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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Crossguy: 11:25am On Nov 15, 2017
Nice one bro
ottohan:
disgracing the guy is not an option here...it is your mumu galfriend DAT has decided to giv d guy her number that you should do away with...
-showing you her whatsaap chat with d guy dosen't mean she likes you, who knows how many chats she must have censored/deleted before showing you,....
-she is just feeling special because there are two guys and one gal and they are hustling after her, so just work on her phsycology by making her jealous,....
-just make another lady to visit you, so that ur GF will feel jealous and her brain go reset...
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Belafonte(m): 11:30am On Nov 15, 2017
I don't blame girls for their numerous foibles, it's guys who have given them the leeway to be so disrespectful. If this guy dumps her now she will start chanting he wasted x number if years of my life. But, babe, you were showing ho tendencies and he did the logical thing and dumped your trifling ass. Ladies, quit playing yourselves.

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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by dollytino4real(f): 11:30am On Nov 15, 2017
pls ignore them as if u dont know wat is happening btw them, exchange her for a wrist watch.
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Marshalxv(m): 11:33am On Nov 15, 2017
danny34:
If na me, I go use my Bae collect him money tire.... Na office him go be.

Back then in Uni, my classmates liked my girl, everyone told him she is my gal, guy no gree, he came to tell me, I was like if u like her ask her out.

Dude sente to talk to her, gave me tips, I went o. Bae laughed and was like u dey craze?

Dude sent Bae SMS for lunch, Bae said I must join, I joined. At crunches, Bae wanted to make order n said we will go together, dude agreed. We went, Bae got me chicken, snail, rice, life alive, got meat for dude n took what she wanted.

Dude didn't complain. Bae also got take away for us. When we are leaving, Bae insisted I will take her home as na me she trust, dude agreed brought cab fare, we went home n laughed.

One day, dude walked up to me say I fooled him. I said no, u wanted to show Bae say I no get class, because na yam n fio fio or beans n roasted plantain I dey carry her go chop. So na him u wan show say u get money.

Friends agreed with me, n reminded him he was warned.

I forgot he got Bae a phone those days of open n close, Bae gave to me as she no poor like me.

Me I just dey middle dey enjoy, dude dey tip me to talk to Bae, Bae dey collect n give me... Until she got feed up n invited both of us n told dude we are together



If I were u, office alert loading

This works when ur girl is loyal and probably from a rich home.
Try am with poor babe,ur name go be sorry .

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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:35am On Nov 15, 2017
YoungDaNaval:
You're joking right?
that guys hit on married women? Does it sound funny?
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by pocohantas(f): 11:37am On Nov 15, 2017
What thrash am I reading here?
You mean before then she didn't have your flatmate's number and people are asking why she gave the number? The only thing suspicious is him asking for it in your absence.

If I am dating a guy and we're pretty serious, I will have the number of every damn person close to him. Flatmate would be the first.

You people should sort yourselves out.
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by brunobaba(m): 11:38am On Nov 15, 2017
DIKEnaWAR:



She will just go and fvck the flatmate immediately. For her to give him her number shows she is interested in the guy. Showing her boyfriend their chats is just trying to feed a chicken well before slaughtering it. Women a just one kind of people and will keep giving you signs that the house is cracking (albeit subtly) before bringing it down on your head in one fell swoop. What am I saying, she is just trying to satisfy her conscience that she tried to resist the bagger while he asked her out. Her excuse when it happens: "but I told you then and you don't seem to care. I was showing you chats and all. You became distant and he was there for me" Lies!

My advise to the bro is to start looking for a fresh babe and begin to fvck the one he has wild. Do all the crazy things you imagined with a babe and never done with her. We all have that blackboard that we practiced on and wiped clean afterwards.

