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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:12pm On Aug 24, 2017
tintingz:
So if your child marries from another tribe, will you kill him/her? grin

The way some people reason ehn. grin
My child will never try that. They will be raised well.
His tribe matters most.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb: 9:12pm On Aug 24, 2017
Bibidear:
Inter tribal marriage aint easy
i have two sis that married igbo and they are not finding it easy cos of the culture
dont think i can marry from other tribes
i prefer my yoruba brothers
My dear God will bless you!
To all those shouting in the above comments don't comman read this one oo.
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I know they will say it is not restricted to intertribal marriages, that even same tribe marriages have issues but you and i know that CULTURAL DIFFERENCE is a really big factor in problems of intertribal marriages.
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O kaare omo iya

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by miceroms: 9:14pm On Aug 24, 2017
This is hate speech

hammerT:


They are marriage beggars.

It would be tolerable if they were not the most tribalistic Nigerians.

They better steer clear of the Igbos they hate.

Though I am not against the idea of inter-tribal or interracial marriage.

I am against the Yoruba genetic upgrade using other tribes blood.

Thus marriage to Yorubas is a big No.

Inter-tribal and Interracial marriage is suppose to be the exception and not the norm.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:14pm On Aug 24, 2017
OrdercityWeb:

My dear God will bless you!
To all those shouting in the above comments don't comman read this one oo.
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I know they will say it is not restricted to intertribal marriages, that even same tribe marriages have issues but you and i know that CULTURAL DIFFERENCE is a really big factor in problems of intertribal marriages.
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O kaare omo iya

So you be omoluabi? You get brain.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by tintingz(m): 9:16pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:

My child will never try that. They will be raised well.
His tribe matters most.
What if your child did or are you a demigod are you Mr perfect are you a dictator? grin

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb: 9:17pm On Aug 24, 2017
Shakingdbumbum:
Inter tribal marriage is giving birth to a lost generation.
My brother.....tell them ooo
They will say we are racists now or tribalists or unintelligent.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:18pm On Aug 24, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


the dude's assertions are baseless and makes absolutely NO damn sense....but then again, there are many people like him in Africa.
to each their own misery!
Yeah! People like me. Say no to inter tribal marriage.
It is for the confused

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb: 9:19pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:
Op you are right. I do not support inter-tribal marraige. People who do this do not respect their culture. Marry your tribe to preserve your culture, history, and tradition. Children born from inter-tribal marriages always get confused when they grow up.
Only fools marry people outside their tribe.
End of discussion bro. They will call us racists now

Let them continue revelling in their idealism and utopia called "unity of the country".

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by Impulse80(m): 9:20pm On Aug 24, 2017
OrdercityWeb:

Bless you my brother. You see it.

They are all avoiding reality. Not all cultures are compatible. We all don't share common values.
They are not been realistic, they are just trying to sound politically correct and like the West.

Bros keep talking/typing rubbish o. You want to preserve your culture yet you neither worship Amadioha nor pour libations to Sango.

In the next 20 million years all the races on earth will be indistinguishable.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by tintingz(m): 9:21pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:
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Marry from your tribe to preserve your culture and identity. The world will only respect if you do.
What you wrote is bullshiit
The world doesn't fûcking care about anybody's life, how you live, you're free to choose the way you wanna live, keep wallowing in your delusion.

Did the world fûcking care about Mark Zuckerberg and his chinese wife?

Check out Obama, didn't he use dual identity to win his election? cool
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:21pm On Aug 24, 2017
tintingz:
What if your child did or are you a demigod are you Mr perfect are you a dictator? grin
Like I said before, he cannot. I have not seen or heard anybody in my family do that. We are all ethnically Yoruba. Raise your kids well.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:24pm On Aug 24, 2017
OrdercityWeb:

End of discussion bro. They will call us racists now

Let them continue revelling in their idealism and utopia called "unity of the country".
Don't mind them.
'One nigeria' has gotten into their head. Your ethnicity matter most not one British experiment called Nigeria.
We are naturally not united.
#fuckingdumbass

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb: 9:25pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:

Marry from your tribe so your children will appreciate their culture. I have seen many children born from intertribal marriages that are either here or their. Most even tend to love their mother's side more.
If you are a man, my advise is for you to marry someone from your tribe.
Only fools marry people outside their tribe
At the bolded. Exactly!!@
The mother will now manipulate the children against their father's tribe. Those kids will now be lost or they will have a strong aversion for their father's people.
Let them keep deceiving themselves.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:25pm On Aug 24, 2017
tintingz:
The world doesn't fûcking care about anybody's life, how you live, you're free to choose the way you wanna live, keep wallowing in your delusion.

Did the world fûcking care about Mark Zuckerberg and his chinese wife?

Check out Obama, didn't he use dual identity to win his election? cool
We are talking if indigenous continent here not country of migrants

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by Demmzy15(m): 9:25pm On Aug 24, 2017
Rilwayne001:

You want to marry Hausa? sad
Probably!!! grin tongue
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb: 9:27pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:

My child will never try that. They will be raised well.
His tribe matters most.
Gbam!!

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by Rilwayne001: 9:28pm On Aug 24, 2017
I will prefer an interracial than inter-tribal.

One Arabian, a Caucasian and maybe a Chinese and one Oduduwa daughter to make it 4. God willing, that's what I want and I pray for. sad angry angry
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by tintingz(m): 9:28pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:

Like I said before, he cannot. I have not seen or heard anybody in my family do that. We are all ethnically Yoruba. Raise your kids well.
Shut up, do you think your forefathers didn't inter-marry with another tribe at a point in time?

