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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:31pm On Sep 29, 2017
They were carried away by lust and married quickly.

Them don fucvk taya, nah now their eyes clear to scrutinize character.

Character which they could have scrutinize and understand before sexxx.

But typical humans, na mind blowing Sexx first. sad

No more heartbeats stopping when they see each other.

It's finished.

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:31pm On Sep 29, 2017
People (both men and women) change a BIG deal after marriage! There is a difference between a relationship when you live in separate houses and a relationship when you are living under the same roof.... BIG DIFFERENCE!

A lot of little quarrels and fights that were non-existence when a couple lived separately start to show up when they are living together after marrying.

Kobicove:
Can he honestly say he did not know that before engaging her for marriage?

He was probably blinded by lust undecided

People don't change after marriage!

What you see is what you get!

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:31pm On Sep 29, 2017
Kobicove:
Can he honestly say he did not know that before engaging her for marriage?

He was probably blinded by lust undecided

People don't change after marriage!

What you see is what you get!
exactly
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by thesuave10(m): 1:32pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:



Hehe..chill brov. don't call our sisters bitches plz

grin Hehe some ladies tho. Submit na issue for them. It's the fault of the men finally. If you handle your woman properly she'll submit like a loyal kitty
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by sukkot: 1:33pm On Sep 29, 2017
thesuave10:


Submissive doesn't mean there won't be respect oga
but which black man respects a submissive woman ? you have to understand if you are a righteous good man then GOD will bless you with a submissive woman because you will not take advantage of her meekness. if GOD has blessed you with a strong head woman its because you are a wicked man lmao. look in the mirror brah lmao.

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:34pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:



Help me ask o.. Our generation and pride, ego and unnecessary feud... To say common sorry, i miss you is headache for many people. Many lovers can't tolerate or forgive one another... Expect more. P Square just go through with their own divorce.
Love is never enough. I could remember her tweeting some romantic messages on social media to him with semi-nude pics while he was away for weeks abi months. grin Today dude has divorced her that she isn't submissive or more like she asked for the divorce and he granted her wish. Attoh is crazily handsome and looks like a cassanova. there's more to keeping a marriage than "I love you", and two individuals battling with ego can't keep marriage for long.
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:34pm On Sep 29, 2017
sukkot:
it is. it is stone-age mentality meaning an era when men were uncultured. bible says - women obey your husbands and husbands obey your wives.

1 peter verse 3 Wives, respect and obey your husbands in the same way. <<< SUBMIT TO EACH OTHER. NOT ONLY HER SUBMITTING TO YOU



Submissive in regards to the scripture means the home is run in accordance with the will of the man, and the woman follows. Marriage can be replaced with the word, to join, or to follow. and when ladies co-join with men, it is to stick, i.e. to become one in person, in will, in position, to the one in everything...To become in sync completely, i.e. to stick to, and not to run a subsidiary government, too bad many people suffer from lack of sound doctrine as the right way to build a marriage.

Many ideologies and crazy concepts have infiltrated the principal standpoint of the essence of marriage and that'swhy there's break up everywhere... Many ladies need to learn submissiveness, it also implies giving up your will to take up the will of the captain and work with it...Yes, ther'e a measure of equality in marriage, but all in all, God recognises the man as the owner of his home...I hope you learnt a thing or two?
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by sukkot: 1:35pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:



Don't shoot yourself in the foot. Samu ni. Have you been around lately? Many ladies are not submissive.
because the men are wicked. GOD does not give wicked men submissive women. they will take advantage of her. in life you are blessed with what you give out. the energy and aura you effuse is what is returned unto thee. wicked man ? strong head woman. na so the cosmos dey do am

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:36pm On Sep 29, 2017
kimbraa:
Love is never enough. I could remember her tweeting some romantic messages on social media to him with semi-nude pics while he was away for weeks abi months. grin Today dude has divorced her that she isn't submissive or more like she asked for the divorce and he granted her wish. Attoh is crazily handsome and looks like a cassanova. there's more to keeping a marriage than "I love you", and two individuals battling with ego can't keep marriage for long.

I agree

Understanding

Mutual Respect

Tolerance

Endurance

The will of both parties has to be in sync, now, many ladies want to go in one direction ( as a background tool in case of a crash )

Forgiveness

Gentleness


Did you remember how that guy quoted love in the scriptures? Love is patient, kind, forgiving, bares no record of wrongs, how many people can still love this way in this unforgiving and impatient generation?
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by sukkot: 1:36pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:




Submissive in regards to the scripture means the home is run in accordance with the will of the man, and the woman follows. Marriage can be replaced with the word, to join, or to follow. and when ladies co-join with men, it is to stick, i.e. to become one in person, in will, in position, to the one in everything...To become in sync completely, i.e. to stick to, and not to run a subsidiary government, too bad many people suffer from lack of sound doctrine as the right way to build a marriage.

