sunshineG:
I want attend to some other things with my life

I have some stuff I will be getting into that needs my attention

....but I will like to add you on fb before I leave, if you don't mind

Oh, I see. You don't have to deactivate sha.

Yeah sure, you can add me on FB.

tosyne2much:
I will say it's very obvious you're now calmer than before. You no dey talk like before.

Shey you remember those times wey you dey always show your bashing prowess to me? SMH

tosyne tosyne ..you that bash ladies then ..you have repented small

Lawlahdey:
I will definitely learn to control mine too. It's not a good thing, honestly.

yeah...really bad aswear

biacan:
I tell you he's so sweet very slow to anger and a good listener.......spray me with goodies..... despite all my shakara...... I will be acting like I don't care yet I can't go a day without thinking of him...... you know we women and pretence.......i can't afford to lose him

he will leave you soon if you don't change your ways

trustyshoess:
Total lack of communication. So annoying
Blocked and deleted his number now
3 years down the drain. Smh

Took you all this time to delete his number? Like no communication for 3 years?

Lawlahdey:
Oh, I see. You don't have to deactivate sha.

Yeah sure, you can add me on FB.

turns out we are already friends on fb
I never knew all this while

sunshineG:
turns out we are already friends on fb
I never knew all this while

For real?

What's your facebook ID?

AHCB:
Took you all this time to delete his number? Like no communication for 3 years?

She meant she just flushed 3 whole years down the drain...Lol.

Lawlahdey:
For real?

What's your facebook ID?

check your fb massages

Lawlahdey:
She meant she just flushed 3 whole years down the drain...Lol.

I see.

sunshineG:
check your fb massages

Seen.

My fear is, he's too handsome and attractive ,loving and funny. I know am fine too but I pray everyday no other lady will be able lure him away from me. It took me so many years 2 get it right.

Infact, He's just perfect for me.

biacan:
My fear.......am not ready to lose him cause of all the daily Surprises am getting from him...... NO man has ever treat me the way he does....... baby so much love.......

Eyya... Not because of love but because of the surprises

So when surprises finished then you dump him

Well done

alexialin:
My fear is, he's too handsome and attractive ,loving and funny. I know am fine too but I pray everyday no other lady will be able lure him away from me. It took me so many years 2 get it right.

Infact, He's just perfect for me.

your prayers are answered.

QueenSekxy:

your prayers are answered.

Awwww.

Amen and amen.

Thanks dear.

So nice of you

I fear she's gonna commit suicide because of me.

AHCB:
Took you all this time to delete his number? Like no communication for 3 years?

Lol no, not for 3 years. It was a recent change in behaviour

He always talk about sex sex sex and nothing more but pussy

Olasco93:
If I leave her, she might just do something nasty to herself because her emotional level is on the High side.

This kind 1 dey give headache

biacan:
I tell you he's so sweet very slow to anger and a good listener.......spray me with goodies..... despite all my shakara...... I will be acting like I don't care yet I can't go a day without thinking of him...... you know we women and pretence.......i can't afford to lose him

He's either fvcking your friend or hiding something from you

I cnt tell... I think her pretense rate 8s high and im beginning to see it

trustyshoess:

Lol no, not for 3 years. It was a recent change in behaviour

I see. Em, did you speak with him about this, 'recent change in behaviour'?

Just having the courage to start one.I know for sure that I’d give it my all to be the best boyfriend I can be, and I think I’m mature enough to understand how to go about expressing oneself in a relationship and such.But, I admit, my current greatest fear would be failing to take initiative and to begin a relationship.I frequently worry that I’ll meet a girl I really like, and perhaps want to even ask out on a date, but ultimately, I might find it too hard to do so. I’m afraid I’ll shy away from simply asking, “Do you want to get lunch sometime?”

I’m terrified that I’ll be stupid about it. That I’ll watch that opportunity to slip away right through my fingers. There she’ll be, and there I’ll be, squirming on the sidelines like a worm, missing my chance by being too scared to take it.

Do I think I’ll have the guts to ask the future “her” out? I do. But I am still quite nervous that my silly, immature, and irrational self might kick in at the worst times, and screw me over.

AHCB:
I see. Em, did you speak with him about this, 'recent change in behaviour'?

No, I've got my own issues with communication too. I don't like confrontation

trustyshoess:

No, I've got my own issues with communication too. I don't like confrontation

Then the problem might not entirely be his fault. It's always nice to speak your mind, always.

AHCB:
Then the problem might not entirely be his fault. It's always nice to speak your mind, always.

I know but I just can't seem to bring myself to it. Like if he really wanted to talk to me then he would

trustyshoess:

I know but I just can't seem to bring myself to it. Like if he really wanted to talk to me then he would

Then you're as much the problem. You should learn to speak your mind, especially when it has to do with affairs of the heart.

Three years isn't a joke, you know. I know within those years, there are happy moments. That should have been your focal point. Disagreement, quarrel and argument are all part of life, you know.

biacan:
I tell you he's so sweet very slow to anger and a good listener.......spray me with goodies..... despite all my shakara...... I will be acting like I don't care yet I can't go a day without thinking of him...... you know we women and pretence.......i can't afford to lose him

hw i wish i cud jst send dis chat to him. Men always got each others back

met dis lady wen i jst started my M.sc, she ws simple easy going n likeable. we started dating, we talked evryday, chatted often bt we didnt see. distance bcame a problem. after about a yr we broke up. i lover her so much n i waited patiently for her to come bak. days rolled by, months passed bt she never did. inbetween i bleeped some gud p**cy bt no strings attached. then dis igbo-yoruba girl came in. she s more exposed, less naive than d former. i love her so much dt i forgot d former with ease and without repentence. bt distance s stil d problem though we talk n chat everyday. a few months later i got a lecturing job. i interact on daily basis with ladies of all kinds, beauty, shape or figure. bt i never let it disrupt our friendship. i love her so much n am ready to settle down with her. distance relationship no go kill me sha.

She's​ 23 and convocated last month. I'm scared the next thing on her mind might be marriage which am not ready for even in the next 5yrs. I really do love and so scared of losing her even though we're age mate. Whenever I think of her leaving me, it scares the hell outta me.

biacan:
My fear.......am not ready to lose him cause of all the daily Surprises am getting from him...... NO man has ever treat me the way he does....... baby so much love.......

this is actually not too good sha. Take note