I recently met a girl at a bank in UNIBEN when I went to get my ATM card(i am a Corper). She sounds friendly and we immediately started discussing, I got her number and promised to call and she even called me before I did . We became quite close and even after I left to the state where I was serving she still keeps calling even at odd hours at night. But the thing is this, when I raised the topic of dating first one night like that on the phone she said we should move the discussion to the next day, the next day I was busy so we didn't talk all that much and since then I have not raised the issue. We started chatting on watsapp and she only reply with a sentence and she only reply my questions. When I told her that I feel like she is drawing away from me
This where her responses

[8/21, 9:20 PM] Minar: I'm sorry, but I hv nothing to say
[8/21, 9:21 PM] Minar: U were only assuming, I apologized dis morning wen I missed ur calls, n took ur calls wen u called
[8/21, 9:21 PM] Minar: My data has been on ,bt I've nt bin online
[8/21, 9:22 PM] Minar: Came online n saw dis messages, wat were u expecting, Dat I'll b smiling
[8/21, 9:22 PM] Minar: I'm sorry, I can't
[8/21, 9:22 PM] Minar: n Goodnyte
Steven
[8/21, 9:24 PM] Minar: n thank you, for making my evening very unhappy.

When she said this I told her not to be offended that I was just pulling her legs and I never thought she would take it so seriously,

And she said she was OK.

Then I asked her if I could call her that evening and she said if I want to.

I felt bad at the "if I want to " and I didn't call her

She called me twice at about 1:00 am but I was sleeping
She then sent a short message saying
"I am sorry"

And I called to check on her this morning.

What I want to know is if this girl likes me and if you guys think it would work from your experience.

The state where I am serving is 2hr 30 minute drive from her place.
And I am very hopeful that she might be the game changer in my life. She is writing her project and she read basic meds and she isn't slutty. I really likes her.

Please if you have a single advice that could help me, or if you think it won't work tell me so I can stop giving myself hope.

The both of you just met, you're still getting to know one another. I don't get why you should be asking such questions.

She obviously likes you

take ur time,dnt rush it...she's obviously into u

Learn to take her more serious. From what you wrote up dia, you're unsecured.

dont be a pussi, asking us as if we know her,tell her wat u really want frm her

Bro it seems I have been in your shoes before
I had to halt the nonsense before it ruined me mentally
The girl was simply playing with my emotions like a 2years play with a toy

The only sensible advice at this point is make your intentions known to her and wait till she gives you a positive response

Some girls are twisted like that, maybe she has difficulty trusting men because of past experience

Stay blessed

Tamel:
take ur time,dnt rush it...she's obviously into u

Preetiex:
dont be a pussi, asking us as if we know her,tell her wat u really want frm her

how do I do this two things at the same time?

sunshineG:
Bro it seems I have been in your shoes before
I had to halt the nonsense before it ruined me mentally
The girl was simply playing with my emotions like a 2years play with a toy

The only sensible advice at this point is make your intentions known to her and wait till she gives you a positive response

Some girls are twisted like that, maybe she has difficulty trusting men because of past experience

Stay blessed

nice one bro. Thanks

You are truly overhyped!!!

overhypedsteve:
how do I do this two things at the same time?

tell d babe wat u want & be serious abt it

men trying to understand women are on a long thing......

sunshineG:
Bro it seems I have been in your shoes before
I had to halt the nonsense before it ruined me mentally
The girl was simply playing with my emotions like a 2years play with a toy

The only sensible advice at this point is make your intentions known to her and wait till she gives you a positive response

Some girls are twisted like that, maybe she has difficulty trusting men because of past experience

Stay blessed

Bro everytime ur always in someone's shoe

Preetiex:
tell d babe wat u want & be serious abt it

OK. Can you like give me a template on how to go about telling her? Please..

......

Victornezzar:

Bro everytime ur always in someone's shoe

bro that is simply because I am a human being, who goes through the normal emotions and struggle of everyday people

ghost3040:
You are truly overhyped!!!

that didn't help at all

Another tale of a boring relationship.

Tale number 78 of this week.

Victornezzar:

Bro everytime ur always in someone's shoe

sunshineG:
bro that is simply because I am a human being, who goes through the normal emotions and struggle of everyday people

you guys want to start this here?

overhypedsteve:
you guys want to start this here?

victor is my friend
Don't mind him he is just trolling

overhypedsteve:
how do I do this two things at the same time?

Hehehe
the poor lover boy is confused...
Abeg one advice at a time

Victornezzar:
Bro everytime ur always in someone's shoe

Him na Elder na.

Send the girl to me bro, leme do a proper accessment on her to determine whether she's good enough for u

This answers are not very specific.

overhypedsteve:
This answers are not very specific.

she likes you but don't rush into any relationship and find out if she has a bf

she's doing the initial shakara and trying to find out if you love her like very crazy about her
try not to call her All the time
try not to chat with her all the time too

Evaberry:


she likes you but don't rush into any relationship and find out if she has a bf

she's doing the initial shakara and trying to find out if you love her like very crazy about her
try not to call her All the time
try not to chat with her all the time too

nice one. Wish I had an advicer like you when I was in school. My nickname woukd have been- BlackRod .

I will try this I know it would work.

But wait if I stop doing all this will I not gradually lose her?

overhypedsteve:
nice one. Wish I had an advicer like you when I was in school. My nickname woukd have been- BlackRod .

I will try this I know it would work.

But wait if I stop doing all this will I not gradually lose her?

No you won't instead she will be the one calling and texting u.

overhypedsteve:
nice one. Wish I had an advicer like you when I was in school. My nickname woukd have been- BlackRod .

I will try this I know it would work.

But wait if I stop doing all this will I not gradually lose her?

No you won't instead she will be the one calling and texting u. women love attention, starve her of attention

Evaberry:



No you won't instead she will be the one calling and texting u.

thanks dear. I will inform you on how it went

overhypedsteve:
OK. Can you like give me a template on how to go about telling her? Please..

but u are a guy,ok u can take her on a date,tell her wat u feel for her & dat u want her in ur life,after dat u should try calling 2x a day even if u cant call drop a gud sms,woah i am a gud councillor [quote author

Evaberry:


she likes you but don't rush into any relationship and find out if she has a bf

she's doing the initial shakara and trying to find out if you love her like very crazy about her
try not to call her All the time
try not to chat with her all the time too

he shouldnt neglect her too,u know most women like attention