Many ideologies and crazy concepts have infiltrated the principal standpoint of the essence of marriage and that'swhy there's break up everywhere... Many ladies need to learn submissiveness, it also implies giving up your will to take up the will of the captain and work with it...Yes, ther'e a measure of equality in marriage, but all in all, God recognises the man as the owner of his home...I hope you learnt a thing or two?
and like i repeated to the two gentlemen before you, GOD gives wicked men strong headed women. so if your woman is rebellious you need to look in the mirror because your wifes attitude is a reflection of who you are. everything balances out.
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:37pm On Sep 29, 2017
sukkot:
a[b]nd like i repeated to the two gentlemen before you, GOD gives wicked men strong headed women. so if your woman is rebellious you need to look in the mirror because your wifes attitude is a reflection of who you are. everything balances out. [/b]


I disbelieve and disagree Sir.

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:37pm On Sep 29, 2017
sukkot:
because the men are wicked. GOD does not give wicked men submissive women. they will take advantage of her. in life you are blessed with what you give out. the energy and aura you effuse is what is returned unto thee. wicked man ? strong head woman. na so the cosmos dey do am


You are so wrong, life is often the other way. These days God is rarely involved or sought after in issues of marriage.
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by AuroraB(f): 1:38pm On Sep 29, 2017
You went into marriage and expect 'submission'?
From who?
Dienyi, kwudogodu odu for gutter biko grin cheesy

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by thesuave10(m): 1:38pm On Sep 29, 2017
sukkot:
[s] but which black man respects a submissive woman ? you have to understand if you are a righteous good man then GOD will bless you with a submissive woman because you will not take advantage of her meekness. if GOD has blessed you with a strong head woman its because you are a wicked man lmao. look in the mirror brah lmao[/s].

Is this one mad? Hahaha! Naira land and stupid members. grin. Wetin concern God with this issue now? This is why religion has locked some people's brain grin grin congrats bro you are daft .and yes black men respect submissive women.

Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by banmee(m): 1:40pm On Sep 29, 2017
Kobicove:
Can he honestly say he did not know that before engaging her for marriage?

He was probably blinded by lust undecided

People don't change after marriage!

What you see is what you get!

Actually, people do. You know why? Because you and your spouse will not be stagnant. Things will continue to change around you which will affect your emotions and character. For example; When you get a promotion at work may mean less time spent at home. This may infuriate your spouse. You'll start seeing mood swings from her and not understand that she may be missing you or have suspicions that you are cheating. It can be easily solved if the line of communication between spouses is solid but in African marriages it usually is not. Another example is when she starts having babies. A woman's sex drive reduces once she starts having children. Most men do not understand this and complain when their wives deny them sex and start to believe their wives have changed. And she has changed because it is not easy staying up late night after night to nurse, wake up early to feed and dress the kids for school and still go to work. How sexy do you think she'll feel when she comes back from work? Spouses change all the time. They just have to be aware of it and compensate for the changes.

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by MRAKBEE(m): 1:40pm On Sep 29, 2017
Damilola(telema) plays the role of a divorcee in the popular soap opera, tinsel.
Telema met chris on set and got married to him in a star studded ceremony.
Damilola didn't enjoy her marriage and she wished to be divorced
Kayode tries to win her heart but she is a hard nut to crack. Telema fears that she would suffer the same fate in her marriage
Damilola finally get divorced from chris.
Damilola finally breaks up with Kayode
Is she living her script in tinsel?

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:41pm On Sep 29, 2017
sukkot:
and like i repeated to the two gentlemen before you, GOD gives wicked men strong headed women. so if your woman is rebellious you need to look in the mirror because your wifes attitude is a reflection of who you are. everything balances out.


I can name at least 3 solid cases were the men are docile and the wife was hot. I can also name a single case were the wife was damn submissive and the man was terrible.

The match making is not causal factor of the attitude of those prior to the match. I can agree with you that the attitude of the couples may change afterward in the marriage but those are relationships were there was little to no courtship.
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by deife(m): 1:41pm On Sep 29, 2017
akinade28:
They made such a lovely couple, so sadcry they r divorced.
It takes more than handsomeness and beauty to make marriage game work.

