Blade50002:
Domestic violence is bad but there are always 2 sides to a story. MEN! Check and be sure your woman is not a motor mouth or contentious before you marry her. If you don't she will emasculate you until you beat her and then go on social media looking for sympathy. Before marrying or while dating LOOK OUT FOR THE SIGNS! Caveat Emptor! Buyer Beware!

Isn't it funny how most of you only remember there are two sides of a story when the woman gives her narrative. But would not give her any benefit of doubt if the man was doing the narrating? It just shows how sexist and insensitive most of you are. Showing clear bias against women is what primitive men do. Grow some brains and balls. Olodos

cococandy:

She's teaching her daughter to not accept being beaten and humiliated in public (or private ) as normal.

You people have been damaged by the kind of home training you received where you see his action as okay by are appalled by her response

I almost feel sorry for you. It hurts my heart to see what had been done to you.

I know u think u jst made sense. But u actually very dumb. Datz the problem with idiots like u, u think its OK to run ur mouth anyhow without repercussions and I knw u will teach ur daughter dat. Men r supposed to conduct themselves in a respectable manner and be gentlemanly, but its not compulsory for women, matter of fact they can run dia mouths anyhow and it's ok. U come up with silly excuses like "she is a woman". So cos she is a woman she can behave anyhow? If its OK for women to do anyhow, why is it not OK for men to do anyhow too?

PHC1stBorn:

slowpoke u think u know more than d elders?

Those chauvinistic women-oppressing law-making bastards are your heros? You are more stupid than I thought.

rajiraymond:
Based on what you said, he slapped you and you are started talking angrily which means you must have called him sort of names that warranted the second slaps, but for you to cool yourself down on receiving that second one to avoid temptation and you slapped him back. Judge yourself, to me you went to far. That's my own opinion.

You don't think the guy went too far by slapping her t first time talk less of a second time? Smh!

JamesReacher:
Pls what can be the reason and 0justification of hitting your wife?

People fail to understand that emotional violence is far much worse than physical violence.
What women do to men with their mouth is emotional violence.

If woman frustrate you, it takes grace of God not react, is it right for a woman to talk bakc when husband is talking?, they feel they have equal right with their husband, that is what western life is causing our marriage.

With all these happenings around, I'm getting scared of marriage.

Bullhari007:
a man that can not beat his wife, that one nah man women need small beating at times, instead of shouting all the time trying to correct her, just small hot slap go reset her Brian... what do you think

ONE weekend in cell with his fellow violent mates where he can practice his DV Will reset his brain

Nesso:

I know u think u jst made sense. But u actually very dumb. Datz the problem with idiots like u, u think its OK to run ur mouth anyhow without repercussions and I knw u will teach ur daughter dat. Men r supposed to conduct themselves in a respectable manner and be gentlemanly, but its not compulsory for women, matter of fact they can run dia mouths anyhow and it's ok. U come up with silly excuses like "she is a woman". So cos she is a woman she can behave anyhow? If its OK for women to do anyhow, why is it not OK for men to do anyhow too?

It’s more the other way round.

sarutobie:

Lol you’re now yawning because he came from an angle of logic that you least expected

story for the gods

Yawns

missyb08:
With all these happenings around, I'm getting scared of marriage.

Don't be. Marriage is good once you guys work on your communication gaps. Whenever you feel an argument or quarrel is about to start try communicating how you feel, using "I" statements. It's not your partner's job to read your mind, guess what you're thinking, or put words into your mouth. These are huge obstacles to open, honest communication and will guarantee resentment, anger, and frustration in the relationship.

This has worked in my marriage. Open communication is the key.

Backinfront:
Idiots like you are averse to logic. You don't support domestic violence indeed but you can mute someone who doesn't. I like dealing with fools like you. moronic Weaklings

Dear retærd,
Don't allow simple issue to give you heart attack. You'll surely die miserably.

