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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by mrphysics(m): 12:52pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
shut up with this God god things undecided

didn't the bible said not to commit fornication undecided

why will God bless this kind of sinful act?

this baby is not God sent but rather from the sinful act of it.

all this self-righteous hypocrite who know nothing about God will be giving advises.

useless.
He without sin should cast the first stone. You that is a saint, oya go and kill her

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Crystalprince(m): 12:52pm On Oct 03, 2017
Keep the pregnancy dear. Do not allow circumstances to wallow you, you will thank the Lord for keeping it in future.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by cymontempler: 12:52pm On Oct 03, 2017
You aren't the first to have a baby out of wedlock and you won't be the last.

You should be prepared to face the consequences of your actions at 39.

You should keep the unborn child.

You both don't have to be married before you can take care of your child.

Risk of Aborting outweighs the risk of keeping the child.

Wish you safe pregnancy and delivery in advance.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Abiee: 12:52pm On Oct 03, 2017
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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by reality17(m): 12:52pm On Oct 03, 2017
lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

39 and u dnt wanna av a child outer wedlock? Now it has happened. U knw d best thing to do yet u come here for advice..... Keep d baby and watch him come beg u years later. Leave him outer this if he's really serious abt not being ready.

Be strong babe.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Buharimustgo: 12:53pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek undecided

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!

How can u be this cruel?
Are you her God?

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek undecided

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!
mehmnnnn you are stupid and even more stupid to conceive this In your head then you go further stupid be posting it and more and more stupid for accusing her of what you don't know
Are you God? you couldn't even be human enough to at least post reasonably, do you know why she's not married?

you're just annoying I swear
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by successinlife: 12:53pm On Oct 03, 2017
Since it isn't your plan,your lover also is not ready,you also do not want a child outside wedlock,sorry i have to be frank.I read clearly without using glasses that you are 39 years old.Do not hurt the child by going the way of abortion.Please carry the pregnancy till delivery because you opened your legs without protection in the first place.Since it isn't you plan,kindly donate the child to motherless baby home,a woman that value and want a child to cherish will pick him/her up.Finally you have settled all righteousness cause your boyfriend will not be responsible and you have absolves your self of not my plan and i don't want a child outside your wedlock.Sincerely,you should be wise at 39,if you're not,you're OYO.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by femi4: 12:55pm On Oct 03, 2017
lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?
@39 keep the child and enjoy single mother hood. Your chances of getting a single husband is slim. Your age and medical condition put you at disadvantage

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by idu1(m): 12:55pm On Oct 03, 2017
dingbang:
Are you dating a sugar boy?
grin grin



You crazy menh
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:56pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
shut up with this God god things undecided

didn't the bible said not to commit fornication undecided

why will God bless this kind of sinful act?

this baby is not God sent but rather from the sinful act of it.

all this self-righteous hypocrite who know nothing about God will be giving advises.

useless.
So you mean to tell that her so. Is the greatest of all sins and there's no way God will look at her face again?
She has commited the sin of fornication and God punished her already with an unwanted pregancy, should she go ahead and abort the baby or kill herself as an atonement for her sins. I see know God more than anyone that ever lived and the most righteous man still alive today, but don't make it look as if sins have grades and some peoples sins are beyond pardon. I'm sure if you were Jesus, you would have passed jugment on the prostitute who was brought to him while the man she was caught with walk free and sleep with other sown knowing that they will stone the women only.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by ShaheedBinAliyu(m): 12:56pm On Oct 03, 2017
bullabong:
no proposal and u agreed to raw mode ?hmm
Why dont u recognize her desperation? .. 39 fa

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by SarahCharles97(f): 12:56pm On Oct 03, 2017
Keep the kid ma.... Are you financially ok? If yes, Ma you can do
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by monex(m): 12:56pm On Oct 03, 2017
Ninethmare:
39yrs still not married?
what have you been waiting for all these years?
I guess you must have been too selective
He must be rich, tall handsome, and Educated(take mud go create am)
Now you are desperate to marry

Why didnt you take contraceptives when you had the unprotected sex?
Trying to trap him i guess

Please keep the baby
Menopause is close

Slay queens keep slaying while your mate get married every saturday

can you simply advise without judging? you do not know why she is still unmarried but you will lace your advice with your primary prejudice.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by bullabong(m): 12:57pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
shut up with this God god things undecided

didn't the bible said not to commit fornication undecided

why will God bless this kind of sinful act?

this baby is not God sent but rather from the sinful act of it.

all this self-righteous hypocrite who know nothing about God will be giving advises.

useless.
word bro!
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by freecocoa(f): 12:57pm On Oct 03, 2017
Ile, fake story abeg, na today? Duh!
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Queenserah26(f): 12:59pm On Oct 03, 2017
OP, the dee
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by talk2saintify(m): 12:59pm On Oct 03, 2017
LLL
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Ddonoflife(m): 1:00pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek undecided

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!



