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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by fishie85(m): 1:07pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Woow...ur really cute... akinade28: |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by mayowa558: 1:07pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Ddonoflife(m): 1:08pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
goingape3: "since you knew "...it's really obvious..u need help cos a normal person won't go about laying curses on an innocent child.... |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by linearity: 1:09pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
You have heard from many, the pregnancy is a miracle you have to keep. At 39, your clock is ticking down and chances of getting pregnant normally without divine intervention are slowly closing and divine interventions in cases like these are not common place, the whole Bible only have one recorded case of such intervention. Plus, if at 39 you are not ready; there it is no guarantee that you will be ready within the next 5-6 years. Remember that Buhari is still the President and he has like two more years and might even win reelection or the person he anoints can win, so things will not change much for the foreseeable future. As for the dude, forget about him...but don't despise him, remember that he was the vessel God used to bless you and his blood runs in your child's to be veins. However, try to put some distant between both of you, though use some wisdom. Some guys, if they don't want a pregnancy can result to self-help after consulting others without you knowing (especially if they know you want to keep it) and can slip something into your drink or food unknowingly to you...and your next bathroom break could be bloodly, ending your anticipated joy. If you are thinking, how you are going to cope, you are thinking way too much and way too much into the future, none of us here today know if we will even be here tomorrow; so calm down and take it one day at a time. Happy pregnancy, make sure to take lots of baby tommy pictures, who knows you might decide to share them with us, once you have come around the current dilemma and wishing you safe delivery. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Yuppie2(m): 1:10pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
I beg shift make I faint at 39 u never married, go to osun state nd wash ur head in that osun river |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Teespice(f): 1:12pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Ninethmare: you are not God. if you cannot give reasonable solutions to her problem, do not kick her down when she's at a all time low. Your type is the reason I cannot bring my problems to nl. keep shut if you cannot give reasonable solutions or advice. tueh. 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by krushdripper(m): 1:12pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
O baby, life don ad weh weh pass henything wey you go face if you keep the pikin, Api keep the pikin. |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 1:12pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
mrphysics: Where did you get this "fact" from ? |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by encryptjay(m): 1:13pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
I don't know what to say but you did this out desperation. You just have to keep it. No matter how people are warned about certains, they won't listen to admonishments. |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
A lot of people have negative things to say to you but the best you can do is raise your child to be the difference |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by icedsammy: 1:13pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
What Are U Doing With Boyfriend At That Age 39?
Iyen Le Die O 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by DonConst(m): 1:14pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
lareine: My dear to be frank and sincere with U.... don't let stupidity lead to commit another crime against an innocent soul... take your courage and be mother for d DESTINEY baby. Think abt ur age, think abt ur health, think abt ur womb or chance of any more pregnancy...and if I may ask...when would u be ready to be a woman @ age of 39?? God will guide U. Pls just don't make any foolish attempt to abort that pregnancy. |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by tosyne2much(m): 1:15pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
I wonder what ladies of these days do that make them stay unmarried for so long, or I guess you were once "marriage is not for everyone" crew? When my mom was 39 years, I was 19 years by then. I just hope God will help you carry your cross ooo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nathan2016: 1:15pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
richiepolymer: Now thats an advise worth taking. 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by mrphysics(m): 1:15pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
neoapocalypse:In science, you don't proof a theory right, you only prove it wrong. Kindly do so. |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by mrphysics(m): 1:17pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
tosyne2much:If she is not ready for a child, she should have wore a female condom is the guy refused to wear. She was expecting to eat the cucumber and forgot that freedom after an unprotected sex is not guaranteed 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by HopeRisingmatte(m): 1:17pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Keep the baby dear. U won't regret that decision. The man is irresponsible and u don't deserve such as a hubby. Move on with ur life. Some 1 better will come sooner or later. Best wishes to you. 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Ninethmare: 1:18pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Teespice:We don't need your problems here shove it up your ass 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by shortiespro: 1:19pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
If at 39 you can't take care of yourself financially without a guy... hmmm getting married out of wedlock at what age? Even tho you plan to start afresh consider getting married in like 2yrs cuz guy don wise not jumping into anyhow relationship ...the guy is not man enough to face is challenges... challenges make you strong .. keep the baby you'll be glad you did ... 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Rita30: 1:19pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
goingape3: Is this person mentally okay 2 Likes |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by apalemighty01(m): 1:19pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
akinade28:True talk. 2 Likes |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by ShaheedBinAliyu(m): 1:21pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
goingape3:SEEMS YOU ARE BORN OUT OF WEDLOCK.. that should be the reason for your insanity and dumbness mediocre misfit ranting attitude of expressing your studity and lack of reas0ning |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by infinitypro(m): 1:21pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Oyindidi: People like you are what Nigeria need to move forward. ...and kind I need 2 marry as well... #goldenheart 2 Likes |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by akaahs(m): 1:22pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
I see a clear case of two irresponsible people digging it out together so i have no advice for u go carry ur cross. |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Erums(m): 1:22pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
which kind wahala be dis again ...so you aint married yet and you were knacking skin to skin |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Teespice(f): 1:22pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Ninethmare:take corrections and stop acting like a crass human being. 2 Likes |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by mayowa558: 1:23pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
I just laugh at some people The way they advised this lady sha Can they take it Don't come here to be counselling people anyhow The ball is in her court.... she already knows what to do with it |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by ufuosman(m): 1:23pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
If na joke make him stop am, if e no ready den u ready to carry d burden alone. No try am remove am o, see ur age |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by tosyne2much(m): 1:24pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
mrphysics:Aside the unprotected sex, it beats my imagination why a 39 old lady will get entangled with a man who will impregnate her and will reject the pregnancy 1 Like |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Luckygurl(f): 1:24pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
At the age of 39 bikonu you're still on boyfriend matter. Not just that, you still came to nairaland to ask questions, like you don't have it all figured out yet? Ma'am please! You're way past this stage of life I can't even shout 2 Likes |
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:24pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
goingape3:what I'm trying to say is that you should not make it look as if God can never look at her again. As if her sin is beyond pardon. Then you disqualify God as a loving father. Weballbhave our own sins. If those who brought Tue woman to Jesus were righteous, they would have stoned her to death. Ibhavent gotten pregnant and have not aborted but I see myself as the most sinful person. Her son isn't greater than mine simply because I'm not in her shoes or because im younger than her. Thwyvare not greater than yours simply because you are a guy. However you have your oppinion and I have mine. Hope your day is going fine? 1 Like |
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