You are in a relationship with a coded hoe(worst type of women) but like a yorrrrubbaa boy that you are, you won't have sense once it concerns woman.
I was almost liking your comment until you became tribalistic,receive a lot of sense.
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by zinizta: 11:40am On Nov 15, 2017
chill the fvck out... don't you ask other people's gf out?...

tackle it like a man - discuss it . don't start getting violent over every bvllsh!t that comes your way

it's painful but deal with it like a man
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 11:41am On Nov 15, 2017
pahen1991:
foolish old man
No mind the woman wrapper
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 11:41am On Nov 15, 2017
frenzyduchess:
that guys hit on married women? Does it sound funny?
Married women with ring on their finger?
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by 2sexycom(m): 11:46am On Nov 15, 2017
ottohan:
disgracing the guy is not an option here...it is your mumu galfriend DAT has decided to giv d guy her number that you should do away with...
-showing you her whatsaap chat with d guy dosen't mean she likes you, who knows how many chats she must have censored/deleted before showing you,....
-she is just feeling special because there are two guys and one gal and they are hustling after her, so just work on her phsycology by making her jealous,....
-just make another lady to visit you, so that ur GF will feel jealous and her brain go reset...
boss... boss, ur brain is there.
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 15, 2017
fellowman:


I'm against this.
this is wrong, I hate when girls come in to destroy a friendship.

that girl may be giving your friend the wrong signal or she's guilty, don't destroy your friendship on some girl no matter how the puna.

just tell your friend (not in front of the girl) that his cover has been blown that's it.






Really?

Wait, what kind of friendship do u think you have with your so-called paddy?

Your long time friend do not value what you guys have. He does not even respect you , how much more respect your woman. For him to be wooing your babe behind your back. Do you honestly think u have a good friend in him?
That friend can even fucvk his wife, if the guy is not careful.

As for me, he's not a friend. He's a useless he goat.

I rather protect my girl if I were a man from such friend. Than call it off with my girl and stick with a friend who do not value true friendship.

Is that one a friend?

Abeg!

You guys will just miss out on a wife material and stick with a betrayal, saying he's my paddy way back. If he's your paddy way back, why is he chyking your babe?
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by addictiv(m): 11:52am On Nov 15, 2017
@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.

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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:52am On Nov 15, 2017
ConcernedNL:


True, but what if he has paid a two year rent?

He says Flatmate, not Neighbor, there is a diff.

But If so, Just confront him. Its going to cause War but No p. Even if the GF ends up with the US guy. He must move out of that house. I rather DIE than seeing the Idiot sleep with my babe while I'm alive.

This won't end well obviously.
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 15, 2017
dollytino4real:
pls ignore them as if u dont know wat is happening btw them, exchange her for a wrist watch.

A wrist watch? Perhaps a Richard Millie you mean?
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by sukkot: 11:54am On Nov 15, 2017
nigga your room-mate is a snake. dunno bout you but i cant co-exist with a snake. i just cant. either move out or kick him out and disassociate from him forever. problem solved

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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 11:58am On Nov 15, 2017
Hehehe, you are not in this country?
YoungDaNaval:
Married women with ring on their finger?
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by madone: 12:00pm On Nov 15, 2017
No need to disgrace anybody.just call a meeting with the guy tell him to stop whatever he is up to. No fight him or drive him out. Tell ur girl too to stop the chat with him . Then sit back and watch. My guy I the chat betwn them still continue after the meeting kick both of them out of your life.
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:00pm On Nov 15, 2017
Best advice ever ,you sound like a psychologist
addictiv:
@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by dollytino4real(f): 12:01pm On Nov 15, 2017
cruchenutii:

A wrist watch? Perhaps a Richard Millie you mean?
cheap one without name
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by pocohantas(f): 12:02pm On Nov 15, 2017
addictiv:
@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.

You are a man... smiley smiley
Your post turned me on grin grin grin
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Timmie331(m): 12:02pm On Nov 15, 2017
Just set his flat ablaze jor grin grin
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by lereinter(m): 12:05pm On Nov 15, 2017
jacyhelen:


whats the difference about the yankee?..is their dicccckkkk plated with gold??..Lmao..make i go find one teste

are u one of the few
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:07pm On Nov 15, 2017
frenzyduchess:
Hehehe, you are not in this country?
Hmmm what is left to be seen on Earth then? it is finished
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:08pm On Nov 15, 2017
YoungDaNaval:
Hmmm what is left to be seen on Earth then? it is finished
welcome to earth bro
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:10pm On Nov 15, 2017
alexialin:







Really?

Wait, what kind of friendship do u think you have with your so-called paddy?

Your long time friend do not value what you guys have. He does not even respect you , how much more respect your woman. For him to be wooing your babe behind your back. Do you honestly think u have a good friend in him?
That friend can even fucvk his wife, if the guy is not careful.

As for me, he's not a friend. He's a useless he goat.

I rather protect my girl if I were a man from such friend. Than call it off with my girl and stick with a friend who do not value true friendship.

