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MhizSylvia:
As I don't have na. Let me just be reading comments

KOPT55:
Not much. I don't trust her because of the way she came into my life.

She's my friends girl, and when my friend -- who lived with me in my apartment -- left for youth service, she kept coming around. Not only did she keep coming, she gave me all sorts of green-lights. Knowing that my friend wasn't really serious with her and that he was going to be away for a very long time, I moved in.

The first day she came after I decided to ask her out, I put the moves on her and she melted like jello in my hands: she loves sex more than anything!

That's how our relationship began. I try to do right by her because she is a caring girl, she helps me out in the house and I appreciate that. She frets over my wellbeing and I think she's genuinely in love with me; but like I said, I don't trust her and I can't love her.

jumpampass:
na who push dis to the FP again. for how many times.



well, I no get girlfriend

KOPT55:
Not much. I don't trust her because of the way she came into my life.

She's my friends girl, and when my friend -- who lived with me in my apartment -- left for youth service, she kept coming around. Not only did she keep coming, she gave me all sorts of green-lights. Knowing that my friend wasn't really serious with her and that he was going to be away for a very long time, I moved in.

The first day she came after I decided to ask her out, I put the moves on her and she melted like jello in my hands: she loves sex more than anything!

That's how our relationship began. I try to do right by her because she is a caring girl, she helps me out in the house and I appreciate that. She frets over my wellbeing and I think she's genuinely in love with me; but like I said, I don't trust her and I can't love her.

Slayer2:
I have 3 girls but I can tell you comfortably that I am not even - 1% in love with them.

Lol

Na so God create me o, I don't have feelings.

MissJoy29:
Yeah. I know you are not just a good guy to her but you are a good guy generally. What you said about doing right by her cos she's caring and all shows you are one.

You might not be judging her directly but the circumstance in which you met her is affecting how much you'd want to feel for her. Now I don't blame you for feeling this way. Maybe you are even torn between breaking her heart by cutting it off with her & finding a way to love her cos she's good like you said. But you gonna have to leave if you are not happy & comfortable with her. There's no happiness or fulfilment without trust in a relationship.

supersystemsnig:
I think i replied last o

tosyne2much:
Be like say them dey give you wahala shey?

YelloweWest:
Admit it. U love her it's just that u do.t want to accept that fact.

If you're going to remain Unsure pls let her go to someone who will cherish her.

oloyolo:
70%? and he is everything you want

Dillusionist:
100% nice,jovial, easy going..intelligent and of course nice physique. .just to mention but a few.

oyakhilomeh:
That's sad. If you ain't interested no more just tell the poor girl. BUT you self take over your guy babe, you wicked sha

KOPT55:
Thank you for this I think you understand the situation. Had it been that I met her first before my friend, I would have fallen totally in love with her. However, at this point, everything we do is purely transactional. I satisfy her needs, she satisfies mine. We are both grownups and know wassup.

The thing is, I am not really great at building new relationships because it's tiring for me, and my job means that I don't have much free time so I see a situation in the future --if she be willing-- where we can take it to the next level. From all I can tell, she's with me as a means of moving to the next guy. I don't find that disturbing; I find it strangely comforting.

MissJoy29:
Yeah I understand the situation.

Really? Comforting? That's strange

jumpampass:
dem no dey hear word. I com send dem go dem mama papa house

cuteguy123:
So ladies and gentlemen why do you love your current partner and why do you love him or her, what is it you love about him that makes you stick to him or her and won't be with another person other than your current partner?

On a scale of 1-100%, rate how much you love your current partner.

Just a nairaland survey

Well for me, I love mine because she is caring, insanely romantic, she can kiss and do crazy stuffs to me in public, she is not shy, she is proud of me and I am also proud of her, she has a good character with a killer hour glass figure 8 shape, back and front package complete, light skinned with natural facial beauty.

Oya Lets drop our comments and keep the fun going.

Oga lalasticlala, why do you love yours?

MhizzAJ:
Oluwasaeon your attention is needed here

Slayer2:
I have 3 girls but I can tell you comfortably that I am not even - 1% in love with them.

Lol

Na so God create me o, I don't have feelings.

oyakhilomeh:
That's sad. If you ain't interested no more just tell the poor girl. BUT you self take over your guy babe, you wicked sha

alexialin:
Wat guy u badooo
Jeez!

VickyRotex:
So love is now quantifiable? Omashe ooo!!!

If you have to quantify or rate it, it's not love. Shikena!!!

etainment360:
You dun mean it!

ifeanyi317:
fun to be with we can gossip for africa good cook very good in ...... 101% ok

alexialin:
Amen!

Honestly bad guy? Nothing to gain than series of troubles and heartaches. I dodge them pass.

I know some are very smart but trust me, my guard and all my senses are wide awake. No dulling anymore.

tunde82seidat:
The only comment that got me.Now I think the question should b directed to married couples.

KOPT55:
Yeah, comforting in the sense that I don't have to make her move on -- she will do that by herself.