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KreativGenius:
That's hypocritical. You quoted my comments several times, and i wasn't discussing with you. Last time i checked it's an open forum, and no one should e dissuaded from quoting anyone, anyone that doesn't want to be quoted shouldn't post comments. Simple

Why u dey waste ur time on am? The person who is saying u confused is d one acting confused

Nesso:
Why u dey waste ur time on am? The person who is saying u confused is d one acting confused

Its k bro. it's past now

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

So on point. Most pple here r unwise, smone is dishing out d gospel truth n y'all r doubting.
Op gbayi

KreativGenius:
How can i fall in love with her? That's why i said you lost out, we've been friends before today, i knew she had a guy, that's all i know.We chatted till late two days back and yesterday, it was friendly, she comes today in a form i haven't seen before so i needed to probe whats up.

Not looking for love on social media anymore bro, so no need to please anyone, no need to displease either. I'm just cultured not to engage in certain kind of way.

Yes, i read the entire thread page by page, read your comments and referred lots of people. I'm sorry i read them late, i could have been better with my past relationships. Na, she's not a lady i'm interested in thats all, if she was i'll react differently. When i love a lady bro, i take a soft,slow gentlemanly approach. Lol. My apologies, sorry we started off on the wrong footing. Your thread was really something, you pushed lots of effort into it. On behalf of many that comes across it, you did a good job and thanks for the resources and energy, and time you channeled into that thread.


Once again, not seeking love on social media. So i have no desire to please. How's work, how's the week going? R u in Lag ? Can you make time out for a drink ?

Oh, now i see....
But you and i know that there are no single ladies anywhere yet guys go bedding new ones everyday! How?
Their talks are too cheap to take seriously .


She came in a form you couldn't figure to play mind games on you, took u for a spin, gained cheap applause from her female folks.

It behooved on you therefore, to flow in suit and take her to the cleaners because no matter what, your pair of Balls must be protected @ all times no matter whose horse is goad . Whether you were interested or not.

If you didn't know before now, know this: she neither respects your person nor value your friendship.

Only fools go to places they r tolerated, instead of places they are celebrated. Cut ties.

Luv/marriage can happen from anywhere, don't be myopic. What if your true wify is outside Nigerian shores? A citizen of another country? Would you rather marry a local because u can't afford to deal SM?
Broaden your views gee, life is such a funny freak

I'm humbled that Dating Drills is touching lives beyond measure. You need to see the huge mails we receive daily to that effect.
And thanks to you for helping guys out by referring them over.

Uprooting a weed where it isnt needed n Planting a lil Rose where one is needed is my life logo. And i beleive that is the only lasting legacy any1 could aspire to leave behind in this dying world.
It is not the accumulation of wealth nor how long you live, it is by the number of people you touched positively while on earth you tread.

Now I have someone who owes me a drink in Lagos( you should know i don't do beer. Put in too much energy to maintain my "one pack" thus far ) . I would come for it someday.

Rich Regards
Don

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

A man who says he knows women more than a woman, are you transgender too?

KingSango:
A man who says he knows women more than a woman, are you transgender too?

Sango is the cosmic manual on how to be a man. Maybe you like Ogun instead.

truth , pure truth. I'm considering not getting married

KreativGenius:
[b]
This guy cracked me up. who did this to you ?


Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you.


There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk.


Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security.

You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true.


You can doubt this statement at your own peril.


Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.



This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider.


Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.


I AGREE WITH THIS 100%


Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you.



I THINK I AGREE WITH THIS


The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.[/b]



Don't be attracted to a lady, be the one a ladys attracted to. Bottom line, otherwise, you're screwed. Back me up brothers

You are right my dear,i have also studied this through experience. Women don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean. In as much as i like women,they can be so frustrating at times and you would wonder from which planet do they come from. Hmmmmm,may God help us!

I never even talk anything and some are getting worked up

HARDDON:
Oh, now i see....
But you and i know that there are no single ladies anywhere yet guys go bedding new ones everyday! How?
Their talks are too cheap to take seriously .


