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Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by bayocute(m): 9:19am On Sep 24, 2017
There is this gal, we're a very close friends. She tells me almost everything that happens in her relationship. Last week thursday, she came to my house sobbing, she told me she caught her boyfriend with another woman. I felt for her and patted her on her back consolingly. It was late in the night and i told her to leave. She was like i will pass the night here. I wasn't comfortable with that but i let her stay.

I woke in the mid-night saw her crying, then i tried putting her back to sleep, but it happened so fast that we started kissing. I wanted to pull back but she draw me closer. Fast-forward, we had sex.

The next day, she accused me of raping her, telling me that i make used of that opportunity cos she confided in me. Since then, she won't pick my call if i call. I don't know how that resulted to rape seriously. What should i say to her pls nairalanders, cos i don't want to lose being friends with her. Thanks

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 9:24am On Sep 24, 2017
Lol...that's far from rape my dear.. she gave her consent. She wasn't drunk or drugged.. All through the intercourse she didn't say "no"at all..Abeg she's just playing games with u.. It seems she had it all mapped out before coming over..Don't get get urself worked up jare..

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by CaptainSALAZAR: 9:24am On Sep 24, 2017
She was traumatized and subconsciously lose herself to you. It happens, beg her and move on.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:25am On Sep 24, 2017
Lack of Self Control.

From your story,you didn't rape her. She's just being childish.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Joephat(m): 9:25am On Sep 24, 2017
Go check your STDs

Maybe she must have given you one.

After that, leave her don't call her agn, she is trying to restore her self-esteem, she feels she was so cheap to you.

Don't call her, she will surely get back to you, if she enjoyed your Bleep but if you have small dick, I am sorry

Modified*
If after checking your STDs n you're positive to Hiv, jejely take up arms, go to her house n wipe out all the living things in her household, including, goat, ram, fowl, all the nocturnal animals.. Pray n write your will before going.

Hypocrites should not quote me!

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 9:27am On Sep 24, 2017
You don't wanna lose being friends? shocked Friends or fuck_buddies? cheesy

You really must have enjoyed the pussy enough to want to return cheesy

You don't wanna be friends with her, you just wanna keep fūçkīñg. Don't lie cheesy

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by eezeribe(m): 9:27am On Sep 24, 2017
OK
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by ikbnice(m): 9:27am On Sep 24, 2017
mhizesther:
Lol...that's far from rape my dear.. she gave her consent. She wasn't drunk or drugged.. All through the intercourse she didn't say "no"at all..Abeg she's just playing games with u.. It seems she had it all mapped out before coming over..Don't get get urself worked up jare..
she was in a vulnerable situation. You should obviously know better. It's not rape but he took advantage of the situation. The girl was only trying to save face by accusing her of rape. He should play his cards well and fhey might end up fvcking more.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by pweshdodo(m): 9:27am On Sep 24, 2017
she said that just to make her not cheap to you and she doesn't want that happening to happen again but to me she enjoyed it likewise you so don't feel remorseful about what happened.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by MhizzAJ(f): 9:31am On Sep 24, 2017
She enjoyed it ...You didn't rape her.

Someone dat drew u closer when u wanted to pull back...what was she expecting self

I still dunno why ladies should ve men as their close friend..some will even go to the extent of telling the guy their relationship wahala.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 9:31am On Sep 24, 2017
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 24, 2017
LMAO


I think she raped you instead


I guess she initiated the kiss, you wanted to pull back but she drew you closer. you didn't take advantage of her.

she took advantage of you!!!

she had this planned out before coming over, wanted to sex you for rebound but didn't know how to tell you without looking like a slut.

I guess she started feeling guilty the next day and changed the story.

just leave her alone, I won't be surprised if she suddenly wants to date you now. you will become like a rebound to her.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 24, 2017
ikbnice:
she was in a vulnerable situation. You should obviously know better. It's not rape but he took advantage of the situation. The girl was only trying to save face by accusing her of rape. He should play his cards well and fhey might end up fvcking more.

There was nothing vulnerable there. She carried her self to the guy's house..The fact that her bf broke up with her now made her homeless shey? She had sex with him.let her just move on and stop acting stupid

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by CaptainSALAZAR: 9:39am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry too when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me


What nonsense! He lacks self control because he responded to his basic need and she doesn't not to leave the guy's house and stop crying uncontrollably for him to pamper her that leaded to the intercourse? Learn to take responsibility for your actions.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Papiikush: 9:40am On Sep 24, 2017
Op, you only took advantage of the poor girl.

Ask yourself this question. Would she have allowed you fück her if she was mentally stable?

If your answer is NO, it means you took advantage of the situation to satisfy your sexual desires with her.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by anonymuz(m): 9:40am On Sep 24, 2017
Text her and stop calling her. She just used you to kill her emotions. Believe me she still love that guy and she will consent to his plea. You are just being used and keep bleeping her anytime the opportunity comes again.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by abelprice(m): 9:43am On Sep 24, 2017
She had it mapped out. She was jst looking for some sort of excuse which her boyfriend gave.... guy she use you and now she's trying to make u feel lyk u are d bad 1... girls.. undecided... and she noticed u want her puna dats why she was confident.. you yourself you nor good..... undecided..

