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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Aug 27, 2017
None.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Aug 27, 2017
sgtponzihater1:


What are u saying. Someone I went openly to tell that I wanted another wife, so they'll be 2 and live like sisters and she refused, if I like cheating will I think of marrying her?



Just listen to yourself talk!

Smhhhh

As someone above me said, no wonder men like you die like chickens.

U wan die on top women! Continue, u are smart!
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ibkayee(f): 6:18pm On Aug 27, 2017
Efewestern:


you ladies lack morals, you expect us to clean up your mess.

When a single guy goes after a married woman you will see guys discouraging him, insulting him and making sure he backs out, but if it's ladies, they will advise the single girl to sleep with the married man provided there is money, why are you now complaining ?

Go n tell you fellow ladies to let married men be, am a guy and I don't fancy any married lady, won't even get an erection for any married lady, preach to your fellow girls and let us be.

Are the married men engaging the sidechick no longer male/men again? Lol this doesn't make sense

They're both as shameless as each other, if anything, it's the man that made the vow to his wife and not the side chick

@OP
Divorce jare lol

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by pocohantas(f): 6:23pm On Aug 27, 2017
ibkayee:

Are the married men engaging the sidechick no longer male/men again? Lol this doesn't make sense

They're both as shameless as each other, if anything, it's the man that made the vow to his wife and not the side chick

@OP
Divorce jare lol

That post was laced with so much fuckery...I just couldn't ignore it.

He claims they are discouraging single guys, yet we have thousands of them sleeping with married women. Go to PH/Abuja and see what young boys are doing with old women...no one gets to hear about it.

I wonder who he is discouraging. Is it by discouraging? grin grin

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ibkayee(f): 6:34pm On Aug 27, 2017
pocohantas:


That post was laced with so much fuckery...I just couldn't ignore it.

He claims they are discouraging single guys, yet we have thousands of them sleeping with married women. Go to PH/Abuja and see what young boys are doing with old women...no one gets to hear about it.

I wonder who he is discouraging. Is it by discouraging? grin grin
Lool we're used to the fuckery now but this one seemed too sure in his conviction to ignore grin

Lol I wonder why married men aren't also 'discouraging' themselves from chasing outside their marriage

Moral ko lol
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Burgerlomo: 6:38pm On Aug 27, 2017
lalanice:
will my husband prefer if I quietly cheat or just let him know he is sharing

that's how your question sounds in reverse

Habaa, but why U wan gee somebody a. HBP na?

Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Efewestern: 6:51pm On Aug 27, 2017
pocohantas:


Stop churning facts out of your ass to make a point. Where have you ever seen ladies encouraging themselves to sleep with married men, except if they are all side chicks.

We have side guys too, they also encourage each other. It's their line of business.

On every thread a woman cheats, she is the one that gets majority of the insult. Whether you guys encourage such guys or not is totally irrelevant. It doesn't stop them from sleeping with married women. Same way discouraging such girls won't stop it, so far married men remain willing.

The only thing is, unlike men...women are very coded. A married man can easily tell his friend he has a side chic, a married woman would most likely never tell anyone, even her shadow.

Plz, you men should begin to take actions and stop blaming the other woman. Having in mind that men claim to be more sensible.

Madam am a guy and I know what am saying, what's the percentage of guys going after married ladies, have you ever seen any young guy going after any married woman?.

Ever been in a guys gathering?, watch as they trash any guy eyeing a married lady, but that's not the same with ladies, any guy that's rich they go after them, they don't even care if the man is married or not.

A married man once told me that ladies are the ones chasing after him, It's a common trend in Nigeria, in fact most mothers knows their daughters are going after married men but they don't say anything, instead they encourage it.

and yea Men are wiser than women.

cheers
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by pocohantas(f): 6:56pm On Aug 27, 2017
Efewestern:

Madam am a guy and I know what am saying, what's the percentage of guys going after married ladies, have you ever seen any young guy going after any married woman?.
Ever been in a guys gathering?, watch as they trash any guy eyeing a married lady, but that's not the same with ladies, any guy that's rich they go after them, they don't even care if the man is married or not.
A married man once told me that ladies are the ones chasing after him, It's a common trend in Nigeria, in fact most mothers knows their daughters are going after married men but they don't say anything, instead they encourage it.

and yea Men are wiser than women.

cheers

Continue living in your hole... grin grin
Who are the married women cheating with? Widowers hah? LOL...
E go surprise Nigerian men on judgement day cheesy cheesy cheesy

And you don't know there are so many single guys that are attracted to and chase married women. You must be very naive dear.

