don't worry bro, at some point when she will get her sense back,you should be over her..by den it will be too late for her.

@Aden777 come and see what your friend has been doing for his girlfriend

You should have used that money to get a better phone for yourself bro
You still using screen muncher? Mehn O ma Shey o

eyahhh. Your story reminds me of back in the days when I almost died cos of my first real girlfriend , was so in love with her that any little issue that come between us am messed up, I manage to leave her which was hard for me and to my greatest surprise she doesn't care, n I jejelly moved on, we didn't talk for almost 3yrs n on 4th year on my birthday she called me n we talk normal n she has been begging and pleading for us to get back but brother she doesn't even look like a girl to me again, am way above her, have bleeped pussy way better than hers, so my advice is that you let her be for now, I know it's gonna be hard but plz try, n if you allow this to go on your grade in school will suffer

Omotayor123:

When she told you she was sick on Saturday and couldn't go out. I guess you didn't care after that. or she expect you to come to her house since you guys planned it already.

Just give her some time, I'm sure she will soon come around.
You can send a text message to apologize again by tomorrow. Or visit her in person.

He should apologize again? What da fvck? Op, do not do this.

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

Your STUDIES will suffer because of this you say. ln ten years read this line again, sit back and wonder...

FutureLeader00:

I didn't do anything wrong, I kept asking myself what have I done wrong I couldn't get it..Thanks big bro

There lies your problem bro, why didn't you do something wrong?

Sometimes you need to actually do something wrong to please these ladies, forget all those "I mustn't make a mistake" to make a girl like you.

If she can't fix you, what is she doing with you? that is how these women think o, and I'm like wtf.
When men like to just leave you with your wahala

Next time you're in a relationship, remember this, as you do the right things, don't forget to spice it with the wrong things, they're different for different girls.

Go n make money my friend
Stupiid boy!

Dude. Grow a pair & man up. NEVER EVER BE AFRAID TO LOSE YOUR PARTNER.
Free her, if she's interested in you, she'll holla back.

beautiful232:
don't worry bro, at some point when she will get her sense back,you should be over her..by den it will be too late for her.

@Aden777 come and see what your friend has been doing for his girlfriend

Lol... I wish say him fit send those things gimme make I dash one beautiful two tree too ...
Back to the matter... From ur write up op, i can deduce that u got admission last year... If yes, u have many things to focus on... Don't let this make u lose focus... NOT ALL FIRST RELATIONSHIPS LEAD TO MARRIAGE... Just love ur life... In Olamide's voice - I love my, I don't know if my life love me but I no dey abuse her.

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FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

Ur moniker says u are a future leader. If u really want to be one face ur studies and excel ,babes will troop in later. Av been in such position before. But I bet u , this is the best thing to do. Don't be a loverboy. If u must love , love those that also appreciate u.

Aden777:

Lol... I wish say him fit send those things gimme make I dash one beautiful two tree too ...
Back to the matter... From ur write up op, i can deduce that u got admission last year... If yes, u have many things to focus on... Don't let this make u lose focus... NOT ALL FIRST RELATIONSHIPS LEAD TO MARRIAGE... Just love ur life... In Olamide's voice - I love my, I don't know if my life love me but I no dey abuse her.

you see you ehh, one day nau woman go still finish you

Did you dick her ?

I never know how handsome or hugly you are tall or short, may be the ayagba(lady) don see one tall sexy yellow guy that is driving small motor car and the Oyinbo-nigeria guy don they show her effizy with is robort corp chest full of soldier ants(hairy) and also maybe the guy don they touch something wey you no they tourch(romantic) thats y she said you are not caring
but i advice you as a lady, let her be, face your book and dont facebook her again so that you will be meaningful in your nearest future. That ayagba girl want to use to be getting leavrage; such as send me card, i need money with condition attached...... Abeg leave that girl make she waka go meet that person wey they wink her and deceive her with blink, blink materials. Shame go soon catch am and she go come beg you....or buried her shame in gutter.

Lewaluv:
This girl sounds too expensive for you.

Maybe or maybe not. She's just smarter than the op. And the op isn't groomed yet on how to handle a relationship. These are part of his CV . He will keep learning the ways of girls. I won't blame him cos he's still a boy . When a grown up man begin to handle a relationship like this then there is problem.

beautiful232:




you see you ehh, one day nau woman go still finish you

Haba ma'am... Me wey dey try to change ur parade again... Well, if u no want make i carry go give another babe... I no know why u still dey awake sef.

Apologising a gal when u re sure u didn't do anything wrong makes her think you re WEAK. Trust me, u don't want to do that. Just pretend like she doesn't exist for now. It will break her.

Quick Advice: Never blow up a gals phone with more than 2 miss calls. She will start feeling too important, and start giving u hard time.

Aden777:

Haba ma'am... Me wey dey try to change ur parade again... Well, if u no want make i carry go give another babe... I no know why u still dey awake sef.

body aches ...Was too stressed out yesterday and couldn't take drugs after the Lagos waka..you nko?

Never had anything intimacy with any girl till 5th or final year in school.
Truth is I wouldn't blame you. You're in expedition of finding an angel which might take years. But before then, brazen up for many heartaches. That would make you stronger.
And when you have found her, then you'd look back and realise how stupid you've been.
When you see an angel you'll know. No hassle and stress. She exhumes maturity and her wife material is beyond a million yards. She comes when you least expected or given up on love.
Most times what we need ain't within our environment.
Most times it flows on it's own. Do not force it.
So man, most guys abusing you here had gone through worst. They're still leaving in the shadows of their past. Reason you see the harsh comments and attacks. I tell you what, you've tried. She has made it clear. Now know this, when a girl tells you that you ain't caring enough... that's a clear sign to back the f*ck off. Can't advice you to focus on your studies. Your results will do that for me.
Lastly, do not buy the girly things for any girl. Take her out to make her pick. Except maybe her toiletries.
Having said enough, delete everything about her...then cowboy the f*uck up and move on.