She came in a form you couldn't figure to play mind games on you, took u for a spin, gained cheap applause from her female folks.

It behooved on you therefore, to flow in suit and take her to the cleaners because no matter what, your pair of Balls must be protected @ all times no matter whose horse is goad . Whether you were interested or not.

If you didn't know before now, know this: she neither respects your person nor value your friendship.

Only fools go to places they r tolerated, instead of places they are celebrated. Cut ties.

Luv/marriage can happen from anywhere, don't be myopic. What if your true wify is outside Nigerian shores? A citizen of another country? Would you rather marry a local because u can't afford to deal SM?
Broaden your views gee, life is such a funny freak

I'm humbled that Dating Drills is touching lives beyond measure. You need to see the huge mails we receive daily to that effect.
And thanks to you for helping guys out by referring them over.

Uprooting a weed where it isnt needed n Planting a lil Rose where one is needed is my life logo. And i beleive that is the only lasting legacy any1 could aspire to leave behind in this dying world.
It is not the accumulation of wealth nor how long you live, it is by the number of people you touched positively while on earth you tread.

Now I have someone who owes me a drink in Lagos( you should know i don't do beer. Put in too much energy to maintain my "one pack" thus far ) . I would come for it someday.

Rich Regards
Don

Yeah, it's pretty easy to understand people's values by their words and actions. You're spot on with on this. Cutting off ties right away.



THIS IS HILARIOUS BRO :

But you and i know that there are no single ladies anywhere yet guys go bedding new ones everyday! How?
Their talks are too cheap to take seriously .



TRUE @ Only fools go to places they r tolerated, instead of places they are celebrated. Cut ties.



NICE ONE @ Luv/marriage can happen from anywhere, don't be myopic. What if your true wify is outside Nigerian shores? A citizen of another country? Would you rather marry a local because u can't afford to deal SM? NOT LOOKING LOCALS FOR A GIRL, THAT'S WHY I AIN'T HERE TO PLEASE



So, what drink are you into ?

Ademolag:
truth , pure truth. I'm considering not getting married

Not getting married should be plan A.

Make marriage plan B, for soft landing

HARDDON:
Oh, now i see....
But you and i know that there are no single ladies anywhere yet guys go bedding new ones everyday! How?
Their talks are too cheap to take seriously .


She came in a form you couldn't figure to play mind games on you, took u for a spin, gained cheap applause from her female folks.

It behooved on you therefore, to flow in suit and take her to the cleaners because no matter what, your pair of Balls must be protected @ all times no matter whose horse is goad . Whether you were interested or not.

If you didn't know before now, know this: she neither respects your person nor value your friendship.

Only fools go to places they r tolerated, instead of places they are celebrated. Cut ties.

Luv/marriage can happen from anywhere, don't be myopic. What if your true wify is outside Nigerian shores? A citizen of another country? Would you rather marry a local because u can't afford to deal SM?
Broaden your views gee, life is such a funny freak

I'm humbled that Dating Drills is touching lives beyond measure. You need to see the huge mails we receive daily to that effect.
And thanks to you for helping guys out by referring them over.

Uprooting a weed where it isnt needed n Planting a lil Rose where one is needed is my life logo. And i beleive that is the only lasting legacy any1 could aspire to leave behind in this dying world.
It is not the accumulation of wealth nor how long you live, it is by the number of people you touched positively while on earth you tread.

Now I have someone who owes me a drink in Lagos( you should know i don't do beer. Put in too much energy to maintain my "one pack" thus far ) . I would come for it someday.

Rich Regards
Don

Yeah, it's pretty easy to understand people's values by their words and actions. You're spot on with on this. Cutting off ties right away.



THIS IS HILARIOUS BRO :

But you and i know that there are no single ladies anywhere yet guys go bedding new ones everyday! How?
Their talks are too cheap to take seriously .



TRUE @ Only fools go to places they r tolerated, instead of places they are celebrated. Cut ties.



NICE ONE @ Luv/marriage can happen from anywhere, don't be myopic. What if your true wify is outside Nigerian shores? A citizen of another country? Would you rather marry a local because u can't afford to deal SM? NOT LOOKING LOCALS FOR A GIRL, THAT'S WHY I AIN'T HERE TO PLEASE



So, what drink are you into ?

