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My brother my brother pls and pls marriage no be film oh man na reality u need to be certain B4 u enter I beg just forget about that girl cos to save ur family and pray that nothing like that happens again cos if u marry her how do u want ur brother and the girl to be cos I don't think there will be peace pls and pls don't make a mistake for u to regret am really touched with this ur story God forgive us alll.

Saliman22:
Dear I'm not lying
If I do God should end my future
I can give out my facebook name
Pls what should I do now
I have spent so much

Will u quit this rubbish "I have spent so much"!
Are u insane
She slept with ur younger brother!!!
What other form of moral compulsion do u require to open ur eyes? U want to marry that kind of girl and keep in your house?
U must be a fool!

Saliman22:
Not like that, I'm depressed
Just some little word of comfort and I will be fine

Man Up!
Shez not worth the depression....

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

Bleep marriage and think like a man.

Hmmn My Brother!!.. But You Wey You Dey Go Date 21 Year Old Girl You No Know Sey Her Blood Dey Hot. Na Sex Sex Sex Full Their Head At That Age... And You're A Banker Who Mostly Closes Work By 8pm And You'd Come Back Exhausted With No Strenght Left To Satisfy Her Sexual Urge Which Will Now Cause Her (As An Electric Current Wey She Be) To Look For The Next Available Live Wire To Tap Current Because We All Know In Elementary Physics That An Electric Current Will Always Find The Path Of LEAST Resistance. & Since You're An Exhausted Grown Man With A High Resistance ( I Mean I'm Sure You Work From 6 Am To 8pm With Little Or No Time For Sex) She'll Be Forced To Do It With Your Brother Who Has Little Or No Resistance. My Advice For You In This Dillema Is This. BREAK UP WITH HER NOW WEY UNA NEVER SPEND BOTH MONEY & EMOTION MARRY, Before Your Junior Bro Ends Up Ryan Giggsing Her For The Rest Of Your Married Life Because The Way I'm Seeing It She's A Nympho. & Needs Sex 24/7 Which As A Banker You Can't Guarantee Her.

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

bro it once happened to me. I gave her a second chance but I removed the fact of marrying her from my mind. less than two week, I caught them again . I knew they have been having it at my back so I bought a spy Biro which is sold at jumia, clipped it to his cotton and I heard proof of it, I never hesitated to show the parent and everyone. she ran away herself. it hurt me but such is life.they will never change cos they see each other.. one will persuade one with one reason.bro I've seen this case more.. RUN AWAY FROM THE RELATIONSHIP, U WILL WASTE MORE MONEY ON IT THAN YOU HAVE THE WASTED LATER

Mykelpato:
Bro for me you have to give the girl another chance.. But stop all this ur pray pray and try and improve ur sex life. Satisfy her, Cox I know most people here would be tempted to do the same with their wife's sister.. if their wife ain't satisfying them ... Don't forget to go for counseling, tell ur father about it, he will give u a good advice.

Bros, no offence intended, you just typed rubbish up there...do you normally think at all?

Since na ur brother dey help u chop em no wahala.but if na me both my brother& dat yaya thing i swear i go chop them father one by one

Let her go... She's not ready for marriage... You're brother needs to be taught a lesson too... You need to be smarter, prayer helps but this could be avoided!

vivaciousvivi:
Will u quit this rubbish "I have spent so much"!
Are u insane
She slept with ur younger brother!!!
What other form of moral compulsion do u require to open ur eyes? U want to marry that kind of girl and keep in your house?
U must be a fool!

Seconded!

Skmoda360:
Bros, no offence intended, you just typed rubbish up there...do you normally think at all?

Wetin be no offence? Offence dey! He typed Rubbish!

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

This might sound harsh! But if you can sleep with someone that is not yet your wife, why can't your brother do same?

Skmoda360:
Bros, no offence intended, you just typed rubbish up there...do you normally think at all?

If ur opinion is different from mine... Then let it be..

Ganjafama:
What kind of hunan being are you? You are asking him to forgive a girl who could stoop low to sleep with his kid brother. Dude I am being tempted to insult you, but I won't.

I have just gave my opinion and u have to respect that... This is what any reasonable person will also tell him, everybody deserves a second chance .. If u dare insult.. I'll make life unbearable for u.. Trust me.

I wanted to call you, but then a lot of folks have said what I would have told you. In relationship, if you ignore the warning signs, you will be doomed later! Bros let that bitch go. Don't even feel pity for her for one minute. Tell your parents what happened. They will back you to let her go. If you don't let that girl go, you will destroy yourself later in life. By the way, that babe is drilling another dude outside too, not just your spoilt kid brother.

