Good write up.

johnson232:
How old re u? Have u dated before? because u keep saying u re shy

Will be 25 soon. None that looked like it.

comshots:
Slay Queens nko?

those ones na sugar daddies property

Op you just copied what the dude said in the video finish
The only thing you change is the African part
The dude was talking to white ladies
Op thumbs up

Apina:

If my memory serves me right, I believe I have heard/read this somewhere.

It was from a video
A white dude was talking/lecturing ladies about guys

Apus:




Will be 25 soon. None that looked like it.

But u can relate with girls comfortably?
U have female friends?

Rukkydelta:
Op you just copied what the dude said in the video finish
The only thing you change is the African part
The dude was talking to white ladies
Op thumbs up

it applies to both whites and Africans

Rukkydelta:

It was from a video
A white dude was talking/lecturing ladies about guys

Yes, now I recall........ And the op made it look as though it was his work.

Apina:

Yes, now I recall........ And the op made it look as though it was his work.

Yeap
He is just so good at piracy

hmmm I remember back in d days. . I was young den so I approached one gal for m street guys ah if u see how d gal just abuse m nd m friends were watching m from far na so dem dey hail m cos I was d sharp one among dem den but dey don't know what d gal was saying dey just dey hail m ..ah d gal disgrace m oooo bro I was disappointed dt day so when I get back to m friends dey asked me what d gal was saying I had to lie to dem dt d gal say she will be thinking about it so dey start telling to b helping dem to woo a ladies in which dey don't know I was d one dt need help lol lol. anyway wat happened dt day still dey affect m confidence because I believe I wasn't confidence enough.. whenever I remember dt day I go just dey laugh

johnson232:

But u can relate with girls comfortably?
U have female friends?

I don't, I have no female friends.
Dated twice. 4 girls have told me they liked me in the past.

Apina:

If my memory serves me right, I believe I have heard/read this somewhere.

And you had to quote the whole Epistle.

Stevengerd:
And you had to quote the whole Epistle.

Is it a crime?

No matter how handsome or rich a guy is some ladies will still say no to you. The problem with guys that fear to approach a lady is that they do not want to have no for an answer.

If interested in any girl walk up to her n say hi, how are you doing ? You do not need any pick up line or all that nonsense. Immediately you said hi the girl would have weighed whether you are what she want or not. I advice shy guy to desist from wasting their time trying to convince any girl.

It's impossible to ask 5 girls out in a day in Lagos where I live and not get one. Try with not so beautiful girl to build your courage and that's it straight n simple. Relationship is a learning curve you are allowed to fumble n wobble through it.

PapaNnamdi:
I know 3 very pretty ladies in their 30s
Single and desperate,
This is so true,
Ladies..
D Bible talk am,
Truly this is the end time,,

Can they cook??
If yes...link me up....me wan marry!!!

HeWrites:




This is still affecting me till date

U will get insulted by women...even if na u fine pass for d universe.......brush it off as a MAN n move on.....why should u let it affect u till date.....just one encounter?
U know how many times I have been abused?? N 80% of those gehs ended up being my friends!!!
Be a MAN....MAN up

chiraqDemon:

I don't, I have no female friends.
Dated twice. 4 girls have told me they liked me in the past.

Lol
Howcome u have dated twice & u are still shy?

Guys u are 100% correct, i am very shy at d age of 24 i dnt have a gf, cus the first girl that i ask out todo me that before i talk to her that i should go and brush my teeth.. that bae kill my carrer that day na him i cum zip up

johnson232:

Lol
Howcome u have dated twice & u are still shy?

Cos the girls are the ones that chyked me

chiraqDemon:

Cos the girls are the ones that chyked me

Lol
Not enough reason to still be shy
Unless u guys didn't take it seriously, probably on a hi hi level

johnson232:

Lol
Not enough reason to still be shy
Unless u guys didn't take it seriously, probably on a hi hi level

Lmao we did. Like the uh yess baby harder level
Still idk im just really reserved. Plus Girls straight up scare me

chiraqDemon:

Lmao we did. Like the uh yess baby harder level
Still idk im just really reserved. Plus Girls straight up scare me

hmmm
Quite Strange

johnson232:

hmmm
Quite Strange

I know. I find it strange too. cos I can enter somewhere n just strike convo with guys immediately but if i enter where girls are ill just lock up, even when I try to talk I'll just find my brain shutting down. On the other hand if I finally start talking to a girl n get to know her then I'll just be very free n all the shyness will leave, but my main challenge is breaking the ice in the first place.

chiraqDemon:

I know. I find it strange too. cos I can enter somewhere n just strike convo with guys immediately but if i enter where girls are ill just lock up, even when I try to talk I'll just find my brain shutting down. On the other hand if I finally start talking to a girl n get to know her then I'll just be very free n all the shyness will leave, but my main challenge is breaking the ice in the first place.

Meaning u aren't free with ladies yet
U know what that means...it means u still have fear for ladies..u may likely deny this, but it is the truth....

So u cant be talking about wooing women when u still fear them subconsiously...
So u need to start from the basics....

Hector09:
Guys u are 100% correct, i am very shy at d age of 24 i dnt have a gf, cus the first girl that i ask out todo me that before i talk to her that i should go and brush my teeth.. that bae kill my carrer that day na him i cum zip up

that girl na destiny killer

johnson232:

Meaning u aren't free with ladies yet
U know what that means...it means u still have fear for ladies..u may likely deny this, but it is the truth....

So u cant be talking about wooing women when u still fear them subconsiously...
So u need to start from the basics....

I was not denying it. I just said if I get to know a girl the shyness goes n I'll be free with the girl.

Uh uh he is so jobless to type all that cos he is a professional relationship expert

Dont let me vex for you

Apina:

If my memory serves me right, I believe I have heard/read this somewhere.

Shawnnn01:
No matter how handsome or rich a guy is some ladies will still say no to you. The problem with guys that fear to approach a lady is that they do not want to have no for an answer.

If interested in any girl walk up to her n say hi, how are you doing ? You do not need any pick up line or all that nonsense. Immediately you said hi the girl would have weighed whether you are what she want or not. I advice shy guy to desist from wasting their time trying to convince any girl.

It's impossible to ask 5 girls out in a day in Lagos where I live and not get one. Try with not so beautiful girl to build your courage and that's it straight n simple. Relationship is a learning curve you are allowed to fumble n wobble through it.

You nailed it bro

Hector09:
Guys u are 100% correct, i am very shy at d age of 24 i dnt have a gf, cus[b] the first girl that i ask out todo me that before i talk to her that i should go and brush my teeth[/b] .. that bae kill my carrer that day na him i cum zip up

lwkm o. Perhaps the girl was a teen at that time, things done change now o. A simple greeting would not harm anyone, from there you can start to decode some things.

Apina:

If my memory serves me right, I believe I have heard/read this somewhere.

Oya clap for yourself. So na why you quote the whole post?

Shawnnn01:
No matter how handsome or rich a guy is some ladies will still say no to you. The problem with guys that fear to approach a lady is that they do not want to have no for an answer.

If interested in any girl walk up to her n say hi, how are you doing ? You do not need any pick up line or all that nonsense. Immediately you said hi the girl would have weighed whether you are what she want or not. I advice shy guy to desist from wasting their time trying to convince any girl.

It's impossible to ask 5 girls out in a day in Lagos where I live and not get one. Try with not so beautiful girl to build your courage and that's it straight n simple. Relationship is a learning curve you are allowed to fumble n wobble through it.

Great one there!!!

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