So you believe there can't be divergent in your family or generations?, how are you reasoning irrationally? undecided

My father never thought his first born will marry a Christian because he taught us well, he is a cleric, but today my elder brother his married to a Christian lady, my father never taught I will be irreligious and today I don't believe in any fûcking religion.

Sometime things don't work out the way one expected, because non of your family hasn't diverge doesn't mean it can't happen.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by Rilwayne001: 9:29pm On Aug 24, 2017
Demmzy15:
Probably!!! grin tongue

Good for you undecided undecided
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb: 9:30pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:
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So you be omoluabi? You get brain.
Beeni o padi mi.

Omoluabi ni mi ta'kan ta'kan. E'nle oo


E'kaare o jare. cheesy
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by tintingz(m): 9:30pm On Aug 24, 2017
Rilwayne001:
I will prefer and interracial than inter-tribal.

One Arabian, a Caucasian and maybe a Chinese and one Oduduwa to make it 4. God willing, that's what I want and I pray for. sad angry angry
Lol, father of all nation. grin

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by Rilwayne001: 9:31pm On Aug 24, 2017
tintingz:
Lol, father of all nation. grin

cheesy grin

Eyin n ko sir?
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by OrdercityWeb: 9:32pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:

Don't mind them.
'One nigeria' has gotten into their head. Your ethnicity matter most not one British experiment called Nigeria.
We are naturally not united.
#fuckingdumbass
Gbam!! Infact i owe you a drink grin

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:32pm On Aug 24, 2017
tintingz:
Shut up
, do you think your forefathers didn't inter-marry with another tribe at a point in time?

So you believe there can't be divergent in your family or generations?, how are you reasoning irrationally? undecided

My father never thought his first born will marry a Christian because he taught us well, he is a cleric, but today my elder brother his married to a Christian lady, my father never taught I will be irreligious and today I don't believe in any fûcking religion.

Sometime things don't work out the way one expected, because non of your family hasn't diverge doesn't mean it can't happen.
I should shut my mouth because of what? Ode oshi! We are talking of ethnicity here not one imported religion .
Oloribu

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by wickyyolo: 9:33pm On Aug 24, 2017
OP is (1)tribalistic, even though he will deny it.
(2) he/she is a yoruba muslim

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 24, 2017
OrdercityWeb:

I just knew someone will go emotional and leave facts alone.
I guess the Chinese and Koreans who hardly inter marry are "backward" or you are more evolved than them.
How does intertribal marriage preserve culture?
What then is your identity if you are from different places at the same time?
Discouraging intertribal marriage IS NOT EQUAL TO tribalism. Tribalism has nothing to do with that, it's a mindset and you can still be a tribalist even in an intertribal marriage like the example i sited in the OP.
Please reply intelligently and with facts and not appealing to emotions or trying to sound politically correct. Face REALITY PLEASE.
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Intertribal marriages kills and dilutes cultures they lose coherence and values becomes extinct faster


Chinese and Koreans are nationalities and not tribes. The reason you don't notice is because they left prejudice long behind and have intermarried to the point of complete assimilation.

Let me explain: The Chinese is not a tribe but are of various tribes: Hakka, Cantonese, teochuwu, Hainan , Tibetan, and many more. Japan : the hanito, ainu and Okinawa. The Koreans too. They intermarried and formed a super more general culture.

As someone rightly mentioned, culture evolves. The English of today is a mixture of Anglo-Saxons-Norman (part french, part Vikings). And that's is why Africans have remain underdeveloped.

Tightly holding on to aloofness between tribes Hinders connection, and a single national identity. Even Israel which of 12 tribes had to let go, and intermarried. The Levi forgo their special previleges and culture; as priests and minsters

I know it's painful, but certain part of our culture has to give way and upgrade. killing of twins, and killing of servants with a dead king was parts of our culture, weren't they?

Intermarriage is the way forward. to grow and cultivate a national identity we have to mix.

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by miceroms: 9:33pm On Aug 24, 2017
The good thing is that you recognise that it is ideal and a desired state. As we continue to see the fusion of cultures through marriages, our inhibitions and prejudices are dismantled making us better persons. Like the bible will say, till we all come to unity of faith.

OrdercityWeb:

End of discussion bro. They will call us racists now

Let them continue revelling in their idealism and utopia called "unity of the country".
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:35pm On Aug 24, 2017
OrdercityWeb:

Beeni o padi mi.

Omoluabi ni mi ta'kan ta'kan. E'nle oo


E'kaare o jare. cheesy
Lols! Awa niyen oo. We need sensible Yorubas like you

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by tintingz(m): 9:35pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:

We are talking if indigenous continent here not country of migrants
So what do you call Lagos? Are there no people of another tribe in Lagos and all over Nigeria for example?

Isn't it apply to race? undecided

Interracial, intertribal are they not the same in definition?
Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by Sagay212: 9:36pm On Aug 24, 2017
wale2day:

See my post above and be enlightened. Marriage has no relationship to world peace. Wen conflict starts it is usually the foreign wife that is targeted first.

You are a cave man. You can only enlighten knuckle heads like yourself.

Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by deedeedee1: 9:38pm On Aug 24, 2017
tintingz:
So what do you call Lagos? Are there no people of another tribe in Lagos and all over Nigeria for example?

Isn't it apply to race? undecided

Interracial, intertribal are they not the same in definition?
You get problem for head. Are Yoruba people not indigenes of lagos?

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Re: Do You Think Intertribal Marriage Should Be Encouraged? by tintingz(m): 9:38pm On Aug 24, 2017
deedeedee1:
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I should shut my mouth because of what? Ode oshi! We are talking of ethnicity here not one imported religion .
Oloribu
Tribalism, racism, religion, politics are the main problem of this world.

I use religion experience in my family as an analogy. Ode

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