You are a confirm idiot....y laying curse on the innocent child. fool
.thank God your stupidity hasnt overcome your reasoning cos you realize people would come for your head..


modified: I can see the baboons are coming out of there cave to quote me! HYPOCRITE.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by femi4: 1:00pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
shut up with this God god things undecided

didn't the bible said not to commit fornication undecided

why will God bless this kind of sinful act?

this baby is not God sent but rather from the sinful act of it.

all this self-righteous hypocrite who know nothing about God will be giving advises.

useless.
You are wrong, Even if the baby is a product of rape. He's still a good gift from God.

The product of the act committed no offence
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Emmayong360(m): 1:00pm On Oct 03, 2017
will you even be ready when the Lord shall come?

pregnancy you are not ready ba
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Dearestme(f): 1:00pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek undecided

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!


modified: I can see the baboons are coming out of there cave to quote me! HYPOCRITE.
dats too much han han. No one is above mistake...
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by goingape3: 1:01pm On Oct 03, 2017
MISSCONGENIALITY:
So you mean to tell that her so. Is the greatest of all sins and there's no way God will look at her face again?
She has commited the sin of fornication and God punished her already with an unwanted pregancy, should she go ahead and abort the baby or kill herself as an atonement for her sins. I see know God more than anyone that ever lived and the most righteous man still alive today, but don't make it look as if sins have grades and some peoples sins are beyond pardon. I'm sure if you were Jesus, you would have passed jugment on the prostitute who was brought to him while the man she was caught with walk free and sleep with other sown knowing that they will stone the women only.
guess what?

I'm not Jesus!


did the bible told you that the man she was caught with walk free and sleep with another sown knowing that they will stone the woman? undecided

don't modify the bible to suits your interest!

only hypocrite do that.!

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by tivta(m): 1:02pm On Oct 03, 2017
MhizzAJ:
..... He's ready to fvck but he's not ready for a child
Did he force her? Rubbish...

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Mujaheeeden: 1:02pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek undecided

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!


modified: I can see the baboons are coming out of there cave to quote me! HYPOCRITE.
dominique please erase this comment
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by micflo28(m): 1:03pm On Oct 03, 2017
My dear He is like a bus with flats, Move on, he has his plans and you have yours but both don't contract. Keep the child and be open to entertain a single father who is well to do as well and needs a woman in his life as well. Both of you can house your kids under same roof yet give them the love from a father and mother. Stop waiting for a man who is not ready. MOVE ON.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by krushdripper(m): 1:05pm On Oct 03, 2017
MhizzAJ:
.....
He's ready to fvck but he's not ready for a child

All the years that you've been fucking before now, were you ready for a child?
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by omobemi: 1:05pm On Oct 03, 2017
You nu they tire to scam people...guy
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by dingbang(m): 1:06pm On Oct 03, 2017
idu1:
grin grin



You crazy menh
yes na ... 39years old dey get boyfriend..its obvious she be sugar mama...
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by bullabong(m): 1:06pm On Oct 03, 2017
MISSCONGENIALITY:
So you mean to tell that her so. Is the greatest of all sins and there's no way God will look at her face again?
She has commited the sin of fornication and God punished her already with an unwanted pregancy, should she go ahead and abort the baby or kill herself as an atonement for her sins. I see know God more than anyone that ever lived and the most righteous man still alive today, but don't make it look as if sins have grades and some peoples sins are beyond pardon. I'm sure if you were Jesus, you would have passed jugment on the prostitute who was brought to him while the man she was caught with walk free and sleep with other sown knowing that they will stone the women only.
Bros forget holy holy wey u dey do. She wanted to trap d guy or she got carried away by good sex

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Praktikals(m): 1:07pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek undecided

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!


modified: I can see the baboons are coming out of there cave to quote me! HYPOCRITE.
Your folly is inborn.

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