My brother,you've been a messenger of love.....Your are too easy for her, learn to become a nigga,have you ever thought why niggaz have lots of girlfriend?..Kindly send her a text to give you some space to face your studies,prepare her mind that she's free to have an open relationship..Don't make yourself available to her for now,don't call or text her hence let her be....I can assure you she's more interested in another guy because his a fresh ATM...When she comes back begging,let us know on nairaland so we can teach you how to treat her Bleep up... LOVE DONT COST A THING..

VargasVee:
We've said it and keep saying it still.

It's okay to be in love but don't ever make it look like you'd die off without your partner

The average human would want to exploit it to their advantage. You can't help it, it's nature.

Nobody wakes up to utter words like "YOU'RE NOT CARING ENOUGH FOR ME"

Don't ever force yourself on someone. Sometimes all a man needs is to shed the old skin so as to give way to a better one.

You took the words from me! I keep telling them, "protect urselves. Do not be vulnerable! Do not love (not with all ur heart, at least)."
They won't hear!
Good luck with heart ache

beautiful232:



body aches ...Was too stressed out yesterday and couldn't take drugs after the Lagos waka..you nko?

In Olamide's voice - and u know we Lagos boys 'a mo la towo ko'... No wonder u dey fresh... Well, i dey do night vigil here...

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

Mistake you will ever make. Being too engrossed is dangerous.

Read the link below and print out the content otherwise, you will die before your time. But one things bound to happen... you will never be wise, prudent UNTIL you have a heart break.



https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page

she don see another cassava n banana with Prada has fall on her.


just move on with your life and concentrate on your studies

correctguy101:


There lies your problem bro, why didn't you do something wrong?

Sometimes you need to actually do something wrong to please these ladies, forget all those "I mustn't make a mistake" to make a girl like you.

If she can't fix you, what is she doing with you? that is how these women think o, and I'm like wtf.
When men like to just leave you with your wahala

Next time you're in a relationship, remember this, as you do the right things, don't forget to spice it with the wrong things, they're different for different girls.

You get sense

owelle22:
Don't go read your books....be busy buying pads, panties, bum short etc with the pocket money your parents gave you (hard earned money)....issorite

lol...let's try to help his situation

justscorchone:
When an African woman tell you YOU ARE NOT CARING just know she means you are not spending enough,flowers,dates and chocolate na Oyo for here,you for buy her iPhone or take her go Dubai.as you still dey skool fashi her and fcvk rabaraba while you are at it,I regret not fcvking while I was in skool .my son wouldn't make that mistake

..Chaiii...Forgive those girls ooooo..

I know emotions can fail. But if u can, let her be for now. Sorry!

Typical brown roofer,no money in the pocket, but you wanna run a relationship.

FutureLeader00:

I didn't do anything wrong, I kept asking myself what have I done wrong I couldn't get it..Thanks big bro

I want to advise you just because of your education. When it comes to women, expect lifelong dramas. The only way to protect yourself is to be a devil at heart until you graduate. Women seem to hate upright men. My most promising relationship lasted for two years because I changed tactics and became the devil they want. My previous two relationships never lasted for three months, and I'm above 35 now. The last girl that met her match in me wants me back, while the previous two women laugh at my idiocy till today. Some will say you're yet to meet your ordained woman, but will you expect me not to date in 35 years?

As a spiritual person, there is a spiritual guide I'm skeptical about regarding choice of a woman, and I'm not ready to believe this until it happens.

If you follow my advice, women will resort to using pregnancy to tie you down because you will appear stone-hearted. Your I-don't-care attitude will then make some of these women say you are impotent.

Nah madness they worry the boy. . You better focus on your school and career. Without money you can never be a good husband. Think how to make money ok.


quote author=SuperSuave post=60234400]I swear down, I can never be this soft for a lady. See this guy calling, texting, begging her as if his life and hers have been entwined. What do you stand to gain out of all this wahala wey you put yourself? pūssy or something else? or has her father promise you a secured future? I just don't understand why you can't move on with your life guy.

To imagine you are a fresher in school dey vex me sef, you have so many things ahead of you in life yet you're so worked up on girl issue, I weak for you I swear.[/quote]

I understand ur plight coz I've been down this road and i tell u my brother, its not easy. Alot of people will say u're too soft, u're p**sy n all but one thing is clear, ALPHA males are born and some guys mould themselves into one. If given the opportunity again, There are alot of things i would have done differently
1.Dont call a girl more than twice
2.Its ok to ignore her calls sometimes (Dont always be available)
3.Dont ever make her feel she's the only girl that wants u, flirt with girls in her presence
4.Girls love bad guys by default, try and create a balance between being a bad sharp guy n that gentle guy u've been
5.Be corky, she is not doing u a favour by dating u
6.Try not to say this words too often.. SORRY and I LOVE YOU. Except when necessary

Search for this topic :"Dating Drills for Guys"(Romance section) Start from page 1.

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

Last, Last...... once the person wey get your mumu button locate you, if u no take time, u're finished


Come 28th October by his Grace , I'll be getting married to mine but i must confess, it has not been easy