sukkot:
[s]lol everything goes back to GOD. we are spiritual beings. this body is just sand and dust. what controls you is your spirit. it is energy with coded cosmic programs that is your intelligence. that your spiritual side keeps all your evil deeds and intentions. and it is in observing this your spirit that you are blessed with a wife that matches it. the spirit in the woman that will sync with yours. most times ( 99.9999 percent of the time ) women are given to men as punishment. so 9 times out of 10, your wife is your punishment. thats why many women are wicked and evil. they are your punishment. but if you are a good person ? your wife will be your blessing[/s]

supersystemsnig thesuave10

LOL!! Chai this is complete and major BS. Your wife is your punishment? Coded cosmic programs? Hahaha this one is mad

sukkot:
but why would you want a lady that is submissive ? are you still living in 1960 ? this is a digital era but ya brain is still analog. keep your ego in check. the ideal would be mutual respect

supersystemsnig:


Many girls in this new generation are and will not be submissive, it's not difficult to see

sexymoma:
Tinsel joined these two
if you ask me, i won't call these two professionals cos they missed their real emotions with what they acted in tinsel
na all of una marray una finish for tinsel..kilode

sukkot:
lol everything goes back to GOD. we are spiritual beings. this body is just sand and dust. what controls you is your spirit. it is energy with coded cosmic programs that is your intelligence. that your spiritual side keeps all your evil deeds and intentions. and it is in observing this your spirit that you are blessed with a wife that matches it. the spirit in the woman that will sync with yours. most times ( 99.9999 percent of the time ) women are given to men as punishment. so 9 times out of 10, your wife is your punishment. thats why many women are wicked and evil. they are your punishment. but if you are a good person ? your wife will be your blessing

supersystemsnig thesuave10

thesuave10:


That is the fault of men to a large extent. A woman's behavior is a reflection of her man and his actions

Differential:
Mutual respect is ideal. Some men want women who's submissive when they themselves aren't treating them right. If a man genuinely love a woman and treats her well, she will know and will do anything to make him happy, so if she wasn't submissive in their marriage he was probably not a saint himself. Can't expect a woman to treat you like a King if you're not treating her like a Queen. It takes two.

supersystemsnig:




Submissive in regards to the scripture means the home is run in accordance with the will of the man, and the woman follows. Marriage can be replaced with the word, to join, or to follow. and when ladies co-join with men, it is to stick, i.e. to become one in person, in will, in position, to the one in everything...To become in sync completely, i.e. to stick to, and not to run a subsidiary government, too bad many people suffer from lack of sound doctrine as the right way to build a marriage.

Many ideologies and crazy concepts have infiltrated the principal standpoint of the essence of marriage and that'swhy there's break up everywhere... Many ladies need to learn submissiveness, it also implies giving up your will to take up the will of the captain and work with it...Yes, ther'e a measure of equality in marriage, but all in all, God recognises the man as the owner of his home...I hope you learnt a thing or two?

thesuave10:



LOL!! Chai this is complete and major BS. Your wife is your punishment? Coded cosmic programs? Hahaha this one is mad

PeacenLove2:


This view is shared by the majority and it's been around since time immemorial. Recently, marriage has been failing based on this foundation. You don't think it's time to restrategize, stare the real problems down and change for good? When a human being tries to belittle another human being, there will be friction. A little more sensitivity, MUTUAL respect, humanity will get us steering the right direction.

supersystemsnig:



How explain to me o...Because i don't believe neither do i agree

PeacenLove2:


This view is shared by the majority and it's been around since time immemorial. Recently, marriage has been failing based on this foundation. You don't think it's time to restrategize, stare the real problems down and change for good? When a human being tries to belittle another human being, there will be friction. A little more sensitivity, MUTUAL respect, humanity will get us steering the right direction.