Is that one a friend?

Abeg!

You guys will just miss out on a wife material and stick with a betrayal, saying he's my paddy way back. If he's your paddy way back, why is he chyking your babe?
My dear friend
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:15pm On Nov 15, 2017
addictiv:
@ dharamanil ,
you have to understand whats going on, ur girl showed you the chats as evidence for something she could have shut down herself.its possible she doesnt know what she is doing but still the question now is WHAT WOULD YOU DO? if you keep quiet you will only give her excuse to screw him. cos at this point ur flatmate is looking like the Alpha and boss who can have anything he wants while you are looking like his subordinate who cannot defend his territory. You have to take charge and its not by fighting him or beating him up. You have to show him you are the bigger man but that you will not tolerate any advances on ur girl and you have to do it in front of your woman so that she too gets the message. Gather them together at home without letting her know what you want to do, openly tell him that your girl has informed you that he is asking her out and you have read all their chats. he will be shocked and most likely try to deny or get defensive, let him embarrass himself a little (she needs to see him do this), cut him short and then calmly tell him that you are disappointed that he can do this to you after you have housed him and regarded him as a friend and family however the fact that you are sharing a flat doesn't mean you will tolerate any advances by him on your woman. Then ask him to apologise to her and then to you. maintain a very relaxed and calm but serious look even if he tries to get antagonistic, dont shout. watch your girls reaction while all this is happening. you will take away any attraction she has for him and restore your position as the alpha and the man in the house. however keep a very close eye on your woman after this.

One thing you should note, Make sure you have guys over, Incase fight starts. This will not end well. It may even end of Picking up bottles and stabbing each other.

You have to prepare for the worst in these Scenario.

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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Mrnairalandd: 12:17pm On Nov 15, 2017
Daeylar:
All the useless misogynistic men here as usual giving their useless advice,
The girl this, the girl that, the useless girl has fish brain but not one insult for the guy, your so called friend who had the guts to give your girlfriend his number and even chat her up asking her out.
What he did is wrong he started the whole thing,

yet sexist animals will pretend not to see it.
Yet the misogynists on this thread are attacking the girl alone

Misogyny will kill all the useless men on this thread one day and I'm sure this world will be better off without you all,
Imagine insulting the girl without addressing the boy,

Will you useless men die if you approach issues involving men and women without misogyny and sexism?

The girl friend is better, 10 times better than that the op's useless friend that took his friend's gfs number and is asking her out, did he tell op that he is doing all that? No, If the girl hadn't told op that he had collected her number and shown you their chats would op had known anything? No. Would we have this thread now where you animals are attacking the girl here now? NO, if the op's girl treated him the same way the so called friend is treating op, by pretending as if he has done nothing wring and nothing is happening non of you fools would have even know anything, yet you all only focused on the girl to bash her.


The guy is wrong, he initiated that nonsense.
With that being said, I think you are far better off without them.

I don't know about fuçking him up, but I know you are better off without both of them (your girlfriend and your friend) in your life..

Bleep off Douchebag

Look at this slowpoke blaming us for her miserable life

Get the fuckkk outta here you freaking hoe

The lady is at fault here. Period!

Men ll always approach you either you are in relationships/marriage or not cos they don’t know your relationship status, it’s your natural duty to tell them off if you don’t have anything to do with them.

The friend is next on the list to blame but the lady started it all.

It’s normal and natural to be approached as a lady but you should know how to set your boundary.

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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by kilokeys(m): 12:20pm On Nov 15, 2017
babe be looking for an excuse to dump ya sorry arse.. u get to fight the guy chase him out.. he gets the yansh her somehwere else..

na americana.., weda deported or imported
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by Nobody: 12:24pm On Nov 15, 2017
YoungDaNaval:
My dear friend



Yels?
How are u today?
Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by sisisioge: 12:27pm On Nov 15, 2017
...but she gave him her number grin Madam is porting small small...

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Re: My Flatmate Is Asking My Girlfriend Out by clemzo101(m): 12:27pm On Nov 15, 2017
U better be careful, dont get served in the process. The dude came from America, u know dos people head no dey ground, if u do anyhow him fit shoot u ooo. After all this mouth let it not be that its u dat will be on the floor in pool of blood. God forbid. Why not talk to him nicely and let him know what hes doing is not good. Fight wont solve anything, tomoro u babe fit still leave u for another man. Br careful

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