lefulefu:
just play along and chat with any babe wey u wan yarn with if u feel like but if u wan cut off completely well na ur choice na.but then u can't do without a woman cos afterall u go marry na.even wetin op write would work well on slayqueens but then a man no fit be fuckboy throughout all his life.one day person go old so how will he be fukboying wen he turn 70.some of we guys na we dey make the mistake.u see a slayqueen and u start putting her on a pedestal while ignoring the serious minded gehls.the only thing i jus pick from op's post is stop being too needy and obsessive but say i go be a fuckboy throughout my life biko dats not my portion.

KreativGenius:




I have no issues o. I've got many female chat mates on the forum back in the time, but none was rude, impolite or egoistical.

I can tolerate things, i have a thick skin, but the only " forbidden " i get as a man is rudeness.

I can't seem to get it why people can't be disciplined and won't be fixed, if they don't bash people's egos.

By the way if this is the kinda stuff we will be marrying, well i'll be keeping late nights cause i hate their terrible means of communication.

That's why many will miss out on good companionships and relationships cause of their demons. I have some female sense them make sense die. I'm cool with the little quota, be it one or two, not these half-baked things

lefulefu:
lol na just to study the girl...if u notice she's the troublesome type just park ur bag and run.

XML33:


Vain thing. It seems all you care about is the wedding photos. What happens later on? I'll tell you. They both become bored. Often it's the wife first. But they keep on trying to make things work and try to look for ways to "spice up" their relationship. A year or two in, their bedroom becomes a graveyard. Quarrels and arguments follow. They keep up appearances in public so people do not talk. Luckily for them the baby arrives and they now have something to force them to remain in the marriage. But the marriage is nothing but a pain. They start cheating on each other. The partner with the lower moral threshold is usually the first to cheat. They both try to hide it until one of them is caught. Then they either file for a divorce or they remain in the marriage for the sake of their children or to protect their image.

XML33:
Discard all the conventional crap society has fed you about women. Ignore the relationship garbage you see on mainstream TV. And most importantly, disregard anything women say themselves. In fact, never you listen to what a woman says when she describes the kind of man she wants and how she wants to be treated. It's all hogwash..

This thread is amoral so anyone who has problems with posts that don't fit into the whole religious & moral nonsense should please exit the thread.

Guys stop wasting your time being in relationships with women. It's a complete waste of time. Let's be honest. What do you derive from the relationship that you can't get if you weren't committed to her? Nothing. Being in a committed relationship puts you in a precarious position and it kills her attraction towards you. There are two kinds of men women crave. The provider and the guy she would willingly give her body to fucckk. Women feel attraction towards the later and would do anything to please him, but just use the former as a source of financial or emotional security. You can be the later without being in a relationship. In fact you can be this guy to lots of women. Women are liars and what they say is usually not true. You can doubt this statement at your own peril. Women are instinctual creatures and they are controlled by their primal feminine instincts. A woman can articulate her needs perfectly, but her behavior and actions would vary.

If you are in a relationship with a girl who claims she loves you because you care about her and take care of her needs, my guy you are being lied to. This same girl probably has other guys who she secretly texts and craves to be with. You stop being attractive to a woman once you assume the role of a provider. Even if a woman really loves you and commits to you, she is eventually going to stop being attracted to you because she would get bored of you faster than you'll get bored of her. That's just the way women are.

Instead of being in a long term relationship with one girl and wasting your life, meet various random women and do what you'd have done with your girlfriend with them. Whether it's sex or having a good time with no commitment at all. There are over 3 billion women in the world. It's stupidity to blindly commit to just one girl who would lose interest in you once you begin displaying commitment and showering her with attention.

Never take a woman seriously. She isn't worth it. No matter how attractive you think she looks. Treat women as if they are nothing and they'll crave you more. This is a fact. The less attention you pay to women the more they respect and desire you. The more care you show to them the more they disrespect you and lose attraction towards you. Just hook up, have sex and move on to the next. This is how to be a man. Don't commit to a single woman. You'll regret it.