You are so right .
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:41pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:


I agree

Understanding

Mutual Respect

Tolerance

Endurance

The will of both parties has to be in sync, now, many ladies want to go in one direction ( as a background tool in case of a crash )

Forgiveness

Gentleness


Did you remember how that guy quoted love in the scriptures? Love is patient, kind, forgiving, bares no record of wrongs, how many people can still love this way in this unforgiving and impatient generation?
You're right sha. I saw the news on Television this morning but couldn't believe it 'till I saw the thread here. They should both stay off marriage 'cause I'm sure the both of them have serious personal issues.
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by AuroraB(f): 1:42pm On Sep 29, 2017
sukkot:
but which black man respects a submissive woman ? you have to understand if you are a righteous good man then GOD will bless you with a submissive woman because you will not take advantage of her meekness. if GOD has blessed you with a strong head woman its because you are a wicked man lmao. look in the mirror brah lmao.
cool

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by billyG(m): 1:42pm On Sep 29, 2017
she tut all that marrer 2 u iz her bushy kunt,she dnt know nigga desav some repect men!Attoh try jacky appiah.
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by thesuave10(m): 1:42pm On Sep 29, 2017
sukkot:
[s]and like i repeated to the two gentlemen before you, GOD gives wicked men strong headed women. so if your woman is rebellious you need to look in the mirror because your wifes attitude is a reflection of who you are. everything balances out[/s].

You're stealing my line of a wife's attitude is your reflection but just as 98% of the human race you lack understanding of that statement. For if you wife is logically your reflection then why call God. If you don't demand submission and carry yourself in the way you should as a Real man your relationship will fail. If you like be more righteous than moses grin
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by sukkot: 1:43pm On Sep 29, 2017
thesuave10:


Is this one mad? Hahaha! Naira land and stupid members. grin. Wetin concern God with this issue now? This is why religion has locked some people's brain grin grin congrats bro you are daft .and yes black men respect submissive women.
lol everything goes back to GOD. we are spiritual beings. this body is just sand and dust. what controls you is your spirit. it is energy with coded cosmic programs that is your intelligence. that your spiritual side keeps all your evil deeds and intentions. and it is in observing this your spirit that you are blessed with a wife that matches it. the spirit in the woman that will sync with yours. most times ( 99.9999 percent of the time ) women are given to men as punishment. so 9 times out of 10, your wife is your punishment. thats why many women are wicked and evil. they are your punishment. but if you are a good person ? your wife will be your blessing

supersystemsnig thesuave10
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by bedspread: 1:43pm On Sep 29, 2017
ANY MAN OR WOMAN ON THE FACE THAT DESIRES SUCCESS IN MARRIAGE SHOULD ABIDE BY THESE
EPHESIANS 5:22, 24- WIVES SUBMIT YOURSELVES UNTO YOUR HUSBANDS, as unto THE LORD. (IN OTHER WORDS IF U SAY U LOVE,fear ,honor and Respect GOD and u do otherwise to your Husband....you are a Joker)
V.24 - THEREFORE AS THE CHURCH IS SUBJECT UNTO CHRIST, SO LET THE WIVES BE TO THEIR OWN HUSBANDS IN EVERYTHING


EPHESIANS 5:25- HUSBANDS, LOVE YOUR WIVES, EVEN AS CHRIST ALSO LOVED THE CHURCH, and GAVE HIMSELF FOR IT.
(Every man who needs a great home is to Love his wife to the Extent of sacrificing his own Life)

In CONCLUSION,
SUBMISSION In ALL THINGS(FROM WIFE)= SACRIFICIAL LOVE FROM HUSBAND....

Even if you Read the whole marriage books on earth and get the highest counseling without sticking to These rules from THE CREATOR, you'll end up a disaster..
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by thesuave10(m): 1:45pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:


I agree

Understanding

Mutual Respect

Tolerance

Endurance

The will of both parties has to be in sync, now, many ladies want to go in one direction ( as a background tool in case of a crash )

Forgiveness

Gentleness


Did you remember how that guy quoted love in the scriptures? Love is patient, kind, forgiving, bares no record of wrongs, how many people can still love this way in this unforgiving and impatient generation?

I'm afraid even with all that, she'll still not be submissive the right way
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by ivolt: 1:46pm On Sep 29, 2017
kimbraa:
Of course I'm very much aware of this. But there are marriages of people who aren't celebrities that didn't last up to a year. Most of these people marring now don't even know why they're getting married in the first place beside the fact that the society we're in frawns at a single lady. So they just develop the need to be married inorder not to be castigated for being single. Instead of marrying for a year or two, it's best one never got married in the first place.