Nesso:

No mind am. Hw can she challenge him in front of the kids? What is she teaching her daughter if she has one? why not wait until they r alone in the room before stating her case.

You are not serious.

Nonsense!

It is never acceptable for a man to lay his hands on a woman for any reason. However madam not sure if u had kept quiet it would have degenerated. Again you slapped him, were you ready to fight. If u had waited until later to express you grievance maybe just maybe. Now you are saying he should leave the house for u, hmmm

Mztarstrechy:
As shared by human rights lawyer Emeka Ugwuonye....

'HAPPENING RIGHT NOW: WOMAN BATTERED BY HUSBAN ON THEIR WAY TO CHURCH

Just read the screenshots. It started on their way to the house of the God for worship. Most men who abuse their wives are devout Christians. They quote from the bible a lot. The lady was initially reluctant to authorize that i publish the pictures. But she finally authorized that post the picture. Read for yourself'

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/10/woman-battered-by-her-husband-on-their.html?m=1

Any man that hit or shout at his wife is a goat, a cheap coward.

But the wife is a fool as well. From her write up, one could see the attitude. Your husband is mad, he slapped you, you slapped him back? Are you mad? What if he kills you?

Looking at her hairstyle oooo, I won't say the woman is responsible. She married an animal. She attracted someone like her to herself.

Women, some men are animals. It's unfortunate. To help yourself if you find yourself in this situation, pls learn not to use your mouth to make the matter worse.

Keep shut.

He slap you.... You slap him back? Is she for real? As the fight happen, why she no beat am back?

Women need to learn to walk away from angry men. If he had killed her now, she go say she was fighting a raging man. Even as man to man someone who doesn't have strength shouldn't challenge another man.

so no respect for women again in this world, this man cannot even remember that today is Sunday for Jesus Christ sake

biacan:
Any man that tries this with me......should just get ready for what's to come his way

You cant do more than a dead rat, that is how you ladies make noise until you see yourself in hospital....... I give you dirty slap now nooonsensse.....

biacan:
Any man that tries this with me......should just get ready for what's to come his way

Noted!

mikeujoel:


Everybody should shut the hell up. Making judgments after hearing only one side of the story.

Do you know what the woman must have said to have provoked the man to get this violent? I know a lot of woman that can nag from now till tomorrow non stop, I lost an uncle of mine to a nagging wife.

No you should shut up.
Rubbish!

I think i will be the only one to side with the man, 'cause all you bashing him have not stayed with a termagant of a woman in the same house.

Deo1986:
I think i will be the only one to side with the man, 'cause all you bashing him have not stayed with a termagant of a woman in the same house.

What happened to divorce?
If na ya sister or mama dem do so na so you go support the man?

Just asking o..

Backinfront:
Those chauvinistic women-oppressing law-making bastards are your heros? You are more stupid than I thought.

Only a person who has been in the state of stupidity all his life can quantify d level of stupidity.. Keep reping ur class.

Mztarstrechy:
Read more http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/10/woman-battered-by-her-husband-on-their.html?m=1

Dear Lord I thing I always beg of you is Please when I get married. Give me the strength to accommodate her weaknesses and her mine. Amen

scooby12:


What happened to divorce?
If na ya sister or mama dem do so na so you go support the man?

Just asking o..

If your sister and mama de sabi sharp mouth they deserved more than the woman got....serious mending.

Nesso:

I know u think u jst made sense. But u actually very dumb. Datz the problem with idiots like u, u think its OK to run ur mouth anyhow without repercussions and I knw u will teach ur daughter dat. Men r supposed to conduct themselves in a respectable manner and be gentlemanly, but its not compulsory for women, matter of fact they can run dia mouths anyhow and it's ok. U come up with silly excuses like "she is a woman". So cos she is a woman she can behave anyhow? If its OK for women to do anyhow, why is it not OK for men to do anyhow too?

Thank you jareeee!

Her silence would've done her daughter more harm than good because she would grow up thinking it's okay for a man to hit her while she sits on her ass, afraid to speak up.

