Who was driving them to church such that there was an exchange of slaps and tearing of cloth?! What happened to the house girl afterward? How old is the marriage? As much as I don't support and will never support wife battery, it is sensible for women to be sensitive and watch what they say or do so as not to provoke a volcano to eruption from their temperamental husbands. I advise they should talk it over for the sake of the children. Where will she pack to or who will marry her with the children? It is not easy to live alone after living with a husband. It is well with her

cococandy:
I can't believe how many mor0nd are present on this thread. Hard to say I'm surprised.

Sense has been bred out of all you.

Taar! This is Africa and Nigeria for that matter, in fact its an abomination in my Ikwerre ethnicity for any woman to even try to respond back to her husband in equal proportion....is she insane? Feminist right is only applicable in Western countries not in Africa. Period!

alexistaiwo:
If hell is real, there is a special place reserved for woman beaters.

and a place for cheating wife too.

masinga07:

God forbid me doing worse. Am also a married man baba. My wife can get me angry but I will rather ignore her than slap her in public not to talk of injuring her.

thank God you are married too bro . But in this kinda situation try to listen to both side of the story ... May almighty God bless our marriage

joeeee240:
HOW DARE YOU SLAP YOUR HUSBAND ARE YOU MAD? SOME WOMEN DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK NA TO DEY RUN THEIR NONSENSE MOUTH. NOW SEE WHAT HAS HAPPENED. MAN NO SUPPOSE BEAT WOMAN BUT WOMAN YOU NO GET SENSE. UNA TOO DEY TALK RUBBISH ANYHOW

If you investigate the whole drama you would discover that the woman must have be nagging and running her mouth. But this doesn't warrant brutality.

biacan:
Any man that tries this with me......should just get ready for what's to come his way

aunty shut up jare

victorazyvictor:


hediot! but u preferred beating ur mother.

Seriously? You ain't worth my attention!

I don't just understand why some men beat their wives. It is barbaric to say the least.

his clothes and ur clothes got torn??how did his clothes got torn? ?there is more that Mets the eyes,if sumone like Toto dick abi na tonto dike can tell so many lies about her husband just to get sympathy from people,then I don't trust ur story madam at all.I can't judge the man.sum of we women are demons in sheep clothing ready to devour or destroy any man they come in contact with.

No wonder you are where you are

And you're proud of your idiocy

PHC1stBorn:


Taar! This is Africa and Nigeria for that matter, in fact its an abomination in my Ikwerre ethnicity for any woman to even try to respond back to her husband in equal proportion....is she insane? Feminist right is only applicable in Western countries not in Africa. Period!

powerfulengine:
lol....so sad but some women self, their mouth no get control....the best is just to snub them,...only the woman gave explanation,,,,,I don't trust women explanation one bit... she can never say what she did wrong, you married a soft hearted guy and later turn to this,,,,ain't you supposed to ask yourself the source of the change


he tore your cloth and his too....abi you tear his own clothes too......

Her own part of the story carry plenty lies

Imagine a useless man doing that in the presence of his children. No wonder the country is called zoo

when i hear from the nigga i would judge...alwats a side to a story and u might v been running ur mouth like a tap and no one was there...

There's no marriage in heaven, so don't get killed trying to prove a point. What if it was a major artery that was torn.., that woman would have bled to death. When wife beaters are angry, at that moment dey can do anything. They act irrationally and love to beat them in the absence of an adult that can imterven.
I was a victim. I ran to court and got a divorce cos I cannot die for nothing sake when I have family, friends and relatives who love and depend on me.
Seven years down the line, Now I am free. We're friends on Facebook. He is married to someone else, am married to someone else.
We just weren't compatible. Period!
I would be died trying to make marriage work byforce.
So madam, if u can't report to relevant authorities, run for ur life cos when the unfortunate happens, another woman will still come and leave in the house and maltreat the children if she likes.
Life is precious and meant to be enjoyed. Enjoy it, don't suffer unnecessarily.

kennygee:
One thing I have learned from young men these days is that it is very wise as a woman to be independent financially.

Have a job, have a business and I use God beg you, have your own personal savings.

