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Your number two point is dependent on the type of woman you married.

You are right, but it is always too late before many realise these.

legitimatefrank1:
Kikiki...If You Check Sef @op Never Even Get Babe Talkless Of To Marry

Wetin de person head plenty, walai

onyindidi

Nairalandsss:
You are one of those people who think that marriage is a useless step in life.You think that life can be good minus marriage too.Then maybe you need to be aware of some good reasons as to why people get married. You are looking at substantial arguments to tell you that marriage is not that bad, after all. Here are some reasons that you should get married.

Reasons that why you should get married are:

1.You have a stable sex life: When you get married, you get the license to have sex with your husband whenever you want. You don’t have to feel guilty or ashamed about it, because both of you are in a happy, healthy relationship together, and having sex regularly is a part of it. Plus, with one loyal partner, there is no risk of STDs, as would be the case if you were single and having sexual encounters with various people.

2.You face low mortality risk: It has been proven by scientific research that married people are likely to have a longer life, as compared to single people. So if you love your life and want to lead a longer one, then marriage will affect your longevity directly. When you try and study this logic properly, you realize that marriage is the focal point to better health and wellness; as a result of which, people end up living longer.

3.You get lifelong companionship: Everyone likes to have that one stable friend to depend on for everything. With marriage, your husband becomes that stable friend for you. Irrespective of whatever good or bad happens in your life, he will be just a call away for you. And he too will never be able to move away from this position, because the bond of marriage will make him liable to be there for you, even if it means rescuing you from a road accident urgently, or leaving work to come wipe your tears when you’re in some problem.

4.Your standard of life improves: With marriage, your chances of moving out of a poor neighborhood to a better one increase. Moreover, since there are incomes of two people (you and your husband’s), focusing on one household, obviously your spending power and quality of life become better. Your husband too will take extra steps to get you good things because he will consider it to be his moral duty and responsibility.

.You get a new family: Marriage will make your husband’s family, your family. This means that you get a lot of new relationships to look at and enjoy. You enjoy the bliss of a bigger family, with more people to share your joys with. Festivals and occasions become more enjoyable, and there are more people who are concerned about your well being on a whole.

6.Your friend circle expands: When you are single, you can only do a limited amount of activities with your single friends. Your married friends would be interested in some other activities. However, when you get married, you can do the same activities as your other married friends. You can go on couple gatherings and trips. Plus, your husband’s friends will also become your friends, and so will their spouses, thereby expanding your friend circle. You get a more active social life, with great friends to look forward to.

7.You’re safe and secure for life: Marriage also makes you pretty safe and secure for your life. Your husband will make sure that there are some savings for you, even if he passes away. Moreover, you have him around in the same house, and so you don’t need to be scared about living alone. Plus, your parents are happy that you have a secure future, with a stable partner to take care of you.

8.It enriches you as a person: Marriage has the ability to make a person mature, smart and responsible. You also become more sensitive, understanding and supportive. In other words, you start to become a better person, who handles problems in a responsible way, and not immaturely. This is great for one’s overall personal growth.

9.Your chances of being successful in life are higher: With so many good things that marriage does to you, there is great mental peace and satisfaction that you attain. It’s because of this mental wellness, that you’re able to focus better on your work. Your concentration and efficiency increases, thereby helping you to get promotions at work. This way, your chances of being successful in life are pretty high. In fact, there have been several studies, which have proven that married professionals are more likely to perform better than single ones.

10.It gives a meaning to your life: Traditionally, marriage is a bond of commitment, and once you step into this phase of life, this relationship will add a new meaning to your life altogether. You know you are committed to someone, and that brings about a lot of changes in the way you deal with your partner, as well as your life. The tag of marriage brings about some discipline in your head, with some boundaries, and a list of dos and don’ts, which you are not likely to respect when you are not married to your partner.

These are the reasons why you should get married.



http://www.naijabroad.com/why-you-should-get-married/

Only the lady folk will agree with you. You think say marriage na beans. It only brings security to the ladies. But it drains a man from head to toe especially if the woman is the type that believes a man should spend his money on her while she is meant to pocket her own.

Rorachy:
Because they are inside a car.

naah. they look for a car to snap profile pix. car they dont own. but since they dont mind..... who am i to care

Kokaine:
naah. they look for a car to snap profile pix. car they dont own. but since they dont mind..... who am i to care

Its my dad's car and my dad's car is my car.

slayking:
Very valid , only if I can get married and still keep my freedom.

freedom to frolic?

Rorachy:
Its my dad's car and my dad's car is my car.

why are you personalising it? i said "people" and you are defending yourself.

okay since we are already talking about your fathers car... is it venza or Peugeot 504

I agree with #4,but have to disagree with #7.It is only when you are married to a good woman, that you can think of #7.

robosky02:
onyindidi

Ho away joor

Marriage dis marriage DAT pls let people be free with their lives time is the best healer

Benignasweety:
freedom to frolic?

Freedom not to loose myself .

The stable sex life is the core secondary reason I wan marry. Conji dey beat me wella but not because I no see random girls do but because I wana abstain. Make this job I dey pursue click first.

scooby12:
Why you should not get married..

You can watch whatever TV channel you like, without arguments. 

There are fewer important birthdays and no anniversaries to accidentally forget. 

You can throw your dirty socks on the floor where they belong. 

There is no fight for remote control ownership. 

You don't have to buy Valentines/birthday/Mother's day cards. 

You always know exactly how much is in your checking account. 

There are no unexplainable moods to contend with. 

You have much more freedom to choose. 

You never have to say where you've been or what you've been doing. 

You don't have to worry about what sort of food to buy and you can eat whatever you want, whenever you choose. 

You can listen to your favorite tunes in the house or in the car and no one fiddles with the station or complains about your taste in music. 

You don't have to pretend that you're interested in what happened to your spouse at work today. 

There is a lot less drama in your life! 

You don't have to listen to your spouse pant every time their favorite actor or musician comes on the television. 

When you're single you get to hold the actual credit card and not just the bill.

Team single
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very well said!

Dnt forget that one-day-one-day you will definately tie the knot! You cant remain single throughout...

Bamidele539:
very well said!

Dnt forget that one-day-one-day you will definately tie the knot! You cant remain single throughout...

Been there. Done that

Oyindidi:


Think again writer, there are many sex starved women out there. Single are more likely to get laid more than married couples. Marriage can be anything so think twice before you take a leap.

All this online theories can't save your marriage when you're faced with reality. Enter into marriage with a open mind.

Singles are more likely to get laid than married couples?


Smh

No money and lady yet

Am just scared of marriage.. Don't know why.. So many Nigerian men are going through hell all in the name of marriage.. May God help us.

JeffreyJamez:
Singles are more likely to get laid than married couples?


Smh

Be shaking off my mention

It is a beautiful thing but scary for people like me. I met a guy recently who I sorta have butterflies for. He is talking about marriage, and it really scares me. I think I need help.

MisterKings:
Only the lady folk will agree with you. You think say marriage na beans. It only brings security to the ladies. But it drains a man from head to toe especially if the woman is the type that believes a man should spend his money on her while she is meant to pocket her own.

You have a point tho

This is more for the female folk than the male

Oyindidi:
Be shaking off my mention

Or what will happen?

JeffreyJamez:
Or what will happen?

I go kidnap you

True post.