GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

Who ur smelling puna help.


Abeg garrra 4here jor

frenzyduchess:
thanks, this why most women pretend cos some men just can't handle the real you,i am just not the type to say yes sir to everything especially when I know it is right and for my own good

You are a lot like me, and to be honest, women like us are seen as stubborn and intimidating, when indeed, we just have varying opinions.

Don't join the group of women who play down who they are and pretend just to get a ring.

Their are men who love and appreciate women like us. I have one now on my case who knows me as I am and is crazy about me that way. We fight and apologize after going after our conversations and then, we understand where we are both coming from, come together, reason and apologize.

He will come.

kennygee:


You are a lot like me, and to be honest, women like us are seen as stubborn and intimidating, when indeed, we just have varying opinions.

Don't join the group of women who play down who they are and pretend just to get a ring.

Their are men who love and appreciate women like us. I have one now on my case who knows me as I am and is crazy about me that way. We fight and apologize after going after our conversations and then, we understand where we are both coming from, come together, reason and apologize.

He will come.

He will definitely come.

Everybody has a reason for wanting marriage don't be deceived by simplistic and baseless
semantics. Relationships are not black and with.

jezuzboi:

You just made my day!!! Actually, what u said about GIRLS WHO WANT MARRIAGE is arguably true. As a matter of fact, that happens to be my current situation right now. This girl just gives into all I do like she's got no principles, even when I made it obvious that I'm not into her.

I could only come up with the conclusion that she's trying to secure her marital future, not minding if I share in her vision.

However, what seems to puzzle me is that part that says a GIRL WHO WANTZ A GUY won't be committed and will have reasons to misbehave. Can u pls write more on that?

A girl who wants you will be cheating on you with other guys. But a girl who wants marriage will be faithful

YelloweWest:
It's too early for a stupid thread to hit front page nah!

A girl who want to marry u does not want u

What idiot comes up with this sort of shìt??

Azinn ehn..why would I want to marry you if I don't want you in the first place? You must complement me if I must marry you cos I can't be married and some single ladies are far better off than I am.

jezuzboi:

Can you please specify the age range that fall into this class (@ bolded)?

From 28

GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

Women wants our cockks as well.

GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

OLOSHO Sighted. People talking marriage n you're taking punna. Haba

uniqueflash:
even mr ten-ten has nothing to say on this

This one pass me ni my brother

Wait wot will u actually b doing wit a gal dat wants U n don't c u as d right person 2 spend d rest of her life wit? D 2ruth a woman dat genuinely want U shld also wnt 2 marry U.

kennygee:


You are a lot like me, and to be honest, women like us are seen as stubborn and intimidating, when indeed, we just have varying opinions.

Don't join the group of women who play down who they are and pretend just to get a ring.

Their are men who love and appreciate women like us. I have one now on my case who knows me as I am and is crazy about me that way. We fight and apologize after going after our conversations and then, we understand where we are both coming from, come together, reason and apologize.

He will come.

thanks, was getting discouraged already

Humm nice one there... some ladies actually want that title of Mrs not a happy life, beside some they don't know what they want, no choice of man still. I just pray will marry the right one for us.

jezuzboi:

This is my primary issue with some Naija girls. So "PUNNA" (whatever that means) is now equivalent to MARRIAGE? Couldn't you have reversed the question and present it as WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS MARRIAGE AND NOT THE GIRL? Why does it have to be "PUNNA?"

Mind you, PUNNA is just a 2-minute affair (in worst case scenario). And even in the best case scenario, it can't take 24 Hours. But MARRIAGE? Whether best or worst case scenario, MARRIAGE IS FOR LIFE!!! And by the way, WHY WOULD A GIRL WANT TO MARRY A GUY SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT? Gosh!!!

You only want the "MRS" title so you can measure up with your married friends and form CLASS for the unmarried ones? What then happens after the MARRIAGE? So puzzling!!! I wish you would really take thought to the main topic and help me out with some tips here. I want to believe you have that info.

I said it here time without number before, that most women are only happy with the wedding, not really the man they married.

Just pray about it because you may meet a lovely lady who's actually committed to you but seems to only want marriage (because of pressure..maybe she's reached marriageable age..and she sees a family in her future)

and you may meet one who seems "committed" to you cause she doesnt speak of marriage..because maybe she's outside the marriageable age and doesnt feel pressured to do so..

