kimbraa:
Don't mind the hypocrites, their hypocrisy in this matter stinks to the high heavens. They want what they can't give.

A lady should give you allowance for being in a relationship and not surprises like gifts that could be in monetary form?. Some men have lost their dignity!.

Shut up how much have you given your bf

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

E pain am, go and invest in your future, being on nairaland 24/7 looking for boyfriend won't help you

thank your stars you ain't worth my time

khalids:

Mumu...Hi

Wailer am fine and you

poseidon12:


What you are saying applies mostly to Nigerians. I don't know of any other society where such situation exists. In a normal society, the guy treats the girl on her birthday and the girl treats the guy on his birthday.

lol bruh for real

Most percentage of black women are materialistic

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Ipob wailer

Your ancestors won't be proud of this.

QueenSekxy:

thank your stars you ain't worth my time

go and clean that house and feed baby before your madam comes home

I don't know about an allowance but treat/spoil the guy every now and then na, relationships are a two way street, you don't have to go beyond your means but a lil something something still counts lol

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

You would agree with her because she's your fellow member in the hoeing business

Did you properly think before writing this?
Or did u do it to be sarcastic

BabaIjebuXL:




Your ancestors won't be proud of this.

They are responsible for my situation

pocohantas:
She is right.
Though boyfriend allowance might be overboard, it doesn't sit well with the male ego...but if your woman doesn't give you anything, something is fundamentally wrong.

No matter the little she has, she should be able to scratch out something to spoil you. Even is it's fruits she buys.

Which is why till today, I am yet to understand the idea of celebrating a broke woman who stuck with a broke guy. Makes it seem like she is doing a brother a favour by dating him and he is privileged to have her considering his financial status.

In all, it further buttresses the fact that lots of women are materialistic...and only there to chop the guy's money. It doesn't matter if he isn't chopping hers. Some women seriously need to change their mindsets.

Since I've known you this is the only tangible thing you've ever said

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Wailer am fine and you

Nice to meet his royal dushbag....

pocohantas:
In all, it further buttresses the fact that lots of women are materialistic...and only there to chop the guy's money. It doesn't matter if he isn't chopping hers. Some women seriously need to change their mindsets.

Nigerian women specifically.

pocohantas:


I'm concerned with the message and not the messenger. She has a point. I wouldn't know if she is a hoe, but if at all she is...she has made lots of sense on this. I'm not her fellow member either...

God give me such strength pocohantas has to not reply someone rudely Even when they insult me.


Kudos. My respect

Nukualofa:
God give me such strength pocohantas has to not reply someone rudely Even when they insult me.


Kudos. My respect

She's a cool chic nah...very cool chic

She is misguided, definitely.

For those of you guys who think she's right though, always remember that when a woman gives you one thing, she is already preparing to collect a thousand things from you.

So therefore, tread with utmost caution.

justscorchone:



Since I've known you this is the only tangible thing you've ever said

Bros leave Poco alone o

Nigeria babes hardly spend on their guy ordinary boxers dey can't afford to buy 4 him


Na so one nearly wound me with her stinginess each time I visit her common glass of water she can't give she will always play dis line "hope u are not hungry but she wants chop suya each time we hang

Sis dia is God ooo

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Sorry ipod wailer

Na person Mama be this o Madam, sense doesn't need blood group verification to be borrowed. Just get some from your kids. No be me you go nag. Take it to your husband. He obviously married an Osho who thinks appreciation is a one way street. I bet he comes home late even when work closes by 5pm cos of your dud attitude

True talk, take of Pepsi for Nnamdi mama fridge I dey come.

VargasVee:
LMAO that can only happen in the movies.
If we take up on her word then there'd be a lot of bitter single women

On her birthday, you'll be the one to take her out.

On your own birthday again, you'll still be the one to take her out.

She gets angry, you'll be the one to apologize.
During your own time for a little anger, you'll still be the one to apologize again.

And they say it's a man's world

Women... chia make una change... not all sha, some are loving n understanding and can be so caring.

100% correct. Bestie0309 shey u hear

Cinderella5:
Obviously an attention seeker. ANY MAN who collects an allowance from a woman is not a real man.

but a woman who collects allowance from a man is a real woman? if we are to follow that train of thought, then gender equality my foot.