You are a guy, speaking for both guys and ladies. Only you dey for guys gathering, still dey girls gathering...wehdone Sir.

ibkayee:

Lool we're used to the fuckery now but this one seemed too sure in his conviction to ignore grin

Lol I wonder married men aren't also 'discouraging' themselves from chasing outside their marriage too

Moral ko lol

They discourage in their gatherings. Then go behind to bend so many ladies on top bed. It's not by discouraging ooo grin grin

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Rukkydelta(f): 6:58pm On Aug 27, 2017
Prettythicksmi:
You and marcus01 are both mad! So you want a second wife?what gives you the assurance that he won't still want a third wife? You both must be thinking with your anus. cheesy cheesy
I think you are the mad one here
Where in my post did I supported a second wife as the best option ? and Marcus didn't either
Please next time before you jump to just a conclusion try to look through
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Aug 27, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I think you are the mad one here
Where in my post did I supported a second wife as the best option ? and Marcus didn't either
Please next time before you jump to just a conclusion try to look through
Keep shut bitch!!I know what i am saying,he spew thrash to me cos I said i prefer cheating to second wife. So, what are you saying! Gerrarahere mehnnn. Mtcheww undecided undecided
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 8:47pm On Aug 27, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I think you are the mad one here
Where in my post did I supported a second wife as the best option ? and Marcus didn't either
Please next time before you jump to just a conclusion try to look through
Please, ignore her. She's not worth it.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 8:47pm On Aug 27, 2017
Rukkydelta:

I think you are the mad one here
Where in my post did I supported a second wife as the best option ? and Marcus didn't either
Please next time before you jump to just a conclusion try to look through
please, ignore her. She's not worth it. Trust me.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 7:49am On Aug 28, 2017
None of the above I want to be blowing up his phone so much when he sees temptation madam is calling is right there on FaceTime I trust the Holy Spirit to ring it in his ears
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by lalanice(f): 8:51am On Aug 28, 2017
ashewoboy:





what i don't get is why would you wanna cheat back on your husband? you should not cheat. be loyal to him. he is your husband.
yea, you should save this advice for the woman you are going to marry, she is rrreeeaaallly going to need it.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Amarabae(f): 8:54am On Aug 28, 2017
Dumb options, i will rather be a divorcee than see my husbnd marry a second wife.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ashewoboy(m): 8:56am On Aug 28, 2017
lalanice:
yea, you should save this advice for the woman you are going to marry, she is rrreeeaaallly going to need it.





now let's be damn serious. let's look at it holistically. if you are married and you discover that your husband is cheating, what would you do? recompense with cheating?
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ashewoboy(m): 8:59am On Aug 28, 2017
Amarabae:
Dumb options, i will rather be a divorcee than see my husbnd marry a second wife.




what's the propensity that your husband is not cheating?
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by theblessings: 9:08am On Aug 28, 2017
Amarabae:
Dumb options, i will rather be a divorcee than see my husbnd marry a second wife.
just pray dat u dnt see ursef in such situations, divorce is hell, esp wen u already hv kids for ur hubby
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by jaksmillioniar: 9:14am On Aug 28, 2017
Amarabae:
Dumb options, i will rather be a divorcee than see my husbnd marry a second wife.
jelous woman
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 9:20am On Aug 28, 2017
jaksmillioniar:
jelous woman
hypocrite. Are you not a jealous man too? Or you'd be happy with a cheating wife? Divorce is the best option here. Cus if you don't divorce, he's still going to kill you with std. So what's the point. If you die, another woman will take care of ur kids. So one should leave while one is still alive

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 9:21am On Aug 28, 2017
theblessings:
just pray dat u dnt see ursef in such situations, divorce is hell, esp wen u already hv kids for ur hubby
divorce is not hell. It's not the end of the world. It means you know your worth and you don't want to die. Your kids will understand. Your life should be your number one priority. Bn sad is unhealthy.

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Deicide: 8:18pm On Aug 28, 2017
Rorachy:
None.
None is not part of the option...............3 pages and no lady have given us an answer embarassed they are just running away from the main question which only has two options
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Daeylar(f): 11:22pm On Aug 31, 2017
Marcus01:

Nobody should be allowed to stay with a cheating husband. You sit your kids down and tell them their dad is an ass hole and you're leaving him cus he's cheating and he can giv you std which can lead to your death.

Truth in this post,
Marcus01 you've been giving me joy with your responses on this thread

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 11:56pm On Aug 31, 2017
Ur butthole will be sweet to lick oo tongue
IamKashyBaby:



angry

I am AGAINST cheating...if i am not enaff for u, the door is open..take ur shii out and never come back or i will give that away to homeless ppol wink
tongue kiss
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by desmond2pk: 6:41am On Nov 02, 2017
A guy of 42 years wants a second wife. Must be from 35 years old age to 40. Must have a sustainable business or job.
Must have desire to one or two kids.
Europe, Asia, African America, location does not matter but must be a Nigerian.

Fat, thin, short, tall doesn't really matter but must be peace loving.

Life is too short to be lonely.

African style
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Deicide: 2:31am On Nov 27, 2017
desmond2pk:
A guy of 42 years wants a second wife. Must be from 35 years old age to 40. Must have a sustainable business or job.
Must have desire to one or two kids.
Europe, Asia, African America, location does not matter but must be a Nigerian.

Fat, thin, short, tall doesn't really matter but must be peace loving.

Life is too short to be lonely.

African style
cheesy grin cheesy grin
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Deicide: 12:28am On Jan 17, 2019
Well this was fun grin

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