All in all it's hard to know..but if you just met her the other day and she already givin hints about a wedding then that should be a red flag.

If it wasn't for societal and family pressure, half the married couples in the world would be singles living separately and probably happier.

..... see confusion everywhere

HERSLEY:
we do

why do you ladies now make it look as if sex is only favourable for men

HERSLEY:
we do

especially you

jezuzboi:

What about a girls who's
CLINGY,
JEALOUS,
SPEAKS WELL OF YOU BUT SPEAKS ILL OF OTHERS,
DOESN'T SEEM TO MIND YOUR MISBEHAVIOR, EVEN WHEN SHE'S NOT THE KINDA GIRL WHO LETS THING SLIDE EASILY

yet,

Doesn't share in ur passion,
Can't bring herself to do the things u primarily yearn for,
Lacks understanding of who u are and doesn't seem to bother finding out, yet gives u her own difinition and works with that difinition

Only seems to center on things that concern u both but scarcely puts interest in what seems to be more of ur thing than hers. I don't even know how to analyze again sef.

But ultimately, she envisions a future with u and her idea of actualizing that future is giving u the impression that she loves and cares, but is unable to give u what u want and unable to receive what u have to offer being that both of u are like a square peck in a round whole.

She has noticed this, just like the guy. But unlike the guy, she still pushes on. The big question now is WHY?

Society's pressure!! If people stopped rating getting married as some sort of big time achievement.. and if women had the biological luxury of being able to bear children safely and up to whatever age they choose, then we wouldnt be discussing ths in the first place.

jezuzboi:
Guys!!! Someone posted this on Facebook and it got to me. Now I’m looking for tips on HOW TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN A WOMAN WHO WANT LOVE YOU AND A WOMAN WHO WANTS MARRIAGE. Any ideas

Good question! It's easy to decipher which category a woman belong.

Study her mindset she ll be caught in either one of these or all
# A woman that's sees marriage as a poverty ALLIEVATION scheme
# A woman under so much pressure for the title MRS
# A woman been attacked with d fear of menopause
# Only interested in steady sexual satisfaction and want it with just a man

Once she has any of these attributes.... My brother all she want is marriage she doesn't love u

There is nothing wrong with dating a guy with the intent of marriage, what is wrong is having to tolerate bullshit because of it because the compatibility will not play out. However it goes both ways. some guys that simply wants to get into a girl's pant do so too, they take the girl bullshit leading the girl and making her feel they are compatible and the moment the guy gets what it want, he start showing his true self

kimbraa:
Typical of NL guys. Twisting what she said in your favour. Are there not men who marry just to be sexually satisfied?.

And girls don't need sexually satisfaction? Enough of all this men sex and all that. Every mature adult basically like sex

Sabrina18:
It makes no sense. If I want you, I as well want marriage, I can't want marriage and not want you cos I can't marry a person I don't want, you will repulse me and I get easily irritated.

just observing you

DeeTus:
I said it here time without number before, that most women are only happy with the wedding, not really the man they married.

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Abeg, I need connection for punna. who go help me

dmg1:
just observing you

Why and from where?

Hmmm.. May God help us

kimbraa:
Typical of NL guys. Twisting what she said in your favour. Are there not men who marry just to be sexually satisfied?.

Funny enough, I don't think he's twisting the question to his favour but an average female thinks every guy is after sex. To the op's question, you will know if a lady wants just marriage or really likes you if u can only pay attention to details. In some cases, it might even be pressure from parents. Questions need to be asked discreetly from time to time.

Amenooooo

Brightontc:


Abeg, I need connection for punna. who go help me

SMH FOR YOU!

GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

Why do u just want to make a horrible mess of yourself?

ayokellany:


Concocted excuses to dish a lover who you can readily verify is totally in love with you. There will always be a reason to love another, it could be charisma class intelligence big yansh physique etc. Love does not fall on anyone. You bring yourself to love someone and when you start complaining about someone, twisting narratives you are simply seeking validation for a way out. It does not work that way, quit relationship you do not want, bear the
consequence whether positive or not.

you seem to understand the rationale behind the guy's post. You don't want a relationship, then you quit. It's that simple. Not unnecessarily looking for excuses where there seems to be none. No one is perfect after all. Love sometimes make one behave irrational especially when you love with your heart thereby making anyone compromise for their partners until they receive the term "Desperados" and then come to their senses