Lmao why're you so sardonic?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]One wouldn’t think someone would make fun with something he strongly preaches against publicly. It’s like condemning gay activities and then jokingly asking a guy if he would kiss you.

Well I’m surely not gonna take your comments seriously. Including that other one of course. [/color]

pidgintutor:
this is blunt truth..... peeps like jude and airforce who doesnt give a rat ass weda u pretty or not always have females wish thinking... theres this lefu guy... hes seen as the ladies man but that where it all ends..... overly too emotional with ladies is a terrible approach... ignoring a pretty guy when evry one wants her is a torment to her esp if you are not looking bad yourself.... NICE GUYS ALWAYS COME LAST.. EVEN WITH OTHER GUYS... they lose respect, they are taken for granted... i saw a thread where a student complained of people owing him yet he still lends money out... such a nice guy and loser ......








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so i should tag ladies in here as olosho or slayqueens b4 i am regarded as an alphamale.brother i am just here to have fun and nothing more.i am not hunting for any relationship in here.so weda the ladies in here are crushing on one guy or another guy in here that's none of my business.i wasnt raised to insult women and if u guys had it rough with the slayqueens u frolick with the blame falls on you..if u dont want to get psychological hurt then mix with level headed girls.that's all i can say for now.

Truth is, you don't want to be committed to a woman until she is committed to you.

TSOM:
The original poster sure raised valid points but sweeping generalizations which do not hold true in all situations.
Let's localize it to Nairaland:

Have you ever wondered why the Mr. Nice Guys of the Romance and Family Sections are treated only as platonic friendly acquaintances who can be insulted by the female Nairalanders they accost while the supposed egomaniacal, overly-blunt snubs get females crushing on them?


I'd even be more blunt: Have you ever wondered why Lézz, Cöogar or dudes with their e-personas get their way more easily with female Nairalanders while the Mr. Nice Guys like Dîngbang/Cutehectôr who asslick and show way too much attention to these same females are taken for granted?

Two nights ago, a certain Edimolu and Lezz/BadBradley brawled 'cause Lézz the 'bad, blunt Casanova' had Lâla247 mention him as her crush while she ignores Edîmolu (Mr. Nice Guy) who has been stalking and paying her compliments on even thread.


Personally, even in romantic relationships, I never show any female too much attention. You'd never predict when next I would call or how regularly it would be. I'd never abandon my weekend plans just so you'd fulfil yours.

Every time I call, you'd have to call back and if you don't , forget about it.

Whenever we spend time together, you'd drop your phone and turn off your internet connection as I would mine so we concentrate on us and our relationship. Some weak-balled males would let a girl take them for granted by talking to her while she's replying to random men on Messenger or WhatsApp.

There are a thousand things guys like me do which gives us the advantage over Mr. Nice Guys. Keep a woman second-guessing too. When a random girl compliments your looks or strokes your full beard in her presence, don't be scared to revel in the compliment in your girlfriend's presence.


Then again, I don't cheat but girlfriend would keep second-guessing that 'cause, for some reason, women always come closer. She knows there are a thousand women I could start something with if she doesn't stay inline. Advantages of being a wordsmith/smooth talker.

Cheating is a no-no all the same and nothing would replace having your woman draw invincible patterns on your chest, stroking the hair on it while you both discuss and argue about everything and sweet nothings. Nothing beats being in a relationship.

Go only for the rare girls.

I, General Zod endorse this.

KreativGenius:
I'm not uncle.I'm just the guy who doesn't care about personal interests when it comes to issues. So wassup dearie, wanna give me a head?

ehn head? ..but MouthAction gives cancer of the teeth nah

lefulefu:
ehn head? ..but MouthAction gives cancer of the teeth nah

Like you i'm here to have fun, more so, that guy never said it causes cancer oh, una dey quick jump to conclusion

KreativGenius:
Like you i'm here to have fun, more so, that guy never said it causes cancer oh, una dey quick jump to conclusion

i do my own research today.dem say doing oral can give u teeth cancer

lefulefu:
i do my own research today.dem say doing oral can give u teeth cancer

E be like say you dey miss SunshineG abi


Guy go receive head o

KreativGenius:
E be like say you dey miss SunshineG abi


Guy go receive head o

hm i be no expect u to use the head word based on how u condemn MouthAction yesterday.anyway its all good.so u know my fellow ukwu paddy sunshineG? ..yea he don deactivate.