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by waleyp(m): 9:43am On Sep 24, 2017
SOME PEOPLE WOULD COPY ANOTHER PERSON'S STORY AND PASTE IT HERE. THE GUY WHO BROUGHT ABOUT THIS TOPIC IS NOT EVEN COMMENTING, ABEG NO TIME FOR BLIND COMMENTS JARE

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by IamLEGEND1: 9:43am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT
You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more

So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh
Don't quote me
No be naija babe?
Make him try form gentleman see wetin go happen...
Next morning , rumour don dey Street say you're impotent, you have a micro_penis or one baba wey you shake hands with for road don swipe your_dick.
E better as e yansh the babe..... Next time she no go come him house come seduce am then accuse am of_rape.

And yes.... Na me quote you.
I dey my house, koman beat me. grin

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 9:45am On Sep 24, 2017
CaptainSALAZAR:



What nonsense! He lacks self control because he responded to his basic need and she doesn't not to leave the guy's house and stop crying uncontrollably for him to pamper her that leaded to the intercourse? Learn to take responsibility for your actions.
What basic need so one night is too much to think with his brain
Look she may just want company yall need to get it your head company doesn't mean sex ... being there for someone doesn't mean sex
Even if he wasn't thinking about it doesn't he have any pride .. he is cheap sorry

So crying mean u must bang her ... even if she begged for it I know guys that will never in the morning they can discuss it and if that's wt she really wanted it could have still happened .. why not wait sad


Lots of decent guys out there won't touch her till she has calmed down and thinking again
Cc djeezy

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 9:46am On Sep 24, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
No be naija babe?
Make him try form gentleman see wetin go happen...
Next morning , rumour don dey Street say you're impotent or you have a micro_penis.
E better as e yansh the babe..... Next time she no go come him house come seduce am then accuse am of_rape.

And yes.... Na me quote you.
I dey my aus, koman beat me. grin
Well that rumour would be better that an accusation of rape true or false ?
Rape is for scums

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by ikp120(m): 9:46am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me
You are obviously on your period. That's why you are reasoning like a dotard!

Good guy ni, cool guy ko. Mtcheeeew angry

@OP
Nigga well done jare! She obviously wanted to fvck! That's how stupid girls initiate sex.

Delete everything about that girl and watch her start calling you in less than 35 days. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin Congratulations on your successful exit from the friend zone.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Johnpaul01: 9:49am On Sep 24, 2017
All you need to do is to call Mr Ifeanyi Ubah to help you land her one of his slaps, then ask her again"DID I RAPE YOU", She will just smile and say "NO"

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by babyfaceafrica: 9:50am On Sep 24, 2017
This is super story

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 9:50am On Sep 24, 2017
ikp120:

You are obviously on your period. That's why you are reasoning like a dotard!

Good guy ni, cool guy ko. Mtcheeeew angry

@OP
Nigga well done jare! She obviously wanted to fvck! That's how stupid girls initiate sex.

Delete everything about that girl and watch her start calling you in less than 35 days. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin Congratulations on your successful exit from the friend zone.
Stfu pls if u can't comment without insulting they don't mention me
Same way u have ur opinion same way I have mine just cause u don't like it doesn't mean nothing to me

Swerve wasteman

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by ikp120(m): 9:52am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:

Stfu pls if u can't comment without insulting they don't mention me
Same way u have ur opinion same way I have mine just cause u don't like it doesn't mean nothing to me

Swerve wasteman
I talk am. She's on her period. Hehehehehe grin grin grin

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Kobicove(m): 9:52am On Sep 24, 2017
You did not rape her but you took advantage of her while she was in a vulnerable situation undecided

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by IamLEGEND1: 9:53am On Sep 24, 2017
mhizesther:

There was nothing vulnerable there. She carried her self to the guy's house..The fact that her bf broke up with her now made her homeless shey? She had sex with him.let her just move on and stop acting stupid
Someone give this girl Cow tail, a spoon of goat milk, zika virus, scholarships for her whole family, three slippers & have her replace Nnamdi Kanu as the Leader of IPOB For The spirit of Flavour Nabania endorses her comment.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 9:53am On Sep 24, 2017
ikp120:

I talk am. She's on her period. Hehehehehe grin grin grin
Gerraout of my sight I no get ur time this morning
grin

Come n beat me

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by kullozone(m): 9:54am On Sep 24, 2017
Go to her house and beg her, since you can't live without being friends with her... Mtcheeeew!
Begging for friendship, imagine!

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 9:54am On Sep 24, 2017
I'm on the opposing team
Someone gotta help a sis out grin
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 9:55am On Sep 24, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Someone give this girl Cow tail, a spoon of goat milk, zika virus, scholarships for her whole family, three slippers & have her replace Nnamdi Kanu as the Leader of IPOB.
For The spirit of Flavour Nabania endorses her comment.


legend baba.
I hail o

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