PeacenLove2:


This view is shared by the majority and it's been around since time immemorial. Recently, marriage has been failing based on this foundation. You don't think it's time to restrategize, stare the real problems down and change for good? When a human being tries to belittle another human being, there will be friction. A little more sensitivity, MUTUAL respect, humanity will get us steering the right direction.

supersystemsnig:



Not that, i understand cosmic intelligence and you haven't spoken completely wrong, however a woman may not be a man's punishment, but a wife is a man's assignment, and he should learn to work with her, if willing both parties can understand one another and have a blissful relationship. Back to square one, submissiveness is key. Without submissiveness, how can a lady be in a marriage? Even if she ends up marrying, her lack of submissiveness will push her out


Did you read in the scripture where a woman was advised to show off good habits even with a bad/unwilling husband and that possibly, the man may be won over and changed by her attitude...Submissiveness is key, many ladies of this generation are naughty, proud and arrogant, patapata na degree and some coins.... but that's peanut, in the corner of the room, they coil up with heart aches...

thesuave10:


Do you believe a child's behavior to a large extent is a reflection of his/her parent's actions and behaviors?

sukkot:
you do not know what happens behind closed doors. what people present on the outside is not what they do when it gets dark

sukkot:
women take a cue from their men to know how to behave. if a woman is with a strong disciplined man she will tow the line of discipline. if she is with an undisciplined man is when she will not submit. you think general idiagbons wife was not submissive to him ? very disciplined man and serious minded. listen if your wife is not submissive you need to look in the mirror. women want strong disciplined GODLY men. and in the absence of such will they go out of line.

Gwaihir:


When i said solid case, i mean i saw the whole of it. Okay fine, my mom is the most submissive woman i have ever encountered but my dad? Make we no talk.

You see why did fate bring the two together? There is a reason that is personal but that life gives you what you want strongly depends on how much you seek God not that life will just toss it to you. That one is the biggest lie any one can tell concerning companionship.


That you end up with your right fit, strongly depends on God and how much you are willing to understand and compromise for each other due to at least a degree of courtship that will show if the emboldened will be present or not.

Life does not do, what you deserve, it gives you the opposite in most cases those who don't, go and check very well God was involved.

supersystemsnig:


Explain your position tentatively Sir. I marry a woman today, is the character she brings it recently acquired? Or she has gotten a lot through the processes from child birth till that point? You're off point on this brov

supersystemsnig:


If i catch you, was that the only thing he said... I believe he meant once there set for marriage, which is more appropriate...

thesuave10:


Do you agree with what I said yes/no? I Will now explain in details after your answer

sukkot:
women take a cue from their men to know how to behave. if a woman is with a strong disciplined man she will tow the line of discipline. if she is with an undisciplined man is when she will not submit. you think general idiagbons wife was not submissive to him ? very disciplined man and serious minded. listen if your wife is not submissive you need to look in the mirror. women want strong disciplined GODLY men. and in the absence of such will they go out of line.

supersystemsnig:


Talk too much to ladies of these generation and they'll give you your change. Your bringing up idiagbon in 80s abi.... have you dated a career chick before?

thesuave10:


Remove that GODLY there and you're on track. Leave it there and you make your case look daft

sukkot:
bro ? it applies today. if you are a disciplined man you will not be going to clubs and drinking in public which is where you guys meet all these undisciplined women. and the first time they met you was in an undisciplined set-up so right from the start she knows you are an undisciplined person. so she will be a problem. like i said, like attracts like. birds of the same feather flock together. undisciplined men flock to undisciplined women. it is what it is lol.

supersystemsnig:


Make your point. Don't spam the thread

akinade28:

It takes more than handsomeness and beauty to make marriage game work.

thesuave10:



It's very simple. I can answer your question with another like I just did. You were quick to shout what you don't believe in now suddenly you don't seem to know what the word believe means again. And yet you said I should explain to you. There's a reason therapist asks their clients/ patients questions before anything else and that is to know the diagnosis. So I asked you a question to understand your state of mind and belief system to explain to you better and to enlighten you on areas you didn't know you were in the dark