It can be used to take care of the family when husband has exhausted his own resources or when the money from the joint account has been exhausted.

It can also be used to run away with your kids when your husband abuses you.

Don't die with an abusive man.

They should also consider marrying foreigners. No one was born to suffer in the hands of frustrated men.

Most nairaland males abuse Nigerian women at the slightest opportunity, just anything to run down Nigerian women.

Sometimes I wish I was not a Nigerian male.

Swaggzkid:

Her own part of the story carry plenty lies

are you saying she was not beated by the husband?I'm sure he beated her,if he didn't did it,she wouldn't have tolded us now

cinoedhunter:
Any man that beats a woman no matter the reason is a weakling.....

Ur words are the problem in this situation, woman always have that mentality that is wrong to beat a woman and with this they go extremely extra miles to provoke their husbands with rotten words. See the cause of the fight..... HOUSEHELP.... She dint tell us what is the mater with the househelp that can cause raised a furious spirit in her husband to beat her up to this manner...... Women with their suspicious spirit

This story is just too lopsided to be true. This women can drive men to the tangents sand will come to be forming victim. She was practically fighting the man that his shirt was torn too. And she got tired of fighting when they got home

You guys need to see this thread,

When Should A Man Hit His Woman? The Fact About Relationship Abuse And Assault!

cococandy:
No wonder you are where you are

And you're proud of your idiocy

Young lady u are entitled to ur opinion to judge a book by its cover..as for me am proud of my ikwerre heritage....our women are well cultured, educated and respectful. A wise woman knows when to bridle her tongue, only fools challenge their husband. #prouldly ikwerre royalties

Domestic violence is bad but there are always 2 sides to a story. MEN! Check and be sure your woman is not a motor mouth or contentious before you marry her. If you don't she will emasculate you until you beat her and then go on social media looking for sympathy. Before marrying or while dating LOOK OUT FOR THE SIGNS! Caveat Emptor! Buyer Beware!

joeeee240:
HOW DARE YOU SLAP YOUR HUSBAND ARE YOU MAD? SOME WOMEN DON'T KNOW HOW TO TALK NA TO DEY RUN THEIR NONSENSE MOUTH. NOW SEE WHAT HAS HAPPENED. MAN NO SUPPOSE BEAT WOMAN BUT WOMAN YOU NO GET SENSE. UNA TOO DEY TALK RUBBISH ANYHOW

Shut up!

cococandy:

You're clearly a Mor0n

I can see ,you are still a #SlayTeen, too preoccupied with pizza to understand the concept behind courtship. If condom were of good quality ,you can't be on this platform

notoriousbabe:
are you saying she was not beated by the husband?I'm sure he beated her,if he didn't did it,she wouldn't have tolded us now

Noo ah didn't say so, dnt get me wrong pls. what ah meant was she served out too much lies tryna explain the whole battery.

ah knw the husband is very wrong doing dat to her beluved wife. but women mouth no be here, and power dem no get.

EternalTruths:
Some men are fools.

Only weak men batter their wives.


That same idiot will keep quiet when a fellow man like him challenges him.


Useless man.

Shut up
That doesn't make him weak even though I don't support domestic violence.

EternalTruths:
Some men are fools.

Only weak men batter their wives.


That same idiot will keep quiet when a fellow man like him challenges him.


Useless man.

Very useless man!!!

House Girl is about to take over. I've seen this movie before.

tit:
Nice one.
The man no beat thunder comot the yellow paw paw witch.
She for see mouth talk?

I hope you get beaten this way someday, Can I hear an Amen?

PHC1stBorn:


Taar! This is Africa and Nigeria for that matter, in fact its an abomination in my Ikwerre ethnicity for any woman to even try to respond back to her husband in equal proportion....is she insane? Feminist right is only applicable in Western countries not in Africa. Period!

You have a tradition that protects only men and you are proud? Mugun

Mouthgag:

Shut up
That doesn't make him weak even though I don't support domestic violence.

Idiots like you are averse to logic. You don't support domestic violence indeed but you can mute someone who doesn't. I like dealing with fools like you. moronic Weaklings

Backinfront:
You have a tradition that protects only men and you are proud? Mugun

slowpoke u think u know more than d elders?