Sigh

Well, shit happens.

Inasmuch as I would want you to forgive her, it doesn't tell too well of the relationship if she's cheating on you even before you guys got married. And since she has already established a pattern where she dirty-chats other guys when you offend her, just to make you angry. ..then there is a very strong possibility she'll do it again when you guys are married cos marriage can be really stressful. I say forgive her but walk away from the relationship.

She's not your wife. Don't ruin her life. The other guy isn't worth your sanity that you should be thinking of killing him. And suicide? Lol, guy, you're 30, tougher things will come your way, it's your duty as a man to tough up and overcome obstacles, not to consider suicide at the slightest inclination.

Where are u based? Do you drink? I would have invited you to this great bar, we drink ourselves silly and forget all this emotional nonsense o jare and move on with life
Chill bro.

Guys here are just forming staunch.. I used to do that too until my homie was shedding tears in my front because of his woman.. Vex I no fit vex.. I just dy console am.. Na that day I know say love strong sha..

OP dust yourself and stand up.. That's what we do as men.. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.. What if you were married?? That means you go just go hang yourself na.. I sense that you are an emotional person so just give yourself time to heal and see if you can trust her again.. Coz 6 years is no joke. But if you can't, end it biko.. It's well..

I can understand how u feel bro... 6yrs is not beans walahi... I can relate to all u are saying after investing time, money, emotions etc... Ur greatest fear is the fear of starting afresh and trusting another woman after your experience..... I have been through that shiiit but trust me... You go dey alright last last..... I didn't really feel mine cos I was the one that did the cheating and had to beg and plead for forgiveness for a whopping 6months but she refused...

So calm down... Ask ursef if you can forgive... If not just move on... U will meet someone some day.

Smh. Lover boy.

When we tell u guys to forget about these ladies, and focus on more important things like being very successful, u ppl always think u r smarter. U fall into a trap and the first thing u think of is suicide. Issokay. It just means the only thing u know abt marriage is its spelling. U think its a joke. U obviously dnt know what these ladies are.

Guy forget them, make money and dey will auto-fall in place. If u like dnt listen. This is what happens to ppl who allow the society tell dem "just get a girl and settle down, u r already 30". U r lucky u r not married yet, ur suicide would have been surer

HarunaWest:

N*gga your a blaady fool....she isn't married to yah she doesn't owe you any loyalty..she has a right to sleep about,if you decided not to,ain't her fault.....I hate when some guys come here to say a girlfriend cheated on them, like they were married to her,...mtscheeeeeew

abi o lol! I dey wonder sef, d monkey sef disvirgin da babe, as if he had a right to do dat to an unmarried lady @1st. Now somebody else wan chop d kpomo too, he's rantin as if he has paid her brideprice.... He sounds lik he has dis sense of entitlement, am sure d girl is tired of him. Dats y she flirts, He needs to check himself!

Gbese re

Marvel1206:
Dude, just calm down. Investing on a girl is unwise

Just dump her please before you lose your sanity. Forget about marriage if you don't wanna die young

Good advise

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Oga you are bloodily fool. You go dey invest timeuntop woman u never marry.. just thank God you still Alice's. All u have to do erase that and start over with someth Ng new

All girls cheats Don't ever show so much love for any girl because they don't deserve it girls don't love they only love someone because of the money that is why I consider them as liabilities

Let married mens dress this issue proper

seek medical​ help first..before I could think of d best advice for u.. imagine becos a girl jilted u.......u started having negative thoughts...to d point of committing suicide...seek help first den...will help u

My whole world is shattering too, bro. I lost half my portfolio on Binary Options.
Feels like the end of the road for me.

Bleep life.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Thats a fact. You should pick up the pieces of your life and move on. Suicide et al is out it please.

You only 30 bro why the rubbish scatter any place any where

Similar thing happened to my friend his fiancée since 9yrs was dating, had sex with and even contacted sti from another man, and he got to know, confronted her and she confessed. I told my guy to leave the lady but right now they are planning their wedding. My guy said he can't start again, he made the lady abandon the lover and promised never to repeat such. The whole scenario made me realise love can turn some ppl to fools. My advice if you have also been bleeping other ladies all along just forgive her if she's remorseful. All ladies are the same

You just have to believe it. That is Konji's tradition.

i was here to look @ her sexy body.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Lol...You didn't know she could cheat cos you think cheating is a monopoly,only you can cheat,abi?
Funny guy
The same way you fvck other people's ladies is the same way other guys fvck your own ladies,just that most of you don't find out

mumu dey there!,nowadays ladies are spiritually wicked and destructive!,even if you marry ham from church self. baba take heart and chop heart!.

Guy you better cool down, you die them go still Bleep am, you kill her you go to jail them go still Bleep am then who loose? Move on with your life and be thankful for saving your life from divorcee

Girls of now adays are trash...

Marvel1206:
Dude, just calm down. Investing on a girl is unwise

Just dump her please before you lose your sanity. Forget about marriage if you don't wanna die young

I would have said a lot to you but this guy I am quoting summarised it all. Take this particular advice very seriously.

Forgive and forget..I believe she must have learnt from her mistakes,u can't just tro away a relationship of 6years lyk dat...How re u sure that the next gal u will date wil b faithful..FORGIVE BRO!!

GudPpleG8Nation:


I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Okk, which one do you want to do first? Committing suicide should be the last because if you commit suicide first, you wont have the strenght to accomplish the other tasks like killing the 2nd guy. Now I will advise that if I am to arrange the tasks in order of importance, this is how it should look like...

1. making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life

2. killing the guy

3. committing suicide

4. dying

No 3 and 4 can be interchanged; you can do 4 first before 3 or the other way round.

Thank me later.

Lies

dotunbekro06:
Bros don't tell me you want to break up because of this.. Then you don't love her





Oga stay with your package...



Like my nigga do say "Drag Mr/mz Left and Drag to the Right...



No time biko

Has it ever occurred to your dead brain that a girl that cheats in relationship will most probably cheat in marriage?

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.


I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

onyindidi advise please

Guy cool down nothing do you, all you need is to call your woman to order, give her your rules and enforce it and make sure she abides in it. Hold on any future engagement like marriage with her for now until she's completly loyal to you. Don't forget that a broken relationship is better that a broken marriage

missyadorable:


Lol...You didn't know she could cheat cos you think cheating is a monopoly,only you can cheat,abi?
Funny guy
The same way you fvck other people's ladies is the same way other guys fvck your own ladies,just that most of you don't find out

Seriously!!
Did you read his Post at all

Ladies are just useless (most of them). A guy shows absolute love and loyalty and all you will get in return is back stabbing.
Take heart bro, move on and never trust any lady.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Did the guy cut the kpomo after Ynashing , If he did not cut the kpomo off, please manage the left over food. Next time secure your food against cockroach.

Bros please forgive her o, please she is the one today it can be you tomorrow. Bros the pic below had a message.