapy as early treatment prolongs patients life expectancy. If negative, please stay off pre marital sex or remain faithful to your partner. I wish you the best as you summon up courage to get tested today.

myqel:
Lol, I know how you feel bro as I had the same experience some years back...thank God my HIV test result was negative, that alone changed my mind on sex....now I'm in a platonic relationship cos I can't let any 5mins enjoyment ruin my future...thank you all for reading my testimony

DateMynd44:
back to sender my friend go and test yourself.

DateMynd44:
oga too much savagery for that small girl.. Why your life dey like this?
Baba fear God nau.

Lexusgs430:
You must love a snoring man......

sinaj:
no jore! I didn't mean that literally!

U sef ehn

I meant deep asleep.

themodernman:
No mind me jarey, just detest the so much premium ladies place on sex. Like it's an effective weapon that works on erryone.

sinaj:
Don't forget to go back in 3months for final confirmation

I hope konji will allow you stick to your promise

sinaj:
Don't forget to go back in 3months for final confirmation

I hope konji will allow you stick to your promise

Koval12:
I have gone back for another test today with my cheating ex. Our results came out negative.

rumenase:
last time I tested HIV was 2014 o I think I need to go and test again

Koval12:
especially if you have been sexually active. It's necessary

Sweetwater2017:
Young man did you ask the lab technician what testing algorithm they used?. According to World Health Organization Nigeria is one of the countries that do not adhere to recommended national assay. Verify what test used and find out what HIV GROUPS AND SUB-TYPES this testing assay is configured to find in your blood. There are Groups M major, Group O , Group N and possible Group P. Group M which is the predominant with Sub types of A-D,F,G,H,I J K. Be mindful that Groups O and N are endemic in West African both imported from Cameroon.
So try to find out if your test can screen for these groups and subgroups to be sure of your negative result.
Let us know what you find.