XML33:


Go to your parents and ask them to be honest. Their attraction to each other died a long time ago. Your mum definitely was the first to lose this attraction. The only reason they are together is either due to religious beliefs or cultural responsibility or because of their children. Same applies to every other parent.

If you want to get married then that's your business, but trust me, your wife will get bored of you quickly and only remain in the relationship for the reasons I mentioned above. And you'll have to consistently put up with her incessant bullshit. If you feel spending the rest of your life with someone who would always crave other men and pretend to you is the best option, then good luck.

ChikezieU:
truth be told men are also guilty. secondly not every woman can be described with this your post there are exceptions.

Damdeyz:
Wait O, What Kind Of Myopic And Flippant Opinion Is This? So u Mean To Tell Me All Elderly Females In Matrimony ae Grown Tired Of Their Spouses. Op I Think You've Been Burned Not Necessarily By A Girl, Probably A Failed Home Or Smtin, Address Ur Underlying Issues

makydebbie:
Marriage is scary, very scary. What you've written here happens alot this days.

JamesReacher:
Let that bitchhh go! she's too weak, look how one dimensional she is, I show her love and she would open leg for me...Chai .

Squirrel01:



Don't be scared, it's an institution which requires hard work/endurance! some might say, it's a necessary evil.

makydebbie:
How long can one endure? I've this issue. If I trust you, I expect you to respect that trust and understand me. I hardly forgive people, do I even forgive? What happens when hubby does something so nasty? I'll just withdraw.

ChiefPiiko:
I am worse, marriage has no formula that's why it's advisable to marry your best friend so you 2 can adapt

LadyGoddiva:
Lmao why're you so sardonic?

Just my own fun way of relating my message to people.

makydebbie:
How long can one endure? I've this issue. If I trust you, I expect you to respect that trust and understand me. I hardly forgive people, do I even forgive? What happens when hubby does something so nasty? I'll just withdraw.

banre:
i love this thread.....God bless u op
women are just an absolute waste of time...and energy too.

Squirrel01:


smiles, they say marriage is for better for worse.

ChiefPiiko:
I am worse, marriage has no formula that's why it's advisable to marry your best friend so you 2 can adapt

Divay22:

We know a pained fellow when we see one, and i can say you're one of them.
Op you're just so unfortunate when it comes to love ,but that doesn't mean every woman is like your ex..
I'll tell you, you don't know the slightest thing about a woman, don't come here with your pained and unrealistic fact..

[b][/b]Hook up, have sex and move to another,[b][/b]can you just hear yourself talk.
So that's how you'll keep hooking up and having sex till you contact all the diseases and the awaiting ones not yet known, because that's the way to be a Man...
If you were to be my bother, I'll be so disgusted to call you one and even associate with you...


You're hurt and you need help Asap.

EmperorHarry:

Chai
It's because of people like you that some people commit crime
Zero chill
And you think this person will see you and not want to shoot you or beat you to stupor
It's the internet anyways so continue

makydebbie:
Hmm, it's well.

Pynkylypz:
Sis.. Check your inbox

lefulefu:
so i should tag ladies in here as olosho or slayqueens b4 i am regarded as an alphamale.brother i am just here to have fun and nothing more.i am not hunting for any relationship in here.so weda the ladies in here are crushing on one guy or another guy in here that's none of my business.i wasnt raised to insult women and if u guys had it rough with the slayqueens u frolick with the blame falls on you..if u dont want to get psychological hurt then mix with level headed girls.that's all i can say for now.

pidgintutor:



i must admit... cool is good sometimes... see how you calmly typed this... but you know wat bro... truth b told, these babes are too familiar with u that if you ever try to settle for one... u gonna b hrtbrokenn.. but like u said... u aint here to find a rel/ship... i aint here for that too but one may never know where the wind of romance may lead him to...



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makydebbie:
I know right?

Squirrel01:


You should. good night.