QueenSekxy:
stupidity...attention seekers everywhere

My friend, she made a valid point. No need for insult

pocohantas:
She is right.
Though boyfriend allowance might be overboard, it doesn't sit well with the male ego...but if your woman doesn't give you anything, something is fundamentally wrong.

No matter the little she has, she should be able to scratch out something to spoil you. Even is it's fruits she buys.

Which is why till today, I am yet to understand the idea of celebrating a broke woman who stuck with a broke guy. Makes it seem like she is doing a brother a favour by dating him and he is privileged to have her considering his financial status.

In all, it further buttresses the fact that lots of women are materialistic...and only there to chop the guy's money. It doesn't matter if he isn't chopping hers. Some women seriously need to change their mindsets.

Gee, great point. What did u have for lunch? A glass of good point juice i think

pocohantas:
She is right.
Though boyfriend allowance might be overboard, it doesn't sit well with the male ego...but if your woman doesn't give you anything, something is fundamentally wrong.

No matter the little she has, she should be able to scratch out something to spoil you. Even is it's fruits she buys.

Which is why till today, I am yet to understand the idea of celebrating a broke woman who stuck with a broke guy. Makes it seem like she is doing a brother a favour by dating him and he is privileged to have her considering his financial status.

In all, it further buttresses the fact that lots of women are materialistic...and only there to chop the guy's money. It doesn't matter if he isn't chopping hers. Some women seriously need to change their mindsets.

Show me in the bible where fornication and adultery is acceptable before God?

DanXplore:


My friend, she made a valid point. No need for insult

so how much have you collected from your girlfriend? ?there are better ways to make a valid point my dear

Ryabcool:
but a woman who collects allowance from a man is a real woman? if we are to follow that train of thought, then gender equality my foot.

Dont mind them. That's how they'll be doing selective gender equality. They want to eat their cake and have it

Zeze06:


How can you pay a man for being your boyfriend.... It's like "paying" him for being "paid".....

enimooko:
Making life easy

winkmart:
I don't need your allowance girl. You are enough as my salary

I really pity this pocohantas of a gurl
The washing that Nairaland guys are washing girls is what she is swallowing hook line and sinker.
In case you don't know it pocohantas, the so called slay queens guys bash are the kind they usually go for. Men love to be men. When a man is the provider, know it today, he feels fulfilled.
Take that from him and get less.
The best you should do as a woman is to encourage your man and not swap places with him to be the man!

Any guy who feels comfortable spending ya money sees you as a maga dear.

ProudtobeaMUMUM:

Ipob wailer

The rich also cry, abeg my teacher always remember to use a question mark whenever you ask a questions.

boyjo:






I really pity this pocohantas of a gurl
The washing that Nairaland guys are washing girls is what she is swallowing hook line and sinker.
In case you don't know it pocohantas, the so called slay queens guys bash are the kind they usually go for. Men love to be men. When a man is the provider, know it today, he feels fulfilled.
Take that from him and get less.
The best you should as a woman is to encourage your man and not swap places with him to be the man.

Any guy who feels comfortable spending ya money sees you as a maga dear.

You really don't know me then...I don't give 2fucs about washing here and they are very aware of that.

The lady didn't say the guy should be spending the girl's money, don't twist her post, she said allowance...which I said is overboard because it doesn't sit well with the male ego.
...But gifts and treats would come in handy as at when necessary.

free2ryhme:


Show me in the bible where fornication and adultery is acceptable before God?

Show me where I said fornication and adultery is accepted before God?

wristbangle:

Your opinion nowadays is given me a second thought about u

My opinion on relationship matters has always been the same. You only have a second thought when it suits you.

pocohantas:
She is right.
Though boyfriend allowance might be overboard, it doesn't sit well with the male ego...but if your woman doesn't give you anything, something is fundamentally wrong.

No matter the little she has, she should be able to scratch out something to spoil you. Even is it's fruits she buys.

Which is why till today, I am yet to understand the idea of celebrating a broke woman who stuck with a broke guy. Makes it seem like she is doing a brother a favour by dating him and he is privileged to have her considering his financial status.

In all, it further buttresses the fact that lots of women are materialistic...and only there to chop the guy's money. It doesn't matter if he isn't chopping hers. Some women seriously need to change their mindsets.

well said