Nothing, absolutely nothing justifies the violence and abuse this beast of a man inflicted on this woman! Nothing! You cannot tell me her asking him why he slapped her warrants him unleashing more violence and abuse on her! Come up with a better argument than that, abeg.

Nesso:

No mind am. Hw can she challenge him in front of the kids? What is she teaching her daughter if she has one? why not wait until they r alone in the room before stating her case.

Shut up!

PHC1stBorn:


Taar! This is Africa and Nigeria for that matter, in fact its an abomination in my Ikwerre ethnicity for any woman to even try to respond back to her husband in equal proportion....is she insane? Feminist right is only applicable in Western countries not in Africa. Period!

Josephamstrong1:
With my level in MMA I don't think no girl in her right senses would exchange words with me in public.
There is this thing called love that weakens the mighty.
We had a little misunderstanding she collected my phone and smashed it on the floor. Asking me to do my worst with abusive words..lol.
She knows and watches me sometimes spar and fight in the ring. You know when love is involved... egos and strength are deflated in relationship.
I was silent. I could remember always telling her to always keep her voice low so people don't think bad of me. But no she wouldn't. Would shout and scream o... that people should hear and what's their business anyway? she would say.
Whenever she's done ranting, I would stand and leave the house for her. But then she would hold my trouser that I'm not going anywhere. That's when I'll lift her like some 10kg barbell and "gbaa" on the bed... off I leave.
I'd come back when she's calm... jejely walk to the kitchen, eat, brush, shower...makin sure I smell nice and off to bed... facing the wall you know.
You just have to start talking to yourself, make fun of the wholetn. You don't need to be too hard on yourself. Shows she's getting at you. Ignore!
While on the bed start with...
"This is not the beautiful, quiet and kind hearted girl I met at the mall... why is all this happening? I love her and if this is not going to workout... so be it. I'm sorry if I've done anything to deserve this. Goodnight baby".
If you sleep that night without you guys making up... make I hear wetin cause am. She go cry apologize.
Truth is life's too simple not by gragra trying to show say you be macho...Naaaah.

Women are strange beings. Power lies in their mouth and if you follow what they spew out during fracas... you might loose your salvation on them.
Not necessarily mean that you shouldn't talk... sometimes say few words in between but do not argue. Then allow her continue her whistle blowing.

I'm happy she's now an ex giving space for someone better.
There's no honor hitting a woman... no, not at all.
I've seen hell with some women.
When you hit any even though they like it... you've fallen to their level. They fear and respect a man who speak less and his next action is unknown.

I fall on you and you fall on me. You raise your hand on me, might not come down the same. But won't hit you.
A man commands respect not by flexing muscles on someone you once loved.
Men should learn how to ignore verbal and emotional abusive women. While avoiding her, be the one to call her and let her see what's wrong with her manner of approach to issues. But always expect more cos that's their nature. With time she will outgrow it and get tired.

As for the women, The Holy book says, "a soft answer turns away wrath".

This type of women can push the man outta the car and drive on to church.
Agada nwanyi.

wait oh! Pls what's MMA

Mouthgag:

Dear retærd,
Don't allow simple issue to give you heart attack. You'll surely die miserably.

ode

Deo1986:
If your sister and mama de sabi sharp mouth they deserved more than the woman got....serious mending.

Ok. It's obvious your papa dey beat your mama. No wahala.

[quote author=Differential post=61453705]Her silence would've done her daughter more harm than good because she would grow up thinking it's okay for a man to hit her while she sits on her ass and accepts the abuse.

Nothing, absolutely nothing justifies what this beast of a man did to this woman.

Madam, the reason why he beat her up was cos she challenged him in front d kids not before.

Deo1986:
You cant do more than a dead rat, that is how you ladies make noise until you see yourself in hospital....... I give you dirty slap now nooonsensse.....

Ah Oga don't be angry nah it hasn't gotten to that level