This thread is really wonderful, I didn't know there were dudes like me.

lefulefu:
hm i be no expect u to use the head word based on how u condemn MouthAction yesterday.anyway its all good.so u know my fellow ukwu paddy sunshineG? ..yea he don deactivate.

Did you say SunshineG don deactivate ?

KreativGenius:
Did you say SunshineG don deactivate ?

yea he has deactivated

lefulefu:
yea he has deactivated

And i always enjoy how you both crack jokes on the forum ?


Damn,i'm deactivating too not too long from now. Una don mark my head finish

Not condemning anyone or any act, all i mean is there are risks attached with sh*ts, and if we're gonna go some stuffs, we need to accept the risks attached with it simple. My guys called me yesterday warning me seriously, so i won't write on such subject anymore

KreativGenius:
And i always enjoy how you both crack jokes on the forum ?


Damn,i'm deactivating too not too long from now. Una don mark my head finish

Not condemning anyone or any act, all i mean is there are risks attached with sh*ts, and if we're gonna go some stuffs, we need to accept the risks attached with it simple. My guys called me yesterday warning me seriously, so i won't write on such subject anymore

anybody threaten u wey u wan plan to deactivate?.SunshineG is just a little busy with his program in school that's why he had to deactivate.iyam sure he will be back.

lefulefu:
anybody threaten u wey u wan plan to deactivate?.SunshineG is just a little busy with his program in school that's why he had to deactivate.iyam sure he will be back.

No. The fights and arguments is sickening. Its annoying people can't debate without squabbles. E tire me. You self too don turn woman wrapper you never see who go tell you. You no want form alpha male, you do want date anyone on the forum, but you're psychologically being used as a tool to look good to the females by all means. Why do you need their validation/support so badly bro?

KreativGenius:
No. The fights and arguments is sickening. Its annoying people can't debate without squabbles. E tire me. You self too don turn woman wrapper you never see who go tell you. You no want form alpha male, you do want date anyone on the forum, but you're psychologically being used as a tool to look good to the females by all means. Why do you need their validation/support so badly bro?

bros when u dey fight with woman over needless and unimportant issues that's when u become a sissy.fighting with a woman and calling her olosho or ashawo if she no agree with u does not make u a man.no surprise if u found out dat most guys wey dey pick fights with women over unnecessary ish in real life na dem dey wash the smelly pants and bra of their girlfriends.i don see guys like dat dey form macho but wen dem stand in front of their babe dem go dey shake.dis was i tell u yesterday dat the argument and curses wey u dey get over Debbie was so damm unnecessary. Arguing and fighting over MouthAction topic wasnt worth it. And joking and kidding along with some of the females folk no mean i dey look for any validation or support.na just my character be dat.some of the guys for here wey dey say dey dont give no crap or sh!t about women or gehls from romance section na the same guys go slide into a babe's inbox dey beg her for her attention.it happens all d time in here so it shows u how hypocritical it can get in here .

lefulefu:
bros when u dey fight with woman over needless and unimportant issues that's when u become a sissy.fighting with a woman and calling her olosho or ashawo if she no agree with u does not make u a man.no surprise if u found out dat most guys wey dey pick fights with women over unnecessary ish in real life na dem dey wash the smelly pants and bra of their girlfriends.i don see guys like dat dey form macho but wen dem stand in front of their babe dem go dey shake.dis was i tell u yesterday dat the argument and curses wey u dey get over Debbie yesterday was so damm unnecessary. Arguing and fighting over MouthAction topic wasnt worth it. And joking and kidding along with some of the females folk no mean i dey look for any validation or support.na just my character be dat.some of the guys for here wey dey say dey dont give no crap or sh!t about women or gehls from romance section na the same guys go slide into a babe's inbox dey beg her for her attention.it happens all d time in here so it shows u how hypocritical it can get in here .

