keepingmum:
But shes already separated from the man....shes shouldering the responsibilities of x2 men by herself and you are still criticising her.
Did she spend the brideprice or waa it not ur folks the money was paid to?
Your family should gather the brideprice and refund it to the man if you are that bothered.
Instead of you gossiping about your sister on the net you people should be querying why a full grown man cannot look after himself and one child. Hes not even responsible for his daughter yet you want your sister ro return to him.
By law, they are separated and whatever shes doing isnt cheating....the irresponsible man has money for cigs and drinks but not for books for his only son!!
And there are male species on this thread supporting that behaviour?
Address that irresponsibility first as thats the cause of the symptoms your sister is displaying today

The OP is a man na. What do u expect.

That's how one guy complained that his very pretty mum has a boyfriend when his father has being living with his own sweet sixteen for years and has stopped being intimate with his mum since Gos knows when.

Melodyz:




Seriously I don't want to Invade her space, and besides I'm graduate but have no experience via marriage stuffs.... I don't see it as a big of a deal asking those sort of questions

U ARE A GRADUATE , U DON SARV?. COMON KEEP KWAYET

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Ma momma is a very pretty decent woman. If you had one like mine, you wouldn't have said thrash about women, and you wouldn't have mentioned my mum.

Obviously you lack manners. N20 condom would have prevented you.

naughtyDiana:
please stop using the word "via". you don't know what it means and you are using it wrongly.you could have just used " about", instead of via.


pls, let me via out of this thread

Let me via you into this thread.

pweetiedee:


Ma momma is a very pretty decent woman. If you had one like mine, you wouldn't have said thrash about women, and you wouldn't have mentioned my mum.

Obviously you lack manners. N20 condom would have prevented you.

Condoms are free now!

sholajigga:


Condoms are free now!

Tor

komododragons:
if she is a pretty and decent woman as you said, she won't have given birth to one ugly Leprechaun I'm see at your dp!




were do you buy your condom @ N20?

It is "I'm seeing" not "I'm see"

Call me whatever you want, but don't ever mention my mother.

She ought to have properly divorced him before engaging in extra marital affair as the consequence could be grave and affect her husband or her children going by the common superstitions about women that cheat on their husbands in the eastern regions and which i seem to have witnessed a couple of times where women who cheated on their husbands ended up loosing some of their children and even their husbands in the process (thats if it wasnt just a coincidence ).. Tell ur sister to formally divorce him first if she cant persevere with her husband and also make sure she does any necessary traditional rites to unbound herself from any possible fetish traditional marriage bondings.. You know your culture better..



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sholajigga:

Let me via you into this thread.

Lol you and that poster .....
e ti funny ju

pweetiedee:

It is "I'm seeing" not "I'm see"
Call me whatever you want, but don't ever mention my mother.

then you should respect yourself and learn to mind your business

pweetiedee:


Lol you and that poster .....

e ti funny ju

I was thinking we meet via tonight. Lol

pweetiedee:

It is "I'm seeing" not "I'm see"
Call me whatever you want, but don't ever mention my mother.

then you should respect yourself and learn to mind your business

komododragons:
if she is a pretty and decent woman as you said, she won't have given birth to one ugly Leprechaun I'm see at your dp!




were do you buy your condom @ N20?

Komodo dragons for two penis, which is why you are interested in knowing where condoms are sold for 20 naira.

sholajigga:


Komodo dragons for two penis, which is why you are interested in knowing where condoms are sold for 20 naira.

lol!

help me ask her ohh!

Melodyz:



Thanks for the correction.

Will talk to her about it

God bless your heart, If na some people now ( me inclusive), na curse upon curse we go take reply to the comment you responded to so nicely...

My advice to you is; ask you sister to divorce the irresponsible tin properly so she can live her life as a free woman.

Pls ooo, d son she sent to the father, what will become of him since his father doesn't care about him?

Young boy didn't ask for this. Pls it's better for your sister to take the son back and hustle to cater for him than leave him with his father so he doesn't take to stealing or other vices.

If your sister can save up some money to start up some business, she can manage with all her children so they can become responsible people 2mr.

And the new man, does he assist her financially in some way? If no; she's on her own oooo. Hmmm

Thank you o

keepingmum:
But shes aalready separated from the man....shes shouldering the responsibilities of x2 men by herself and you are still criticising her.
Did she spend the brideprice or waa it not ur folks the money was paid to?
Your family should gather the brideprice and refund it to the man if you are that bothered.
Instead of you gossiping about your sister on the net you people should be querying why a full grown man cannot look after himself and one child. Hes not even responsible for his daughter yet you want your sister ro return to him.
By law, they are separated and whatever shes doing isnt cheating....the irresponsible man has money for cigs and drinks but not for books for his only son!!
And there are male species on this thread supporting that behaviour?
Address that irresponsibility first as thats the cause of the symptoms your sister is displaying today

... women... hmmm.

donnaD:
she is just loose simple and short.I know alot of women who build their homes by their selves,even a family friend of mine is training her 4kids plus house rent while her hubby is living in a hotel with a sex worker.she works and fight for her home and kids instead of sleeping around.what manner of lifestyle is she teaching her kids who are always watching her actions. But come to tink of it must u drag ur sis and her family tru the mud of socail media??I tire ooo.Pls keep family issues to the confines of ur family,no home is perfect.everything na packaging so pls retrace ur steps.

Lol @ fighting for her home. All these women that don't recognize their worth.

How is that he business op?

A man who cannot care for his family is worst than an infidel... Bible said so. She should just end the marriage formally cos it seems she has found love again.

EfemenaXY:
@op what does your sister do for a living?

If she has a job and / or runs a business (no matter how petty) then it means she is the more financially stable of the two of them and should bring back their son to live with her.

Yes, it is painful having to shoulder it all alone, coupled with her first inlaws washing their hands clean of her and the twins...but none of those kids asked to be born.

Two people can't both be irresponsible in a relationship where kids are concerned. Let her alcoholic-weed-taking husband sort himself out first as he's of no use to anyone or even himself in his current state while she focuses on her 4 kids. Their very young and impressionable son shouldn't even be anywhere near the father (for now).

In the meantime, advice your sister to go on birth control.

@Melodyz, please this advice is very important, kindly relate it to her.

kunlesufyan:
She should just end the marriage formally and flex, thank God she complained about the wedding but they encouraged her to stay.

See your mouth like flex. Come flex am na, make she share misfortune give you. You wan go heaven o, but you think say na anyhow them dey live life.

;Dhustle no fit Killy person yo

Melodyz:



Going to a year now, the husband has never for once asked about his daughter, his son that is with him sef has no formal textbooks they use in school and my sis refuses to send to him to buy textbooks for him, saying he is his responsibility

Well then sorry to say this, your sister is wrong here. The boy is her son also, when the dude hammer now she will come and claim mama millionaire. Tell her to pay for her son's education and divorce the man. How can u not pay for yours son's fees. Some people sef eg