As there are marriages that didn't last six months so are some that lasted decades or even a lifetime.
You must understand that a couple sticking together will not make an interesting news
as that of a messy divorce.
So news items are not a reliable means of gaining knowledge about marriage.


There is nothing that can be done about the society's attitude towards single ladies,
even some ladies that have been a subject of ridicule at a time in the past have themselves
become a tormentor of fellow ladies. We can only wait till the judgemental population is
replaced by those who mind their own business.

My point is that marriages are individual affairs and they will have individual outcomes
even for identical twins married to identical twins.
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:46pm On Sep 29, 2017
kimbraa:
You're right sha. I saw the news on Television this morning but couldn't believe it 'till I saw the thread here. They should both stay off marriage 'cause I'm sure the both of them have serious personal issues.

It's actually a reflection of the society at large. The younger generation. The ladies are induced by marriage, most ladies when they hear men say submissiveness now think and believe it means slavery, but viz-a-viz, when marriage was instituted, i believe two principal foundations were considered, i.e. Authority and then, Submission, Submissiveness implies there's a captain, the captain should lead in honesty, truth and should lead purposefully, while he should always take the interest of his partner to heart. And, he's partner should humbly follow and trust the captain. If this interplay is abided with, why should we experience divorce? But oh no way, the average lady believes she's what she's not, the guy doesn't have the courage and instincts of a leader. God help us. I'm getting tired of relationships and may bail....

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Adebowale89(m): 1:46pm On Sep 29, 2017
reading most of the comments above, I can now deduce what predate feminism


he said "she's not submissive, trust, and forgive


this means he has been unfaithful in the marriage, he is doing sth dt negate trustworthy, he want to be the only one controlling his home affairs without the wife interference or contribution


you would have go and marry omo Alata nw. how can u marry such a carrier woman and expect her to look dummy when you're doing sth wrong


I'm not concluding so quite but Chris attoh had judge himself thru his self reflective words

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:46pm On Sep 29, 2017
thesuave10:


I'm afraid even with all that, she'll still not be submissive the right way

Many girls in this new generation are and will not be submissive, it's not difficult to see
Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by sukkot: 1:47pm On Sep 29, 2017
Gwaihir:



I can name at least 3 solid cases were the men are docile and the wife was hot. I can also name a single case were the wife was damn submissive and the man was terrible.


The match making is not causal factor of the attitude of those prior to the match. I can agree with you that the attitude of the couples may change afterward in the marriage but those are relationships were there was little to no courtship.
you do not know what happens behind closed doors. what people present on the outside is not what they do when it gets dark

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by Nobody: 1:47pm On Sep 29, 2017
alobispot:
Ghanaian actor, Chris Attoh, has revealed one of the reasons his 2 year marriage to Nigerian actress, Damilola Adegbite, crashed..

According to the actor, the actress was not submissive..

This comes after the actress had on Tuesday taken to social media to reveal that her prayers had been answered in a cryptic post, just 24 hours after her ex-husband has confirmed their divorce.

She wrote;

“That feeling when I ask my father in heaven to do something and he does it in less than 24 hours.

Then I am convinced that all things work together for good to them that love him and are called to his purpose,”

Now, responding to the indirect comment of the ex-wife, Chris has said that women should be submissive to their husband whenever they get the opportunity to be married.

In a chat with Bola Ray on Starr Chat, the actor said openly;

“a woman who does not submit to the husband and trust his instincts is not going to be successful in marriage.

I think that we have forgotten about the fundamentals of marriage. When you love someone, it’s important to be able to forgive
, respect and submit.” he told Bola Ray.

“As a woman you need to trust the captain of the ship. It’s truly important if you want peace in your home.”

If you are a Christian, it is your bible that will take you through your wedding days.”

Everything happens for a reason. I have a beautiful baby boy, a wealth of experience and a lot of work to do”, Chris explained.

See more at >> https://www.celebsnest.com.ng/ex-wife-not-submissive-attoh/

I have always said this. Many of our women these days need wisdom.

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Re: “Damilola Adegbite Was Not Submissive” – Chris Attoh Speaks On Crashed Marriage by figoperch: 1:47pm On Sep 29, 2017
LesbianBoy:


He was blinded by her sexy body

While she was blinded by his handsomeness

2 blind pple...

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