Lol@ slide into their inbox begging for attention. I think i'm going to completely cut off females on the forum. It is so difficult keeping up with em. I go dey with my male folk abeg. I wasn't arguing with her over the topic, but over trying to bash my ego, why is it that people no fit just comment without trying to bash people's ego? Is communication a contest where one person has to win at all cost? Damn it, many people are products of terrible upbringing and bad environment. As i get public bashing, i get privately too, done with these chicks. I owe them nuffin, i cant date 97% of them so no more nice gentle man, we need to watch out each time they come seeking ego to bash.

DONADAMS:
I think it's all about how you study her,,my lady likes too much attention/care..... infact..I wonder the kinda person she is....I tried your approach of not giving her much attention... and Fvck!! she cheated on me...then I understood there's no manual in handling a relationship... just let the river flow to wherever it's going...

Let that bitchhh go! she's too weak, look how one dimensional she is, I show her love and she would open leg for me...Chai .

KreativGenius:
Lol@ slide into their inbox begging for attention. I think i'm going to completely cut off females on the forum. It is so difficult keeping up with em. I go dey with my male folk abeg. I wasn't arguing with her over the topic, but over trying to bash my ego, why is it that people no fit just comment without trying to bash people's ego? Is communication a contest where one person has to win at all cost? Damn it, many people are products of terrible upbringing and bad environment.

just play along and chat with any babe wey u wan yarn with if u feel like but if u wan cut off completely well na ur choice na.but then u can't do without a woman cos afterall u go marry na.even wetin op write would work well on slayqueens but then a man no fit be fuckboy throughout all his life.one day person go old so how will he be fukboying wen he turn 70.some of we guys na we dey make the mistake.u see a slayqueen and u start putting her on a pedestal while ignoring the serious minded gehls.the only thing i jus pick from op's post is stop being too needy and obsessive but say i go be a fuckboy throughout my life biko dats not my portion.

Divay22:
We know a pained fellow when we see one, and i can say you're one of them.
Op you're just so unfortunate when it comes to love ,but that doesn't mean every woman is like your ex..
I'll tell you, you don't know the slightest thing about a woman, don't come here with your pained and unrealistic fact..

[b][/b]Hook up, have sex and move to another,[b][/b]can you just hear yourself talk.
So that's how you'll keep hooking up and having sex till you contact all the diseases and the awaiting ones not yet known, because that's the way to be a Man...
If you were to be my bother, I'll be so disgusted to call you one and even associate with you...


You're hurt and you need help Asap.

Sweetie , the dude may be badly hurt but he's definitely right. You ladies have proved overtime to be attracted to the guys who treat you as trash while you inflict emotional pains one that innocent guy who is willing to lay down his life for you.

At 100L, I fell in love. It was a strange but pleasurable feeling. I wouldn't sleep sometimes penning beautiful poems and words for her. Meeting her was a mystery and I thought I finally met the girl of my who would shape my life forever, I was right. I wasn't a novice with dealing with ladies but she made me completely dumb. Alas, I suffered emotional trauma while she she was having nice time with other bad boy.

Well, I changed completely, lost the regard I have for most ladies and I treated those who came my way in the way they may not like but I had my fun. Annoy me and I ask you to leave my house, seduce me and I walk out on u, call me a thousand times, I'd neither reply your calls nor lift them. Ask where I am and I'd tell you I'm with another prospective girlfriend. Gift me anything and I'd never thank u. I don't remember birthdays and special days. I was raw and rough with words.

Then, I noticed the attention was mounting. I felt no remorse but I knew those girls were innocent and mere victims of transferred aggression, attracted to those who treat them like a pinch of salt. Well, these days, other important things have taken my time but I learnt the secret spot on.

I haven't understood just yet why women are always attracted to guys who wouldn't treat the as a beautiful creature that they are.