shakswealth:


yes ooo, u wil seel all them Walcot and Wenger live and direct I must see my oga jose and ma boy Martial too ooo

CHAIRMANMAO:


OP this can be lil complicated, i have this very good friend so so loyal to her guy, the nigga zoomed off to Canada over 6yrs now nigga aint give a Bleep bout her, she just moved on this year, i wish all gals are as loyal like her mhen

Lawlahdey:
Nice.

shakswealth:

waiting in anticipation, 15-10-2017

supersystemsnig:



It's a cycle oh. It's a never ending cycle. The painful part albeit is when we speak to ladies thesedays, the vibes they give is as though we're benefactors of a previous guys mess.... Hmm, at this rate, i'm afraid for our generation. The mistrust and skepticism is off the charts...I'm beginning to lose hope on love self...Make i kuku face my book squarely...

There are no excuses for not being able to get a loved one visa, if there's a desire to do it, it is easy. No matter the country, there are travel agents that can get visas to any country on the planet. Guys are just mischievous and petty

Sydney17:
study permits

megareal:


luminouz, even you?

Why na?

You wey go illuminate, torchlight and shine every part of white woman's congo, na you pesin go wait for?

Oya, swear say I dey lie.

Lawlahdey:
You lie.

When last did you have sex?

Sydney17:
In 2014 I left Nigeria, having spent almost 2 years searching for jobs without any luck, I had a gal who was very 'loyal' despite my 'brokenness' ! We were so much in love despite the usual 'lovers' ish!

I told her about my plan to seek greener pastures abroad (since naija dey fall hands), she agreed with me though reluctantly coz of what she read and heard about distance relationships!

In short I was able to secure a visitor visa to finally leave naija and seek a better life! Hmmm, it was a mixture of joy n sadness! A lot runs through my innocent mind! The thought of leaving my parents behind, the thought of someone taking my 'boo of life' like she likes to call herself dominate my heart! But of course the though of living a better life, escaping the noises of 'molues' and danfo thrills me!

Finally I will be able to provide for my boo and my siblings! But! Hey I was wrong! 'Nowhere in the world where trees bring forth cash instead of fruits', you really have to work! I made a vow to my gal to be back in December that year! Lol! And promising never to cheat on her! We almost made blood covenant sef (no blame me o)

First few months was hell! It was extremely cold! Like there are AC every where! Infact AC sef dey learn gan! We have to wake up early morning daily to look for off jobs! Despite the coldness! Gradually! The little dollars I brought from naija don finish! I have to pay for monthly rents, electricity, water etc!

Hmmmmm! As a naija boy d hustling spirit keeps me going! And of course I maintain communication with bae! We chat on whatsapp most times am free! We upload and tag each other pictures on whatsapp and et al!

But gradually the December I promised was drawing near, yet no plan to go naija sef! Firstly due to paper issues (most of us are illegal immigrant until when luck smile on u) secondly no enough cash yet back home due to accumulated bills! Gradually reality begin to stare at my face!

Boo will call and tell me how her friends were laughing at her! How lonely she is! How boring it is! How badly she needed to be fvckd! Etc! Of course am in thousands of kilometers away! In a cold winter stricken environment wishing for a miracle!

Well! After almost two years of waiting, things changed! The pictures on FB says it all! Perhaps she can't hold on any longer! When I confronted her with my observations! She raised hell! Of course we men are always the usual suspect! I wept for days! But what can I do? Bae started frolicking with diff guys and yet some idiots back home will start shouting 'guys abroad are cheat'!

Of course my friends around laughed at me for believing there's still love in Nigeria! And she told anyone that cares to listen that she left because she's so sure I will end up marrying oyinbo!!

Fast forward! It's been three years now I left home! Paper issue sorted! Even though we ain't super rich, we ain't as broke as we use to be! Bae is still single! Getting older! Turning to churches! Updating heart aches on FB!!

Ladies! The fact that your bf left naija doesn't mean the union is over, stop this inferiority complex! No white lady is sexier than u! No oyinbo is sweeter than u! Don't let friends and gossips breaks your heart! Your man will always be your man if you're patient enough! Sorry if am boring! Just wanna share my experience with u

megareal:


True, folks now enter into relationships with a lot of baggages. Some Relationships are tickets to hell. It's a turn off completely. But humans were created to associate, so you still try until you get it right.

supersystemsnig:



Old or not brov, if a person says three years i will marry you by all means, it's not too much if the guaranty is there...even if the lady is 47years old, three years simply means she'll be married by 50. People need to chill, too much media induced negativity affecting the minds of our ladies.

luminouz:

True talk bro

thesuave10:


A lot are but they are hot and can be crazy at times but that's because they're very passionate

luminouz:

Me ke?
2 years ago!!!!!
My last relationship!!!!

Lawlahdey:
Hahahaha
This lie shake ground.

luminouz:

Lmaooooo....
Ehyah.....u seem to have lost faith in men
U stay in Ibadan..same as me....I stay in agbowo....u should see me ursef n conclude....not all men see sex as d ultimate in life...

Lawlahdey:
I'm only playing around tho.

Have a nice day.

luminouz:

Lmaooooo....
Ehyah.....u seem to have lost faith in men
U stay in Ibadan..same as me....I stay in agbowo....u should see me ursef n conclude....not all men see sex as d ultimate in life...

Chidinmaluv22:
and u r the innocent one that didn't Bleep over there


never believe a onesided story


so for three years now u never Bleep ?

supersystemsnig:



Have you tried speaking to an opposite sex before? Even for me, i exude this same feeling no doubts, the fear and skepticism is just a turn off. The words people speak alludes to the fact they have unresolved issues and have made a permanent decision from it.

Imagine this scenario, i was in a fellowship in 2011, and you know those Kairos moments heaven came down, and a statement was made, how many of you ladies believe the person you would get married to would elope, and all ladies raised their hands up. And, it killed my joy and zeal even in a chick i really liked then. I said to myself, is this the kind of burden i will have to bear from the long run, it's a feeling of inadequacy and insecurity.....

Should an athlete think of losing the race before the competition? Should the football team not turn up for the finals because the opposition is Real Madrid? and what's even more painful is we all now start to scheme and plant devices against what hasn't[b][/b] even happened forgetting that our thoughts are crucial to how our lives turn out to be.... E tire me...It's not as easy as i thought it would personally...