Mykelpato:
I have just gave my opinion and u have to respect that... This is what any reasonable person will also tell him, everybody deserves a second chance .. If u dare insult.. I'll make life unbearable for u.. Trust me.

that threat is unnecessary. In social media, you can be insulted any minute and there's nothing you can do. Trust me too, there's absolutely nothing you can do. Just let it slide and don't take every comment too serious. We all boil at different degrees.

babyfaceafrica:
are you high..give someone that slept with his brother a chance..which kind of people are in NL sef?

I'm not hight my dear,.. Everybody deserves a second chance, if he sends the girl out and get another.. Some similar thing might still come up... The devil is u know is better than the angel u don't know... The O. P should help stop that.. He knows why the girl acted like that.

emsheddy:
that threat is unnecessary. In social media, you can be insulted any minute and there's nothing you can do. Trust me too, there's absolutely nothing you can do. Just let it slide and don't take every comment too serious. We all boil all different degrees.

Thanks bro.. Just woke up this morning to see this.. U know that kind of feeling.

otitokoroleti:
honestly the guy needs to act like a man, love must not makes one silly. I salute your judgement as a woman. Good morning & God bless

Morning dear, God bless you too. I don't think he can act like a man

Briee:
Morning dear, God bless you too. I don't think he can act like a man

it is finished I wanted to call him this morning but don't it's necessary with what I just read. If he understand what relationship/marriage means, he wont play with his own life. We've done our part so its left to him

Briee:
He is not seeking attention. The girl is taking advantage of his love

Same girl since 2015? He's surely under a spell. This one weak me

Mykelpato:
I'm not hight my dear,.. Everybody deserves a second chance, if he sends the girl out and get another.. Some similar thing might still come up... The devil is u know is better than the angel u don't know... The O. P should help stop that.. He knows why the girl acted like that.

smh

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

Hmmmn

Originalsly:
Hmmm..... before I advise you.... let me find out who is the deputy governor of Anambra.... and which of his permanent secretary has a daughter doing IT at the Ministry of Health. I'll find her and hear her side of the story. While you wait. ...go ahead with the marriage plans.....nothing better than one big family.

I'm from Akwa Ibom
I wanted traveling to Anambra so I'm not from there

Briee:
The girl was even shouting at him when I called them few minutes ago. He is helplessly in love

Madam sharap make person here word

Mykelpato:
Thanks bro.. Just woke up this morning to see this.. U know that kind of feeling.

morning sir and happy new month. bros that guy really needs help oh. Called him, and he is even living with the babe. He is depressed about the whole issue but can't send her out cos he feels sorry for her that if the news spreads her future will be stained. Na wa ooooo

otitokoroleti:
it is finished I wanted to call him this morning but don't it's necessary with what I just read. If he understand what relationship/marriage means, he wont play with his own life. We've done our part so its left to him

I called him and was shocked to hear the babe's voice at the background. Dude lives with her. He can't do nothing because he feels pity for her. As soon as I heard her voice, I just knew advising him while she is there is a waste of time. Dude is in a big emotional gbegeee!

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

You are mad.
What do you call love?
If you marry her she will eventually kill you.
I am 65, so I know what I am saying.

emsheddy:
I called him and was shocked to hear the babe's voice at the background. Dude lives with her. He can't do nothing because he feels pity for her. As soon as I heard her voice, I just knew advising him while she is there is a waste of time. Dude is in a big emotional gbegeee!

I pity his sorry ass because he's about to give himself painful eternal wound that will never be healed. the girl in question has been a cheat as far back as 2015 & op created a thread back then. the girl was having affairs with married man then, I don't know why a man will be acting like pussyassnigga. in a situation like this, there should be no room for any silly emotion.

[quote author=Saliman22 post=59993696]Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please [/quote

Do you love her so much that you can bear the shame of marrying a girl that slept with your brother?

Do you love her so much that you can get married to her knowing that she might continue the illicit affair with your brother?

Can you bear the pains of finding out that one of your children or all belongs to ur brother ?

After answering these questions you can make up your mind

Sex is not something you have with someone and just move on especially when the person is within your reach.

There comes a time in a man's life where he have to take a tough decision, this is the time for you bro.

otitokoroleti:
I pity his sorry ass because he's about to give himself painful eternal wound that will never be healed. the girl in question has been a cheat as far back as 2015 & op created a thread back then. the girl was having affairs with married man then, I don't know why a man will be acting like pussyassnigga. in a situation like this, there should be no room for any silly emotion.

are you serious about that? 2015? Please do you have the link to the thread? I think this dude needs more than help oh. Let's not allow a brother waste himself like that.

Nairalanders and busybody, see everyone calling him to hear gist.

Op, take heart and man up!! And the stop beating the shii outta ur brother